Manaʻo nā Kaikamahine ʻōpio ʻoi aku ke akamai o nā keikikāne, ʻōlelo ʻo Super-Depressing Study
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I ka hakakā ʻana i nā manaʻo kuʻuna kāne kāne, ʻōlelo wale "he maikaʻi nā kaikamahine e like me nā keikikāne" a ʻaʻole lawa ka pāʻani #girlpower merch.
I kēia manawa, aia mākou i waena o ka hakakā ʻana no nā pono kaulike (no ka mea, ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole i like nā mea) a me ka hoʻopiha ʻana i ka uku uku (ʻo ia hoʻi ke ʻano o ke kaumaha, BTW). Me he mea lā ke holomua nei mākou-a hiki i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hōʻoia ʻoiaʻiʻo he ala lōʻihi kā mākou e hele ai. (Ua ʻike ʻoe i ka hoʻohuli kāne i kāu hana?)
I kēia lā, hele mai kēlā ʻike ʻoiaʻiʻo ma ke ala o kahi hui o nā kaikamahine 6 makahiki. Me he mea lā, i kēlā mau makahiki, ua ʻike mua nā kaikamahine i ka ʻike pili i ka ʻike. nā keiki "akamai maoli," e like me kahi noi hou i paʻi ʻia i ka puke pai ʻEpekema.
Ua kamaʻilio ʻo Lin Bian, he mea noiʻi ma ke Kulanui o Ilinoi, i nā keiki makahiki 5, 6, a me 7 i ʻehā mau haʻawina like ʻole e ʻike ai i ka wā e puka mai ai nā manaʻo like ʻole o ke kāne. I ka piha ʻana o nā makahiki he ʻelima, pili nā keiki kāne a me nā kaikamahine i ka ʻike a me ke "akamai maoli" me kā lākou kāne ponoʻī. Akā i ka makahiki 6 a i ʻole 7 mau makahiki, ʻo nā keikikāne wale nō i paʻa i kēlā manaʻo like. I loko o kahi noi hope, ua ʻike ʻo Bian i ke ʻano o nā makemake o nā kaikamahine 6 a me 7 mau makahiki e kēia keikikāne. ke hāʻawi ʻia ke koho ma waena o kahi pāʻani no "nā keiki maoli, akamai" a me kekahi no "nā keiki e hoʻāʻo maoli, paʻakikī loa," ʻoi aku ka hoihoi ʻole o nā kaikamahine ma mua o nā keikikāne i ka pāʻani no nā keiki akamai. Eia nō naʻe, ua like ka hoihoi o nā kāne ʻelua i ka pāʻani no nā keiki paʻakikī, e hōʻike ana i ka pili ʻana o ke kāne i ka naʻauao, ʻaʻole ke ʻano hana. A ʻaʻole kēia he mea no ka akahai-ua loaʻa i ka Bian nā kūlana o nā keiki ʻē aʻe ʻike o ka poʻe (mai kahi kiʻi a i ʻole moʻolelo haʻi moʻolelo).
"Hōʻike nā hopena i kēia manawa i kahi hopena noʻonoʻo: nui nā keiki e hoʻohālikelike i ka manaʻo he ʻano kāne ka maikaʻi i ka wā ʻōpio," wahi a Bian i ke aʻo ʻana.
ʻAʻohe ala ʻē aʻe e ʻōlelo ai: ʻo kēia mau hopena pololei e hānai. ʻOi aku ka wikiwiki o ka ʻōlelo ʻana i ka "mana kaikamahine," a pili lākou i nā mea āpau mai ka nui o ke komo ʻana o ke kaikamahine i ke kula a hiki i nā mea hoihoi āna e hoʻomohala ai (hey, ʻepekema).
No laila he aha ka wahine kūʻokoʻa, kūʻokoʻa e hana ai? E hoʻomau i ka hakakā ʻana i ke kaua maikaʻi. A inā he kaikamahine ʻōpio kāu, e haʻi aku iā ia i kēlā me kēia lā, he akamai ʻo ia e like me Gehena.