No ke aha ʻoe e launa pū ai me nā kānaka he nui

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Uaʻike nā kānaka a pau he paʻakikī ka pilina. Ka launa pū ʻana i nā poʻe he nui i ka manawa hoʻokahi? Lawe i kekahi mākau nui! Akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻohe hewa i ka hoʻolimalima ʻana i ka pō Pōʻakahi me Matt, Poalua me Tom, a me ka Pōʻakolu me Will.

ʻOiai ʻae ʻia ka lōʻihi e "pāʻani nā kāne i ke kahua," ʻaʻole ia he mea e kamaʻilio nui ʻia e nā wahine. Eia nō naʻe, "ʻae ka hoʻololi ʻana iā ʻoe e launa pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka manawa like, e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi hiʻohiʻona e pili ana i ke kaʻina hana pili," i haʻi aku ai ka loea pili ʻo April Masini iā ​​Refinery29. "Hāʻawi ka rotations iā ʻoe i ka manawa kūpono e pani ʻole i nā puka i ka poʻe e maikaʻi paha iā ʻoe. ʻO nā poʻe i komo pū me ka wikiwiki e pani i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻohuli i nā lā. i kēia lā me nā poʻe nui ʻē aʻe. "

Ua ʻae kekahi mea loea ʻē aʻe, ʻo Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D., i ka ʻōlelo ʻana i ka pili ʻana i kekahi mau kāne i ka manawa hoʻokahi hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe ma kahi o ka pili ʻana o nā kāne ʻē iā ʻoe, a hiki ke wehe i kou mau maka i ka mea āu. maoli makemake i kahi kāne.

ʻAʻole kēia ʻano kaina aloha ʻana no nā mea āpau, akā hiki nō ke wikiwiki, no laila ke kī kamaʻilio. A e like me kekahi pilina, he mea nui e nānā i ka noʻonoʻo a hoʻoholo inā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kāu hana a me kou manaʻo ma mua o nā mea ʻino. Over ma Refinery29, ua hui pū nā luna hoʻoponopono i kahi alakaʻi me nā moʻolelo mai nā wahine maoli i kaʻana like i kā lākou mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pehea e ʻike ai inā kūpono kahi huli ʻana o ka launa pū ʻana me ʻoe, a me nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e kōkua ai iā ʻoe e maikaʻi loa ma kēlā ʻano ʻoihana. E kiʻi, e ke kaikamahine! [Kaomi ma aneʻi no ka moʻolelo piha]

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