Kahi alakaʻi a kahi mea hoʻohana: Loaʻa wau iā ADHD, no laila no ke aha wau e luhi loa ai?
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ʻO ka luhi kekahi o nā hōʻailona maʻamau e pili ana me ADHD - a ʻo kekahi o nā mea liʻiliʻi e kamaʻilio ʻia.
Kahi alakaʻi a kahi mea hoʻohana: ʻO ADHD kahi kolamu aʻoaʻo olakino noʻonoʻo ʻaʻole ʻoe e poina, mahalo i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mai ka mea hoʻohenehene a me ka mea kākoʻo olakino noʻonoʻo ʻo Reed Brice. Loaʻa iā ia kahi ʻike a pau me ADHD, a ʻoiai, he wīwī kāna i ka mea e hana ai ke manaʻo ka honua holoʻokoʻa e like me kahi hale kūʻai china ... a he bipi ʻoe i nā kāmaʻa kaʻa.
He mau nīnau? ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke kōkua iā ʻoe me kahi i haʻalele ai i kāu mau kī, akā ʻo ka hapa nui o nā nīnau e pili ana i ka ADHD he pāʻani maikaʻi. E kī iā ia i DM ma Twitter a i ʻole Instagram.
No laila, ua uē wau ma ka hana i kekahi lā i hala.
ʻAʻole kēia hana! He mea hauʻoli nā poʻe maikaʻi ma Healthline. ʻO kaʻu hana ʻē aʻe. ʻĀ, ekahi o kaʻu mau hana ʻē aʻe, a ʻaʻole au e ʻōlelo i kahi o ka mea makemake wau e mālama iā lākou āpau i hiki ai iaʻu ke uku i koʻu hoʻolimalima.
ʻO kēia wale nō e ʻōlelo ai: Ke huhū nei ʻo Sis! Pehea hele ʻo ʻoe e paʻa nei, kō?
Poina pinepine mākou i ka luhi kekahi o nā hōʻailona maʻamau e pili ana i ka maʻi hyperactivity deficit attention (ADHD), ʻoiai ke kau nui ʻia nei ka manaʻo ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻomaha, frenetic, a me impulsive o ke ʻano. Lawe kēlā mea āpau i kāna uku, akā inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e holo mau ana kāu mau pākeke i ka hakahaka, ʻaʻole ʻo ʻoe wale nō.
Hiki i nā hōʻailona ADHD ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi puahiohio e hele nei i kekahi manawa, a hiki iā ia ke waiho iā ʻoe i kahi ʻano haggard. Lawe iā ia mai kahi mea ʻike.
No laila, no ke aha lā ʻoe e luhi? Eia kekahi mau kumu kūpono no kāu luhi i hoʻokomo ʻia e ADHD:
- Hyperactivity. E like me kaʻu ʻano maʻamau - a me ka papa kuhikuhi - e hōʻike ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke lilo i mīkini neʻe mau. Hiki i kēia lole lole a mākou ke kāhea i ke kino o ke kanaka ke lawe wale i nā tomfoolery i hoʻokahi manawa.
- Hyperfocus. Kuhi ʻia ia e komo nui i kahi papahana, akā poina pinepine wau i ka ʻai ʻana i nā pāʻina kūpono a i ʻole nā wā hoʻomaha no koʻu noʻonoʻo pono. Makemake au e hoʻoheheʻe wale i lalo e ʻike ai ʻo ka lawehala ka pono o ka sanwī.
- Nā pilikia hiamoe. Hiki i nā mea āpau mai ka hiamoe a hiki i ka apnea hiamoe ke hui pū ʻia me ADHD. Ua loaʻa wau i ka hiamoe mai koʻu wā kamaliʻi mai, a makemake nui wau e ʻike pehea ʻoe e nā moʻo nunui i ʻike ʻia ʻo "poʻe kakahiaka" e nānā ai iaʻu i ka maka koko me ka lawehala ʻole. Pehea ʻoe e hiamoe ai i ka pō ?! ʻAʻole, ʻoiaʻiʻo ... Ke hoʻohana nei ʻoe i kahi mask? Walaʻau keʻokeʻo?
- Hopohopo. ʻIke ʻoe, ke kanaka like o ke kaʻa overheating? Leʻaleʻa loa, uʻi loa, a me kahi ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻopau ai i ka joie de vivre o kekahi.
- Nā Lapaʻau. ʻO nā meds a mākou e lawe ai e mālama i nā mea i hōʻike ʻia aʻe nei i hiki ke hoʻoluhi iā mākou i lalo. ʻOiai ʻo nā ʻoi loa o ka hopena, loaʻa nā lāʻau ʻino i kā lākou ʻaoʻao ponoʻī. Inā makemake ʻoe e nānā a like me ka Crypt Keeper, hiki paha iaʻu ke ʻōlelo e hele i ka haʻalele ʻana i kahi lāʻau āu e hele ʻole ai ma mua?
- Hoʻonui i ka hana. Ke hoʻopōʻino nei kā mākou ʻoihana hoʻokalakupua e ulu nei no nā mea āpau, a hiki ke lilo i mea ʻawahia loa no kā mākou me ADHD. ʻO ke kuni ʻana i ke ihoiho i nā wēlau ʻelua e loaʻa ai nā wēlau hiki ke lilo i mea hōʻino loa i ko mākou olakino, a ʻoiai mākou he hyperactive a hyperfocuse e ke kūlohelohe, maʻalahi mākou i nā hopena.
Hiki ke paʻakikī ke hoʻomaopopo i ka luhi a hiki i ka hohonu, akā naʻe, keu ke noho nei mākou me ADHD
No laila he aha e hana ai? E ʻokoʻa nā makemake o kēlā me kēia, no laila e nānā me nā kauka lapaʻau e hoʻolālā e pili ana i nā ʻano hana e pono loa ai nāu. Akā eia kekahi mau mea maʻamau e hoʻomaka ai:
- E hoʻonuanu i ka pō, i nā ʻano hana āpau. Hana i kēlā koʻikoʻi mai kou kino me ka hoʻoikaika kino, e ʻimi i kahi noho mālie me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana, a i ʻole komo i kahi ʻano o ka lapaʻau e hōʻike ana i ka luhi a me ka hiamoe ʻole, e like me ka conductivity behavioral therapy. Aia nā pae ikehu i ka hiki i nā ʻano e like me ADHD.
- E ʻokiʻoki i ka caffeine. ʻIke wau, maopopo iaʻu! ʻAneʻane ʻoi aku wau i ka Diet Coke ma mua o ke kāne i kēia manawa, no laila ʻaʻohe mea e kanikau no kēia ʻōlelo aʻo aʻoi aku ma mua o ka I. He mea ʻoiaʻiʻo nō ia. Wahi a nā nerds hanohano e like me nā mea ma Harvard, ʻoi aku ma mua o ʻelua mau kīʻaha kofe i ka lā hiki ke hoʻoulu a hoʻonui i ke koʻikoʻi o nā ʻōuli hopohopo i kekahi poʻe.
- E hoʻolālā i kahi papa hana hiamoe e holo pono. E ʻokiʻoki i nā kukui a me nā uila, e hoʻopili i kēlā therstat, a hele i kahi moe i ka manawa like i kēlā me kēia pō. He huhū huhū maʻalahi wau i ka pūnaewele, makemake nui ʻia e hoʻopaʻa inoa ma ke aumoe e hōʻike i nā manawa āpau, no laila ke manaʻo nei wau e kīkēkē wau i kēia ma waho o ka pā.
Inā mākou e paʻi i nā ʻāpana ʻē aʻe o ADHD i kēia moʻo, pono mākou i kā mākou wits e pili ana iā mākou, e ka mea heluhelu! Hana iaʻu i kahi lokomaikaʻi, a hoʻāʻo e hōʻoia i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hapa nui o kāu hoʻomaha a me ka hoʻomaha. Manaʻo ʻole e DM iaʻu a haʻi mai iaʻu i kāu hoʻolālā pāʻani.
ʻO wau nei? Ua hoʻomaka wau e holo pinepine i kaʻu paikikala, a ua hooki wau i ka ʻōlelo ʻana i ka ʻae i nā mea aʻu e makemake ʻole ai e hana - a hana pēlā me ka pinepine o ka manawa, eia nō naʻe. ʻO kēia e ʻokiʻoki i ka wā hoʻomaha o ka ʻaina awakea i kahi liʻiliʻi, a ua ʻike wau i ka cuter.
E hele a lilo i mea ʻoi loa, maka maka, huelo huelo iā ʻoe iho. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe.
ʻO Reed Brice kahi mea kākau a mea hoʻohenehene i hoʻokumu ʻia ma Los Angeles. ʻO Brice kahi alum o UC Irvine's Claire Trevor School of the Arts aʻo ia ka transgender mua i kiola ʻia i kahi revue ʻoihana me The Second City. Ke kamaʻilio ʻole ʻia ke kī o ka maʻi noʻonoʻo, peni ʻo Brice i kā mākou aloha & moekolohe, "U Up?"