I ka manawa hea e haʻalele ai i ka ʻike ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka launa pū

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Inā hoʻokahi ʻoe a hele i nā lā, hoʻokahi nīnau e hui pū ʻia me ka mea e ʻaʻahu ai a me ka wā e kākau ai: ʻEhia mau lā e hiki ai ma mua o ka manaʻo ʻana o kekahi o ʻoukou i kēia pō ʻo The Night (ʻike ʻoe, e kiʻi iā ia. ma)? Mahalo, ua koho ʻo Time Out ma mua o 11,000 mau kānaka ma 24 mau kūlanakauhale a puni ka honua e kōkua i ka waiho ʻana i kēia nīnau.

Ua hoʻoholo nā kāne male ma nā wahi āpau he 3.53 mau lā wale nō lōʻihi no ka hoʻolei ʻana o kekahi o ʻoukou i ka manaʻo e hoʻi pū i ka home me ka ʻike ʻole ʻia e like me ka horndog. (E ʻike i ka ʻōlelo a Emojis a me CrossFit e pili ana i kou ola aloha.)

Inā mākaukau ʻoe e launa pū ma hope o hoʻokahi pō, akā, ʻaʻole hiki ke hele maikaʻi: ʻO 1 wale nō i 10 mau kānaka i noiʻi ʻia e noʻonoʻo i ka moekolohe he noi kūpono i ka hopena o ka lā mua (ʻoiai he 20 pakeneka i pau i ka buff ma hope hoʻokahi ʻaina ahiahi, no laila, me he mea lā e pono ai kekahi o mākou e hoʻoikaika i kā mākou hoʻoholo).

ʻO nā hopena ʻē aʻe i ke ahiahi, ʻoi aku ka hapalua o mākou e honi i ka pō maikaʻi ma hope o ka lā mua, ʻoiai ma lalo o ka hapahā ke paʻa nei me kahi aloha maikaʻi ʻole (ke nānā mākou iā ʻoe, lulu lima). He iwakāluakūmāwalu pākēneka i ʻōlelo i kā lākou mau lā mua e hoʻopau pinepine ʻia i ka hoʻohaumia, akā kokoke i ka hapalua ua kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka lua o ka lā. ("What Went Wrong?" Dating Dilemmas, Explained) Akā ke ʻōlelo nei ka noiʻi e ʻike paha ʻoe i ka ʻaoʻao o ka spectrum āu e kokoke koke nei: ʻaneʻane ka hapalua o ka poʻe pane i ʻōlelo ua ʻike lākou inā makemake lākou i ka lua o ka lā ʻelua wale nō. ʻekolu mau minuke i loko o ka mea mua (ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki o kāu hoʻomehana hoʻoikaika kino holoʻokoʻa!).

Ua hoʻomaʻemaʻe nā kānalua ʻē aʻe i ka ana ʻana no mākou. A he mea maikaʻi ke hana i kahi mākaʻikaʻi māmā ma mua o ka lā mua-ʻoi aku ma mua o ka hapalua o nā kāne male ma nā kūlanakauhale a puni ka honua e noiʻi i kā lākou lā ma ka pūnaewele ma mua o ka pō nui. (E makaʻala i kēia mau ʻano maʻamau 4 e ʻōlelo nei ʻaʻole ia he hoa kāne.)

E pili ana i ka mea a mākou e pili aloha, hoʻokahi o ka ʻelima o ka poʻe i nīnau ʻia i pili i ka ex o kahi hoaaloha, ʻoiai hoʻokahi ma 10 i pili i ko lākou haku ponoʻī. He kanakolukūmāwalu pākēneka o ka poʻe, akā naʻe, ua launa me kekahi mea e pili ana i kahi pilina ʻē aʻe-41 pākēneka o lākou ua male ʻia. (Makemake i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo hou aʻe? E nānā i kā mākou Infidelity Survey: He aha ke ʻano o ka hoʻopunipuni.)

ʻO kēlā me kēia kūlanakauhale koe wale nō ʻo Paris e haʻi i ka pili pūnaewele ma ke ala maikaʻi loa e helu ai i nā hoʻolālā pō Pōʻalima. A ʻoiai ua hoʻololi paha ʻo Tinder i ka pāʻani pili aloha a mau loa aku, hauʻoli loa ka poʻe i ka hele ʻana i ke kula kahiko me nā hoʻonohonoho maikaʻi ʻana: 62 pākēneka o ka poʻe i ʻōlelo i ko lākou mau lā leʻaleʻa me kekahi mea a lākou i hui ai ma o nā hoaaloha.

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