Pehea nā poʻe e hana ai i nā manaʻo mua?

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• He aha nā mea i ka manaʻo mua?
• Pehea ka wikiwiki o ka manaʻo mua?
• Pololei paha nā manaʻo mua?
• ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

Hōʻike Overview

Nui ka nui o ka holo ʻana ma ka pehea o kou hōʻike mua ʻana iā ʻoe iho i kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe. Hōʻike ka noiʻi e loaʻa i nā kāne uʻi a lōʻihi ke kiʻekiʻe i nā uku ma mua o nā kāne uʻi a maikaʻi ʻole.

Ua ʻike ʻia kekahi mau noiʻi ʻē aʻe e hoihoi ʻia ka poʻe hoihoi i ke kino, ʻoluʻolu, hele i waho, a me ke kaiāulu ma mua o ka poʻe ʻoluʻolu ʻole.

ʻO nā malihini kekahi mea hoihoi i ke kino, e like me ka mea noiʻi e aʻo ana i ka ʻepekema o ka launa pū ʻana a me ka hoʻokalakupua. Ua ʻike pū kekahi nā kānaka ʻepekema i ka ʻike ʻana o nā mākua me nā "helehelena pēpē" a ʻoi aku ka nui o ka naif, ʻano, mehana, a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ma mua o ka poʻe me ka ʻoi a ʻoi aku paha o ko lākou alo.

No laila, me he mea lā e pili ana i nā manaʻo mua, uku nui nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi. Akā ke nānā maikaʻi nei i nā mea āpau?

He aha nā mea i ka manaʻo mua?

I hoʻokahi noiʻi, ua ʻike nā ʻepekema i ka mana o nā manaʻo mua ma ka hapa nui e ka kamaʻilio ʻole a me ka ʻōlelo a ke kino. Ua ʻike lākou i nā lole, nā lauoho, nā mea pono, a me nā hiʻohiʻona ʻē aʻe o ko waho hiʻohiʻona o ke kanaka i kahi ʻano liʻiliʻi o ka mana i nā manaʻo mua.

Eia nō naʻe, ʻae nā ʻepekema he paʻakikī e ana i ka ʻepekema a loiloi paha i nā manaʻo mua, no ka mea, ʻo nā mea i komo i ka makemake kaiāulu he kumuhana nui.

Kākoʻo ka ʻimi noiʻi ʻepekema ʻē aʻe i ka manaʻo ʻo nā kuʻi maka a me ka ʻōlelo o ke kino ka hopena ikaika loa i nā manaʻo mua. Ua hoʻoholo lākou i ka poʻe e hōʻike ikaika i ko lākou mau naʻau - me ko lākou helehelena a me ko lākou kino kino, no ka laʻana, ʻoi aku ka makemake o ka poʻe ma mua o ka hapa liʻiliʻi o ka poʻe.

No laila, ʻike ʻia he maʻalahi wale - me ka hōʻike ʻana i nā manaʻo maikaʻi e like me ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli - hiki ke hana i kahi manaʻo mua maikaʻi. Hiki ke hōʻike ʻia i kēia mau manaʻo ma o ke kino hoʻonohonoho, ke kū ʻana, ka maka ʻana o ka maka, ke kani o ka leo, ke kūlana o ka waha, a me ke ʻano o nā kuʻemaka.

Pehea ka wikiwiki o ka manaʻo mua?

Wahi a nā kānaka ʻepekema, hoʻomaka kahi kanaka e hana i nā manaʻo o ke kanaka ma hope o ka ʻike ʻana i ko lākou alo no ka mea ma mua o ka hapaʻumi o ka sekona. I kēlā manawa, hoʻoholo mākou inā nani a hilinaʻi paha ia kanaka, hilinaʻi paha, mākaukau, extroverted, a koʻikoʻi paha.

No laila, wikiwiki loa nā manaʻo mua. Wahi a kekahi poʻe ʻepekema hiki wawe lākou a pololei loa. Aia kekahi mau stereotypes a nā kānaka e launa ai me kekahi ʻano o ke kino, a hiki i kēia mau stereotypes ke hoʻololi i ka manaʻo mua.

ʻO kahi laʻana: ʻO nā mea kālai'āina i ʻoi aku ka nani a me ka hoʻopili ʻana e manaʻo ʻia he mākaukau loa. ʻO nā koa i ʻike ʻia he koʻikoʻi a paʻakikī hoʻi e unuhi ʻia ʻoi aku ka nui o ka mana a hoʻokau ʻia i kahi kūlana kiʻekiʻe ma muli o kā lākou mau hiʻohiʻona.

Ke hiki mai i nā helehelena a me nā hiʻohiʻona mua, he mea nui e ʻike he paʻakikī loa nā helehelena. Ua nānā nui ke kanaka i nā loli liʻiliʻi a i ʻole nā ​​ʻano ʻokoʻa i ka helehelena. ʻO kahi hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi a me ka poepoe, ʻoi aku nā hiʻohiʻona wahine e hōʻike i kahi helehelena e hilinaʻi nui ʻia. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, kahi hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi ʻole a ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī, ke kāne kāne e hoʻohali i ka helehelena i ka hilinaʻi ʻole.

Pololei paha nā manaʻo mua?

Pili nā ʻano helehelena ʻē aʻe me nā hiʻona ʻē aʻe, e like me ka noho aliʻi ʻana, ka hoʻopukapuka ʻana, ka mākaukau, a me ka hoʻoweliweli. A hoʻopili kēia mau hiʻohiʻona i ka manawa e hoʻomaka ai mākou e mālama i kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe.

Pehea ka hopena o ka manaʻo i ke ola o ke kanaka e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka loiloi ʻia o ko lākou helehelena. ʻO kahi laʻana, makemake paha kahi kāne koa e ʻike ʻia ʻoi aku ke koʻikoʻi ʻoiai ʻaʻole makemake kahi kumu kula kamaliʻi.

Ma muli o ka ʻepekema, ʻaʻole ia he mea kupanaha i ka nui o ke kaumaha o ke kanaka i nā alo. Ke pēpē mākou, ʻo nā mea a mākou e nānā nui ai ke alo o ka poʻe a puni mākou. ʻO kēia mau manawa a pau ke nānā aku i nā helehelena e alakaʻi i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ka ʻike alo a me nā mākau ʻike maka-ʻoni.

ʻO kēia mau mākau i mea e kōkua iā mākou e heluhelu i ka manaʻo o haʻi, kamaʻilio me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, a hoʻohui i kā mākou hana me nā mokuʻāina ʻona - ʻaʻole e hoʻoholo i ka ʻano o kekahi kanaka.

No laila, nā manaʻo mua e pili ana i nā helehelena a me nā hiʻohiʻona ke kīnā maoli, no ka mea pili lākou i nā bias a mākou e hoʻomohala ai i ka hala o ka manawa. ʻO kahi laʻana, "ʻano" paha ke kanaka, akā hiki iā lākou ke ʻoluʻolu loa. ʻAʻole hiki i kahi manaʻo mua ke ʻike i ka nani ma hope o ka nānā maʻamau.

ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

ʻOiai ʻo ka ʻepekema e ʻōlelo nei e hoʻoholo i ka hoʻoholo ma muli o nā manaʻo a haʻi a me kahi ʻano pololei ʻole e hoʻomaopopo ai i ke kanaka, ʻaʻole e hala koke nā manaʻo mua i kēlā me kēia manawa. A ke hana nei i kahi manaʻo maikaʻi mua i hiki ke loaʻa nā pōmaikaʻi nui: ʻoi aku ka nui o nā hoaaloha, hoa maikaʻi, uku ʻoi aku, a me nā pluss ʻē aʻe.

Ma muli o ka ʻepekema o nā manaʻo mua, eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i ka hoʻokau ʻana i kou wāwae maikaʻi i mua.

• mālama i kou mau helehelena i palupalu a mehana
• ʻakaʻaka a hoʻomaha i kou mau mākala helehelena
• mai pīpī i kou mau kuʻemaka e hōʻalo i ka huhū
• e hoʻonanea a kū i luna i kou kino
• mālama i ka maka maka ke hui a kamaʻilio paha i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe
• komo i nā lole maʻemaʻe, kūpono, a kūpono kūpono
• e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kou lauoho, nā lima, a me kou kino a holoi maikaʻi
• e kamailio me ka leo moakaka, mehana

Ke hui ʻana i kahi kanaka hou, he mea nui kēlā mau kekona a me nā minuke mua. No laila he mea kūpono e noʻonoʻo e pili ana pehea ʻoe e hana ai i kahi manaʻo mua maikaʻi maikaʻi.