No ke aha wau i trauma ai ma hope o ka mākaʻikaʻi ʻana i nā kula kamaliʻi

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• Ke hele nei ke kula kamaliʻi i kāu keiki?
• ʻO ke kiʻekiʻe o ke kula kamaliʻi
• ʻO ke kūnana kula kamaliʻi kahiko
• He aha nā mea nui i ke koho ʻana i kahi kula kamaliʻi?
• ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

ʻIke wau i ka "traumatized" paha he mea hoʻokalakupua iki. Akā ʻo ka ʻimi no nā kula kamaliʻi no kā mākou keiki he ʻano moeʻuhane wale nō ia.

Inā like ʻoe me aʻu, hoʻomaka ʻoe i ka huli preschool ma ka lele ʻana ma ka pūnaewele. I kēia manawa wale nō, aʻoaʻo wau e kūʻē i kēlā.

Ke weliweli loa nei ka pūnaewele i kāna ʻōlelo kuhi hewa ʻole e koho a haki paha ke koho ʻana i ke kula kamaliʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana kāu keiki. ʻAʻohe puʻe!

Ke hele nei ke kula kamaliʻi i kāu keiki?

I nā makahiki ʻeono i hala, ʻaʻohe o kā mākou mau hoaaloha mua kahi keiki ʻōpio. ʻAʻole a mākou manaʻo e hoʻokele iā mākou i ke ala kūpono. Me he mea lā he wahi maikaʻi e hoʻomaka ai, no ka mea, ua hāʻawi ka pūnaewele iaʻu i kahi papa inoa papa inoa mile-lōʻihi o pehea e loaʻa ai ke kula kamaliʻi "ʻoi loa".

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ʻO ka mākaukau me kēia ʻike a me ka manaʻo pohihihi ʻole ʻo ke kiko holoʻokoʻa o ke kula kamaliʻi nā manawa kūpono e hāʻawi ai i kā mākou keiki kāne e noho manawa me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kona kiʻekiʻe ponoʻī, ua hoʻonohonoho mākou i ʻekolu huakaʻi ma ʻekolu mau kula kamaliʻi ʻokoʻa.

ʻElua mau mea ma kahi o kaʻu kāne ma ke kula haʻahaʻa ma ke kaona like. ʻO ka mea hou he mea hou.

ʻO ke kiʻekiʻe o ke kula kamaliʻi

ʻO ke kula kamaliʻi mua, ka mea hou loa, he mea kupaianaha ia mai ka lua a mākou i huki ai.

Nani ke keʻena, me nā wahi pāʻani nui a paʻa i ka pā o nā lumi papa āpau. Aia kekahi pono pāʻani hou a me nā hoʻolālā māla o nā keiki, a me kahi wahi ulu lush.

Ma loko, kahi lumi leʻaleʻa hauʻoli i ʻae i ke komo ʻana i ka coded-only i loko, kahi o nā mural pena lima i alakaʻi ʻia i ke ala i nā lumi papa like ʻole.

Ua hoʻolako ʻia kēlā me kēia me nā cubbies momona a me nā pākaukau keiki, nā noho, a me nā ipu wai. ʻO nā lepa pīʻāpā leʻaleʻa a me nā pelaha a me nā ʻōniʻoniʻo e hoʻomoe ana i nā paia. He hemolele loa ia.

A hāʻule wau no ia, ka lou, ke aho, a me ka poho.

ʻO ka luna hoʻokele nā ​​lima āpau, nā minoʻaka, a me nā helu kamaʻilio.

Ua puka kāna mau kumu kula kekelē laepua ma ka naʻauao a me ka pilikino pilikino. ʻO lākou ke kuleana no ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kā lākou mau papa hana papahana. E noho mau mākou i loko o ka loop, mahalo i nā leka uila o kēlā me kēia lā e kaʻana nei i nā mea nui o kā mākou keiki.

No ʻelua lā hapa i kēlā me kēia pule, uku mākou i $ 315 i kēlā me kēia mahina. He ʻaihue kēia o kahi ʻaelike i hāʻawi ʻia no ka mea he kula hou loa ia.

Ua mākaukau wau e ʻūlū i ka uku hoʻopaʻa inoa makahiki $ 150 i kēlā manawa a ma laila, akā ua kū ka maka o ka ʻaoʻao o kaʻu kāne iaʻu. Ua haʻi mākou i ka luna hoʻokele e hoʻopili aku mākou a laila hoʻomau i ka lua o kā mākou huakaʻi.

ʻO ke kūnana kula kamaliʻi kahiko

ʻO ke kula kamaliʻi aʻe a mākou i mākaʻikaʻi ai ma mua o ka ʻelemakule. Ua aloha mai kahi wahine iā mākou i loko o ka lumi moe, a ua hele iā mākou i loko o ka lumi papa a kā mākou keiki kāne, a ua haʻalele iā mākou e kū ana ma ka puka. Ua noho kahi wahine ʻōpio i ka lole moe lole ma ka papahele, me nā keiki i nā ʻano lole like ʻole e hoʻopuehu ʻia a puni ka lumi.

Ua ʻike ke kumu iā mākou e kau ana ma ka puka a kū i luna. ʻOiai ʻo ia e wehewehe nei e pili ana i ka lā pajama, nānā au a puni i ka hoʻonohonoho: nā noho liʻiliʻi a me nā pākaukau, nā cubbies, a me kahi hae pīʻāpā i ka paia. ʻO ia ka manaʻo like like me ke kula fancier, ʻo shabbier wale nō.

Ua holo wikiwiki ke kumu i loko o kāna papa hana maʻamau, e hāʻawi ana iā mākou i kahi pepa me ke kumuhana o kēlā me kēia pule. Hiki iaʻu ke nānā ʻole i ka lā Pajama, akā ʻaʻole hiki i nā typos ke noke nei i kēia pepa i hiki iaʻu. Mahalo mākou iā ia a hightailed ia mai laila.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, e mālama mākou ma kahi o $ 65 o ka mahina no nā manawa he ʻelua pule o ka pule ma aneʻi, akā ʻaʻole kēia ʻoki hoʻohiehie e ʻokiʻoki iā ia. Ua neʻe mākou.

ʻO ke kolu o ke kula kahi hana hou o ka lua me nā leo haipule a me ke kumu kūʻai kiʻekiʻe. ʻO kēlā ka mea i hoʻopaʻa i kā mākou hoʻoholo. ʻO ke kula kamaliʻi helu ʻekahi ʻo ia.

He aha nā mea nui i ke koho ʻana i kahi kula kamaliʻi?

Ua hele kā mākou kaikamahine i ke kula like i 2 mau makahiki ma hope. Me ka ʻoluʻolu, ua hoʻolōʻihi ka luna i ka helu kumukūʻai like. ʻO ka wikiwiki i mua o 2 mau makahiki hou, a ua piʻi ka uku i $ 525 i ka mahina no ʻelua lā hapa i ka pule.

Ua mākaʻikaʻi pū mākou me kā mākou keikikāne, e kuhikuhi ana i nā cubbies i loaʻa i kona kaikuaʻana a me kona kaikuahine. Akā, ʻaʻole ia i aneane e like me ka mahalo e like me mākou. A me ka manawa ʻole, ʻaʻole mākou kekahi. Aia nō ke alakaʻi ma laila, akā ua kiʻekiʻe ka piʻi o nā limahana mai ko mākou hoʻomaka ʻana ma laila i nā makahiki i hala.

A e like me kēlā, kū nā mea i koho nani ʻia a me nā kekelē laeoʻo i nā mea. Ma kahi o kā mākou mau makakoho maoli i crystallized, a ʻaʻole pili lākou i nā mea hana ʻōlelo.

I ka hāʻule, makemake mākou i kā mākou keiki kāne e hele i kahi kula kamaliʻi me kahi papahana e uhi ana i nā kumu. Hāʻawi iā ia i nā manawa he nui e pāʻani a launa pū me nā hoa i kahi wahi hoʻokipa, no ke kumu kūʻai kūpono.

Ua polled mākou i nā hoaaloha i hele ma laila, hana i kēlā, a loaʻa i kahi kula kamaliʻi ma lalo o $ 300 i ka mahina e kiko ana i kēlā mau pahu.

Ma mua o nā mea āpau, ua hauʻoli kā mākou keiki kāne me ka huakaʻi, no laila hoʻi mākou i ka nānā hou ʻana a laila kau inoa iā ia ma ia wahi ʻoiai ʻo ia e mākaʻikaʻi ana i kāna lumi papa e hiki mai ana.

ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

ʻAʻole hiki i kaʻu keiki ke kanu i nā tōmato i kāna māla preschool ponoʻī, akā hiki iā mākou ke hana i kēlā mea ma ka home.

A ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole au e manaʻo e hala ana ʻo ia i kekahi mea. E mākaukau like ʻo ia no ka kindergarten e like me kona kaikuaʻana a me kona kaikuahine, a ʻo ia ka mea nui.