E heluhelu i kēia ma mua o kou kōkua ʻana i kāu hoaloha me ke kaumaha

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• 1. ʻO ke kaumaha loa kahi maʻi
• 2. Hoʻopili ia i ka waiwai ponoʻī
• 3. Ua ʻeha mākou
• 4. ʻAʻole mākou e pono iā ʻoe e hoʻoponopono iā mākou
• 5. Hoʻokani i kā mākou palekana
• 6. Aia kekahi mau manawa ke maopopo ʻole kekahi o ia mea
• 7. Hana paha mākou iā mākou iho i ka sabotage i ko mākou ola ʻana, a na ka mea e hoʻonāukiuki iā ʻoe
• 8. E aʻo mākou e noho me ia
• 9. Makemake mākou e hōʻike ʻoe
• 10. ʻO ka mea nui loa i hiki iā ʻoe ke hana no mākou, ʻo ia hoʻi ke kikowaena o kāu pono ponoʻī
• 11. E hoʻopono i kāu paio e ʻae i kēia mau mea āpau
• 12. E ʻike i ke kākoʻo i kou ola iho

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo āu e ʻimi nei i nā ala e kōkua ai i kahi hoaaloha e noho nei me ke kaumaha he mea kupaianaha. E noʻonoʻo ʻoe i loko o kahi honua o Kauka Google, e hana ai kēlā me kēia i kahi noiʻi e pili ana i kahi mea kikowaena kikowaena i ke ola o kā lākou mau hoaaloha. Minamina, ʻaʻole kēlā ka hihia mau. A inā lākou i hana i kā lākou noiʻi, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e loaʻa i nā mea āpau nā ala kūpono e kākoʻo ai i kā lākou mau hoaaloha a me nā mea aloha.

Ua hana wau i ke kaumaha nui a ma waho no 12 mau makahiki i kēia manawa. I kekahi manawa, ua loaʻa iaʻu ke aloha a me ke kākoʻo e pono ai, a ʻo kekahi mau manawa ʻaʻole. Eia kaʻu e makemake ai i ʻike koʻu mau hoaaloha ma mua o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e kākoʻo iaʻu.

1. ʻO ke kaumaha loa kahi maʻi

Ua lohe paha ʻoe i kēia ma mua - pinepine a pinepine. ʻAʻole wau maʻaneʻi e wehewehe iā ʻoe i nā intricacies o ka mea e lilo ai ke kaumaha i maʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i kēlā mau mea ma nā wahi āpau. ʻO ka mea āu e ʻike ai ke kumu o ka paʻakikī o kēia kuhi e hoʻomaopopo ai, ʻaʻole wale i ke kumumanaʻo wale nō, akā i ka hana, no ka hiki i ka hiki. Kūkulu ʻia ka ʻAhahui no nā kānaka hiki a kino a noʻonoʻo ʻia. Ua aʻo ʻia mākou āpau mai ka wā mua o nā makahiki e hāpai i kēia ʻōnaehana o ka hoʻokaumaha.

2. Hoʻopili ia i ka waiwai ponoʻī

ʻAʻole wale mākou e hana nei me nā ʻōuli, a pehea ke ʻano o ke kaiāulu e ʻike nei iā mākou, akā ke hana pū nei mākou me nā mea hoʻonāukiuki he nui e pili ana i kā mākou kīnā hou. I ka manawa koke, ʻaʻohe o mākou waiwai like e like me ke kaiāulu, e like me mākou iho, a ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka ʻole, e like me ʻoe.

3. Ua ʻeha mākou

E nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e nā hoaaloha, e ka ʻohana, a me nā ʻano mea aloha āpau. A inā ʻaʻole mākou i hele, ua lohe mākou i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i loaʻa. Makemake wau he aloha, aloha, a kākoʻo mai nā mea āpau a puni mākou, akā ʻaʻole ia ka hihia. ʻAʻole paha mākou e hilinaʻi iā ʻoe e hōʻike iā mākou i kēia mau mea ma muli o kēlā.

4. ʻAʻole mākou e pono iā ʻoe e hoʻoponopono iā mākou

ʻAʻole kāu hana kēlā - na mākou ia. He mea maʻalahi kēlā.

5. Hoʻokani i kā mākou palekana

Nui nā mea maikaʻi i hiki iā ʻoe ke hana, akā minamina, nui nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana hewa.E ala aʻe paha nā manawa ke ʻole ʻoe e palekana hou no mākou, a pono mākou e heʻe e nānā i ko mākou pono.

6. Aia kekahi mau manawa ke maopopo ʻole kekahi o ia mea

Welina i ka honua o ke kaumaha. ʻO ke kaumaha ka maʻi i loaʻa i nā helehelena he tausani. Loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kekahi mau ʻōuli i kekahi lā, a me nā ʻōuli ʻokoʻa loa i ka lā aʻe. He huikau a hoʻonāukiuki paha ia, iā kāua.

7. Hana paha mākou iā mākou iho i ka sabotage i ko mākou ola ʻana, a na ka mea e hoʻonāukiuki iā ʻoe

He weliweli ka hoʻololi, a ʻo kekahi o nā mea paʻakikī loa. Inā mākou i noho me ke kaumaha no ka manawa lōʻihi, a laila ʻaʻole paha mākou e makemake e hoʻi hou.

8. E aʻo mākou e noho me ia

Kū pololei kēia, akā pono ʻoe e mākaukau e loaʻa kahi hoaaloha i hāmaha - a haʻaheo - noho me ke kaumaha. ʻAʻole ia no ka hāʻawi pio ʻana, ʻaʻole no ka haki. ʻO ia wale nō kahi ʻāpana o mākou a, no kekahi o mākou, ʻaʻole e hele. He ʻāpana ia o kā mākou ʻoiaʻiʻo, a inā koho mākou e ʻae iā ia, pono ʻoe kekahi.

9. Makemake mākou e hōʻike ʻoe

E hāʻawi mākou i ke kākoʻo, ke aloha, a me ke aloha i nā manawa like ʻole. Akā makemake nui mākou i ka poʻe ma laila, no ka mea, makemake mākou āpau i ke kākoʻo.

10. ʻO ka mea nui loa i hiki iā ʻoe ke hana no mākou, ʻo ia hoʻi ke kikowaena o kāu pono ponoʻī

Nui ka poʻe e kuha i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo iā mākou e pili ana i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ko mākou ola, akā ʻaʻole e hoʻokō i kēlā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i loko o ko lākou ola iho. ʻO ke ʻano hoʻohālikelike ke ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻouna iā mākou i kēia leka, a hoʻomanaʻo pū mai nō hoʻi ʻaʻole kēia mau mea hana na mākou wale nō, akā no nā mea āpau.

11. E hoʻopono i kāu paio e ʻae i kēia mau mea āpau

E hōʻoia i kāu mau hemahema, a aʻo e hoʻololi. Ua aʻo ʻia he kakaikahi loa o mākou pehea e kākoʻo maoli ai i kēlā me kēia kanaka i ko mākou ola e noho nei me nā maʻi noʻonoʻo. Nui kāu mea e aʻo ai. Nui a mākou e aʻo ai. Akā inā ʻaʻole mākou e ʻae i kēia, e hōʻoia i kā mākou holomua, a hoʻololi - e luku mākou kekahi i kekahi.

12. E ʻike i ke kākoʻo i kou ola iho

ʻAʻole maʻalahi ke kākoʻo ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma o kā lākou mau pilikia, a ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o kāu ʻōnaehana kākoʻo paʻa i koʻikoʻi kahi koʻikoʻi e kākoʻo i kāu kākoʻo.

Nui a hewahewa nā mea āu e aʻo ai, a aʻo hou i kēia huakaʻi. ʻO ka hope loa, ʻaʻole e like hou kou ola. Akā ʻaʻole kēlā he mea maikaʻi ʻole i nā manawa āpau.

Inā ʻoe a ʻo kekahi mea paha āu e ʻike nei e ʻike nei i nā ʻōuli o ke kaumaha, e kiʻi i kāu kauka no ke kākoʻo a me nā koho lapaʻau. Nui nā ʻano kākoʻo i loaʻa iā ʻoe. E nānā i kā mākou ʻaoʻao waiwai ola noʻonoʻo no ke kōkua hou aku.

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