Ke ʻapo nei kēia mau wahine i ko lākou kiʻekiʻe i ka neʻe "ʻOi aku i koʻu kiʻekiʻe"

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ʻO Amy Rosenthal lāua ʻo Alli Black nā kaikuahine ʻelua i hoʻomaopopo i nā hōʻailona āpau e hiki ke hele mai me ka wahine "kiʻekiʻe". ʻO Alli he 5 kapuaʻi 10 iniha a ua ʻaʻa mau e ʻimi i nā lole keu, maikaʻi. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke kūʻai aku i nā hale kūʻai loea kiʻekiʻe no ka mea ʻo ia mau koho pū kekahi lōʻihi

ʻO Amy, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, aia kāna mau hakakā ponoʻī. "Hilahila wale wau i 6 kapuaʻi 4 ʻīniha, no laila paʻakikī ka kūʻai ʻana iaʻu." Kinohi. "ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua piha koʻu ola holoʻokoʻa i nā hoʻomanaʻo ʻehaʻeha nāna wau i noʻonoʻo nui e pili ana i koʻu kiʻekiʻe, e like me ka manawa i ke kula waena ke ʻike wau he pono wau e komo i nā khakis kāne i ka ʻaha mele a kaʻu hui no ka mea ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe e kūpono . Ua hoʻoheheʻe ʻia au i loko o ka lumi ʻaʻahu a hoʻomanaʻo i ka ʻoluʻolu ʻole o koʻu ʻili ponoʻī."

ʻO kā lākou mau ʻike pilikino, me ka ʻike ʻole o ka hana ʻana o ka honua i nā wahine kiʻekiʻe o nā kūlike like ʻole, alakaʻi i nā kaikuahine e hoʻokumu i kā lākou hale kūʻai ponoʻī i kapa ʻia ʻo Amalli Talli ma 2014. "Manaʻo nui mākou ʻaʻole i wehewehe wale ʻia ka" kiʻekiʻe " e ke kiʻekiʻe a hele mai i nā ʻano like ʻole, nā nui, a me nā kūlike, "wahi a Alli. "No laila, ua makemake mākou e hana like e hoʻopaʻa i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā nui kiʻekiʻe i loaʻa i nā hale kūʻai kūʻai i kēlā me kēia lā a me nā mea i lawe ʻia i ka papaʻaina e nā hale kūʻai kūikawā kiʻekiʻe." (Pili: No ke aha e ʻike pinepine ʻole ai ka hoʻolaha kino ʻana i ke kino?

I loko o nā makahiki ʻehā i hala aku nei, ua kūleʻa ka ʻoihana Alli a me Amy, akā ʻoiai ua hoʻāʻo lākou e hui hou aku i nā wahine kiʻekiʻe i ke ao o nā lole, manaʻo lākou i ka makemake e hana i nā mea hou aʻe ma hope o ka hana hoʻohilahila kino. "I ka makahiki i hala aku nei, oiai e hana ana ma New York, ua hele mai kekahi kanaka ia Amy me a'u ma kahi halawai oihana a olelo mai, 'Heaha kou like me ehiku kapuai ke kiekie?' nui ka leo no nā mea āpau e hoʻolohe me ka ʻakaʻaka pū ʻana mai iā mākou, "wahi a Alli. "He mea ia i hana ai i mau manawa, e hōʻoluʻolu a hilahila loa iā mākou."

No laila, ua hoʻoholo nā kaikuahine e kākau i kahi moʻomanaʻo moʻomanaʻo e pili ana i ka ʻike ma ka pūnaewele ʻo Amalli Talli e kaʻana like me ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka hilinaʻi i ko lākou kiʻekiʻe, hiki i nā manawa like ke hoʻopau i kou manaʻo ponoʻī.

"Nui nā stereotypes e pili ana i nā wahine kiʻekiʻe," wahi a Amy. "No ka poʻe hoʻomaka, manaʻo ʻia he hiʻohiʻona kāne loa ia. Hoʻāla ʻia nā keikikāne e nui a ikaika hoʻi, ʻoiai e manaʻo ʻia he nani a liʻiliʻi nā kaikamahine. ʻO ia kekahi o nā kumu e ʻike ai nā wahine kiʻekiʻe iā lākou iho ke kiʻi, nānā, a me nā ʻōlelo. ʻO ke kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe e like me ka wahine i manaʻo pinepine ʻia he ʻano ʻino. "

ʻO ka mea kupaianaha, ua hoʻomaka nā wahine mai nā wahi a puni o ka honua e hele i nā kaikuahine, e kaʻana like ana i kā lākou pili i kā lākou ʻike a lana ka manaʻo e kamaʻilio hou lākou e pili ana i kēia mau pilikia a nā wahine lōʻihi e kū nei. Pēlā i hānau ʻia ai ka neʻe ʻoi aku ma mua o kaʻu kiʻekiʻe.

"Ma muli o nā manaʻo maikaʻi loa i loaʻa iā mākou, ua manaʻo mākou he mea kēia e pono ai ke lilo i mea nona iho," wahi a Alli. "He nui nā wahine lōʻihi e hakakā e manaʻo i ka wahine a manaʻo mākou ʻo ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kahi neʻe i kōkua iā lākou e kākoʻo ʻia hiki ke kōkua iā lākou e lanakila i kēlā manaʻo."

ʻOiai ʻo ka ihu nunui, ka momona o ka ʻūlima, a me ka ʻili kuʻikuʻi i ʻike ʻia he ʻāpana o ke aloha ponoʻī, kaomi maikaʻi ʻana o ke kino, ua ʻike ʻo Alli lāua ʻo Amy ʻaʻole i loaʻa kahi kūpono kūpono i ke kiʻekiʻe. "He nui nā moʻomanaʻo ma waho e pili ana i ke ʻano kiʻekiʻe," wahi a Amy. "Akā ʻaʻole maoli he mea ma waho e pili ana i ka hiki i ke kiʻekiʻe ke lilo i kumu no ka noʻonoʻo ponoʻī no nā wahine a pehea e manaʻo ʻole ai kekahi poʻe ma mua o ka ʻōlelo ʻana e pili ana iā ia a kuhikuhi paha iā ia, kahi mea e hōʻino ai i ke ʻano o ke kino."

Ua aniani ʻo Alli i kēia mau manaʻo. "ʻO ka hapa nui o nā mea aʻu i heluhelu ai e pili ana i ka maikaʻi o ke kino e pili ana i ke kaumaha - he mea nui loa ia a he mea nui ia e pili ana i nā wahine - akā ʻo kou kiʻekiʻe kahi mea hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi," wahi āna. "He mea ʻole kāu e hana ai, e lōʻihi kou lōʻihi. No laila no nā wahine i he ʻoluʻolu ʻole me ke kiʻekiʻe, makemake mākou e hana i kahi e hōʻike iā lākou ʻaʻole lākou hoʻokahi a ʻoi aku ka nui o nā mea iā lākou ma mua o ko lākou kiʻekiʻe. "(Pili: ʻAʻole wau i kino a maikaʻi ʻole paha, ʻo wau wale nō. ʻo wau)

Me ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi kaiāulu kākoʻo no nā wahine kiʻekiʻe, makemake pū ʻo Alli lāua ʻo Amy e aʻo i ka poʻe e pili ana pehea, e like me ke kaupaona, ʻaʻole kiʻekiʻe kahi mea āu e ʻōlelo ai. "He mea nui ia e aʻo ai mākou e noʻonoʻo me kā mākou ʻōlelo," wahi a Amy. "ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ke ʻano o ka hopohopo ʻole o kekahi. Ma ke kāhea ʻana iā lākou a huki i ka nānā ʻana iā lākou, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolilo iā lākou i ʻoi aku ka noʻonoʻo iā lākou iho ma mua o kā lākou hana."

I ka hopena o ka lā, ʻoi aku ma mua o kaʻu kiʻekiʻe e pili ana i ke kōkua ʻana i nā wahine e ʻike he nui lākou ma mua o ka mea a lākou e ʻike ai i ke aniani. "ʻOiai makemake mākou e kōkua i nā wahine e ʻapo i ko lākou kiʻekiʻe a manaʻo hilinaʻi, makemake pū mākou e kōkua iā lākou e ʻike he nui kā lākou mea e hāʻawi ai," wahi a Alli. "He nui nā ʻano kino e hoʻolilo iā mākou i ko mākou ʻano, akā ʻo nā mākau āu e hāʻawi ai i ka honua e wehewehe maoli iā ʻoe-a ʻo ia ka mea āu e hoʻohana ai e ana i kou waiwai."

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