Eia ke kumu e manaʻo nui ai nā wahine i ka pō

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• I ka manawa hea ka wahine?
• He aha kēia no kou ola moekolohe
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Inā ʻoe i loko o kahi pilina hetero a ʻo ʻoe a me kāu hoa pili i ka moe kolohe ma mua o kou makemake, ʻaʻole paha ʻo kāu ʻenehana ka pilikia akā ʻo kou manawa. Makemake ʻoe e kiʻi i kahi kaikamahine ʻalā? ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e loaʻa ka laki me ka moe kakahiaka. Wahi a kahi anamanaʻo i hana ʻia e ka hui wahine pāʻani aloha ʻo Lovehoney, no ka uaki paha ka hewa no kāu mau pilina i hala ʻole.

I ka manawa hea ka wahine?

Ua noiʻi ka noiʻi i 2,300 mau mākua a ʻike ʻia he kokoke i ka 70 pakeneka o nā wahine e ʻōlelo nei ua pili lākou me kahi hoa kāne nona ka hoʻokalakupua wahine he mea like ʻole me kā lākou iho a ʻo kekahi kumu nui ʻo ia ka manawa o kā lākou huli ʻana. Ua hōʻike nā kāne makemake lākou e hoʻomaka pono i ko lākou lā hoʻomaha me ka moekolohe iki ma waena o 6 a me 9 o ke kakahiaka a ʻoi aku ka makemake o nā wahine e lele i lalo me kekahi aloha aloha ma waena o 11 p. a me 2 am Kekahi mea, ʻo nā kāne ka horniest ma 7:54 i ke kakahiaka aʻo nā wahine ma 11:21 i ka pō. (E nānā i kēia mau mea 8 e makemake ai nā kāne e ʻike i nā wahine e pili ana i ka moekolohe.)

He aha kēia no kou ola moekolohe

ʻOiai paha ʻoe e kānalua e pili ana i kā lākou ʻike - ʻaʻole ka hapanui o ka poʻe i ka nānā ʻana i ka wā o ka uaki e pili ana i ka manawa maʻamau - ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i ʻike i kahi manawa ke makemake kāu pakanā e hana a ʻeleu ʻoe e hoʻoluhi (a i ʻole hope. versa). ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e ʻike pehea e kiʻi ai i kahi kaikamahine me ka ʻole o ka emojis wahine a me ka nānā ʻana iā Bridgerton. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohewa hapa i nā pōʻai hormone like ʻole - ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o ka pae testosterone kāne i ke kakahiaka, ʻoiai e piʻi iki ana ka wahine a puni ka lā. (Hoʻololi iki nā pae testosterone wahine i ka lā a me nā mea hou aʻe e pili ana i kāu pōʻai menstrual, kikoʻī ʻana i ke kiʻekiʻena i ka wā o ka ovulation.)

ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ʻaʻole pono e lilo ka ʻokoʻa o nā papa hana a me nā makemake i mea make no kou ola wahine, wahi a Allison Hill, M.D., he ob-gyn ma Good Samaritan Hospital ma Los Angeles. Maikaʻi loa nā wahine i ka maʻalahi, wahi a Dr. Hill. ʻOiai ʻoi aku ka pololei o ka makemake o nā kāne, hiki i ka wahine ke hoʻokau wahine ke hoʻohuli i nā kumu like ʻole. (Nānā i ke kiko: Hiki i kēia hana ke hoʻonui i kāu kahakaha kolohe)

"ʻO ka manaʻo o kēia manawa he paʻakikī loa ka libido wahine, akā ʻo ka hapa nui o ia mea he psychological," wahi a Dr. Hill. "A, ʻo ka mea maʻamau, ʻaʻohe mea nui e pili ana i ka hoa pili o ka wahine. Akā, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka manaʻo o ka wahine iā ia iho a me kāna moekolohe." No laila, inā manaʻo ʻoe i ka hilinaʻi a me ka wahine i loko o ʻoe iho, e hāmama ʻoe i ka moe kolohe a loaʻa paha kahi manawa kūpono e piʻi ai, me ka nānā ʻole i ka ʻōlelo a ka uaki. (Nā mea hou aʻe ma aneʻi: E loaʻa i kahi orgasm kupaianaha ma o ke kūkulu ʻana i ka hilinaʻi.)

Ke kuhi nei i ka hewa e pili ana i ka ʻoniʻoni a i ʻole pehea kou makemake (a makemake ʻole paha) i ka moekolohe kahi mea nui i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke ola moekolohe nui, wahi a Stephanie Buehler, Ph.D., mea kākau o He aha nā mea e pono ai i kēlā me kēia ʻoihana olakino noʻonoʻo e ʻike e pili ana i ka wahine. "ʻO ka makemake o ka wahine e hiki ke noʻonoʻo, pili, a i ʻole ke kino (a i ʻole ka hui pū ʻana o nā mea ʻekolu), a hiki ke loli ke kaukaʻi ʻia i ka mea e hana nei i kona ola i kēlā manawa," wahi a Buehler, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana he maikaʻi ke ʻōlelo aku ʻaʻole mahalo inā ʻoe ʻaʻole wale wau e ʻike. (Heluhelu: No ke aha e loaʻa ʻole ai kahi maʻi maʻi o kāu nele o ka moekolohe)

Akā ua hoʻohui ʻo Buehler he nui nā wahine e makemake i kēlā pili me kā lākou hoa a maʻalahi hoʻi makemake makemake i ka moekolohe hou aku. I kēia hihia, ma kahi o ke kali ʻana i ke ʻano kūpono e hana nui, e lawe paha ʻoe i nā mea i kou lima iho.

"ʻAʻole manaʻo pinepine nā wahine i ka makemake a hiki i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka pāʻani me kā lākou hoa," wahi āna. "Inā ʻo ia ka hihia, mai hopohopo e pili ana, e leʻaleʻa wale i kou manaʻo." ʻOiai ʻo ia ma ka manawa kikoʻī 7:54 o ke kakahiaka!

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