7 ʻO nā hōʻailona ʻaʻole maopopo ʻole ʻo ia he ʻeke

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Rude i kāu kikowaena pūnaewele? Nānā mau i kāna mau kikokikona? ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻōki i ke kamaʻilio ʻana no kāna ex? ʻO nā hōʻailona a pau he kāne aloha maikaʻi ʻole kāna. Akā ʻae ka poʻe loea e pili ana he nui nā hōʻailona maʻalahi e like me nā hae ʻulaʻula nui-inā ʻike ʻoe i ka mea e nānā ai. E makaʻala i kēia mau sneaky ʻehiku i kāu lā mua a hoʻopakele iā ʻoe iho mai ka ʻeha nui ma ke ala.

Pālahalaha ʻo ia

Ua ʻike ʻoe he ʻano wela ʻoe, a he "uʻi ʻoe" a i ʻole ma lalo o kona hanu "wow" i kou hele ʻana ma ka puka he ʻoiaʻiʻo. Akā inā ʻōlelo mau ʻo ia ʻo ʻoe ka wahine maikaʻi loa, ʻoi aku ka naʻauao, ʻo ka wahine hoihoi loa āna i hālāwai ai-a ʻaʻole ʻoe i pau i kāu inu mua-he hōʻailona paha ia he manipulative ʻo ia, aʻo aku iā Patti Feinstein, a ʻO ke kumu aʻoaʻo aloha ma Kikako. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, weliweli ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike pono iā ʻoe e ʻike i kēlā. "Ke hoʻohana nei ʻo ia i nā ʻōlelo hoʻomaikaʻi e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe i kou makaʻala. Makemake ʻo ia e noʻonoʻo ʻoe ʻo ia ʻo Mr. ua iho nui wau i lalo i ka honua, "wehewehe ʻo ia.

He Over-Tips

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻoi aku paha ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka hoʻolei ʻana i ka 10 pakeneka, akā inā ʻo ia e hoʻolohi i nā bila nui a i ʻole e waiho i lalo o 20 pakeneka no ka lawelawe maʻamau, ʻaʻole maikaʻi ia, aʻo ʻo Feinstein. "ʻO ia paha he narcissist ʻo ia. Makemake ʻo ia e like me ke kī nui ʻana, a ʻoi aku ka manaʻo e pili ana i kona ʻano ma mua o ka pilina maoli," wehewehe ʻo Feinstein.

Hōʻike ʻo ia i ka Bar he poloka ka mamao mai kona hale

Ua koho paha ʻo ia i kahi pā inu waina lama ʻālohilohi, akā, pono e piʻi aʻe kāu antennae inā kokoke loa ia i kahi e noho ai ʻo ia, ua ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aku ʻo Mike Goldstein, ka mea nāna i hoʻokumu ʻo EZ Dating Coach, kahi lawelawe pili aloha ma New Jersey. ʻAʻole ia ʻo kāna hoʻolālā nui e hoʻihoʻi iā ʻoe i kona keʻena (ʻoiai aia paha iā ia ma hope o kona manaʻo) ke maʻalahi nei ʻo ia iā ia, me ka nānā ʻole ʻana i kāu huakaʻi, e wehewehe ʻo Goldstein. ʻAʻole ia he mea nui inā hiki i hoʻokahi manawa (hey, ua paʻa ka pā.) Akā inā ʻo ʻoe ka mea e hana huakaʻi ana, he hōʻailona ia e noʻonoʻo pono iā ia iho.

He mea maʻamau ʻo ia

ʻO ka bartender, kikowaena, a me ka pākaukau e pili ana iā ʻolua i maopopo i kona inoa. He mea ʻono paha ia, akā ʻo ia ke ʻano o kāna mana maʻalahi. "ʻAʻole ia he ʻāina kūʻokoʻa, kahi e hoʻopilikia ai iā ʻoe. ʻO ke ʻano paha e hana mau ana ʻo ia i kāna ʻano," wahi a Feinstein. Inā huki ʻo ia i kēia neʻe, akā makemake ʻoe iā ia, e koi ʻoe e koho i kahi no ka lā helu ʻelua.

ʻO Badmouths kāna haku Loaʻa nā lā maikaʻi ʻole o kēlā me kēia kanaka, akā ʻae ka poʻe akamai ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e makaʻala i ka mea nāna e hoʻolilo i ka hapa nui o ka lā mua e hoʻopiʻi nei. ʻOiai ʻo kāna mau moʻolelo e pili ana i kāna keʻena hana pono ʻole e ʻakaʻaka ʻoe, ʻo ia ke koho ʻana e kau i ka mea maikaʻi ʻole he hōʻailona ia e iho ai ka hapa nui o nā convos i ka wā e hiki mai ana, inā hoʻomau ʻoe i ka pilina.

Paipai ʻo ia i nā Kālā

Me ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kāna frat a me ka haʻi ʻana i nā moʻolelo e pili ana i nā huakaʻi hihiu i loaʻa iā ia a me kāna mau hoa inu inu, ʻo ke kauoha ʻana i nā kiʻi he hōʻailona ia ʻaʻole paha ʻo ia e mākaukau e noho, e aʻo aku iā Goldstein. Hiki iā ia ke leʻaleʻa i ke kau pū ʻana, akā ʻaʻole naʻe ʻo ia i pili i ka pilina.

ʻAʻole Nervous ʻo ia

He lā mua ia, a ʻo ka manawa kūpono, e hiki mai kekahi mea kūpilikiʻi. Akā inā paha ua ʻoluʻolu loa ʻo ia mai ka aloha mua loa, he hōʻailona paha ia e hele pū ana ʻo ia i loko ona iho, e haʻi aku nei iā Feinstein. "ʻO kekahi mau manawa kūpilikiʻi ke ʻano o ka hoʻopukapuka ʻolua; makemake ʻolua e kau i kou wāwae maikaʻi i mua no ka mea ʻē aʻe," wehewehe ʻo Feinstein.

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