27 mau mea āu e ʻike ai ma mua o kou "Lose" i kou puʻupaʻa

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• 1. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka Virginity he mau mea like ʻole i nā poʻe like ʻole
• 2. ʻOiai ʻo kou manaʻo o ka puʻupaʻa e pili ana i ka penetration, ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o P ma V wale nō
• 3. Inā he hymen kāu, ʻaʻole ia e "pop" i ka wā o ke komo ʻana o ka ʻōpū
• 4. ʻAʻole pili kāu hymen i ke kūlana o kou puʻupaʻa
• 5. ʻAʻole e loli kou kino
• 6. ʻAʻohe "nānā" post-sex
• 7. ʻAʻole paha e like me nā hiʻohiʻona moe kolohe āu e ʻike ai ma ke kīwī (a i ʻole i ka porn)
• 8. He ʻoluʻolu ʻole kou manawa mua, akā ʻaʻole pono e ʻeha
• 9. ʻO kēia kahi i komo ai ka lubrication (a maliʻa paha kekahi foreplay!)
• 10. ʻAʻole koko paha kāu mau pale
• 11. Hiki ke hoʻolaha ʻia nā maʻi i loaʻa i ka moekolohe (STI) ma o kekahi ʻano moekolohe
• 12. Inā loaʻa iā P i ka wahine V, hiki i ka hāpai ʻana i ka manawa mua
• 13. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻōpala, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e hoʻonele i ka manawa mua
• 14. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi penis, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokalakupua ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki ma mua o kou manaʻo
• 15. A i ʻole ʻike paha ʻoe he pili ʻole kāu peni
• 16. ʻO ka ʻoluʻolu o kou ʻoluʻolu, ʻo ka nui loa paha ia o ka punahele
• 17. ʻAʻole naʻe ʻo Orgasms ke kiko mau
• 18. Inā makemake ʻoe i kekahi mea, e ʻōlelo pēlā
• 19. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hana i kekahi mea ʻoluʻolu ʻole iā ʻoe
• 20. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi i kou manaʻo i kēlā me kēia manawa
• 21. ʻO ka "manawa kūpono" wale nō ke kūpono iā ʻoe
• 22. Inā ʻaʻole paha "e hana ana nā mea ʻē aʻe āpau" i mea hoʻopaʻapaʻa
• 23. Moekolohe ʻaʻole like ia me ka pili a i ʻole ke aloha
• 24. ʻAʻole pili kou ʻuhane, ʻaʻole pili ia i kēlā kanaka a mau loa aku
• 25. Inā he moekolohe ʻoe me kekahi āu e launa pū ai, e loli paha ka ikaika
• 26. ʻAʻole kau kau manawa mua e hoʻonoho i kahi leo no ka moekolohe āu e hele ai a i ʻole ʻaʻole paha e hele
• 27. Inā ʻaʻole kāu ʻike mua ka mea āu e makemake ai, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo hou

1. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka Virginity he mau mea like ʻole i nā poʻe like ʻole

ʻAʻohe ekahi ka wehewehe ʻana o ka puʻupaʻa. No kekahi, ʻo ka wahine puʻupaʻa, ʻaʻole ʻoe i loaʻa i kekahi ʻano o ka moekolohe - inā he puʻupaʻa, anal, a waha paha. Hiki i kekahi poʻe ke wehewehe i ka puʻupaʻa me ke komo ʻole ʻana i ke komo pū me ka peni, me ka loaʻa ʻana o nā ʻano moekolohe ʻē aʻe, e like me ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻana i ka waha a me ka komo ʻana o ka anal.

Eia naʻe wehewehe ʻoe, ʻo ka mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ai ʻo ia ia ʻo ʻoe e hoʻoholo inā mākaukau ʻoe e moekolohe a ʻoluʻolu ʻoe i kēlā koho. A ke hiki mai kēlā manawa, hoʻāʻo e noʻonoʻo ʻole he "nalo ʻana" a i ʻole "hāʻawi" ʻana i kahi mea. Ke loaʻa nei ʻoe i kahi ʻike hou loa.

2. ʻOiai ʻo kou manaʻo o ka puʻupaʻa e pili ana i ka penetration, ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o P ma V wale nō

Manaʻo ka poʻe he nui i ke ala hoʻokahi e "lilo" i kou puʻupaʻa ma o ke komo pū ʻana me ka peni, akā ʻaʻole ia ka hihia.

ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi poʻe ke kapa iā lākou iho he puʻupaʻa ma hope o ke komo ʻana i ka anal komo a i ʻole ke komo ʻana me ka manamana lima a me nā mea pāʻani. E noʻonoʻo hou paha kekahi i ko lākou kūlana puʻupaʻa ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana a i ʻole ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka stimulate oral. I ka wā e pili ana i ka puʻupaʻa a me ka moekolohe, ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka P ma V.

3. Inā he hymen kāu, ʻaʻole ia e "pop" i ka wā o ke komo ʻana o ka ʻōpū

Oh, nā hymen - nā mea o ka kaʻao. Ua lohe paha ʻoe i ka kaʻao inā loaʻa kahi hymen, e haki ia i ka wā o ke komo ʻana o ka ʻōpū. Akā ʻo ia wale nō: kahi kaʻao.

ʻO nā hymen awelika ʻaʻole kahi ʻāpana o nā mea pālahalaha e uhi ana i ka hāmama o ka puka, e like me nā ʻōlelo a nā kaʻao. Ma kahi o ka mea, he maʻa mau - a aʻole iki kōpaʻa - ʻāpana o nā ʻaʻa e kau a puni ka ʻōpū.

Kaukaʻi ʻia i kona nui, hiki ke haehae ʻia kahi hymen i ka wā o ka moekolohe, ka hoʻoikaika kino, a i ʻole kekahi ʻano hana kino ʻē aʻe. Akā ʻaʻole ia e "pop," no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki.

4. ʻAʻole pili kāu hymen i ke kūlana o kou puʻupaʻa

ʻO kāu hymen - e like me kou manamana lima a i ʻole kou pepeiao - he ʻāpana kino wale nō ia. ʻAʻole ia e hoʻoholo inā he wahine puʻupaʻa paha ʻoe ma mua o kāu manamana wāwae. Hoʻohui, ʻaʻole hānau ʻia nā kānaka āpau me kahi hymen, a inā lākou, he ʻāpana liʻiliʻi loa paha ia o kaʻiʻo. ʻO ʻoe - a ʻo ʻoe wale nō - e hoʻoholo i ke kūlana o kou puʻupaʻa ʻana.

5. ʻAʻole e loli kou kino

ʻAʻole loli kou kino ma hope o kou moekolohe ʻana no ka manawa mua - a i ʻole ʻelua, a i ʻole ʻekolu, a i ʻole kanalima.

Eia nō naʻe, e ʻike ʻoe i kekahi mau ʻano physiological e pili ana i ka hoʻāla ʻana i ka moekolohe. Hoʻopili paha kēia:

• ʻōpū pehu
• kukulu penis
• hanu wikiwiki
• ka houʻu ʻana
• ʻili hoʻoheheʻe

He manawa wale nō kēia mau pane pili i ka hoʻāla ʻana. ʻAʻole loli kou kino - pane wale i ka stimulus.

6. ʻAʻohe "nānā" post-sex

Ma hope o kou pau ʻana i ka moekolohe, e hoʻi mālie kou kino i kona kūlana maʻamau. Akā he mau minuke wale nō kēia wā cooldown.

I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻohe ala e ʻike ai kekahi kanaka ʻaʻole ʻoe he puʻupaʻa hou. ʻO ke ala wale nō a lākou e ʻike ai inā hoʻoholo ʻoe e haʻi iā lākou.

7. ʻAʻole paha e like me nā hiʻohiʻona moe kolohe āu e ʻike ai ma ke kīwī (a i ʻole i ka porn)

ʻIke ʻokoʻa ka poʻe āpau i ka moekolohe. Akā ʻaʻole ʻoe e manaʻo i kou manawa mua e like me ka mea āu e ʻike ai i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni.

ʻAʻole kū hoʻokahi nā moekolohe ma ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a me ke kīwī i ka manawa hoʻokahi - pono i nā mea hana ke hoʻonohonoho hou iā lākou iho, a hiki i nā alakaʻi ke hoʻoponopono hou i kekahi mau ʻāpana i mea maikaʻi ke ʻano ma ke kāmera.

ʻO kēia ka mea āu e ʻike ai ma ka pale kālā ʻaʻole ia he kiʻi kūpono no ke ʻano o ka moekolohe no ka hapa nui o ka poʻe.

8. He ʻoluʻolu ʻole kou manawa mua, akā ʻaʻole pono e ʻeha

He mea maʻamau loa ia e hōʻoluʻolu ʻole i ka manawa mua ke moe kolohe ʻoe. Hiki ke kūpilikiʻi me ka penetration, a hiki i ke kumu e hōʻoluʻolu ʻole. Akā ʻaʻole pono e hōʻeha kou manawa mua.

Inā hōʻeha ka moekolohe ʻana, no ka nele paha o ka lubrication, a i ʻole ke ʻano olakino, e like me ka endometriosis. Pono ʻoe e ʻike i ke kauka inā ʻike ʻoe i ka ʻeha i kēlā me kēia manawa ke moe kolohe ʻoe. Hiki iā lākou ke loiloi i kāu mau ʻōuli a kōkua i ka mālama ʻana i nā ʻano kumu.

9. ʻO kēia kahi i komo ai ka lubrication (a maliʻa paha kekahi foreplay!)

Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻōpala, hana paha ʻoe i ka lubrication - a i ʻole lilo i "pulu" - kūlohelohe. Akā i kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole lawa paha ka lubrication liʻiliʻi e hoʻemi i ka hakakā i ka wā o ke komo.

Hiki i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka lube ke kōkua i ka hoʻoluʻolu hou ʻana i ka moekolohe ma ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi ʻana i ka ukiuki. Inā ʻoe e komo nei i ke komo anal, pono loa ka lube; ʻaʻole hana ka anus i ka lubrication nona iho, a ʻo ke komo ʻana me ka ʻole o ka lubrication e hiki ai ke hopena i nā waimaka.

10. ʻAʻole koko paha kāu mau pale

Aia paha kekahi māmā māmā e kahe ana i ka manawa mua ke moe kolohe ʻoe, akā mai manaʻo i kahi hanana mai "The Shining."

Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻōpena, ʻike paha ʻoe i ke kahe liʻiliʻi inā kau kou hymen i ka wā o ke komo. A inā he waimaka ka puka o ke aniani i ka wā o ke komo ʻana o anal, hiki i ke kahe ʻana o ke kahe ākea. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole kēia e hana i ke koko lawa e waiho i kahi pā ma luna o nā pale.

11. Hiki ke hoʻolaha ʻia nā maʻi i loaʻa i ka moekolohe (STI) ma o kekahi ʻano moekolohe

ʻAʻole wale ke komo ʻana o ka puaʻa ala e hoʻolaha ai nā STI. Hiki i nā STI ke pāhola ma o ka anal anal a me ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻana i ka waha, me ka nānā ʻole inā ʻoe e hāʻawi a loaʻa paha. ʻO ia ke kumu he mea nui e hoʻohana i nā condom a me nā ʻano pale ʻē aʻe i kēlā me kēia manawa, i kēlā me kēia manawa.

12. Inā loaʻa iā P i ka wahine V, hiki i ka hāpai ʻana i ka manawa mua

Hapai keiki is hiki i kēlā me kēia manawa ke komo ʻana o ka pūnana me kahi peni, ʻoiai ʻo ia kou manawa mua. Hiki iā ia ke hana inā he kanaka me kahi peni e ejaculate i loko o kahi ʻōpala a i waho paha, akā kokoke, ka wehe ʻana o ka ʻōpū. ʻO ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka pale pale kou ala maikaʻi loa e pale aku ai i ka hāpai keiki.

13. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻōpala, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e hoʻonele i ka manawa mua

ʻAʻole hōʻoia mau ʻo Orgasms, a aia kahi manawa ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e hoʻopau i ka manawa mua o ka moekolohe. Hiki ke hana i kēlā me kēia no nā kumu he nui, e like me nā pae hōʻoluʻolu a me nā kūlana olakino. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hōʻike ka noiʻi i nā poʻe me kahi pākī e paʻakikī e kiʻi i ka orgasm me kahi hoa.

14. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi penis, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokalakupua ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki ma mua o kou manaʻo

ʻAʻole ia he mea maʻamau no ke kanaka me kahi peni e hoʻopau wikiwiki ma mua o kā lākou i manaʻo ai - a i ʻole makemake ʻia - i ka wā o ka moekolohe. Hōʻike nā noiʻi e hiki i ka ejaculation premature ke hoʻololi i ka nui o 1 o 3 mau kānaka.

Inā wikiwiki ʻoe i kēlā me kēia manawa ke moe kolohe ʻoe, e noʻonoʻo e kamaʻilio me ke kauka. Hiki paha iā lākou ke kuhikuhi i ka lāʻau a koi paha i nā hoʻoponopono ʻē aʻe.

ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, hiki nō paha ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike i kahi orgasm i ka manawa mua āu e moekolohe ai, ʻoiai ʻoe e ejaculate.

15. A i ʻole ʻike paha ʻoe he pili ʻole kāu peni

ʻIke paha ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi a mālama i kahi paʻa paʻa kūpono no ke komo ʻana. ʻOiai hilahila a huhū paha ʻoe, e ʻike he mea maʻamau ka hana ʻana o ka erectile i kekahi manawa.

Hiki iā ED ke hana no nā kumu he nui, e like me ke koʻikoʻi a me ka hopohopo. A no ka mea ʻo kēia ka manawa mua o ka moekolohe ʻana, ʻike paha ʻoe i ka nui o ka hopohopo.

Inā hoʻomau ʻo ED, ʻike paha ʻoe he mea kōkua ke kamaʻilio me ke kauka e pili ana i kāu mau ʻōuli.

16. ʻO ka ʻoluʻolu o kou ʻoluʻolu, ʻo ka nui loa paha ia o ka punahele

ʻOi aku paha ʻoe i ka orgasm ke ʻoluʻolu ʻoe me kou kino, kāu hoapili, a me ka ʻike holoʻokoʻa. Ke ʻoluʻolu ʻoe, e lilo ʻoe i mea maʻalahi i ka hoʻonāukiuki i ka moekolohe. Ma ka huli ʻana, ʻike paha ʻoe i nā ʻano leʻaleʻa a puni kou kino. A, i loko o ka manawa o ka moekolohe, hiki i kēlā mau manaʻo ke kūkulu i kahi orgasm.

17. ʻAʻole naʻe ʻo Orgasms ke kiko mau

Mai kuhi hewa - maikaʻi loa nā orgasms! Hoʻokumu lākou i nā nalu o ka leʻaleʻa i kou kino e hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe. Akā ʻo ka loaʻa ʻole o ka orgasm ʻaʻole ia ke kumu o ka moekolohe. ʻO ka mea nui ʻo ʻoe a me kāu hoa ʻoluʻolu ʻelua a ʻelua i ka ʻike e loaʻa nei iā ʻoe.

18. Inā makemake ʻoe i kekahi mea, e ʻōlelo pēlā

Mai hōʻalo i kāu mau makemake ponoʻī. Inā he mau makemake a makemake paha ʻoe, e haʻi pono i kāu pakanā - a ʻo ka ʻaoʻao ʻē. He mea nui ka hāmama a me ka pololei e pili ana i nā mea āu e makemake ai e hana i ka manawa mua o ka moekolohe ʻana i mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻike.

19. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hana i kekahi mea ʻoluʻolu ʻole iā ʻoe

ʻAʻohe manaʻo ʻaʻole. Kū piha. Inā loaʻa kekahi mea ʻoluʻolu ʻole iā ʻoe e hana, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hana. ʻAʻohe o kāu hoa e koi aku a koi iā ʻoe e moe kolohe - a ʻo ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. A ʻaʻole pili wale kēia i kāu manawa mua - hele kēia i nā manawa āpau he moekolohe ʻoe.

20. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi i kou manaʻo i kēlā me kēia manawa

ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻomau i ka moekolohe inā ʻaʻole ʻoe ʻoluʻolu a hoihoi hou paha. He kuleana kou e hoʻololi i kou manaʻo i kēlā me kēia manawa. Eia hou, ʻaʻohe kuleana o kāu pakanā e koi a koi iā ʻoe e hoʻomau i ka moekolohe inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake.

21. ʻO ka "manawa kūpono" wale nō ke kūpono iā ʻoe

Manaʻo paha ʻoe i ke kaomi e loaʻa ka moekolohe ma mua o kou mākaukau maoli. He mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ʻoe wale nō ka mea hiki ke hoʻoholo ke makemake ʻoe e moekolohe no ka manawa mua. Inā haʻalele ka manawa, maikaʻi kēlā. E kali a kūpono ka manaʻo iā ʻoe.

22. Inā ʻaʻole paha "e hana ana nā mea ʻē aʻe āpau" i mea hoʻopaʻapaʻa

E manaʻoʻiʻo paha ʻaʻole paha, ʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe āpau ʻaʻole hana ana. Ke iho nei ka helu o ka poʻe moekolohe. Wahi a kahi noiʻi 2016, 15 pākēneka o nā Millennial ʻaʻole i moe kolohe mai ka 18 mau makahiki o lākou.

Hoʻohui, ʻike ʻia ka ʻikepili mai nā Centers for Disease Control and Prevent i kēlā no ka manawa mua. ʻO ka makahiki maʻamau i kēia lā, mai 16 mau makahiki i 2000.

23. Moekolohe ʻaʻole like ia me ka pili a i ʻole ke aloha

ʻO ka moekolohe, e like me ka holo ʻana, he hana hoʻoikaika kino - a ʻaʻohe mea hou aʻe. ʻAʻole ia he mea like me ka pilina, ke aloha, ke aloha, a i ʻole ka pili aloha. Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai i ka moekolohe, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī. Hiki i kekahi poʻe ke moekolohe wale me nā hoa a lākou e aloha ai, ʻoiai e moe kolohe paha kekahi poʻe me nā kaula ʻole.

I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, pono ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka moekolohe ʻana, a ʻaʻole paha e hāʻawi ka mea ʻē aʻe i kekahi waiwai a i ʻole ka manaʻo e kau ai ma ka ʻike.

24. ʻAʻole pili kou ʻuhane, ʻaʻole pili ia i kēlā kanaka a mau loa aku

Nui paha ka manaʻoʻiʻo o kekahi poʻe e pili ana i ka moekolohe. ʻAʻole paha nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Ma kēlā me kēia ala, ʻaʻole ʻoe e kīnā i kou ʻuhane mai ka moekolohe ʻana, ʻaʻole hoʻi ʻoe e paʻa mau i kāu hoa. I ka hopena, ʻo ka moekolohe wale nō - ka wahine. He hana maʻamau, olakino e wehewehe ʻole a hoʻoholo i kāu kumu a i ʻole kumu ʻuhane.

25. Inā he moekolohe ʻoe me kekahi āu e launa pū ai, e loli paha ka ikaika

E waiho ʻia paha ʻoe a me kāu hoa me ka nīnau ʻana i nā nīnau hou, e like me "Pono anei mākou e hana i kēia i kēlā me kēia manawa ke ʻike mākou i kekahi?"; "E mau ana ka moekolohe e like me kēlā? ”; a "He aha ke ʻano o kēia no kā mākou pili?" He paʻakikī paha kekahi o nā pane, akā ke kamaʻilio ʻoe ma o kēia mau pilikia, e ʻike i ka hāmama a me ka pololei e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo.

26. ʻAʻole kau kau manawa mua e hoʻonoho i kahi leo no ka moekolohe āu e hele ai a i ʻole ʻaʻole paha e hele

ʻO ka mea nui e pili ana i ka moekolohe he ʻano ʻokoʻa ia i kēlā me kēia manawa. ʻAʻole hiki i kāu manawa mua ke moe kolohe ke kū i kāu mau mea i manaʻo ai, akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo no ka lua, ʻekolu, a i ʻole ka hā o ka manawa. ʻO ke ʻano o ka moekolohe āu e hele ai a ʻaʻole paha e pili ia i ka hoa, ka pae o ka ʻike, ka makemake e hoʻāʻo i nā mea hou, a me nā mea hou aku.

27. Inā ʻaʻole kāu ʻike mua ka mea āu e makemake ai, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo hou

ʻAʻole pono kāu manawa mua i ka moekolohe i hoʻokahi hana a hoʻokahi hana ke koho ʻole ʻoe pēlā. Inā ʻaʻole ka ʻike ka mea āu e makemake ai a i manaʻo ai paha, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo hou - a hou, a hou, a hou. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, e like me ka ʻōlelo: Hoʻomaʻamaʻa ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa.