ʻO Patti Stanger: "Ka mea aʻu i aʻo ai e pili ana i ke aloha"

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Inā ʻike kekahi i ka mea e pono ai ke loaʻa i ka hoa kūpono, ʻo ia ka matchmaker extraordinaire ʻO Patti Stanger. ʻO ka hōʻike Bravo lanakila a hoʻopaʻapaʻa nui ʻia a Stanger Milionare Matchmaker, hoʻokumu ʻia i kāna ʻoihana hoʻokūkū maoli-ʻo ka Millionaire's Club a i kēia manawa i ka wā ʻelima, hiki iā ia ke aʻo iā mākou i kekahi mau haʻawina e pili ana i ke ola a me ke aloha. ʻO ka nānā ʻana iā Stanger e hana pū me kāna mau miliona miliona keiki maikaʻi ʻole e like me ka nānā ʻana i kahi mīkini ʻaila maikaʻi. ʻO kāna ʻano wiwo ʻole, a me ka lapuwale e ʻokiʻoki i ka shtick ke lawelawe ʻo ia iā ia e lawe i ka mea e loaʻa ai ke aloha i kēia lā. Akā ma lalo o kona hilinaʻi, ʻokiʻoki i ka ʻimi alualu aia kahi puʻuwai lokomaikaʻi, ʻuhane, aloha i hilinaʻi nui i ka mana a me ke kuko o ke aloha maoli.

eHarmony (eH): He aha kāu e manaʻo ai e pono ai i kahi hoa e holomua ai ka pilina?

ʻO Patti Stanger (PS): ʻO nā C ʻekolu: kamaʻilio, kemika a me ka pili. Me ka ʻole o ia mea, pau ka pilina.

eH: He aha kā mākou e ʻae ai e pili ana iā mākou iho ma mua o ke komo ʻana i kahi pilina?

PS: ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻohe mea kūpono, hiki i ke kuko ke hala pinepine a me nā ʻae ʻole kālā e haki i ka pilina.

eH: He aha nā hewa maʻamau a mākou e hoʻāʻo nei e ʻike i ke aloha i ko mākou ola?

PS: Hele mākou i nā lā me ka manaʻo ʻo kēlā kāne kā mākou kāne a wahine paha i ka wā e hiki mai ana, me ka ʻole o ka ʻike iā lākou, ʻoiai mākou e noho nei i kahi moemoeā a me ka illusion o ke aloha.

eH: He mea nui paha ke aloha a aloha ʻia paha?

PS: ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi ke noho me ka ʻole o kekahi, no laila ʻelua. Inā hāʻawi ʻoe i ke aloha a loaʻa ʻole, ʻaʻole ʻoe i ka pilina kūpono. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe a hāʻawi ʻole ma mua o kou lawe ʻana i ka mea ʻē aʻe.

eH: Manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoe i ke aloha i ka ʻike mua?

PS: ʻAe, ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei au i nā ola i hala i ka ʻike mua ʻana, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻike paha ʻoe iā lākou mai ke ola ʻē aʻe a loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi manawa déjà vu kahi āu e ʻike ai iā lākou.

eH: I ka manawa hea ʻoe e ʻōlelo ai ʻo ka manawa mua i loaʻa ai ke aloha iā ʻoe?

PS: I kēia mau lā. ʻO 51 wau.

eH: He aha kāu makemake i kou ola i kēia manawa?

PS: ʻOluʻolu wau i koʻu ʻili ponoʻī, he ʻoiaʻiʻo wau e hoʻopono, kokoke i kahi hewa, a hiki iaʻu ke kāhea i nā kī i koʻu ola me ka hilinaʻi ʻole i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Hoʻohui, ʻike wau i ka sexiest loa aʻu i ʻike ai.

eH: He aha ke ʻano o ke aloha iā ʻoe i kēia manawa me 10 mau makahiki i hala?

PS: He pilina hohonu ia i kēia manawa ma mua o ka wā ma mua, no ka mea ʻike wau ʻae mākou i kekahi i kekahi no nā hewa āpau a ʻike wau e mau ana kēia.

eH: He aha ka mea paʻakikī e pili ana i ke aloha?

PS: Ke loaʻa nei.

eH: He aha nā ʻōlelo aʻo āu e hāʻawi ai i ka poʻe e hakakā nei me ke aloha ponoʻī-a me ka poʻe e ʻimi nei i ke aloha?

PS: E ʻike he hoʻokahi wale nō ia, a ʻo ka papa kuhikuhi huna e aloha iā ʻoe iho, e hoʻomanawanui a ʻike, me ke kānalua ʻole, ke hele nei i ou lā.

eH: Aia ʻoe i ka ʻoihana kūikawā a me ke kūlana e kōkua i ka poʻe ʻike i kekahi i kekahi a lana ka manaʻo e ʻike i ke aloha. He aha nā mea māʻona a hōʻeha hoʻi i ka naʻau i kāu hana?

PS: ʻO ka mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e pili ana i ka matchmaker ke loaʻa nei iā ʻoe nā hōʻaiʻē ma ka lani, no ka mea, ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei wau e hana ana wau no ke Akua. ʻO ka mea ʻoi loa ka hiki i nā mea hoʻokūkū ke hoʻoponopono pinepine i kēlā me kēia, a hiki i ke kuahu, akā ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa ke aloha iā lākou iho, no laila ʻawaʻawa ia.

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