Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Demi Lovato ʻo ka hopena o kā lākou pili ʻana ka mea maikaʻi loa i loaʻa iā lākou

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No nā poʻe he nui, ʻo ke kāhea ʻana i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana he mea pōʻino. No Demi Lovato, akā naʻe, ʻo ka haʻihaʻi ʻana me kahi hoa ola hiki ke ʻike ʻia he mea ʻoi aku ka hewa.

I ka wā ʻO ka 19 Ua hōʻike ʻo 2021 Virtual Summit ma ka Pōʻahā, ua wehe ka mea mele he 28 mau makahiki e pili ana i kā lākou kaʻawale mai ka mea hoʻokani ʻo Max Ehrich a wehewehe i ka "hoʻoheheʻe ʻana" o kā lāua pilina ma ke ʻano "mea maikaʻi loa i hiki iā [lākou]." (Pili: Hoʻohanohano ʻo Demi Lovato i ka 'hilinaʻi o ke kino' i ke kiʻi ʻana i kā lākou moʻoina mua.

"Ua hiki iaʻu ke kū ma koʻu mau wāwae ponoʻī me ka pono ʻole o kekahi e hōʻoiaʻiʻo mai iaʻu a i ʻole e hōʻoluʻolu mai iaʻu. ," i wehewehe ai ka mea pena i koho ʻia ʻo Grammy.

Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Lovato ua hoʻomaka lākou e ʻike he nonbinary i Malaki 2020, ma kahi o ka manawa like a lākou i "hui ai me kekahi" (Ehrich) a hoʻomaka i kahi pilina heterosexual. "ʻO ia ka mea i alakaʻi iaʻu i ka nānā ʻole ʻana i nā ʻāpana āpau iaʻu iho ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo he digestible no kaʻu hoa i kēlā manawa," kaʻana like lākou. I ka wā i haʻalele ai ka kāne i ka mahina ʻo Kepakemapa 2020 (ma hope o ʻehiku mau mahina o ka launa pū ʻana a me kahi hui lehulehu), ua ʻoluʻolu ʻo Lovato e hoʻomaka e "hoʻomaopopo i ke kanaka a lākou e hana nei i kēia lā."

Ma loko o ka nīnauele, ua hōʻike pū ka hōkū ʻo Disney ma mua ua hoʻomaka lākou e nīnau i ko lākou ʻano kāne i ka wā "ma ka papa ʻehā a ʻelima paha."

"I koʻu wā hoʻomaha, ua ʻoluʻolu wau e pili me nā keikikāne, a i ʻole kuhi wau i kēlā manawa, e hoʻomākeʻaka ai, nā mea a nā papa ʻelima e hana ai. Ua maopopo iaʻu ʻaʻole wau he kaikamahine," hoʻomanaʻo lākou. "ʻAʻole a hiki i koʻu hele ʻana i ke kula waena ua hoʻololi loa au i koʻu kiʻi a me koʻu hōʻailona ʻana i mea e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻia ai au no nā poʻe ma ke kula waena no ka mea ua loaʻa iaʻu ka manaʻo ʻaʻole lākou e launa like me lākou. kula haʻahaʻa. A ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua pololei wau!"

ʻO ka wikiwiki i mua o Mei 2021 a ua puka ʻo Lovato ma ke ʻano he lehulehu ʻole ma kā lākou podcast, 4D me Demi Lovato. A i ka nīnau ʻana i ke ʻano o ka nonbinary iā lākou i ka hālāwai ninaninau o ka Pōʻalima, ua pane ʻo Lovato, "Ua ʻoi aku wau ma mua o ka binary o ke kāne a me ka wahine." (E pili ana: Ua wehe ʻo Demi Lovato e pili ana i ka hele hewa ʻana mai ka hoʻololi ʻana i kā lākou mau huaʻōlelo)

Ua hoʻomau lākou, "He mea paʻakikī wale nō kēia i nā mea āpau aʻu i ʻike ai, nā mea āpau aʻu i ulu ai e manaʻo pono e nānā a hana a hana i kekahi ʻano, a ke ʻoki nei i nā mea āpau ma ka puka aniani a like me, 'ʻo wai kēia , lawe ʻoe a haʻalele iā ia. ʻAʻole wau e pono iā ʻoe e lawe akā mahalo wau inā ʻaʻole ʻoe. '"

Akā pololei kēia i kēia manawa. Ua wehewehe ʻo Lovato i ko lākou manaʻo e mau ana kā lākou huakaʻi kāne "a mau loa," a "aia paha kahi manawa e ʻike ai lākou he trans." "A i ʻole aia paha he manawa o ka manawa ke ʻelemakule wau e ʻike wau he wahine, ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i ke ʻano o kēlā, akā iaʻu, i kēia manawa i kēia manawa, pēlā wau e ʻike ai," wahi a lākou. (Pili: LGBTQ + Glossary o ke kāne a me nā ʻano wehewehe moekolohe e ʻike ai nā mea āpau)

A i ka hopena o ka lā, ʻo ka mea nui maoli ka manaʻo o Lovato i ka hilinaʻi a me ka ʻoluʻolu i ko lākou ʻili - ʻaʻohe mea pili i kā lākou lepili.

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