Hōʻike ʻo Cassey Ho i ka hakakā ʻana me ka maopopo ʻole i ka male a me ka makuahine

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Ua lilo ʻo Cassey Ho o Blogilates i puke wehe me kāna mau legiona o nā mea hahai. Inā e kikoʻī ana i kāna mau kiʻi o ke kino i kahi ala aniani ʻole a i ʻole ke hele pololei e pili ana i kāna ʻano insecurities ʻē aʻe, ua kaʻanalike ke ʻano o ka Instagram sensation i nā ʻano like ʻole o kona ola ma ka pāpili kaiaulu, a ke kūkākūkā nei no ka manawa mua pehea kona manaʻo e pili ana i kekahi ʻano o kona wā e hiki mai ana.

I loko o kahi wikiō i kau ʻia i kāna ʻaoʻao Instagram ma ka Pōʻakahi, e leʻaleʻa ana ʻo Ho i kahi moemoeā nani ma Bora Bora me kāna kāne ʻo Sam Livits, ʻekolu mau makahiki ma hope o ke nakinaki ʻana i nā kaula. ʻOiai ke hiʻohiʻona hiamoe a ka Champagne a me ka lele ʻana i loko o ke kai aniani, ke hoʻohana nei ʻo Ho i ke wikiō o ka huakaʻi meli ma ke ʻano he kumu e ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i kahi kumuhana nui; i loko o ka caption, hele ʻo ia e hōʻike i kāna mau kānalua e pili ana i ka male a me ka makuahine, a me ka "weliweli" ʻo ia e kaʻana like me kāna mau mea pā. (Pili: Māhele ʻo Cassie Ho no ke aha ʻo ia e like me kahi hemahema i kekahi manawa).

"ʻO ka Honeymoons ka mea e hoʻomaka ai ke kaʻina o ke ola aʻe ma waena o nā kāne. A pono wau e hoʻopono iā ʻoe. Makaʻu wau," hoʻomaka ʻo Ho. "I ka wā i hele ai māua ʻo @samlivits i kā mākou lā mua loa i ke kulanui, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia 'E hana wau i makuakāne maikaʻi loa.' 😅 ʻAʻole wau i mākaukau e kamaʻilio i kēlā mau mea ma waena o nā huaʻōlelo waena a me nā pepa noiʻi. Eia kekahi, ʻae ʻole wau i ka ʻae ʻia ʻana e koʻu makuahine! "

ʻOiai "ʻoi aku ke koʻikoʻi o kāna pilina me Livits," kākau ʻo Ho ua "hāpai ʻo ia i ka manaʻo o ka male," akā "ʻaʻole ʻo ia i mākaukau" i kēlā manawa. I ka manawa a Livits i noi ai ʻeiwa mau makahiki ma hope mai, ua ʻōlelo ʻo Ho, "ʻOiai ua manaʻo wau ʻaʻole wau mākaukau, ʻaʻole ia he mea nui no ka mea ua wehe ia i kahi pae o ke aloha hou i loko o kā mākou pilina aʻu i ʻike ʻole ai ma mua."

I kēia manawa ʻekolu makahiki o kā lāua male ʻana, ua ʻike ʻo Ho i ka Pōʻakahi pehea "ʻo ka mea a Sam i ʻōlelo mai ai iaʻu ma ke kulanui he 13 mau makahiki i hala aku nei he kumuhana hiki ʻole ke pale ʻia."

"I kēlā me kēia lā ma hope o ka male ʻana e nīnau mai ʻo Sam iaʻu" no laila i ka manawa hea kā mākou hānau pēpē? " a ke ʻōlelo nei au he mau makahiki ʻelua.' ʻO ka moʻolelo like. ʻAʻole wau i mākaukau no ka mea ʻaʻole kaʻu ʻoihana kahi aʻu e makemake ai, "i wehewehe ʻo Ho. "Ua makaʻu loa wau e haʻi aku iā ʻoe i kēia no ka mea ʻo ia paha kekahi o nā mea maʻalahi loa aʻu i wehe ai. ʻO ia paha kekahi o nā mea pili ʻole pū kekahi."

Ua hoʻomau ʻo ia, "ʻAʻole like me nā wahine a pau aʻu e ulu aʻe a puni, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pēpē kahi mea a lākou i ʻike wale ai makemake lākou. ʻO wau? ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu ma muli o ke ʻano o koʻu hānai ʻia ʻana (super akademik + career focus) a i ʻole inā aia kekahi mea liʻiliʻi e pili ana i ka 'wahine' e pili ana iaʻu, akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻike i kēlā ʻiʻo kūloko no ka noho makuahine. " (Pili: 6 Hāʻawi nā Wahine i kā lākou Juggle makuahine a me kā lākou ʻano hana.

Ua akāka ʻo Ho ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia i nā keiki a makemake ʻole paha e lilo i makuahine, akā manaʻo ʻo ia he "nele i kēlā 'kāhea kūlohelohe' no ka makuahine e like me ka nui o nā wahine. Aia i hea kaʻu?"

"He mea ʻē ia no ka mea ua hoʻoikaika mau wau i ka makemake," i kākau ai ʻo ia. "Hahai wau i koʻu puʻuwai a hōʻike mau ia iaʻu ke ala kūpono. Akā me kēia, ʻaʻole i kamaʻilio kuʻu puʻuwai a ʻaʻole wau makemake e mihi i ka nalo ʻana i kēia ʻike ola."

I ka pane ʻana i ka hoʻouna ʻana i ka ʻōlelo ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua haʻi hou ʻo Ho Kinohi Ua manaʻo ʻo ia e ʻike nā wahine ʻē aʻe i kāna pou "ʻaʻole pili," akā ua hauʻoli ʻo ia.

"Manaʻo maoli wau e ʻike ana nā wahine ʻē aʻe i kaʻu pou me ka pili ʻole, a mākaukau wau no ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana. Akā pūʻiwa wau ... no ka mea he nui ka poʻe i manaʻo like like. Lawe loa wau i hope. ʻAʻohe IDEA ʻē aʻe Ua manaʻo nā wahine i kēia "nele o ka huki" i ka makuahine! Ua manaʻo mau wau ʻo wau ka mea ʻē aʻe no ka mea ʻo nā wahine āpau aʻu i ulu ai a puni ʻike lākou i ka makemake i nā keiki mai ka wā ʻōpio. ʻO wau ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe - ʻoi loa wau i ka ʻoihana aʻo. a me ka makemake i ka oihana. Malia paha he mea pili ia i ko'u hanai ana," wahi a Ho.

"I ka poʻe e hakakā nei me ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻana o nā keiki holoʻokoʻa - paipai wau iā ʻoe e kamaʻilio me nā ʻano wahine āpau a hoʻolohe i nā ʻike like ʻole a me nā manaʻo like ʻole a nā makuahine a me nā makuahine ʻole. Ke hoʻolohe nei au a ke aʻo nei au. hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo a manaʻoʻiʻo i kaʻu koho, akā i kēia manawa ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo ua lawa kaʻu ʻike," i hoʻomau ai ʻo ia.

Ua wehe ʻo Ho i kāna poʻe hahai e pili ana i ke kahe ʻana o ke kākoʻo i loaʻa iā ia ma ke ʻano o nā moʻolelo Instagram.

"ʻAʻole au i ʻike i ka nui o nā wahine ʻē aʻe i manaʻo i kēia ʻano," i hoʻopuka ai ʻo Ho. "Ua manaʻo wau he mea hewa iaʻu... Mahalo no ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kēia kumuhana. Ua emi iho koʻu hoʻokahi."

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