Pono ʻoe e nānā ʻo wai ka mea aloha ʻole iā ʻoe ma Facebook?

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ʻAʻohe mea hōʻole e hiki i kou manawa ma ka pūnaewele media ke hoʻopilikia i kou psyche. (Peheaʻino Are ʻO Facebook, Twitter, a me Instagram no ke olakino noʻonoʻo?) Inā he leʻaleʻa o ka lawa ʻana o nā makemake ma kāu Instagram e huli aʻe mai nā inoa i kahi helu (10-plus, ʻaʻole ia e helu nei mākou ...) a i ka lili paha i ka hoa aloha. ʻO ka huki huki maikaʻi, nā mea āu e ʻōwili nei i nā mea. ʻO ia ke kumu i kaulana loa ai kahi polokalamu hou e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka mea nāna ʻoe i aloha ʻole ma Facebook-a he pōʻino loa no kou olakino noʻonoʻo.

ʻO wai ka mea i holoi iaʻu e mālama i kāu papa inoa hoaaloha Facebook i ka manawa āu e hoʻoiho ai, a laila hoʻohou hou i kou wā e hoʻi ai i kahi o kāu mau hoaaloha i kāpae iā ʻoe a hoʻopau ʻole paha i kā lākou moʻokāki. ʻAʻole ia ka mua o kona ʻano; nā polokalamu like e like me Who Unfollowed Me and Friend or Follow e kū nei e alualu i nā mea ukali ma Twitter a me Instagram, a aia kekahi mana ʻē aʻe o kahi tracker no Facebook pū kekahi. Ma o kahi pohihihi o ka virality, ʻoiai, ua loaʻa iā Who Deleted Me 330,000 o kāna mau mea hoʻohana 500,000 i ka mahina i hala. ʻO ka ʻimi wikiwiki i kumu maoli i nā outage a me nā ulia i ka hopena pule ʻehā o Iulai.

Loaʻa iā mākou-ʻo nā kumu e makemake ai kekahi e hoaaloha ʻole iā ʻoe ma Facebook he mea hoʻowalewale a pohihihi hoʻi e like me ke kumu i hoʻolei ai kēlā kaikamahine ʻōlohelohe iā ʻoe ma ke alanui. Akā ʻo ka mea nui, no ke aha ʻoe e mālama ai? "Pane ka poʻe i ka uncriending ma nā ʻano like ʻole," i ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo Julie Gurner, he mea lapaʻau lapaʻau ma New York i hoʻopaʻa i ka moʻomeheu a me ka ʻenehana. "He leʻaleʻa a hoʻokuʻu kekahi, ʻeha a kaumaha kekahi. Akā ʻo ke ʻano o ka poʻe e nānā pono i kā lākou papa inoa o nā hoaaloha ʻo ia ke ʻano e ʻeha loa."

Ua like ia me kahi wānana hoʻokō ponoʻī o ka kaulana ʻole, ma ke ʻano. ʻO ka poʻe e nānā paha e makaʻala nui i ka hōʻole ʻia, hoʻohui ʻo Gurner. "A ua kau kēia app i ka hōʻole i mua a i waena."

Kuhi paha kēlā i kēlā me kēia mea e hoʻoiho i ka polokalamu e hoʻomaka i ka insecure pupule, akā ʻaʻole kahaha ʻo Gurner he mea laha ʻole ka tracker. "ʻO ke ʻano i kēia manawa ʻo ka nānā ʻana i nā mea he nui e pili ana i ko mākou ola," wehewehe ʻo ia. "Hiki iā mākou ke hahai i ko mākou olakino, ko mākou hiamoe, ko mākou mau wāwae i ka lā.

No ke aha i aloha ʻole ai kēlā kaikamahine o kāu papa ʻoihana ʻeiwa iā ʻoe, ʻe, he nui nā kumu āu e makemake ʻole ai e ʻike i ke kūlana o kekahi a i ʻole nā ​​kiʻi a i haʻi ʻia paha i nā ʻatikala ma Facebook. "ʻO kekahi o nā pūʻulu maʻamau e launa ʻole ʻia ʻo ia ka poʻe a mākou i ʻike ai mai ke kula kiʻekiʻe, ka poʻe e hana i nā ʻōlelo politika a mākou e ʻae ʻole nei," wahi a Gurner. Kupono paha kēlā. Akā, no ka nui o nā ala e haʻalele ai i kahi hoaaloha ma Facebook, e like me ka haʻalele ʻana a hūnā a makemake ʻole paha i kā lākou mea, ʻo ka unfriending maoli kahi ʻōlelo paʻa o ka hōʻole ʻana, hoʻohui ʻo ia. "Hiki ke manaʻo hikiwawe."

Malia paha ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻole akā e nānā i ka mail app-hoihoi ia. Akā, e noʻonoʻo i nā kumu a pau oe paha aloha ʻole i kekahi-kā lākou mau ʻōlelo politika, kā lākou mau kiʻi pēpē, ke ala a lākou i haki ai kou puʻuwai a i kēia manawa he wahine aloha hou kā lākou - a maopopo e manaʻo like paha nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana iā ʻoe. A ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hōʻeha i kēlā. "Aia kahi ebb a kahe maoli i loko o nā ʻoihana pūnaewele," wahi a Gurner, e like me ka IRL.

E nānā pono ʻaʻole ʻoe e kia ana i ka hōʻole ʻia ma ke ala pono ʻole, a maikaʻi ʻoe e hoʻoiho.

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