15 Huaʻōlelo a me nā ʻōkuhi e pono ai iā mākou e haʻalele i ka ʻōlelo ʻana

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Bossy. Loaʻa iā mākou ke kumu Sheryl Sanberg ua hoʻomaka i kahi hoʻolaha e pāpā i ka huaʻōlelo B, akā manaʻo mākou he pono e hoʻololi iki. E hoʻokuʻu i ka "y" a kū koke ia i ka hana ʻole ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka mālama ʻana o nā wahine-a no kekahi manawa lōʻihi.

ʻāhā ʻūhā. ʻAʻole hiki i kahi papaʻai dieting a hoʻolālā kino paha ke hoʻonui ākea i kou pūhaka e hana i kahi kūpono ʻole ma waena o kāu mau hāmeʻa nani. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hānau ʻia me hoʻokahi, poina ia mea.

E like me ke kaikamahine. Me he mea lā ke ala ʻana o nā ʻaleʻa wahine ikaika e like me ka phenom tennis Serena Williams, mōʻī wahine hau ʻO Lindsey Vonn, a me ka kaʻao soccer Mia Hamm ʻaʻole i hoʻolōʻihi ʻia kēia manaʻo. I ka wā i ʻike ʻia ai ʻo ia no kāna hoʻolaha hou ʻana, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke noʻonoʻo, "E hele me ka manawa, e ka poʻe."

wahine Trophy. ʻO ka hoʻokahuli ʻia ʻana o ka sitcom ABC o ka inoa like ma hope o kāna kau mua o kēia pūnāwai he hōʻoia hou aʻe he luhi a me ke ʻano stereotype. ʻAe ʻepekema: Ua noiʻi ʻia kahi noiʻi hou mai ke Kulanui o Notre Dame i ka ʻAmelika Sociological Review hōʻoia i ka manaʻo o ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka nani e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i ke kūlana o ka nohona a me ka hoʻokele waiwai he moʻolelo kaʻao i hoʻomau ʻia e nā poʻe huhū e hoʻomau i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana.

Wahine huhū ʻē aʻe. Ma muli wale nō o kou ʻiʻini e pili ana i kāu mau manaʻoʻiʻo (a malia paha e kiʻi iki a hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻia i ka wā e hōʻike ana i kāu mau kiko) ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo huhū ʻoe. Inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike i ka huhū wahine, e hana kēia kaula huaʻōlelo. ʻO kā mākou ʻōlelo aʻo: Mai hele i laila.

Ke hana nei i nā mea āpau. Kakau inoa paha ka poʻe i kēia manaʻo hiki ʻole? ʻO kahi pahuhopu maikaʻi aʻe: Ke hoʻonohonoho nei i kahi ʻauinalā inā ʻaʻohe ou mea e hana ai.

MILF. Kūlike ʻole i ka hilinaʻi kaulana, ʻo ia ʻaʻole mahalo Hōʻino wale ia.

Hoʻoiho wahine. ʻElua mau huaʻōlelo maikaʻi e wehewehe i kēia lole keʻokeʻo, lima ʻole, kūpono ke ʻano: tank top.

Kekahi o nā keikikāne. No ka mea ua manaʻo ʻia ʻoe he maikaʻi no ke kau ʻana ʻaʻole hāʻawi i kēia mau kāne i ke kuleana e ʻōlelo a hana i nā mea kūpono ʻole (e like me ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i nā "pupule pupule" a hala ke kinoea) i kou alo. Newsflash: He lede ʻoe me ka nānā ʻole inā makemake lākou e hiamoe me ʻoe ʻaʻole paha, no laila, e nā kāne, e hooki i ka noho ʻana he pūkaʻina.

ʻO Cougar. ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi: Ke ʻōlelo nei nā wahine i ka "screw it" i nā ʻano maʻamau a hoʻohuli i ka papalua ma luna o kona poʻo. ʻAʻole nou ka hewa i hiki i nā ʻōpio ke mālama i ka ʻoi aku o ka maikaʻi ma mua o nā mea makua.

Ma ka lole. Ke hiki i kēlā manawa o ka mahina, ʻo ka mea hope āu e makemake ai he mea hoʻomanaʻo e hoʻohana ana i kahi ʻike maka hoʻowahāwahā. Ma kahi o kākou (nā kāne a me nā wahine) mahalo, hoʻomaopopo, a hoʻokipa, e ʻoluʻolu, no ka mea me ka ʻole o ia mea, ʻaʻohe o mākou e noho ma aneʻi i kēia manawa.

Nā pilikia a Pāpā. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, he pilikia paha kā Pāpā me ʻoe e ʻōlelo nei i kēlā ʻōlelo super hoʻokolokolo e hōʻike ana he hemahema ʻoe, palaualelo, a ʻimi i ka ʻae ʻia mai nā kāne kāne kāne.

Tomboy. Maliʻa paha he leʻaleʻa inoa ia i kou wā kamaliʻi a ʻaʻole i kūpono me nā kaikamahine kaikamahine ʻē aʻe i kāu papa. Akā i kēia manawa ua ʻike ʻoe i ka ʻoi aku, he manawa sexist ia e hoʻopau ʻia mai ka vernacular hanauna e hiki mai ana. ʻO nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe no nā kaikamahine liʻiliʻi e hana nei: "mea haʻuki," "superstar," a me "ikaika e helu pū ʻia me." [Tweet i kēia!]

ʻO Wifey. He mea hoʻokahi inā ʻōlelo kāu hubby-a malia paha e hoʻihoʻi ia iā ʻoe no ke kāhea ʻana iā ia "hubby" a i ʻole "hubs." Akā inā he kāne kāne a he mau hoa aloha kāne ʻaʻole ʻoe i male iā ʻoe e ʻōlelo ʻoe, he haʻahaʻa wale nō ia. ʻO ka manawa aʻe e kapa aku lākou iā ʻoe "he wahine," e uku iā lākou no ka ʻaina ahiahi a i ʻole e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka lomilomi wāwae e like me ka hana a kekahi kāne maikaʻi.

E ulu i nā pōpō. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻōlelo a ka mea hoʻokani pila ʻo Betty White: "He nāwaliwali a paʻakikī nā kinipōpō. Pili kēia nānā pono i "Lawe ia e like me ke kāne," "Mai lilo i pussy," a me "Man up."

ʻO nā huaʻōlelo āu i manaʻo ai e hoʻomaha mākou? E ʻōlelo ma lalo a kani paha ma kahi o @Shape_Magazine!

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