Ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi ʻāpana C a lawe ʻia iaʻu kahi manawa lōʻihi e haʻalele i ka huhū e pili ana iā ia

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• Ua lilo kaʻu kōkua mua i mea ʻē aʻe
• Ma kahi lōʻihi wau
• ʻO ka mea nui ke ʻike nei i kēlā me kēia mea kou mau manaʻo, kuleana ʻoe iā lākou
• No ke kala ʻana iaʻu iho, pono wau e kiʻi hou i kekahi mau manaʻo o ka kaohi

ʻAʻole wau i mākaukau no ka hiki ke loaʻa kahi ʻāpana C. Nui nā mea aʻu i makemake ai i ʻike ma mua o koʻu alo ʻana i kekahi.

ʻO ka minuke a kaʻu kauka i haʻi mai ai iaʻu he ʻāpana cesarean, hoʻomaka wau e uē.

Manaʻo wau iaʻu iho he koa wiwo ʻole, akā i ka haʻi ʻia ʻana mai iaʻu he hemahema nui koʻu e hānau ai kaʻu keiki, ʻaʻole wau koa - makaʻu wau.

He mau nīnau paha kaʻu, akā ʻo ka huaʻōlelo hoʻokahi wale nō i hiki iaʻu ke ʻokiʻoki ʻo ia ʻo "ʻOiaʻiʻo?"

ʻOiai e hana ana i kahi hoʻokolohua pelvic, ua ʻōlelo mai kaʻu kauka ʻaʻole wau i hoʻomāhuahua, a ma hope o 5 mau hola o ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi, manaʻo ʻo ia ʻo wau nō. He pelvis kuʻiki koʻu, ua wehewehe ʻo ia, a he mea paʻakikī ia i ka hana. Ua kono ʻo ia i kaʻu kāne e haha ​​i loko oʻu e ʻike i ka haiki - kahi mea aʻu i manaʻo ʻole ai a ʻoluʻolu ʻole.

Ua haʻiʻo ia iaʻu no ka mea he 36 mau pule wale nō wau, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i makemake e koʻikoʻi i kaʻu pēpē me kahi hana paʻakikī. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hana ʻana i ka ʻāpana C ma mua o ka wikiwiki no ka mea ma laila e liʻiliʻi ana ka manawa o ke kuʻi ʻana i kahi meaola.

ʻAʻole ʻo ia e hōʻike i kekahi o kēia i ke kūkā kamaʻilio. Ua hoʻoholo ʻo ia i koʻu manaʻo a manaʻo wau ʻaʻohe aʻu koho ʻē aʻe e ʻae.

Malia paha wau ma kahi maikaʻi loa e nīnau ai i nā nīnau inā ʻaʻole wau i luhi nui.

Hele au i ka haukapila no 2 mau lā. I ka wā o ka ultrasound checkup, ua ʻike lākou i ka haʻahaʻa o kaʻu pae wai amniotic no laila ua hoʻouna pololei lākou iaʻu i ka haukapila. I ka manawa ma laila, ua hoʻokuʻi lākou iaʻu i kahi monitor fetal, hāʻawi iaʻu i nā wai IV, antibiotic, a me nā steroid i mea e wikiwiki ai i ka ulu ʻana o kaʻu pēpē pēpē, a laila hoʻopaʻapaʻa inā e hoʻohuli paha.

ʻAʻole nō he 48 mau hola ma hope mai, ua hoʻomaka kaʻu mau ʻelike. Ma hope o 6 mau hola ma hope o kēlā, ke kaʻa nei wau i loko o ka lumi lumi a ʻoki ʻia kaʻu keiki mai oʻu aku i kuʻu uē ʻana. He 10 mau minuke ma mua o koʻu ʻike ʻana iā ia a 20 mau minuke a ʻoi paha ma mua o ka paʻa ʻana a kahu ʻana iā ia.

Mahalo nui wau i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē preterm olakino pono ʻole i ka manawa NICU. A i ka mua, ua hōʻoluʻolu wau ua hānau ʻia ʻo ia ma o C-section no ka mea ua haʻi mai kaʻu kauka iaʻu ua kāʻei ʻia kāna kaula ʻāʻī i kona ʻāʻī - ʻo ia hoʻi, a hiki i koʻu ʻike ʻana i nā kaula a puni ka ʻāʻī, a i ʻole nā ​​kaula nuchal, he mea maʻamau. .

Hānau ʻia nā pēpē piha me lākou.

Ua lilo kaʻu kōkua mua i mea ʻē aʻe

I loko o nā pule i hala aʻe, ʻoiai wau e hoʻomaka lohi e hoʻōla kino, ua hoʻomaka wau e ʻike i kahi ʻano ou i manaʻo ʻole ai: ka huhū.

Ua huhū wau i kaʻu OB-GYN, ua huhū wau i ka haukapila, ua huhū wau ʻaʻole wau i nīnau hou aku i nā nīnau, a, ʻo ka mea nui loa, ua huhū wau no ka ʻaihue ʻia o ka manawa kūpono e hoʻopakele i kaʻu keiki "kūlohelohe. ”

Ua nele wau i ka manawa kūpono e hoʻopaʻa iā ia i kēia manawa, o kēlā pili koke ʻana o ka ʻili i ka ʻili, a me ka hānau ʻana aʻu i manaʻo mau ai.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki i nā cesareans ke mālama i ke ola - akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hakakā me ka manaʻo ʻaʻole pono paha kaʻu.

Wahi a ka CDC, ma kahi o nā hāʻawi i ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa he hāʻawi cesarean, akā he nui nā loea i manaʻo he kiʻekiʻe loa kēia pākēneka.

ʻO ka, no ka laʻana, kuhi i ka helu C-ʻāpana kūpono e kokoke ana i ka 10 a i ka 15 pākēneka.

ʻAʻole wau he kauka lapaʻau, no laila he mea hiki pono loa ia iaʻu - akā inā ʻo ia, ua hana kaʻu mau kauka ʻaʻole hana maikaʻi i ka wehewehe ʻana iaʻu i kēlā.

ʻO ka hopena, ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo he mana koʻu i koʻu kino ponoʻī i kēlā lā. Ua manaʻo wau i ka pīhoihoi no ka hiki ʻole ke waiho i ka hānau ma hope oʻu, keu hoʻi i ka wā e laki ai wau e ola ana a loaʻa kahi keiki pēpē olakino.

Ma kahi lōʻihi wau

Nui ka hapanui o mākou e ʻike i ka laulā o nā manaʻo ma hope o ka cesarean, keu hoʻi inā ʻaʻole i hoʻolālā ʻia, makemake ʻole ʻia, a pono ʻole paha.

"ʻAneʻane like wau i kahi kūlana like," i ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo Justen Alexander, pelekikena hope a me ka lālā o ka International Cesarean Awciousness Network (ICAN), i ka wā aʻu i haʻi aku ai i kaʻu moʻolelo.

"ʻAʻohe mea, manaʻo wau, pale ia mai kēia mea no ka mea ua komo ʻoe i kēia mau hanana a ke nānā nei ʻoe i kahi kauka lapaʻau… a ke haʻi nei lākou iā ʻoe ʻo kēia kā mākou e hana ai" a ʻoluʻolu ʻoe. o ka nele i kēlā manawa, "i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "ʻAʻole ia a ma hope e ʻike ʻoe 'kali, he aha ka mea i hana?'"

ʻO ka mea nui ke ʻike nei i kēlā me kēia mea kou mau manaʻo, kuleana ʻoe iā lākou

"ʻO ke ola ka lalo," wahi a Alexander. "Makemake mākou e ola ka poʻe, ʻae, akā makemake pū mākou e ola lākou - a ke ulu nei ka ulu me ke olakino manaʻo. No laila inā ʻoe i ola, inā ua hōʻeha ʻia ʻoe i ka naʻau, ʻaʻole ia kahi ʻike hānau maikaʻi a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e omo wale iā ia a neʻe i mua. ”

"He mea maikaʻi ke huhū e pili ana i kēia a maikaʻi ke manaʻo ʻaʻole pololei kēia," hoʻomau ʻo ia. "He maikaʻi ke hele i ka therapy a maikaʻi kona ʻimi ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a ka poʻe makemake e kōkua iā ʻoe. He maikaʻi nō hoʻi e haʻi aku i ka poʻe e pani nei iā ʻoe, 'ʻAʻole au makemake e kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe i kēia manawa.' "

He mea nui nō hoʻi e hoʻomaopopo i ka mea i hana ʻia iā ʻoe ʻaʻole nā ​​ou ka hewa.

Ua kala wau iaʻu iho no ka ʻike ʻole e pili ana i nā cesareans ma mua o ka manawa a no ka ʻike ʻole he mau ʻano like ʻole o ka hana ʻana iā lākou.

ʻO kahi laʻana, ʻaʻole wau i ʻike e hoʻohana ana kekahi mau kauka i ka drapes maopopo e ʻae koke nā mākua i kā lākou pēpē, a i ʻole e ʻae kekahi iā ʻoe e hana i ka ʻili i ka ʻili i loko o ka lumi hana. ʻAʻole wau i ʻike e pili ana i kēia mau mea no laila ʻaʻole wau i ʻike e noi no lākou. Maliʻa paha inā loaʻa iaʻu, inā ʻaʻole wau i ʻaihue loa.

Ua kala pū wau iaʻu iho no ka ʻike ʻole e nīnau hou i nā nīnau ma mua o ka hiki ʻana i ka haukapila.

ʻAʻole wau i ʻike i ka helu cesarean o kaʻu kauka a ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i ke ʻano o nā kulekele a koʻu haukapila. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kēia mau mea i hoʻopili paha i koʻu hiki ke loaʻa kahi cesarean.

No ke kala ʻana iaʻu iho, pono wau e kiʻi hou i kekahi mau manaʻo o ka kaohi

No laila, ua hoʻomaka wau e hōʻiliʻili i ka ʻike inā hoʻoholo wau e loaʻa i kahi pēpē hou. ʻIke wau i kēia manawa aia kekahi mau kumuwaiwai, e like me nā nīnau e nīnau ai i kahi kauka hou, hiki iaʻu ke hoʻoiho, a aia kekahi mau pūʻulu kākoʻo hiki iaʻu ke hele inā pono wau e kamaʻilio.

No Alexander, he aha ka mea i kōkua i ke kiʻi ʻana i kāna palapala olakino. He ala ia e loiloi ai i ka mea a kāna kauka a me nā kahu hānai i kākau ai, me ka ʻike ʻole e ʻike paha ia.

"[I ka manawa mua], ua huhū loa wau," wehewehe ʻo Alexander, "akā, ua hoʻoikaika ia iaʻu e hana i kaʻu mea e makemake ai no kaʻu hānau hou." Hāpai ʻo ia me kāna kolu i kēlā manawa, a ma hope o ka heluhelu ʻana i nā moʻolelo, hāʻawi ʻia iā ia ka hilinaʻi e loaʻa i kahi kauka hou e ʻae iā ia e hoʻāʻo i ka hānau ʻōpū ma hope o ka cesarean (VBAC), kahi mea a Alexander i makemake nui ai.

ʻO wau, ua koho wau e kākau i kaʻu moʻolelo hānau ma kahi. Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei i nā kikoʻī o kēlā lā - a me koʻu noho lōʻihi hebedoma ma ka haukapila - i kōkua iaʻu e hana i kaʻu papa kuhikuhi ponoʻī a hiki i ka manawa, e like me ka hiki iaʻu, me ka mea i loaʻa iaʻu.

ʻAʻole ia i hoʻololi i ka wā i hala, akā ua kōkua ia iaʻu e hana i kaʻu wehewehe ponoʻī nona - a ua kōkua ia iaʻu e hoʻokuʻu i kekahi o kēlā huhū.

E wahaheʻe paha wau inā wau i ʻōlelo ua pau wau i koʻu huhū āpau, akā kōkua ia i ka ʻike ʻaʻole wau wale.

A i kēlā me kēia lā e hana hou wau i kahi noiʻi hou, ʻike wau e hoʻihoʻi ana wau i kekahi o ia kaohi i lawe ʻia mai iaʻu i kēlā lā.

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