Nā hōʻailona 11 o ke kaumaha o ke kamaliʻi a pehea e kū ai

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• Nā hōʻailona e hōʻike paha i ke kaumaha
• 6 mahina i 2 makahiki
• 2 a 6 mau makahiki
• 6 a 12 mau makahiki
• Pehea e kuhikuhi ai i ke kaumaha o ke keiki
• Pehea e hana ai i ka lāʻau
• Pehea e hana ai me ke keiki kaumaha
• He aha ke kumu e kaumaha ai ke keiki

Hōʻike kekahi mau hōʻailona e hōʻike i ke kaumaha i ka wā kamaliʻi me ka makemake ʻole e pāʻani, ka pulu ʻana i ka moena, nā hoʻopiʻi pinepine no ka māluhiluhi, ʻeha poʻo a ʻeha hoʻi ka ʻōpū a me nā pilikia aʻo.

Hiki ke nānā ʻole a kuhihewa paha kēia mau ʻōuli no ka huhū a hilahila paha, akā inā mau kēia mau ʻōuli ma mua o 2 mau pule he ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hele i ke kauka lapaʻau e hōʻike i ke kūlana olakino psychological a nānā i ka pono e hoʻomaka i ka lāʻau.

I ka hapanui o nā hihia, hoʻopili ʻia ka mālama me nā wā psychotherapy a me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā lāʻau antidepressant, akā he mea nui ke kākoʻo o nā mākua a me nā kumu e kōkua i ke keiki mai ke kaumaha, no ka mea hiki i kēia maʻi ke keʻakeʻa i ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki.

Nā hōʻailona e hōʻike paha i ke kaumaha

Hoʻololi nā ʻōuli o ke kaumaha o ke kamaliʻi me ka makahiki o ke keiki a ʻaʻole maʻalahi kāna kuhi, e koi ana i kahi loiloi piha e ka pediatrician. Eia nō naʻe, kekahi mau hōʻailona e hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i nā mākua e:

1. He helehelena kaumaha, ke hōʻike nei i nā maka aniani a ʻaka ʻole hoʻi a me ke kino hāʻule a palupalu, me he mea lā ua luhi mau ʻo ia a ke nānā nei i ka ʻole;
2. Ka nele o ka makemake e pāʻani ʻaʻole wale a ʻaʻole me nā keiki ʻē aʻe;
3. Ka nui o ka hiamoe, ka luhi mau a me ka ikaika ʻole no ka mea ʻole;
4. ʻO Tantrums a me ka huhū no ke kumu kūpono ʻole, ke nānā aku e like me ke keiki peevish, i kahi ʻano maikaʻi ʻole a me ke ʻano maikaʻi ʻole;
5. Uē maʻalahi a hoʻonui hoʻi, ma muli o ka hoʻonui i ka ʻike;
6. Ka nele i ka makemake hiki iā ia ke alakaʻi i ka hōʻemi kaumaha, akā i kekahi mau manawa aia paha kahi makemake nui i nā mea momona;
7. Ka paʻakikī i ka hiamoe ʻana a me nā moeʻuhane he nui;
8. Ka makaʻu a me ka paʻakikī e hoʻokaʻawale makuahine a makua kāne paha;
9. Manaʻo o ka haʻahaʻakeu hoʻi e pili ana i nā hoaaloha ma ke keʻena mālama pēpē a kula paha;
10. Hana maikaʻi ʻole i ke kula, loaʻa paha nā memo ʻulaʻula a me ka nānā ʻole;
11. Urinary a me ka fecal incontinence, ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hiki ke komo ʻole i ka diaper.

ʻOiai he mau maʻamau kēia mau ʻōuli o ke kaumaha i nā keiki, hiki ke ʻike kikoʻī i ka makahiki o ke keiki.

6 mahina i 2 makahiki

ʻO nā ʻōuli nui o ke kaumaha i ka wā kamaliʻi, a hiki i ka piha ʻana o 2 mau makahiki, hōʻole i ka ʻai ʻana, kaupaona haʻahaʻa, ke kino liʻiliʻi a me ka hoʻolōʻihi ʻana i ka ʻōlelo a me nā maʻi hiamoe.

2 a 6 mau makahiki

I ka makahiki preschool, i hana ma waena o 2 a me 6 mau makahiki, nā keiki i ka hapanui o nā hihia i ka tantrums mau, ka nui o ka luhi, makemake liʻiliʻi e pāʻani, nele i ka ikaika, peeing i ka moena a me ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā feces me ka makemake ʻole.

Hoʻohui, paʻakikī paha lākou i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana mai ko lākou makuahine a makua paha, e hōʻalo nei i ke kamaʻilio ʻana a i ʻole ka noho ʻana me nā keiki ʻē aʻe a noho kaʻawale loa. Hiki paha i nā ʻūlū uē a me nā moemoeā nui a me ka nui o ka pilikia ke hiamoe.

6 a 12 mau makahiki

Ma nā makahiki kula, e kū ana ma waena o 6 a me 12 mau makahiki, ua hōʻike ke kaumaha iā ia iho ma o nā ʻōuli like i ʻōlelo ʻia ma mua, me ka paʻakikī o ke aʻo ʻana, ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa, nā pepa ʻulaʻula, ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana, ka nui a me ka ukiuki, ke aloha ʻole, ka hoʻomanawanui ʻole, ʻeha ke poʻo a me ka ʻōpū a hoʻololi i ka kaupaona.

Hoʻohui ʻia, loaʻa pinepine ka manaʻo haʻahaʻa, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o nā keiki ʻē aʻe a ʻōlelo mau i kahi huaʻōlelo e like me "ʻaʻohe makemake iaʻu" a "ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu pehea e hana ai i kekahi mea".

I ka ʻōpio, hiki i nā ʻōuli ke ʻokoʻa, no laila inā ʻoi aku ma mua o 12 mau makahiki o kāu keiki, e heluhelu e pili ana i nā ʻōuli o ke kaumaha ʻōpio.

Pehea e kuhikuhi ai i ke kaumaha o ke keiki

Hana pinepine ʻia ke kuhi ma o nā hoʻokolohua i hana ʻia e ke kauka a me ke kālailai ʻana i nā kiʻi, ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki i ke keiki i ka hapanui o nā hihia ke hōʻike he kaumaha a kaumaha ʻo ia, a no laila, pono e makaʻala nā mākua i nā hōʻailona āpau a haʻi i ke kauka e kōkua i ka kālailai

Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka hōʻoia ʻana o kēia maʻi, ʻoiai he hiki ke huikau me nā loli o ke ʻano e like me ka hilahila, huhū, ʻano maikaʻi ʻole a i ʻole ka huhū a, i kekahi mau hihia, noʻonoʻo paha nā mākua i nā hana maʻamau no ko lākou makahiki.

No laila, inā ʻike ʻia kahi loli nui i ka hana a ke keiki, e like me ka uē mau ʻana, lilo i mea huhū loa a i ʻole ka lilo ʻana o ke kaupaona no ke kumu ʻole, pono e hele kekahi i ke kauka lāʻau e nānā i ka hiki ke loaʻa i kahi loli psychological.

Pehea e hana ai i ka lāʻau

I mea e hōʻola ai i ke kaumaha o ke keiki, pono e hele pū me ka pediatrician, psychologist, psychiatrist, ʻohana ʻohana a me nā kumu a ʻo ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa e pono ai ma kahi o 6 mau mahina e pale i nā hoʻi hou.

ʻO ka maʻamau, a hiki i ka makahiki 9, hana ʻia ka lapaʻau me nā kau psychotherapy me kahi psychologist keiki. Eia nō naʻe, ma hope o kēlā makahiki a i ʻole ke hiki ʻole ke hoʻōla ʻia ka maʻi me psychotherapy wale nō, pono pono e lawe i nā antidepressants, e like me fluoxetine, sertraline a i ʻole paroxetine, no ka laʻana. Hoʻohui ʻia, hiki i ke kauka ke koi aku i nā lāʻau ʻē aʻe e like me ka stabilizers, ʻano antipsychotics a i ʻole stimulants.

ʻO ka maʻamau, hoʻomaka wale ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā antidepressants ma hope o 20 mau lā o ka lawe ʻana a inā ʻaʻole he ʻōuli ke keiki, pono ʻo ia e hoʻomau i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā lāʻau e hōʻalo i ke kaumaha mau.

I mea e kōkua ai i ke ola ʻana, pono nā mākua a me nā kumu e laulima i ka lapaʻau ʻana, paipai i ke keiki e pāʻani me nā keiki ʻē aʻe, hana haʻuki, komo i nā hana i waho a hoʻomaikaʻi mau i ke keiki.

Pehea e hana ai me ke keiki kaumaha

ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka noho ʻana me kahi keiki me ke kaumaha, akā pono nā mākua, ʻohana a me nā kumu e kōkua i ke keiki e lanakila i ka maʻi i mea e kākoʻo ai ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻo ia wale. No laila, pono i kekahi:

• E mahalo i nā manaʻo o ke keiki, e hōʻike ana ua maopopo iā lākou;
• Paipai i ke keiki e hoʻomōhala i nā hana ka mea makemake me ke kumu ʻole o ke kaomi;
• Hoʻomaikaʻi mau i ke keiki o nā mea liʻiliʻi a pau hana a hoʻoponopono ʻole i ke keiki i mua o nā keiki ʻē aʻe;
• E hāʻawi nui i ka nānā i ke keiki, e ʻōlelo nei aia lākou ma laila e kōkua iā ʻoe;
• Lawe i ke keiki e pāʻani me nā keiki ʻē aʻe e hoʻonui i ka launa pū;
• Mai hoʻokuʻu i ke keiki e pāʻani wale, a ʻaʻole noho ma ka lumi wale nō e nānā ana i ke kīwī a i ʻole ke pāʻani ʻana i nā pāʻani wikiō;
• Paipai i ka ʻai ʻana i kēlā me kēia 3 hola e noho hānai ai;
• E hoʻoluʻolu i ka lumi e kōkua i ke keiki e hiamoe a hiamoe maikaʻi.

E kōkua kēia mau hoʻolālā i ke keiki e loaʻa ka hilinaʻi, e pale ana i ke kaʻawale a hoʻomaikaʻi i ko lākou manaʻo ponoʻī, e kōkua ana i ke keiki e hōʻola i ke kaumaha.

He aha ke kumu e kaumaha ai ke keiki

I ka hapanui o nā hihia, kū ke kaumaha o ke keiki ma muli o nā hanana traumatic e like me nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa mau ma waena o nā lālā o ka ʻohana, ka hemo o nā mākua, ka loli o ke kula, ka ʻole o ka pilina ma waena o ke keiki a me nā mākua a i ʻole ko lākou make.

Hoʻohui, hoʻomāinoino, e like me ka pue wahine ʻana a i ʻole ka noho ʻana me kēlā me kēia me nā mākua ʻona a i ʻole nā ​​mea hōʻāʻau lāʻau, hiki ke kōkua pū i ke kaumaha.