Ma ke ʻano he mea aʻo olakino, ʻike wau i nā hana hoʻoweliweli ʻaʻole e pale aku i nā STI. Eia ka makemake

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• Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole wale ka manaʻo o ka poʻe e pili ana i nā STI e ʻehaʻeha ke kūleʻa mākou i ka makaʻu a me ka hilahila. Aia kekahi hopena o ka honua maoli.
• Ma kahi ʻāpana, no ka mea ʻo ka poʻe ʻōpio e puka i waho o nā polokalamu abstinence-wale nō i ka pouli e pili ana pehea e hōʻalo ai i nā STI.
• "Manaʻo ka poʻe he nui inā loaʻa iā lākou kahi STI, e hōʻino ia i nā mea āpau: pau kā lākou ola wahine, ʻaʻohe mea e makemake e launa pū me lākou, kaumaha lākou i kēia mea weliweli mau loa."

ʻO ka manawa kēia e kiʻi maoli ai: hilahila, hoʻopiʻi, a me ka weliweli ʻana ʻaʻole pono.

I ka makahiki i hala aku nei, e aʻo ana wau i ka papa moekolohe kanaka ma ke koleke i ka manawa i kuhikuhi aku ai kekahi o nā haumāna i kekahi me ka maʻi lele ʻia (STI) ma ke ʻano he "ʻino." Ua nīnau wau iā ia i ke ʻano o kāna mea i manaʻo ai, a ua heleleʻi ʻo ia ma mua o ka ʻōlelo ʻana, “ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu. Kuhi au ʻo ia wale nō kahi ʻano o ka hana a lākou e ʻike ai i loko o kaʻu papa olakino. ”

ʻO ka ʻike a kaʻu haumāna ʻaʻole ia he kaʻawale. Aia kekahi moʻolelo lōʻihi ma hope o ka manaʻo ʻaʻole untoward a STI paha lepo.

ʻO kahi laʻana, i ka makahiki 1940, ua hoʻolaha nā hoʻolaha hoʻolaha i nā koa e hōʻalo i nā wahine kūleʻa e nānā "maʻemaʻe" ʻoiai e "lawe ʻia me ka maʻi venereal".

A laila me ka puka ʻana o ka pilikia o ka maʻi SIDA i nā makahiki 1980, ua kapa ʻia nā kāne kāne, nā mea hana moekolohe, nā mea hoʻohana lāʻau, a me nā Haitian he "mau pūʻulu kūpilikiʻi nui," a ua hōʻike ʻia ua lawe ʻia ka maʻi i luna o lākou iho ma o ka lawena kūpono ʻole a me ka lawena.

I kēia lā, ʻike ka poʻe ʻōpio a puni ka ʻāina e pili ana i nā STI i nā papa aʻo-pale wale. ʻOiai ua emi like kēia mau papahana, hoʻi lākou i ka ikaika piha. Ua kapa ʻia kekahi poʻe ma ke ʻano he “polokalamu pale aku i ka pilikia moekolohe.”

Eia nō naʻe ʻo ka inoa, nā papa haʻawina e hiki ke hoʻokomo i nā hōʻike kiʻi STI grotesque, a hoʻohālikelike paha i nā kaikamahine hana kolohe i nā kākini i kahiko ʻia a kīʻaha paha i piha i ka kuha - {textend} nā mea āpau e hoʻokele i ka home i ka leka e pili wale ana ka wahi ʻoluʻolu i ka moekolohe ma kahi cisgender, heterosexual male male.

Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole wale ka manaʻo o ka poʻe e pili ana i nā STI e ʻehaʻeha ke kūleʻa mākou i ka makaʻu a me ka hilahila. Aia kekahi hopena o ka honua maoli.

Eia kekahi laʻana, ʻike mākou i kēlā ʻano hana e hoʻonui ai i ka stigma a ua ʻike ʻia ka stigma e hoʻowalewale ai i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana a me ka mālama ʻana, a ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka hana ʻana o ka hana palekana.

E like me Jenelle Marie Pierce, ka luna hoʻomalu o kahi hui i kapa ʻia The STD project i ʻōlelo, "ʻO ka mea paʻakikī e pili ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi STI ʻaʻole ia ʻo STI iho. No ka hapanui o ka poʻe, ʻano maikaʻi nā STI, a inā ʻaʻole hiki ke mālama ʻia, hiki ke mālama ʻia. "

"Akā ʻo nā manaʻo kuhihewa a me nā stigma e pili ana i nā STI hiki ke manaʻo he aneane hiki ʻole ke hoʻopio, no ka mea ke manaʻo nei ʻoe ke kaʻawale kū hoʻokahi," hoʻomau ʻo ia. "ʻAʻole maopopo iā ʻoe pehea a ma hea e nānā ai i empathy, hoʻohui, a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i nā kumuwaiwai."

Hoʻohui, ka hilinaʻi ʻana i nā hana makaʻu a me ka nānā ʻana i ka ʻōlelo "ʻaʻole wale i ka moekolohe" ʻaʻole i holo. Ke moe kolohe nei nā ʻōpio, a ke kiʻi nei lākou i nā STI.

Hōʻike ka CDC he nui nā STI ma hope o ka hāʻule ʻana i mau makahiki.

Ma kahi ʻāpana, no ka mea ʻo ka poʻe ʻōpio e puka i waho o nā polokalamu abstinence-wale nō i ka pouli e pili ana pehea e hōʻalo ai i nā STI.

Inā lākou e aʻo i kekahi mea e pili ana i ka condom i kēia mau papahana, maʻamau ia i nā helu o kā lākou holo pono ʻole. He mea kupanaha paha ia no ka hoʻohana ʻana o ka condom - {textend} i ʻike ai i ka piʻina nui o nā makahiki 1990 i hala a me nā makahiki 2000 - ua hāʻule pū ʻo {textend} ma waena a like pū?

Akā ʻo ka liʻiliʻi o ka uhi ʻia ʻana o ka condom i nā curricula abstinence-wale nō, ʻaʻole aʻo nā ʻōpio i kēia mau lumi papa e pili ana i nā pale ʻē aʻe e like me nā dam, a e pili ana i nā hoʻolālā e like me ka hoʻāʻo ʻana no STI, ka hopena o nā hana hōʻemi hōʻeha, a e pili ana i ka lāʻau pale HIV. .

ʻO ka nele o ka ʻike e pili ana i nā maʻi he mea kekahi aʻu i ʻike ai ma kahi ʻano o kahi polokalamu aʻo moekolohe i kapa ʻia okayso, kahi aʻu e hāʻawi manawaleʻa nei e pane i nā nīnau inoa ʻole o nā mea hoʻohana.

Ua ʻike wau i kekahi poʻe ma laila e hopohopo pono ʻole e pili ana i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka maʻi mai kahi ʻauʻau, ʻoiai e hoʻāʻo nui ana kekahi e hōʻoia iā lākou iho i ka mea he hōʻailona maopopo o kahi STI (e like me ka ʻeha me ka moekolohe, nā maʻi ʻino, a me ka hoʻokuʻu ʻia ʻana) ʻoiaʻiʻo nō. pili i kahi maʻi ʻaʻai.

Ua manaʻo ʻo Elise Schuster, ka hoa hoʻokumu o okayso, ua ʻike lākou i ke ʻano o nā mea kōkua i kēia hanana.

"Manaʻo ka poʻe he nui inā loaʻa iā lākou kahi STI, e hōʻino ia i nā mea āpau: pau kā lākou ola wahine, ʻaʻohe mea e makemake e launa pū me lākou, kaumaha lākou i kēia mea weliweli mau loa."

Hiki i kēlā mau manaʻoʻiʻo ke manaʻo i kekahi kanaka e noho nei i kahi kūlana hōʻole e pili ana i ko lākou kūlana, alo i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana, a i ʻole keʻa i ko lākou mau manamana lima a me nā pilikia e hele ma kahi o kahi STI ma mua o ke kamaʻilio kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu hoa.

He ʻoiaʻiʻo, paʻakikī kēlā mau kamaʻilio ʻoiaʻiʻo - {textend} akā ʻo lākou kekahi ʻāpana koʻikoʻi o ka puzzle pale. Minamina, he ʻāpana nūpepa kēlā i hiki ʻole iā mākou ke hoʻomākaukau i ka poʻe ʻōpio.

He koʻikoʻi loa ia e hoʻokuʻi aku iā mākou i ka impulse e mālama i nā STI ʻokoʻa ma mua o kā mākou maʻi i pili ʻole i ka moekolohe. ʻAʻole hoʻoikaika ia, e ʻōlelo i ka mea liʻiliʻi loa - {textend} a ʻaʻole holo wale ia.

Manaʻo paha nā mākua ʻo ka paʻamau ʻana e hoʻoweliweli i nā hana a hū paha ka ala kūpono a kūpono hoʻi e palekana ai ka poʻe ʻōpio.

Akā ka mea a kēlā poʻe ʻōpio e ʻōlelo mai nei iā mākou - {textend} a me ka piʻi ʻana o nā helu STI e hōʻike mai nei iā mākou - {textend} ʻo ia ʻano hana ʻaʻole holo pono.

He kumu aʻo ola ʻo Ellen Friedrichs, mea kākau, a makua. ʻO ia ka mea kākau o ka puke, Good Citizenship Citizenship: Pehea e hana ai i kahi (Safer) Safer World. Ua ʻike ʻia kāna kākau ʻana ma ka Wakinekona Post, ka HuffPost, a me Rewire News. E ʻike iā ia ma ka pāpili media @ellenkatef.