ʻAe, hiki i ka hānai ʻōmole ke like me ka hoʻopili ʻana e like me ka hānai ʻana i ka hānai

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• ʻO ka hānai ʻōmole pono ʻoe e noho
• Hāʻawi ka hānai ʻōmole iā ʻoe i ka maluhia o ka noʻonoʻo
• Hāʻawi ka hānai ʻōmole iā ʻoe i kahi hoʻomaha
• ʻAʻole pili ka hānai ʻōmole i kou pili loa

No ka mea, e hoʻopono kākou, e pili ana i ka ʻōmole a i ʻole ka pahu.

Ma hope o ka hānai ʻana i kaʻu kaikamahine wale nō, maopopo iaʻu e hana like wau me kaʻu keiki. ʻOiaʻiʻo, i kēia manawa e hoʻolauna koke wau i ka ʻōmole (i hiki iā ia ke lawe maoli - {textend} ʻaʻole kaʻu kaikamahine i hana), akā manaʻo wau ua paʻa wau i hoʻokahi makahiki o ka hānai pēpē ʻana i ka pēpē.

Eia nō naʻe, i ka manawa i lawe ʻia ai kaʻu keiki i ka NICU ma hope koke iho o kona hānau ʻia ʻana a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hānai a hiki i kekahi mau lā ma hope, ua ʻike wau he huakaʻi ʻokoʻa loa kā mākou.

Me he mea lā ua hoihoi ʻo ia i ka hānai ʻana i ka waiū, ma ka liʻiliʻi, a hiki i kona manawa koke - {textend} ʻoiai ʻoluʻolu - {textend} hiamoe iaʻu.

Eia naʻe, ua haʻaheo wau i nā kākā'ōlelo lactation ke kū lākou i loko. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, hānai wau i kaʻu kaikamahine no 15 mau mahina.

Ua hele wau ma laila, hana i kēlā, loaʻa ka makana. Akau?

I ka manawa o mākou i ka home, akā, maopopo leʻa i makemake kaʻu keiki i nā ʻōmole liʻiliʻi i hāʻawi ʻia iā ia i ka haukapila.

I ka mua, ua huhū wau. Malia paha ua ʻae wau i ke kōkua mai nā prosact lactation? A laila, hewa wau. He aha inā e maʻi pinepine ʻo ia inā ʻaʻole wau e hānai iā ia? ʻO ka hope, ua kaumaha wau. Pehea wau e hoʻopaʻa ai me ia?

ʻĀnō, i kēia manawa aia wau ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe o ia - {textend} ʻo kaʻu keikikāne ua ʻoi aku i hoʻokahi makahiki i kēia manawa a inu i ka waiū o ka bipi e like me ka puʻuwai o kona puʻuwai - {textend} hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo me ka hopohopo ʻole e like ka maikaʻi o ka hānai ʻōmole ʻana e like me ka hānai ʻana i ka waiū. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoi aku. Ma laila, ua ʻōlelo wau.

ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o nā ʻike like ʻole me kaʻu mau keiki i hōʻike mai iaʻu ʻaʻole no ka pehea e hānai ai ʻoe i kāu pēpē, ke hana pololei nei ʻoe ia mea nāu.

Eia kekahi mau mea nui aʻu i aʻo ai e pili ana i nā ʻōmole a me ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana.

ʻO ka hānai ʻōmole pono ʻoe e noho

I ka manawa i loaʻa iaʻu ke kau o ka hānai ʻana, maʻalahi iaʻu e haʻalele i waho.

Ua luhi wau ma mua o ka manawa mua a ʻike wau iaʻu e pani ana i koʻu mau maka no kahi catnap ma hope o ka paʻa ʻana o kaʻu kaikamahine. ʻO ia, a i ʻole e ʻolokaʻa ana wau iā Amazon e ʻike i kahi wahi kūpono e hiamoe ai ʻoi aku ma mua o 45 mau minuke i ka manawa.

He makuahine hou wau a ua paʻakikī ke ola. Ua nele wau i ka hiamoe a kaumaha. ʻAʻohe oʻu manaʻo i kaʻu hana. Ua manaʻo wau ʻelua nā manawa a pau.

Me kaʻu keiki, ua ʻoi aku koʻu hilinaʻi. Ua mākaukau wau i ka hana o ka hiamoe ʻole. Ua ʻike wau i ka wikiwiki o ka manawa ma hope o kāu poʻe keiki. ʻAʻole wau i makemake i ka paepae pēpē e hala iaʻu.

Akā ʻaʻole ia he hoʻololi wale i ka nānā i ka lua o ka manawa. ʻAʻole wau i hānai ʻōmole i mua, no laila pono wau e nānā maoli. Pono wau e paʻa pololei i ka ʻōmole - {textend} hoʻohui, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hiamoe ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki i kaʻu pēpē ke hoʻopaʻa iā ia iho.

Ma muli o kēia, ua hoʻolilo wau i ka manawa liʻiliʻi i nānā ʻia (a i ʻole i kaʻu kelepona) me kaʻu keiki. Ua hoʻonui wau i ka manawa e nānā ana i kona mau maka nunui, kona mau papalina liʻiliʻi mushy, kāna mau lima liʻiliʻi, ʻimi hoʻi a paʻa lākou i koʻu manamana lima.

ʻOiai ka hānai ʻana o ka hānai iaʻu i kaʻu kaikamahine ma muli o ka pili pili kino, hoʻopaʻa ka hānai hānai iaʻu i kaʻu keiki kāne no ke ʻano o ke ʻano o koʻu alo.

A ke noho mau nei i loko o kēia manawa ua pili wau iaʻu me ia ʻoiai ʻo ia e inu ana i ka pīpī ma kahi o kaʻu waiū ponoʻī.

Hāʻawi ka hānai ʻōmole iā ʻoe i ka maluhia o ka noʻonoʻo

Nui a hewahewa nā mea e hopohopo ai inā he pēpē hou kāu. Ua lawa ko lākou hiamoe? Ke ulu a lawa paha lākou? ʻAi paha lākou?

Hāʻawi ka hānai ʻōmole iā ʻoe i ka mōakāka o kēlā mea hope loa - {textend} ʻike maopopo ʻoe i ka nui o nā auneke i loaʻa i kāu pēpē i kēlā me kēia hānai ʻana.

Aia kaʻu mau keiki ma ka ʻaoʻao liʻiliʻi, no laila ke loaʻa nei kēia ʻike me kaʻu keiki iaʻu i hoʻokahi mea liʻiliʻi e hopohopo ai. ʻO ka hopohopo liʻiliʻi he mea mama wau, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka mama. Ua hiki iaʻu ke hauʻoli i ka ʻike hānau hou.

Hāʻawi ka hānai ʻōmole iā ʻoe i kahi hoʻomaha

I ka hala ʻana o kekahi mau pule o kaʻu keiki, haʻalele wau i ka hale no kekahi mau hola ʻelua. Holo wau i ka hana. Loaʻa iaʻu kahi lomilomi wāwae. ʻAʻole kuʻi kaʻu mau puʻupuʻu a ʻano ʻoluʻolu paha e like me ka wā e pahū ai. ʻAʻole wau i ka uaki.

Ua luhi wau, ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā ʻike wau he kanaka.

A i koʻu hoʻi ʻana i ka home i koʻu ʻohana, ua piha wau ma hope o ka hala ʻana o ka manawa. Ua mākaukau wau e hana i kahi ʻōmole a paʻa i kaʻu keiki. A cuddle a hana hana me kaʻu 2 1/2 makahiki pū kekahi, no kēlā mea.

Hāʻawi ka hānai ʻōmole iaʻu i ka manawa kūpono e hoʻomaha ai i ka manaʻo. E kau i kaʻu mask oxygen ponoʻī ma mua, no laila e ʻōlelo. Hiki ke hāʻawi lāua ʻelua o kaʻu mau keiki kaʻu mea maikaʻi loa.

Ma hope o kēia mau manawa o ka mālama ponoʻī, ua mākaukau ʻoi aku ka noʻonoʻo e hoʻopaʻa paʻa ʻaʻole wale me kaʻu pēpē, akā me kaʻu kamaliʻi pū kekahi.

ʻAʻole pili ka hānai ʻōmole i kou pili loa

ʻAe, ʻaʻole wale kaʻu keiki i ka waiū hānai. Akā, e ʻae ʻoe iaʻu e haʻi iā ʻoe, ʻo ia nō no laila i loko oʻu.

ʻOiai i hoʻokahi makahiki, makemake ʻo ia iaʻu e paʻa mau iā ia. Hoʻopili ʻo ia a cuddles i loko oʻu ma mua o koʻu waiho ʻana iā ia i lalo no kahi moe. Puke ʻo ia iā ia i ka puka o mua ke hoʻi mai wau mai ka hana ʻana a i ʻole nā ​​hale kūʻai.

ʻO wau nō kāna mea punahele. Pehea wau i hānai ai iā ia i ka wā pēpē ʻaʻole i hoʻololi.

Mai haʻi i kēlā mau mea aʻoaʻo lactation, akā i ka iho ʻana i nā ala ʻelua, e koho hou wau i ka hānai ʻōmole. I ka manawa i loaʻa iaʻu ka huaʻōlelo "ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka umauma" mai kuʻu poʻo, ua hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomaha i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ke kūlana a hauʻoli maoli i ka manawa aʻu e hoʻohana ai i kaʻu keiki.

Ua aʻo wau ʻaʻole ia he mea nui pehea a pehea ʻoe e hānai ai i kāu pēpē - {textend} umauma a ʻōmole paha, waiū a me nā kumuhana. ʻO kēlā me kēia ʻano o kāu hānai ʻana a i ʻole nā ​​koho ʻana, kūpono lākou nāu.

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