Hoʻoipoipo ʻole: ʻO kahi pilikia o ka natura vs Nurture?

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Inā mākou e manaʻoʻiʻo i nā stats weliweli āpau ma laila, hana ʻo cheating ... he nui. ʻO ka helu kikoʻī o nā ipo aloha ʻole paʻakikī e paʻakikī i lalo (ʻo wai e makemake e ʻae i ka hana haumia?), Akā nā kuhi o nā pilina i hoʻopili ʻia e ka hoʻopunipuni maʻamau ʻana ma kahi o 50 pākēneka. ʻAe...

Akā ma mua o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa no ka hapanui o mākou e hoʻopunipuni, ʻo ka nīnau maoli no ke aha mai hana mākou ia. Wahi a nā noiʻi ʻelua i hoʻokuʻu ʻia i kēia makahiki, ʻelua paha kā mākou biology a me kā mākou hānai ʻana e hoʻopiʻi no ko mākou infidelity. (BTW, eia kāu koʻo ma: kahi puʻuwai puʻuwai.)

Kūlohelohe

Wahi a ka noiʻi i hōʻike ʻia e ASAP Science, ʻo ka likelike o ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana o kāu hoa e kā lākou DNA. Hoʻopili ka infidelity i nā hanana lolo ʻelua. ʻO ka mea mua e pili ana i kāu mau pepelu dopamine. ʻO Dopamine ka hōmona maikaʻi-maikaʻi i hoʻokuʻu ʻia ke hana ʻoe i kahi mea leʻaleʻa maoli, e like me ka pā ʻana i kāu papa yoga punahele, e kuʻi i kahi pāʻina ma hope o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana a-manaʻo ʻoe he loaʻa kahi puna.

Ua loaʻa i nā kānaka noiʻi ka hoʻololi ʻana i ka receptor dopamine e hana maʻalahi ai i kekahi poʻe i ka hana makaʻu, e like me ka hoʻopunipuni. ʻO ka poʻe i loaʻa ka loiloi allele lōʻihi i hōʻike i ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana i ka 50 pākēneka o ka manawa, ʻoiai he 22 pākēneka wale nō o ka poʻe me ka loli alele pōkole i hoʻopaʻa ʻia a hiki i ka infidelity. ʻO ke kumu, inā ʻoi aku kou maʻalahi i kēia mau neurotransmitters leʻaleʻa, ʻoi aku paha ʻoe e ʻimi i ka leʻaleʻa ma o nā ʻano pilikia. E komo i ka pili ma waho.

ʻO ke kumu olaola ʻē aʻe ma hope o ka maka auwana o kāu hoa ʻo ia nā pae o ka vasopressin-ka hōmona nāna e kuhikuhi i kā mākou pae o ka hilinaʻi, ka minamina, a me ka hiki iā mākou ke hana i nā pilina pilikanaka olakino. Wahi a nā kānaka noiʻi, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pae maʻa mau o ka vasopressin, ʻo ia ka hāʻule o kēlā mau mea ʻekolu: ʻAʻole ʻoe e hilinaʻi i kāu hoa, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke aloha i kāu hoa, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kēlā pilikanaka olakino. paʻa i kūkulu ʻia ai nā pilina paʻa pōhaku. ʻO ka haʻahaʻa o kāu mau pae vasopressin, ʻo ka infidelity maʻalahi ka lilo.

Hānai

Ua ʻike nā kānaka noiʻi ma Texas Tech University ma waho o kā kā mākou biology, ʻo ka nui o nā impetus ma hope o ka moekolohe e pili pū me ko mākou mau mākua. I kā lākou noi ʻana ma kahi o 300 mau ʻōpio ʻōpio, ua ʻike lākou i ka poʻe i loaʻa nā mākua i hoʻopunipuni he ʻelua mau manawa e hoʻopunipuni iā ​​lākou iho.

Wahi a ka mea kākau haʻawina ʻo Dana Weiser, Ph.D., pili ia i ke ʻano o ka ʻike mua ʻana e pili ana i nā pilina e ka mea a mākou i kamaʻāina loa ai. "Hiki i nā mākua e hoʻopunipuni ke kamaʻilio i kā lākou mau keiki e ʻae ʻia ka hoʻomaloka a ʻaʻole paha he manaʻo maoli ka monogamy," wahi āna. "ʻO kā mākou mau manaʻoʻiʻo a me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia a laila hana i ka wehewehe ʻana i kā mākou ʻano maoli."

ʻO nā mea hou aʻe?

No laila ʻo wai ka mea wānana ʻoi aku ka maka o ka auwana: Ko kā mākou lolo kemika a i ʻole kēlā mau hana mua? Wahi a Weiser, he combo maoli ia. "No ka hapa nui o nā moekolohe, nā genetics a me nā hopena o ke kaiapuni e hana pū e kōkua i ka wehewehe ʻana i kā mākou hana," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "ʻAʻole ia he mea o kekahi a i ʻole akā pehea ka hopena o ka hana ʻana o kēia mau pūʻali." (A ʻoiai paha he kumuhana hush-hush, ʻike mākou i ke ʻano o ka Cheating.)

Me nā ikaika ʻelua e hana kūʻē ana iā mākou i ka wā e loaʻa ai kahi hoa pono, ʻo ia hoʻi ua wili loa mākou? ʻAʻole loa! "ʻO ka pilina ikaika kekahi ala maikaʻi loa e hōʻemi ai i ka likelika o ka hoʻopunipuni," wahi a Weiser. "Ke loaʻa nei i nā kahawai kamaʻilio ākea, ke hana nei i ka manawa maikaʻi, a me ka ʻae ʻana i nā kamaʻilio ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i ka hōʻoluʻolu moekolohe hiki ke kōkua i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i kā mākou pilina paʻa a ʻae iā mākou e kūkākūkā i nā huhū a mākou i kā mākou pilina."

ʻO ka laina lalo: ʻO ke kemika lolo a me ka ʻike mua ʻana i nā ʻano hana wale nō nā mea wānana o ka hoʻomaloka. Inā maʻalahi a maʻalahi ʻole mākou, hiki iā mākou ke hana i kā mākou hoʻoholo ponoʻī. E hoʻomau i ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i ka hoʻopunipuni a hoʻoholo i ka hana a me ka mea ʻole no ʻoe a me kāu hoa.

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