ʻO 5 mau ala ʻO Jordan Peele's 'Us' Hōʻike pololei i ka hana o Trauma

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• 1. Hiki i kahi ʻike traumatic ke ukali iā ʻoe i kou ola holoʻokoʻa
• 2. ʻAʻole ia he mea nui pehea ka liʻiliʻi o kāu ʻike - trauma ka trauma, a hiki ke hopena ʻia mai kahi hanana manawa hoʻokahi a pōkole paha.
• 3. ʻO ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e nānā ʻole i koʻu ʻehaʻeha ʻo ia hoʻi ka nānā ʻole ʻana i kahi ʻāpana o aʻu iho
• 4. ʻIke ʻoe i kāu trauma ponoʻī
• 5. ʻO kou ʻike pili i kāu trauma ponoʻī e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka mana kūʻokoʻa a me ke kūloko i ka hoʻōla
• ʻO ka weliweli maoli kā mākou hanaʻino o ka honua

ʻLelo Aʻo: Aia kēia ʻatikala i nā mea hōʻino mai ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻo “Us.”

ʻO kaʻu mau mea i manaʻo ai no ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻo Jordan Peele ʻo "Us" i kū maoli: Ua makaʻu ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni iaʻu, a hoʻohoka iaʻu, a hana ia i hiki ʻole iaʻu ke hoʻolohe i ke mele a Luniz "I got 5 On It" ke ʻano mau loa hou.

Akā eia ka ʻāpana aʻu i manaʻo ʻole ai: Ma nā ʻano he nui, ua hāʻawi ʻo "ʻOme" iaʻu i nā alakaʻi e pili ana pehea e kamaʻilio ai e pili ana i ka trauma a me kona hopena mau loa.

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni he ʻano pīhoihoi ia i ka neʻe ʻana ma kaʻu ʻaoʻao, ke noʻonoʻo nei ʻo wau ka mea āu e kāhea ai huina wimp ke hiki mai i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli. Ua ʻike ʻia wau e ʻōlelo, he hapa hoʻomakeʻaka wale nō, a ʻo nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻo Harry Potter weliweli loa iaʻu ke ʻau.

Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke nānā aku i nā kumu he nui e hele ai e ʻike iā “Us,” e like me ka mahalo nui ʻana a Jordan Peele, ka mea hoʻokalakupua me ka loea mega i alakaʻi ʻia e Lupita Nyongʻo a me Winston Duke, nā hōkū o "Black Panther," a me ka moho o ʻeleʻele ʻeleʻele ʻO nā poʻe ʻeleʻele e like me aʻu - he mea liʻiliʻi loa hiki ʻole iaʻu ke nalo.

Nui koʻu hauʻoli ua ʻike wau. Ma ke ʻano he mea ola trauma e noho nei me PTSD, ua aʻo wau i kekahi mau mea e pili ana iaʻu iho ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo e aʻo wau mai kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli.

Inā ʻoe, e like me aʻu, e hele nei i kahi huakaʻi hele e ʻike i kou ʻehaʻeha, a laila mahalo paha ʻoe i kēia mau haʻawina.

No laila inā ʻoe i ʻike mua iā “Us,” ke hoʻolālā nei nō i ka ʻike ʻana iā ia (ma ia hihia, e makaʻala i nā mea hōʻino ma lalo), a i ʻole makaʻu nui paha ʻoe ke ʻike iā ʻoe iho (ma ia hihia, maopopo iaʻu), eia kekahi mau haʻawina e pili ana i ka hana ʻeha e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hōʻiliʻili mai ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni.

1. Hiki i kahi ʻike traumatic ke ukali iā ʻoe i kou ola holoʻokoʻa

ʻO ka moʻolelo moʻolelo o kēia wā e pili ana i ka ʻohana Wilson - nā mākua ʻo Adelaide lāua ʻo Gabe, ke kaikamahine ʻo Zora, a me ke keiki ʻo Jason - i huakaʻi aku i Santa Cruz no ka wā hoʻomaha kauwela a hoʻopau i ka hakakā no ko lāua ola kūʻē iā The Tethered, nā pālua weliweli o lākou iho.

Akā ke kikowaena nei ia ma kahi o kahi manawa mai ka wā i hala, ke kaʻawale ʻo Adelaide ʻōpio mai kona mau mākua ma ka papa kai kahakai ʻo Santa Cruz. Ma ke ʻano kamaliʻi, ua hui ʻo Adelaide me kahi ʻano malu o kona iho, a ke hoʻi ʻo ia i kona mau mākua, hāmau a haʻalulu ʻo ia - ʻaʻole hou kona ʻelemakule.

"Ma mua loa kēlā," e ʻōlelo paha ʻoe e pili ana i ka hopena o ke ʻano o ke ʻano kamaliʻi i ke ʻano makua.

ʻO ia ka mea aʻu e ʻōlelo ai iaʻu iho i kekahi manawa ke hoʻomanaʻo wau ua haʻalele wau i kuʻu ipo kāne hoʻomāinoino ma kahi o 10 mau makahiki i hala. I kekahi manawa, ma hope o ka weliweli weliweli a i ʻole kahi moeʻuhane e pili ana i nā trauma i hala, hilahila wau i ka hoʻomau ʻana i ka hopohopo a me ka hypervigilant i nā makahiki he nui i hala.

Ma loko o "Us," ʻaʻole ʻo Adelaide e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka ʻeha mai kona wā i hala. Akā ma kēia huakaʻi ʻohana, ukali ia ma muli ona - ma ke ʻano he kiʻikuhi, ma o nā hanana āpau a me kona makaʻu i ka hoʻi ʻana i kekahi kahakai ʻo Santa Cruz - a laila maoli, ʻoiai ua hoʻopili ʻia ʻo ia e ke aka o kona iho a hui ʻo ia me he keiki lā.

ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻopoina wale i ka mea i hana ʻia, a ʻo kēia. Hoʻopili pinepine kahi manawa traumatizing me ʻoe, no ka mea ma nā ala i hiki ʻole ai iā ʻoe ke kāohi.

ʻO ka manaʻo ia he mea hiki ke maopopo inā he paʻakikī kāu e neʻe nei, a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hilahila - ʻoiai inā ua kū kēlā manawa "i ka wā ma mua."

2. ʻAʻole ia he mea nui pehea ka liʻiliʻi o kāu ʻike - trauma ka trauma, a hiki ke hopena ʻia mai kahi hanana manawa hoʻokahi a pōkole paha.

Ma ka hopohopo he hewa kekahi o kā lākou kaikamahine liʻiliʻi, ua lawe nā mākua o Adelaide iā ia i kahi psychologist keiki nāna i hōʻike iā ia me PTSD.

ʻO nā mākua ʻelua, akā ʻo kāna makuakāne nō hoʻi, e hakakā nei e hoʻomaopopo i ka mea a kā lāua kaikamahine e hele nei - ʻo ia hoʻi pehea e hiki ai ke hōʻehaʻeha ʻo Adelaide ma hope o ka lilo ʻana i kā lākou mau maka no 15 mau minuke wale nō.

Ma hope, ua aʻo mākou aia he mau mea hou aʻe i ka moʻolelo o ko Adelaide wā noho kaʻawale.

Akā nō naʻe, e like me ka haʻi ʻana a ka psychologist i ka ʻohana, ka hele ʻana no kahi manawa pōkole ʻaʻole ia e hōʻole i ka hiki i ka PTSD a Adelaide.

No nā mākua o Adelaide, e noʻonoʻo pono ana paha i kā lākou kaikamahine ma ka ʻōlelo ʻana "ʻaʻole hiki ke maikaʻi ʻole" kōkua iā lākou e hele i loko o kēia manawa paʻakikī. Makemake lākou e hoʻoliʻiliʻi i ka pōʻino, ma mua o ke kū ʻana i ka ʻeha a me ka hewa o ka ʻike ʻana ʻo Adelaide ke ʻeha nei.

Ua lawa wau i ka manawa me nā poʻe i koe o ka hoʻomāinoino e ʻike ai e hana like ka poʻe me kā lākou trauma ponoʻī.

Kuhi mākou i ka pehea e hiki ai ke lilo i mea ʻoi aku ka hewa, a i ka hopena o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i loko o nā mea ʻoi aku ka hewa, a me ka hōʻino ʻana iā mākou iho no ka trauma e like me mākou.

Akā ua ʻōlelo ka poʻe loea trauma ʻaʻole ia he kumuhana Ehia ua ʻike ʻoe i kekahi mea e like me ka hoʻomāinoino. ʻOi aku e pili ana pehea ua pili iā ʻoe.

ʻO kahi laʻana, inā hoʻouka ʻia kekahi kanaka i ka wā ʻōpio e kekahi mea i hilinaʻi ʻia, a laila ʻaʻole ia he mea nui inā he manawa pōkole, hoʻokahi manawa hoʻouka kaua. He hewa nui ia o ka hilinaʻi hiki ke hoʻoluliluli i ke kuanaʻike o ke kanaka i ka honua - e like me kā Adelaide hālāwai pōkole me kāna aka i hoʻololi iā ia.

3. ʻO ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e nānā ʻole i koʻu ʻehaʻeha ʻo ia hoʻi ka nānā ʻole ʻana i kahi ʻāpana o aʻu iho

Ke hui mākou me Adelaide makua, ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia e ola i kona ola me ka ʻole o ka hōʻoia ʻana i nā mea i hana ʻia i kona wā kamaliʻi.

ʻLelo ʻo ia i kāna kāne ʻo Gabe ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e lawe i nā keiki i ke kahakai, akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i haʻi iā ia no ke aha. Ma hope, ma hope o kona ʻae ʻana e lawe iā lākou, ua nalo ke alo o kāna keiki ʻo Jason a me nā panic.

ʻO mākou, ka poʻe e hoʻolohe nei, ʻike ʻo ia e panic ʻo ia ma muli o kāna trauma o ka wā kamaliʻi, akā ua hala ʻo ia ma ke ʻano he manawa maʻamau o ka hopohopo o ka makuahine no ka palekana o kāna keiki.

ʻOiai ʻo ka hakakā ʻana i kahi mana ʻē aʻe o ia iho ua ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī ma mua o ka mea.

No ka hapanui o ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, manaʻoʻiʻo mākou i kā Adelaide mea i hoʻopili ʻia, ʻo Red, he "monster" huhū i kū mai ka honua i lalo e lawe i ko Adelaide ola ma luna e like me kāna.

Akā i ka hopena, ʻike mākou ʻo ia ka "hewa" Adelaide i nā manawa āpau. Kauo ʻo Red i Adelaide i lalo a hoʻololi i nā wahi me ia i ka wā kamaliʻi.

Haʻalele kēia iā mākou me ka ʻike paʻakikī o wai nā "monster" i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni.

Me ka ʻike kuʻuna o ka weliweli, e aʻa mākou i nā aka daimonio e hoʻouka i kā mākou mau protagonist hala ʻole.

Akā i "Us," ʻike ʻia ua poina ʻia nā The Tethered i nā clone e ola nei i nā mana i hoʻomāinoino ʻia o ko mākou mau protagonist. He poʻe hōʻeha lākou i ko lākou kūlana ponoʻī i lilo i "monstrous" wale nō no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou i laki i loaʻa nā manawa kūpono o kā lākou hoa.

Ma kekahi ʻano, ʻo Adelaide a me Red kekahi a like like.

He mea kupaianaha ia i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana o ka papa, ke komo ʻana, a me ka manawa kūpono i ko mākou kaiāulu. A iaʻu, ʻōlelo pū kekahi ia pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke hoʻowalewale i nā ʻāpana o aʻu iho i hoʻopili ʻia e ka ʻehaʻeha.

Kāhea wau i kekahi manawa iaʻu he "nāwaliwali" a i ʻole "pupule" no ka manaʻo ʻana i nā hopena o ka trauma, a maopopo pinepine wau e lilo wau i kanaka ʻoi aku ka ikaika, ʻoi aku ka holomua me ka ʻole o PTSD.

Ua hōʻike ʻo "Us" iaʻu i hiki i kahi ala keu keu o ke aloha i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kaʻu ʻehaʻeha. Hiki paha iā ia ke hopohopo, pili i ke aloha pili kino, akā ʻo wau mau nō.

ʻO ka manaʻo e pono wau e hoʻolei iā ia e ola e alakaʻi wale wau iaʻu e hakakā me aʻu iho.

4. ʻIke ʻoe i kāu trauma ponoʻī

ʻO ka manaʻo ʻo Adelaide wale nō ka mea ʻike maoli i ka mea i hana ʻia i kona wā kamaliʻi e hoʻomau i loko o ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni.

ʻAʻole ʻo ia i haʻi aku i kekahi i ka mea i hana ʻia i ka wā i hele aku ai ʻo ia mai kona mau mākua ma ke kahakai kahakai. A iā ia e hoʻāʻo loa e wehewehe iā ia i kāna kāne ʻo Gabe, ʻaʻole kāna pane ka mea āna e manaʻo ai.

"ʻAʻole ʻoe e manaʻoʻiʻo iaʻu," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia, a hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ia ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia e hoʻoponopono i nā mea āpau.

ʻO ka paio e manaʻo ʻia ua maʻa mau ia no nā mea i pakele i nā trauma he nui, ʻo ia hoʻi o mākou i hala i loko o ka hana hoʻomāinoino home a me ka hana kolohe.

Hiki ke luʻuluʻu ka hopena o kēlā paio, ʻoiai nā skeptics, nā mea aloha, a ʻo nā mea hōʻino hoʻi e hoʻāʻo iā mākou ʻo ka mea i hana ʻia ʻaʻole ia ka mea a mākou i manaʻo ai.

Lohe pinepine hoʻi mākou i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo kōkua ʻole e kuhi nei ʻaʻole mākou i ʻike i ka mea e pono ai no mākou, e like me ka manaʻo e "waiho wale" i kahi hoa kolohe ke paʻakikī ke hana.

He mea paʻakikī paha ke hoʻomanaʻo ʻana, e like me Adelaide, ʻike wau i ka mea ʻoi loa noʻu iho, keu hoʻi ma hope o ka hele ʻana i loko o ka hana ʻino a me ka hoʻopaʻi iā mākou iho. Akā ʻo wau wale nō ka mea i ola i kaʻu mau ʻike.

ʻO ia ka manaʻo o kaʻu kuanaʻike i ka mea i loaʻa iaʻu.

5. ʻO kou ʻike pili i kāu trauma ponoʻī e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka mana kūʻokoʻa a me ke kūloko i ka hoʻōla

E hana paha ka ʻohana Wilson ma ke ʻano he kime e ola, akā i ka hopena, hele ʻo Adelaide i lalo i ka honua e lanakila i kāna hoa (a me The Tethered's ringleader) ʻoiai ʻo ia wale nō.

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻike maopopo kēlā me kēia lālā o ka ʻohana i ka mea e lanakila ai i kā lākou hoa. Lawe ʻo Gabe iā ia ma luna o kāna mokulele mokulele e kīkiʻoki ana i nā manawa hewa āpau, ʻike ʻo Jason i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana o kāna doppelganger e ʻā i ka ʻohana i kahi hei, a kūʻē ʻo Zora i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a kona makuakāne a kuʻi i kāna hoa me ke kaʻa piha. wikiwiki.

Akā i loko o "Us," ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻola i ke ʻano o ka lanakila ʻana i nā "monster".

No ka hoʻōla, pono mākou e hoʻi i ka psychologist keiki a Adelaide, nāna i haʻi i kona mau mākua i ka hōʻike ʻana iā ia iho ma o ka hana noʻeau a me ka hulahula hiki ke kōkua iā ia e loaʻa hou kona leo.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, he hana kinipōpō ia i hana nui i ke kōkua ʻana iā Adelaide a me Red e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou iho a hoʻomaopopo i ka mea e ola ai.

ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kōkua akā heluhelu i kēia ma ke ʻano he hoʻomanaʻo hou e pili ana i ka intuition a me ke aloha ponoʻī ke hana i ka hoʻōla ʻana mai ka ʻehaʻeha.

ʻAʻole pono mākou āpau e ola wale nō, akā e ulu a ʻike i ka hauʻoli ma nā ala hoʻōla kūikawā.

ʻO ka weliweli maoli kā mākou hanaʻino o ka honua

Ua alo paha wau i kuʻu makaʻu i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni weliweli e ʻike iā "Us," akā ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo wiwo ʻole wau. Ma hope o ka ʻike ʻana i ke kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, liʻuliʻu paha ma mua o ka hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomaha maʻalahi.

Akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke huhū iā Jordan Peele no kēlā - ʻaʻole i ka wā ke ʻano like ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana i ka pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke alo i koʻu ʻehaʻeha a aʻo mai ia mea, ma mua o ka hōʻalo iā ia no ka makaʻu.

ʻAʻole wau e ʻōlelo i kaʻu mau ʻike traumatic e wehewehe iaʻu. Akā ʻo ke ala aʻu i neʻe ai i waena o ka trauma ua aʻo mai iaʻu i nā haʻawina waiwai e pili ana iaʻu iho, kaʻu mau kumuwaiwai o ka ikaika, a me koʻu kūpaʻa ʻana ma o nā kūlana paʻakikī loa.

Hiki ke hoʻokaʻawale ʻia ʻo PTSD ma ke ʻano he maʻi, akā ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo "hewa" kekahi mea iaʻu.

He aha ka hewa o ka hoʻomāinoino i hoʻokumu i kaʻu ʻeha. ʻO nā "monster" i loko o kaʻu moʻolelo nā pilikia ʻōnaehana a me nā moʻomeheu e ʻae ai i ka hana ʻino a pale i nā mea ola mai ka hoʻōla ʻana mai iā ia.

I "Us," ʻo ka monster maoli ka ʻeha a me ke kaulike ʻole i hana iā The Tethered ʻo wai lākou.

ʻO nā hopena e hiki mai ana ma hope, i kekahi manawa, weliweli a paʻakikī hoʻi ke alo - akā ke nānā aku mākou, ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻole ʻo mākou nō ia.

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