He aha ke ʻano o ka Pansexual?

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• He aha ka manaʻo o ka pansexual?
• Pansexuality ≠ polyamory
• Pansexual vs. bisexual
• Pehea ka maʻamau o ka moekolohe?
• Pehea wau e ʻike ai inā he pansexual wau?
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ʻO nā hale mana ponoʻī ʻo Tess Holliday, Janelle Monea, Bella Thorne, Miley Cyrus, a me Kesha ke hoʻohauʻoli nei i kāu mau meaʻai kaiaulu a me ke kahua me kā lākou badassery, ʻoiaʻiʻo, kālena a me ka haʻaheo pansexual! ʻAe, heluhelu pololei ʻoe. ʻO kēia mau pēpē hoʻololi honua āpau e ʻike ʻia he pansexual.

Ua puni a hoʻohana ʻia ka huaʻōlelo 'pansexual' no nā makahiki he nui-nui-nui, e like me ke kāne, ka moekolohe, a me ka mea noiʻi lāhui ʻo Della V. Mosley, Ph.D., ke kaukaʻi kumu o ka psychology ma ke Kulanui o Florida. Akā inā lohe koke ʻoe a noʻonoʻo i ke ʻano o ka pansexual, ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo. Manaʻo ʻo Mosley, no ka mea, ua "māhuahua ka nui o nā mea kaulana pansexual i waho e hōʻike ana iā lākou iho he pansexual, ua piʻi aʻe ka ʻike i ka huaʻōlelo." ʻOiaʻiʻo leʻaleʻa: Aia kekahi hae pansexual kikoʻī e hoʻopili i ka ʻalani, melemele, a me ka ʻalani polū.

Eia nō naʻe, ʻokoʻa ka hiki ke hoʻopaʻa inoa i kekahi mau mea kaulana pansexual mai ka ʻike maoli i ke ʻano o ia mea. Inā ʻoe e ʻakaʻaka i kou poʻo e noʻonoʻo nei, "he aha ka pansexual?" ua hele mai ʻoe i kahi kūpono. Ma lalo iho nei, ʻo Mosley lāua ʻo Jamie LeClaire, he mea hoʻonaʻauao wahine i loea i ka moekolohe a me ke kāne, e pane i kāu mau nīnau āpau, e like me: He aha ka pansexuality? He aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka pansexual a me ka bisexual? Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai inā ʻoe he pansexual?

He aha ka manaʻo o ka pansexual?

Ma ka ʻāpana, pili ka wehewehe o ka "pansexual" i ka mea āu e noi ai. ʻO ia no ka mea ʻaʻohe hoʻokahi, akā elua ʻae ʻia ka wehewehe ʻana o ka pansexual, wahi a Mosley.

"I kekahi manawa ua wehewehe ʻia ka moekolohe ma ke ʻano he mea hoihoi i kekahime ka nana ole o ko lākou ʻike kāne a kolohe a i ʻole ka wahine, "i ʻōlelo ʻo ia." ʻO kekahi mau manawa ua wehewehe ʻia e like me ka mea hoʻohihi ipau loa ʻike kāne kāne a male kāne paha," wahi āna, ʻo ia ka mea i hōʻike maopopo loa i ka prefix "pan-", ʻo ia hoʻi "nā mea āpau."

Hoʻomaopopo nā wehewehe pansexual ʻelua aia ka ʻike kāne kāne ma kahi kikoʻī. ʻO ke ʻano, ma mua o ka palena ʻana i ka pololei kāne awahine, hiki i ke kāne a me ke kāne ke lilo i agender, androgynous, bigender, a i ʻole ka gender-fluid, gender-queer, a non-binary (e inoa i kekahi mau mea). A ʻo ka pansexuality ʻo ia hoʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke huki i nā poʻe i ʻike me kekahi o kēia mau ʻano kāne. (E nānā hou aʻe: He aha ka manaʻo maoli e lilo i ka wai āpau a i ʻole e ʻike ʻia ma ke ʻano he binary ʻole)

No laila, ma ka maʻalahi, he aha ka pansexual? "ʻO ke ʻano o ka pansexual ʻo ia ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokipa i kekahi a ʻaʻole ia e hilinaʻi i ke kāne a i ʻole ke ʻano," wahi a LeClaire. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki i nā poʻe pansexual ke hele i ka naʻau-maka-emoji no kekahi o kēlā me kēia ʻano moe, ʻike kāne kāne, hōʻike kāne kāne, a i ʻole ka wahine (aka genitals).

A, ʻaʻole, he pansexualʻaʻole ʻo ia hoʻi, e moe ʻoe me kekahi.

Inā heluhelu ʻoe ma ke ʻano he paʻipaʻi, heluhelu pono ʻoe. "Ke alo nui nei ke kaiāulu pansexual i kēia moʻolelo ke hōʻike lākou i ko lākou ʻike i nā poʻe ʻike ʻole i ke ʻano o ia mea," wahi a Mosley. Akā ʻaʻole like ka pansexuality me ka promiscuously a me ka hypersexuality. (Related: Pehea ka pinepine o ka poʻe a pau i ka moekolohe?)

Pansexuality ≠ polyamory

Wahi a Mosley, he moʻolelo ʻē aʻe āna i lohe ai e pili ana i ka pansexuality ʻo ia ka huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe no ka polyamory. ʻAʻole ia.

"Pili ʻo Polyamory me ka hāmama i ka loaʻa ʻana a i ʻole ke loaʻa ʻana o nā mea i ʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi hoa i ka manawa - i kū ʻole i ka monogamy, kahi e pili ana i ka pilina aloha i ka manawa hoʻokahi," wehewehe ʻo ia. ʻAʻole kuhikuhi ka pansexual i ke ʻano o ka pilina o kekahi. Hiki i kekahi mea pansexual ke koho e lilo, a hauʻoli i loko o ka pilina polyamorous a monogamous paha, wahi āna. (E ʻike i nā mea hou aʻe: Eia ke ʻano o ka pilina polyamorous maoli-a me ka mea ʻaʻole ia)

Pansexual vs. bisexual

Makemake ʻoe he aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka pansexuality a me ka bisexuality? ʻO ka hapa nui o nā kānaka. He mea maʻamau ka poʻe e huikau i nā non-monosexual (aka aloha nui ʻia i nā mea ʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi a me ke kāne), wahi a LeClaire. (E hoʻomaʻemaʻe kēia LGBTQ + Glossary i nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe he nui loa.)

He ʻoiaʻiʻo: Aia kekahi mau lepili, wahi a Mosley. A e like me ka wehewehe ʻana o ka pansexuality, pēlā nō me ka bisexuality.

ʻO ka mea mua, he aha ka bisexuality?

Ma ka mōʻaukala, ua wehewehe ʻia ka bisexuality ma ke ʻano he hoʻohiwahiwa aloha, ka hoʻokamakama, a i ʻole ka makemake pili i nā kāne a me nā wahine. "ʻO ka nui o nā wehewehe ʻana o ka bisexuality āu e ʻike ai ma nā puke i hana ʻia i ka wā i hoʻomaopopo mau ʻia ai ka moʻomeheu a me ka lehulehu ma ke ʻano he binary," wahi a LeClaire.

Eia nō naʻe, e like me ka ulu ʻana o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ke kāne, pēlā nō ka wehewehe o ka bisexuality.I kēia manawa, e like me ka The Bisexual Resource Center, ʻo ke ʻano o ka bisexuality i kēia manawa "ka hoʻokipa ʻana i ke aloha a me / a i ʻole ka moekolohe i ʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi kāne." ʻO kekahi poʻe i ʻike ʻia he bisexual ka wehewehe ʻana iā ia me ka hoihoi ʻana i nā kāne ʻelua 1) e like me kā lākou iho a me 2) ʻaʻole like me kā lākou iho, wahi a Leclaire, ma ke kunou ʻana i ka prefix "bi" (ʻo ia hoʻi ʻelua). (Eia ke alakaʻi piha i ke ʻano o ka bisexual a pehea e ʻike ai inā he bisexual ʻoe.)

E kali, he aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka pansexual a me ka bisexual?

Eia ke ala maikaʻi loa e noʻonoʻo ai iā ia: ʻO ka Pansexuality ka mea hoʻowalewale i kekahi me ka nana ole ʻO kā lākou kāne kāne, ʻoiai ʻo ka bisexuality ka mea hoihoi i nā kāne ʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi.

Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo "pehea inā ʻo wau ʻelua?" ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi; ʻike kekahi poʻe ma ke ʻano he BiPan (a i ʻolelāua ʻelua bisexual a me ka pansexual). Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka mea maʻamau, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka poʻe i ʻike ʻia he pansexual no ka mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o lākou ma mua o nā ʻano ʻokoʻa like ʻole, e like me ka bisexual.

ʻO ka mea hoihoi loa, aia kekahi mahele moʻomeheu nui i ka hoʻohana ʻana o kēia mau huaʻōlelo, wahi a Mosley: "ʻO nā mea e like me ka makahiki, ka lāhui, a me ka wahi hulihonua e hiki ke lilo i kuleana nui i ka manawa a ke kanaka e koho ai." Anecdotally, ua ʻike ʻo ia i ka poʻe i ko lākou wā ʻōpio a me 20 e hoʻohana paha i ka huaʻōlelo "pansexual" ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia i kēlā mau mea i ka hala ʻana o 30 mau makahiki a ʻoi paha, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka ID ma ke ʻano he "bisexual."

"ʻO ka mea e iho mai ai, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka makemake pilikino, a me kāu kuleana pilikino e hōʻike i kou ʻike pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai," wahi a LeClaire. "Kuhi pilikino wau ma ke ʻano he pansexual, akā ʻike wau ia ma ke ʻano ma lalo o ka um + wahine kaiaulu kaiāulu nui." ʻO ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i ʻike me ka ʻike ʻole i ka monosexual ke ʻae nei aia kahi lumi no nā ʻike ʻelua / a pau e noho like i ka manawa like. (FYI, aia kahi huaʻōlelo hou-ish sexuailty, skoliosexual, he mea hoʻopaʻapaʻa, akā maikaʻi e ʻike pū kekahi.)

E ʻike i kēia: Inā ʻike ʻia kekahi he bisexual a i ʻole pansexual (a i ʻole kekahi ʻano no kēlā mea), ʻo kā lākou koho nō ia. Ma ke ʻano he rula laulā, inā ʻōlelo kekahi e hoʻomaopopo lākou i kekahi mea, piliwi iā lākou. Inā ʻike kekahi he pansexual/bisexual/etc. akā ʻaʻole 'nānā' a hana paha pehea ʻoe e manaʻo ai i kekahi me kēlā ʻano e nānā a hana paha, ʻo ia kahi OE pilikia. ʻAʻole maikaʻi ka hoʻomalu ʻana i ka ʻike kanaka ma lalo o nā kūlana. (Pili: No ke aha e nīnau ai i kāu lā inā maikaʻi ʻo ia "Queer Enough")

Pehea ka maʻamau o ka moekolohe?

ʻAneʻane hiki ʻole ke pane i kēlā nīnau, wahi a Mosley. "ʻAʻole lawa ka noiʻi e pili ana i ka pansexuality e ʻike i ke ʻano maʻamau o ia mea, a ʻaʻole kakaikahi ka noiʻi e hāʻawi i kēlā koho i nā mea komo."

Ua ʻike ʻia kahi hōʻike 2018 e ke Kōmike Kuleana Kanaka he 14 ka nui o nā ʻōpio LGBTQ+ i ʻike ʻia he pansexual, ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe ma mua o kahi hōʻike like mai 2012, e hōʻike ana i ka ulu ʻana o ka pansexuality. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻohe ʻikepili paʻa i ka pākēneka o ka heluna kanaka holoʻokoʻa he pansexual.

Pehea wau e ʻike ai inā he pansexual wau?

ʻAʻohe hōʻike hoʻāʻo Pansexual Official e pono ai ʻoe e lawe a hele e ʻike me kahi lepili, a ʻaʻohe hōʻike e hiki ke haʻi pololei iā ʻoe inā he pansexual ʻoe a ʻaʻole paha. ʻOiai inā makemake ʻoe i ka wahine a i ʻole ke aloha a pili paha me nā poʻe o nā kāne like ʻole, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo he pansexual. ʻO ʻoe wale nō ka pansexual inā manaʻo kēlā ʻano (a i ʻole manaʻo i ka nui loa ʻākau) iā ʻoe. (E pili ana: Pehea e hoʻomaikaʻi ai ka "hele mai" i koʻu olakino a me ka hauʻoli)

ʻIke kekahi poʻe i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi huaʻōlelo a i ʻole ke kuhi no ka mea a lākou e noho nei a me ka ʻike ʻana e hiki ke hoʻokuʻu ʻia, wahi a Mosley. "I loko o kaʻu therapy a me kaʻu noiʻi ʻana me nā kānaka pan / queer / bi +, lohe pinepine wau i ka hoʻopili ʻana o ka lepili a me ka ʻōlelo iā lākou i nā kaiāulu, hoʻēmi i ke kaʻawale, hoʻopili iā lākou i nā kumuwaiwai, a hiki ke hoʻonui i ka lilo ʻana," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. ʻAe ʻo LeClaire, e ʻōlelo ana "ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻike āu e manaʻo ai hiki iā ʻoe ke leo nui a haʻaheo hoʻi ke lilo i mana a hoʻokuʻu hoʻi." Akā hou, aia i kāu kau manawa. E hilinaʻi, aia kou kaiāulu ma laila no ʻoe ke mākaukau ʻoe. (Related: He aha ka manaʻo maoli o ka Queer?)

Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo inā he pansexual paha ʻoe, ʻōlelo ʻo Mosley ʻo ka nānā ʻana i ke kāne unicorn kahi hana mua maikaʻi loa. "He pāʻani maoli ia a hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kāu mau hiʻohiʻona like ʻole (ka manaʻo, kino) me kou ʻano kāne ponoʻī, ʻike kāne kāne, a me ka wahine."

Wahi a LeClaire i ka Bisexual Resource Center a me ka pukeNani ka Queer! Nā moʻolelo pilikino mai ka bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, sexually-fluid, a me nā hiʻohiʻona non-monosexual ʻē aʻe.na Faith Beauchemin he mau waiwai maikai no hoi.

E hoʻomanaʻo: "ʻO nā leʻaleʻa a me nā pilikia e loaʻa iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he pansexual ʻaʻole ia e hoʻokaʻawale ʻia i kou mau ʻano ʻē aʻe," wahi a Kauka Mosley. "No laila, makemake wau e paipai i ka poʻe e ʻeli liʻiliʻi e ʻimi i nā kumu i kūpono i ko lākou mau pono i kēia manawa [a me ko lākou mau ʻike ʻē aʻe e like me ke kāne, ka lāhui, ka papa, a me ke kūlana malihini]." A no kēlā mea, ʻo Twitter, Tumblr, a me Instagram nā poʻo kiʻekiʻe. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki i nā hashtags ke loaʻa i kahi pono koʻikoʻi.

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