Pehea e hiki ai i ke aloha ke kōkua iā ʻoe e lilo i mea pāʻani ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi

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ʻIke mākou āpau i nā stereotypes o ke aloha, kahi e manaʻo ai nā mea āpau e hele pono ana, ke ʻike nei ʻoe i nā hōkū a hauʻoli wale ʻoe. Hoʻololi ʻia kēlā mau manaʻo maikaʻi o ke aloha e kōkua ma ke kahua pāʻani pū kekahi. ʻO kahi haʻawina hou i hōʻike ʻia ma ka hui ʻAmelika Psychological Association i ʻike ʻia ʻo ka noho ʻana i kahi pilina aloha e kōkua i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ka haʻuki no nā kāne a me nā wahine i nā ʻano haʻuki.

ʻOiai ʻo ke aloha ʻaʻole e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ka lanakila ma ke kahua pôpeku a i ʻole ka pā basketball, ʻōlelo ka poʻe noiʻi ʻo ka noho ʻana i ka pilina paʻa a me ke aloha e lawe mai i nā mea pāʻani i hoʻonui i ka ikehu a, no ka mea, loaʻa i nā mea pāʻani kekahi e kaʻana like i nā hana o ka home i ka wā i loko o ka pilina. ʻae pū i nā mea pāʻani e nānā pono i kā lākou haʻuki (ma kahi o ka hana ʻana i nā ipu a me nā tona o ka holoi ʻana iā lākou iho).

Ma kahi kokoke i 400 mau mea pāʻani i aʻo ʻia, 55 pakeneka i ʻōlelo ʻo ke aloha i hoʻoikaika i kā lākou hana haʻuki, a ʻoi aku ka nui o nā kāne ma mua o nā wahine e ʻōlelo ua kōkua ke aloha i kā lākou hana. Hoʻohui ʻia, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā mea haʻuki pākahi (e like me ka mokomoko a me ka hau hau) i ke aloha ma mua o ka poʻe haʻuki i pāʻani i nā haʻuki kime e like me ka basketball a me ka hockey.

Mea hoihoi loa! ʻIke ke aloha a me nā haʻuki kahi hui lanakila.

ʻO Jennipher Walters ka Luna Nui a me ka mea nāna i hoʻokumu i nā pūnaewele ola olakino FitBottomedGirls.com a me FitBottomedMamas.com. ʻO kahi mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa pilikino pilikino, ka nohona a me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa hoʻokele kaumaha a me kahi kumu aʻo hoʻoikaika pūʻulu, ʻo ia nō kekahi MA i ka nūpepa olakino a kākau pinepine e pili ana i nā mea āpau a me ke olakino no nā paʻi pūnaewele like ʻole.

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