Makaʻu wau e ʻae i kaʻu kaikamahine e pāʻani i ka pôpeku. Ua hōʻoia ʻo ia iaʻu i ka hewa.

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• ʻO kaʻu mau kumu e kānalua ai
• Pehea wau i ʻike ai ua hewa wau
• ʻO ka mua o nā touchdown he nui
• ʻO ka haki ʻana i nā pale a hoʻonui i ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho

Ke hele nei ke kau pōpeku, hoʻomanaʻo hou wau i ka nui o ke aloha o kaʻu kaikamahine 7 makahiki e pāʻani i ka pāʻani.

"Cayla, makemake ʻoe e pāʻani soccer i kēia Kau Hāʻule?" Nīnau wau iā ia.

“ʻAʻole, Māmā. ʻO ke ala wale nō kaʻu e pāʻani ai i ka soccer inā ʻoe e ʻae iaʻu e pāʻani i ka pōpeku. ʻO ʻoe ʻike Makemake wau e pāʻani i ka pōpeku, ”pane ʻo ia.

Pololei ʻo ia. ʻO wau hana ʻike. Ua akāka ʻo ia ma ke kahua i ka wā i hala.

ʻO ia ka manawa mua o kona pāʻani ʻana. ʻOiai ua ʻae māua me kaʻu kāne i kā māua keikikāne 9 mau makahiki e pāʻani i ka pôpeku hae mai kona manawa he 5, ua paʻakikī wau i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i kaʻu kaikamahine e pāʻani.

Aia kekahi mau kumu o koʻu kānalua.

ʻO kaʻu mau kumu e kānalua ai

No ka poʻe hoʻomaka, ʻo ka palekana ka mea nui e hopohopo ai. ʻO ka palekana ke kumu i kūʻai ʻole ʻia aku ai wau i ka pôpeku no kaʻu keiki kāne, ʻē. Malū, makemake au e lawa ka baseball a me ka kinipōpō nona.

ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona kaiaulu kahi mea ʻē aʻe aʻu e hopohopo ai. ʻOiai ʻo ke kaikamahine wale nō o kāna kime, a ʻo kekahi o nā kaikamahine i ka hui, e loaʻa iā ia kekahi mau hoaaloha? ʻAʻole wale nā ​​makamaka aloha, akā hoʻomohala nā keiki aloha lōʻihi ma nā kime haʻuki.

Noʻeono mau mahina pololei, ua noʻonoʻo wau i nā kumu āpau e hoʻokuʻu ʻole ai iā ia e pāʻani. I nā manawa a pau, ua noi mai ʻo Cayla iā mākou e kau inoa iā ia. "E ʻike mākou," e haʻi aku kona makuakāne iā ia, me ka maka ʻana iaʻu me ka minoʻaka e pili ana: "ʻIke ʻoe i ka pīpeka i ke koko o nā keiki. Hoʻomanaʻo, ua pāʻani wau ma ke koleke? "

E pane wau me kahi shrug nāna i ʻōlelo nā mea āpau: "ʻIke wau. ʻAʻole wau mākaukau e hana i kahi 'ʻae' i kēia manawa. "

Pehea wau i ʻike ai ua hewa wau

Ma hope o kekahi mau mahina o ko mākou hemming a me ke hawing, ua hoʻonohonoho pololei ʻo Cayla iaʻu: “Pāʻani ʻo Ben i ka pôpeku. No ke aha ʻoe e ʻae ai iā ia e pāʻani a ʻaʻole iaʻu, e Māmā? ”

ʻAʻole wau i maopopo pehea e pane ai i kēlā. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, i kēlā me kēia makahiki ke pāʻani nei ʻo Ben i ka pôpeku hae, ʻo ka nui o kaʻu ʻapo ʻana i ka pāʻani. ʻO ka nui o koʻu makemake e nānā iā ia. ʻO ka nui o kaʻu kaʻana like ʻana i kona pīhoihoi e pili ana i ke kau hou.

Hoʻohui, ua pāʻani ʻo Cayla i ke kinipōpō a me ke kinipōpō hīnaʻi i nā kime i keikikāne keu. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i ʻeha. Ua ʻike wau he ʻano haʻuki ʻo ia mai ka manawa i hoʻomaka ai e hele wāwae - wikiwiki, hoʻohui, ikaika, a ikaika hoʻi no kona kino liʻiliʻi. ʻAʻole e hōʻike i ka hoʻokūkū, hoʻokele, a me ka wikiwiki e aʻo i nā lula.

I kona pahu ʻana iaʻu e pane i ke kumu e pāʻani ai kona kaikunāne i ka pōpeku, akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia, ua maopopo iaʻu ʻaʻohe oʻu kumu kūpono. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka nui o koʻu noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ia mea, ʻo ka nui o koʻu ʻike he hoʻokamani wau. Ke manaʻo nei wau iaʻu iho he wahine wahine, no ke kaulike wahine i nā ʻano āpau. No laila, no ke aha wau e hele hewa ai ma kēia kumuhana?

Ua hewa wau i ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka pāʻani pākeke keikikāne keikikāne i koʻu wā ma ke kula grammar, no ka mea ʻaʻohe liga kaikamahine i koʻu kaona i kēlā manawa. Ua kū wau i koʻu kahua, a ua hoaaloha pū me nā keikikāne a me nā kaikamahine. Ua hoʻomohala pū kekahi wau i ke aloha no kahi pāʻani aʻu i pāʻani ai ma ke koleke.

ʻO ka mea nui loa, ʻoiai, ke hoʻomanaʻo wau e pili ana i ka ʻae ʻana o koʻu mau mākua iaʻu e pāʻani i kēlā kuʻikahi. Ua paipai lākou iaʻu e hana i ka mea maikaʻi loa, a mai ʻae iaʻu e noʻonoʻo ʻaʻole maikaʻi wau no ka mea ʻo wau ka mea pōkole loa a kaikamahine wale nō ma ka pā hale. Hoʻomaopopo wau i ko lākou aloha nui i ka nānā ʻana i kēlā mau pāʻani.

No laila, ua hoʻoholo wau e hāhai i kā lākou alakaʻi.

ʻO ka mua o nā touchdown he nui

I ko mākou kau inoa ʻana iā Cayla, ua hōʻino ʻia ʻo ia. ʻO ka mea mua āna i hana ai, ʻo ia ka hana i ka piliwaiwai me kona kaikunāne e ʻike i ka mea e loaʻa i nā touchdowns keu i loko o ke kau. Ua hoʻohui maoli kēlā i kāna kumu.

ʻAʻole wau e poina i kāna touchdown mua. ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona o ka hoʻoholo paʻa i kona alo he mea nui ʻole. ʻOiai ʻo kona lima liʻiliʻi e paʻa i ka liʻiliʻi - akā nui loa paha - ka pōpeku, hoʻopaʻa ʻia ma lalo o kona lima, ua hoʻomau ʻo ia me ka maka i ka maka o ka palena. Ua ʻoki ʻo ia i kekahi o nā mea pāʻani kūpale, kona mau wāwae pōkole akā ikaika e kōkua iā ia e hōʻalo i kā lākou hoʻāʻo e lālau i kāna mau hae. A laila, i ka maopopo ʻana o nā mea āpau, lele ʻo ia i kona ala i ka palena palena.

I ka hauʻoli ʻana o nā mea a pau, ua hāʻule ʻo ia i ke kinipōpō, huli i kona Pāpā e aʻo ana ma ke kula, a ʻalalā. Ua hoʻihoʻi mai ʻo ia i kahi minoʻaka haʻaheo nui. ʻO ka pānaʻi kahi mea aʻu e ʻike ai e mālama mau lākou. Maliʻa paha kamaʻilio e pili ana i mau makahiki.

I loko o ke kau, ua hōʻoia ʻo Cayla iā ia iho i hiki i ke kino. ʻAʻole wau i kanalua. Ua hele ʻo ia e kiʻi i kahi mau touchdown hou (a me nā dab), ua hoʻi hope i ka wā e ālai ana, a lālau i nā hae he nui.

Aia kekahi mau hāʻule paʻakikī, a loaʻa iā ia kekahi mau ʻāpana maikaʻi ʻole. Akā, ʻaʻohe mea hiki ʻole iā ia ke mālama. ʻAʻohe mea i pae iā ia.

I kekahi mau pule i ke kau, holoi hewa ʻo Cayla i kāna keke kaʻa. Ua ʻānai ʻia kona mau wāwae a kahe ke koko. I kona hoʻomaka ʻana e uē, ua hāpai au iā ia a hoʻomaka i ke poʻo i ko mākou hale. Akā ua kū ʻo ia iaʻu. "Māmā, pāʻani wau i ka pôpeku," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Makemake wau e hoʻomau i ka holo kaʻa."

Ma hope o kēlā me kēia pāʻani, ua haʻi ʻo ia iā mākou i ka nui o kona leʻaleʻa. Pehea kona aloha i ka pāʻani ʻana. A pehea, e like me kona kaikaina, ʻo ka pīpeka kāna haʻuki punahele.

ʻO ka mea i hōʻeha loa iaʻu i ke kau, ʻo ia ka hilinaʻi a me ka haʻaheo i loaʻa iā ia. I koʻu nānā ʻana iā ia e pāʻani ana, maopopo leʻa ua like ʻo ia me nā keikikāne ma ke kula. Ua mālama ʻo ia iā lākou e like me ka mea like, a manaʻo lākou e hana like lākou. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻoiai e aʻo ana ʻo ia e pāʻani i ka pāʻani, ke aʻo nei nō hoʻi ʻo ia i nā keikikāne a me nā kaikamahine i nā manawa like.

I ka nīnau ʻana a kekahi lālā o koʻu ʻohana i kaʻu keiki pehea ka pīpeku e hele nei, ʻeleu ʻo Cayla i loko: "Pāʻani wau i ka pôpeku pū kekahi."

ʻO ka haki ʻana i nā pale a hoʻonui i ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho

Malia paha, i nā makahiki e hiki mai ana, e nānā ʻo ia i hope a ʻike ua hana ʻo ia i kekahi mea ma waho o ke aupuni o nā mea i manaʻo ʻia e nā kaikamahine i kēlā manawa, a he kuleana liʻiliʻi kāna e kōkua ai e uhaʻi i ka pale no nā kaikamahine ʻē aʻe e ukali.

ʻO kekahi o nā mākuahine o nā keikikāne i kāna pāʻina, a me kekahi poʻe e noho ana i ko mākou kaiāulu, ua haʻi mai iaʻu e noho ana ʻo Cayla i kā lākou moemoeā. Makemake lākou e pāʻani i ka pôpeku e like me nā kaikamahine liʻiliʻi, akā ʻaʻole i ʻae ʻia ʻoiai hiki i ko lākou mau kaikunāne ke hiki. Paipai lākou a ʻoliʻoli iā ia ma kahi kokoke e like me aʻu.

ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu ka hopena o Cayla i ka pīpeka. Manaʻo wau e hele ʻo ia i pro i kekahi lā? ʻAʻole? E pāʻani paha ʻo ia i ka mea hana? ʻAʻole paha. Pehea ka lōʻihi o kāna pāʻani? ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu.

Akā ʻike au ke kākoʻo nei wau iā ia i kēia manawa. ʻIke wau e loaʻa mau kēia ʻike iā ia e hoʻomanaʻo iā ia hiki iā ia ke hana i nā mea āpau a kona noʻonoʻo e noʻonoʻo ai. ʻO ka mea ʻoi loa, ʻike wau e loaʻa iā ia kahi hoʻonui o ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho me ka hiki ke ʻōlelo, "Ua pāʻani wau i ka pôpeku."

ʻO Cathy Cassata kahi mea kākau manuahi nāna i kākau e pili ana i ke olakino, olakino noʻonoʻo, a me ka lawena kanaka no nā hoʻolaha like ʻole a me nā pūnaewele. He mea hāʻawi maʻamau ʻo ia i Healthline, Health Everyday, a The Fix. Huli aku kāna kōpena o nā moʻolelo a hāhai iā ia ma Twitter @Cassatastyle.