Ua mālama ʻo BDSM i kaʻu male male ʻana mai ka hemo ʻana

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Ke manaʻo ʻoe i kahi kanaka e hele i loko o ke kinky, ʻo wau ka mea hope loa āu e manaʻo ai. He makuahine wau no ʻelua (me nā kaha kikoo e hōʻike ai) ʻo ia ka mea i mare aloha ʻia no 20 mau makahiki. Hāʻawi manawaleʻa wau i ke kula, hana hapa manawa i kahi ʻano suit a me nā mea paʻa, a aia wau i kahi moe e 10 mau pō nui. ʻO wau kahi mamao loa mai ka stereotype dominatrix i hiki. A ʻo nā pō he nui ʻo ia kaʻu e hana nei me kaʻu kāne. E pīhoihoi ka poʻe inā ʻike lākou i ka mea e hana nei i loko o koʻu hale i ka pō-ʻo ia ka hapalua o ka leʻaleʻa o ka hana ʻana. (Pili: Ke alakaʻi a ka mea hoʻomaka i BDSM)

ʻO ka mea mua āu e ʻike ai ke hele ʻoe i loko o koʻu lumi moe ʻo kā mākou kāʻei moekolohe, e kau ana ma luna o ke kaupaku. (ʻ telllelo aku mākou i nā keiki he "kowali" ia a ʻaʻole lākou i nīnau.) He loaʻa hou kēia na mākou no ke kūkulu lohi ʻana i kā mākou repertoire o kink a me nā pēpē fetish i nā makahiki i hala. A e ʻōlelo ʻoiaʻiʻo wau: makaʻu ka hapanui o lākou i ka maka mua, ʻo ka mea hoʻi e hoʻohana ai i nā uila uila.

Akā ʻo kā mākou BDSM sex life he mea weliweli wale nō. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, e ʻōlelo wau ua hoʻopakele kā mākou male.

He mau ipo koleke māua ʻo kaʻu kāne. Ua aloha nui mākou me ka wikiwiki a ua mare mākou ma mua o ka puka ʻana. ʻOiai no ka mea ua neʻe wikiwiki a ʻōpio paha mākou, he mau makahiki wale nō i loko o kā mākou male ʻana e hakakā mau ana mākou a ma ke kaʻe o ka hemo. A hele paha me ka ʻōlelo ʻole o ko mākou ola wahine he nil. I ka hopena, ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi hihia. Ua ʻike ʻo ia e pili ana i ia, ʻoiaʻiʻo. A ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo nui i kaʻu male ma kēlā manawa e hoʻāʻo e hūnā nui. Akā huhū loa wau i koʻu ʻike ʻana i kona ʻeha. Aia mākou ma kahi alahaka: Pono mākou e hele i ko mākou ala ʻokoʻa a i ʻole e hoʻāʻo e hoʻoponopono i kā mākou male. Ua hoʻoholo mākou e hāʻawi i kā mākou pilina i kahi manawa hope loa. Noʻu, ua hoʻomaka ia me ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana i ko mākou ola wahine ma ke ala.

Ua ʻike wau ua aloha wau i ka hauʻoli o ka hoʻopunipuni ma mua o kaʻu aloha i ka mea aʻu i hoʻopunipuni ai. No laila ua hoʻomaka mākou i ka hoʻokolohua ʻana me ka hana keaka liʻiliʻi (he omo wau no nā lole). A ua alakaʻi kēlā pāʻani i kekahi mau kamaʻilio pololei e pili ana i nā mea like ʻole a mākou e makemake ai, ʻo kekahi o ia mea ka hoihoi o kaʻu kāne iā BDSM. ʻAʻole wau i ʻike nui e pili ana i ia i ka manawa-ʻo ia ma mua 50 Na Malu o Kahinahina ua makemake ʻia a maʻalahi hoʻi e kamaʻilio e pili ana-no laila ua maopopo iaʻu ka makaʻu. Akā i ka manawa i hoʻomaka ai mākou e hoʻāʻo pū, e pāʻani ana i kāna mau moemoeā, ʻike koke wau i ka leʻaleʻa, hoihoi, a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana.

I ko mākou komo ʻana i ka hanana kink ua hoʻonui mākou i ka manawa e noiʻi ai i nā ʻano hana like ʻole, nā mea pāʻani, a me nā kiʻi. Ua aʻo mākou i nā mea a mākou e makemake ai a me nā mea a mākou i makemake ʻole ai, a ua kōkua nui ia iaʻu e lilo i mea hou aʻe me nā mea e hoʻohuli iaʻu. ʻO kahi laʻana, aia wau i loko o nā uea uila akā ʻaʻole nā ​​huʻi, nā kaula akā ʻaʻole nā ​​paʻa lima, a ke aloha nei au i nā lole. Hopohopo ka nui o ka poʻe ʻo BDSM kahi uhi no ka hana ʻino kūloko akā i kā mākou hihia, inā he mea, ua hoʻoliʻiliʻi loa kaʻu kāne i koʻu kino. Ma hope o ka manawa ua lilo ia i mea leʻaleʻa a mākou e ʻae ai iaʻu e haʻi iā ʻoe, ʻoi aku ka leʻaleʻa ma mua o ka nānā manu ʻana a i ʻole ke nānā ʻana i ke kīwī.

I ka manawa a ka 50 Na Malu o Kahinahina puka mai nā puke, a laila nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, pahū ka mākeke me nā manaʻo hou a me nā huahana-ʻo ia mau mea a mākou i hauʻoli ai e hoʻāʻo.

ʻAʻole ia e ʻōlelo ua holo ʻoluʻolu ka holoʻokoʻa. ʻO ka hapanui o kā mākou mau pilikia e pili ana i ka logistics, kikoʻī i kā mākou keiki. He ʻōpio uʻi lākou no laila inā lākou e hele i luna iā mākou e "pāʻani" ana he mea hōʻeha loa ia no lākou. He laka maikaʻi kā mākou ma ka puka a kali a hiamoe lākou, akā pono mākou e loiloi i nā mea e holo a me nā mea e hoʻoweliweli ai i ka pō. Ma ke kūpono, loaʻa iā mākou kahi "keʻena ʻulaʻula" e like me Christian lāua ʻo Ana. Akā ʻo ka mea kaumaha, ʻaʻole mākou waiwai kūʻokoʻa!

ʻO ka mea ʻoi loa ka mālama ʻana i nā mea āpau i ka haʻahaʻa. Nui koʻu mau hoaaloha e hoʻopiʻi e pili ana i ka huna ahi e nalo ana i kā lākou nohona moekolohe a ʻoiai makemake wau e wehe e pili ana i kā mākou ʻike, ua aʻo wau i nā makahiki e pono iaʻu e kaʻana pono pono. Ua nalowale kekahi mau hoa aloha ma luna ona, no laila koho nui mākou i kēia manawa.

He mea kūpono ia no mākou, akā, no ka mea, ua kōkua maoli ia i kā mākou pilina e ulu ma waho o ka lumi moe. E kūleʻa ai i ka BDSM, pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio he nui. A ʻoiai mākou i manaʻo ai he mau kamaʻilio maikaʻi mākou ma mua, ʻaʻole maoli mākou. Ua hōʻike mai ʻo BDSM iā mākou pehea e ʻoi aku ai ka maikaʻi e pili ana i kēia. Kūkākūkā pinepine mākou i kā mākou makemake a makemake ʻole a loaʻa nā code kūikawā a me nā huaʻōlelo a mākou e hoʻohana ai me kekahi me kekahi me kahi huaʻōlelo "palekana". Ke hoʻopuka ʻia kēlā huaʻōlelo code, ua pau. E kūkākūkā paha mākou no ke aha ma hope, akā ʻaʻohe no kekahi o mākou e hiki ʻole ke kūkākūkā ʻia.

He hana lōʻihi ia mai ia lā ke nānā mākou i nā loio hemo a hiki i kēia manawa. ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻo ko mākou ola kino wale nō ka mea a mākou i hoʻololi ai, ua hoʻoikaika maoli ʻo BDSM iā mākou a ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli ma mua o ko mākou noho ʻana. A ʻo ko mākou ola wahine ka ʻaʻole loa luuluu, ʻaʻole ia he mea a ka poʻe he nui i male ma mua o ka hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo!

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