Ua lilo ʻo Kaleponi i Mokuʻāina Mua e Hana 'Stealthing' Ilegal

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ʻO "Stealthing," a i ʻole ka wehe huna ʻana i kahi condom ma hope o ka ʻae ʻia ʻana o ka pale, he ʻano pilikia ia no nā makahiki. Akā i kēia manawa, hoʻolilo ʻo Kaleponi i ka hana i kū kānāwai ʻole.

I ʻOkakopa 2021, ua lilo ʻo Kaleponi i mokuʻāina mua i hoʻopaʻa i ka "stealthing," me ke kiaʻāina ʻo Gavin Newson i kau inoa i ka bila i kānāwai. Hoʻonui ka bila i ka wehewehe ʻana o ka mokuʻāina no ka pila moe kolohe no laila ua komo kēia hana, e like me ʻO ka pipi ʻo Sacramento, a e ae aku i ka poe i hoehaia e imi i ka hoopii kivila no na poho. "Ma ka hoʻoholo ʻana i kēia bila, ke kahakaha nei mākou i ke koʻikoʻi o ka ʻae ʻana," i hoʻopuka ai ke keʻena ʻo Gov. Newsom ma ʻOkakopa 2021.

ʻO Assemblywoman Cristina Garcia, nāna i kōkua i ke kākau ʻana i ka pila, ʻōlelo pū kekahi iā ia ma kahi ʻōlelo o ʻOkakopa 2021. "Ke hana nei au i ka pilikia o ka 'stealthing' mai ka makahiki 2017 a ke hauʻoli nei au i kēia manawa aia kekahi kuleana no ka poʻe e hana nei i ka hana. Garcia, e like me ʻO ka pipi ʻo Sacramento.

Ua lilo ʻo Stealthing i ʻāpana o ke kamaʻilio hoʻopaʻapaʻa aupuni ma hope o ka puka ʻana o ke kula ʻo Yale Law School ʻo Alexandra Brodsky i kahi noiʻi ma ʻApelila 2017 e wehewehe ana i ke ʻano o nā kāne i kekahi mau hui pūnaewele e kālepa i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana i kā lākou hoa i ka hoʻohana ʻole ʻana i ka pale. Hoʻopili kēia i nā mea e like me ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana i ka condom nahā a i ʻole ka hoʻohana ʻana i kekahi mau kūlana wahine i ʻike ʻole ai ka wahine i ke kāne e wehe ana i ka condom, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e ʻike i ka mea i hana ʻia a hiki i ka pō. ʻO ke kumu, manaʻo kēia mau kāne e like me ko lākou makemake e hele i ka bareback trumps i ka pono o ka wahine e hāpai ʻole a hōʻalo paha i ka loaʻa ʻana i kahi maʻi i lawe ʻia e ka moekolohe. (PSA: ʻOi aku ka nui o ka pilikia o nā STD ma mua o kou manaʻo.)

ʻAʻole kēia i hana wale ʻia i loko o kekahi mau hui kamaʻilio fetish pohihihi. Ua ʻike ʻo Brodsky i ka nui o kāna mau hoa wahine a me nā hoalauna i loaʻa nā moʻolelo like. Mai ia manawa, ua paʻi ʻia ka noiʻi e hōʻoia ana i kāna mau ʻike anecdotal. ʻO kahi haʻawina 2019 o 626 mau kāne (21 a 30 mau makahiki) ma ka Pākīpika Northwest i ʻike ʻia he 10 pakeneka o lākou i komo i ka ʻaihue mai ko lākou 14 mau makahiki, ma ka awelika o 3.62 manawa. Ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi ʻē aʻe o 503 no nā wahine 503 (21 a 30 mau makahiki) i loaʻa he 12 pākēneka o lākou i pili i ka moekolohe. Ua ʻike pū ʻia kēlā haʻawina hoʻokahi, kokoke i ka hapalua o nā wahine i hōʻike i kahi hoa kūʻē i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka condom ma ke ʻano koʻikoʻi (ikaika a hoʻoweliweli paha); He 87 pakeneka ka nui i hōʻike aku i kahi hoa e kūʻē ana i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka condom ma ke ʻano hoʻoikaika ʻole.

ʻOiai ua kamaʻilio nā wahine ʻo Brodsky me ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻole a me ka huhū, ʻaʻole maopopo ka hapa nui inā "helu" ʻia ka ʻaihue.

ʻAe, helu ʻia. Inā ʻae ka wahine e moe kolohe me kahi condom, ʻO ka wehe ʻana i ka condom me ka ʻole o kāna ʻae ʻia ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia ka moekolohe. Ua ʻae ʻo ia i ka moekolohe ma lalo o nā ʻōlelo o ka condom. Hoʻololi i kēlā mau ʻōlelo, a hoʻololi ʻoe i kona makemake e hoʻomau i ka hana. (E nānā: He aha ka ʻae, ʻoiaʻiʻo?)

ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻoikaika nui i kēia: ʻo ka ʻōlelo ʻana "ʻae" i ka moe kolohe ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ua ʻae ʻoe i kēlā me kēia hana moe kolohe. ʻAʻole hoʻi ia he manaʻo hiki i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe ke hoʻololi i nā huaʻōlelo, e like me ka hemo ʻana i kahi pale condom, me ka ʻole o kāu maikaʻi.

A ʻo ka hana ʻana o nā kāne "malū" ke hōʻike nei lākou ʻike he hewa. Inā ʻole, no ke aha e hele mua ʻole ai e pili ana? Manaʻo: No ka mea, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o ka mana ma luna o ka wahine he mea ia e ʻoluʻolu ai ka "aihue" i kekahi mau kāne. (Related: He aha ka Toxic Masculinity, a no ke aha he mea ʻino loa?)

ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, i ka makahiki 2017, ua hoʻomaka ka poʻe kau kānāwai i ka hana. I Mei 2017, ua hoʻokomo ʻo Wisconsin, New York, a me Kaleponi i nā bila e pāpā ana i ka ʻaihue—akā ua hala a hiki i ʻOkakopa 2021 no ka lilo ʻana o kēlā bila Kaleponi i kānāwai, a ʻaʻole i hoʻoholo ʻia nā bila o New York a me Wisconsin.

"ʻO ka wehe ʻana i ka condom nonconsensual pono e ʻike ʻia he mea hōʻino i ka hilinaʻi a me ka hanohano," i ʻōlelo ʻia ai ka Lunamakaʻāinana Carolyn Maloney (New York) i loko o kahi ʻōlelo i kēlā manawa. "Ua makaʻu wau i ka pono o kēia kamaʻilio ʻana, e hōʻeha ka hoa kolohe i ka hilinaʻi a kā lākou hoapili a ʻae like me kēia. ʻO ka Stealthing ka hana hoʻomāinoino."

ʻOiai ke ʻike ʻia nei he ala ʻē aʻe ka US ma mua o ka hiki ʻana o ka ʻaihue ma ka ʻāina holoʻokoʻa, ua manaʻo mua nā ʻāina e like me Germany, New Zealand, a me UK i ka ʻaihue ma ke ʻano he ʻano hoʻomāinoino. BBC. Eia ka manaʻolana e hoʻokumu ana ka hoʻoholo ʻana o Kaleponi i mea hoʻohālike no ke koena o nā mokuʻāina ʻo US.

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