No ke aha mākou e aloha nei iā Jesse Pinkman (a me nā kāne ʻē aʻe ʻē aʻe)

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ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo Jesse Pinkman kahi haʻalele kula kiʻekiʻe a me kahi mea junkie mua e hana nei i ka ʻoihana lāʻau a ua hoʻomake i kahi kāne, akā ua hopu ʻo ia i ka hoʻomana visceral o kēlā me kēia wahine ma ʻAmelika me ka puʻuwai puʻuwai a me ke kau inoa kīwī kīwī. ʻO ka hoihoi i ke "keiki maikaʻi" ʻaʻole ia he mea hou, akā ʻo kēia ʻano, hoʻokani ʻia e ʻelua manawa lanakila Emmy. Aaron Paul ma ke keaka addictive a AMC ʻAhaʻi ʻino, hiki iā ia ke hana i ka mea nānā wahine maʻamau e like me ka mea i loko o kahi pilina huikau me kahi kuke kuke mai 2008. (He mau makahiki paʻakikī kēia akā ke hele nei wau i loko.)

I ka hoʻohanohano ʻana i ka pelekikena mua i kakali ʻia o ke kaʻina ʻewalu mau ʻāpana ma ʻAukake 11, ua hoʻoholo mākou e nānā hohonu i ka mea e pili ana iā Jesse e aloha iā ia iā ia e kūʻē i kā mākou manaʻo maikaʻi. E nā wahine, inā koho ʻoe i ke kanaka hewa, e nānā. ʻO kēia kānana e ka psychologist lapaʻau a me ka lālā aʻoaʻo aʻoaʻo ʻo SHAPE ʻo Belisa Vranich, PsyD, a me ke anthropologist biology a me ka ʻepekema aʻoaʻo a Match.com Helen Fisher, Ph.D., pili i nā ola maoli maoli e like me ka hana. i kā mākou ipo maka uliuli. (Alakaʻi hōʻino "Breaking Bad" inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hopu ʻia!).

ʻO ka mea, ka mea maopopo: ʻO kēlā helehelena! Ke kū nei ma kahi o 5'8" wale nō, ʻike ʻia ke kiʻi o Jesse a liʻiliʻi, a hūnā pinepine ʻo ia ma lalo o nā lole nui a me nā beanies, akā hōʻike kona helehelena i kahi moʻolelo ʻē aʻe. ) kahi kihi, ikaika kaʻiwi 2) mau ʻūlū kaumaha 3) mau papalina kiʻekiʻe 4) nā lehelehe lahilahi, a 5) kahi lae kiʻekiʻe, "wahi a Fisher, nāna i kākau ka puke No ke aha la ia? No ke aha mai?.

"ʻO ke kumu e ʻike ʻole ai nā wahine i kēia mea hoihoi no ka mea ʻo ka testosterone he mea nui loa e koi ai i kahi ʻōnaehana pale ikaika loa e ʻae i nā kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o ka hormone," wehewehe ʻo ia. "ʻO kēia ka hoʻolaha ʻana o kēia mau kāne ma o ko lākou alo he 'ikaika loa koʻu ʻōnaehana pale e hiki ai iaʻu ke hoʻomanawanui i kēia nui o ka testosterone." Ma kahi leka e pili ana, ʻo ka testosterone kiʻekiʻe hoʻi ka manaʻo he kiʻekiʻe ka hoʻokele wahine āna, hoʻohui ʻo Fisher, a ʻo wai ka mea makemake ʻole i kahi hoa moe e hiki ke hoʻomau?

ʻAʻole hiki ke wānana ʻia ʻo ia. Inā makemake ʻoe i nā kahakai, e aloha ʻoe iā Jesse, ka mea e like me ka ʻoi loa o nā kiʻekiʻe a me nā lalo o kēlā me kēia ʻano o ke kaʻina. Hiki iā ia ke hauʻoli, kaumaha, manaʻolana, a me ka pōʻino i loko o hoʻokahi hanana. ʻO ka ʻike ʻole pehea e pane ai i nā hanana kahi ʻāpana o ka hoʻopiʻi. "Makemake nā wahine i ka mea hou," i ʻōlelo ʻo Fisher.

"Hoʻoulu ia i ka ʻōnaehana dopamine i loko o ka lolo a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka ikehu, ka manaʻo, ka hoʻoikaika ʻana, ka manaʻo maikaʻi, a me ka hiki ke noʻonoʻo," wahi āna. ʻO ke kumu, ke puni nei i kahi kanaka hiki ʻole ke ʻike ʻia, e like me Jesse, hiki ke lilo i mea pīhoihoi. I ka manawa like, hiki ke huhū i kēlā ʻano hana hoʻopunipuni, ʻo ia ke kumu ʻaʻole loa e hana.

Hōʻike ʻo ia i nā uila o ke akamai. ʻEkolu mau huaʻōlelo liʻiliʻi: "ʻAe, ʻāpiki! Nā mākēneki!" ʻOiai ʻo kāna hoa pāʻoihana a me ke kumu kemika kula kiʻekiʻe mua ʻo Walter White (hoʻokani ʻia e ka indomitable ʻO Bryan Cranston) Ua hoʻokumu lōʻihi ʻia e like me ka lolo o ka hana, ua loaʻa iā Jesse kāna manawa kukui kukui. I ka manawa ʻelima, ʻo kona manaʻo maikaʻi e hoʻohana i nā mea hoʻokalakupua e hoʻopau i nā hōʻike hoʻopiʻi i ka mea hoʻolaha meth defunct ʻo Gustavo "Gus" Fring pona i hoʻopaʻa ʻia ma ke keʻena nui o nā mākaʻi i hoʻopakele iā lākou mai ka hopu ʻia. ʻO kā testosterone kiʻekiʻe o Jesse, e like me ka mea i hōʻike ʻia e kona alo, ua pili paha i kekahi mea.

"ʻO nā kāne me ka testosterone kiʻekiʻe e hoʻolālā, loiloi, pololei, hoʻoholo, paʻakikī, noʻonoʻo, a maikaʻi i ka ʻenehana, mīkini, kamepiula, a, i kēia hihia, ke kuke ʻana i ka meth aniani," wahi a Fisher. "No nā miliona makahiki, makemake nā wahine i ke kāne nāna e paʻi i kēlā bufalo ma ke poʻo me ka pōhaku a loaʻa iā ia nā mākau spacial, analytical maikaʻi e noʻonoʻo i kēia.

He ʻuhane nalowale ʻo ia. ʻAʻohe kānalua e pono ai ʻo Jesse-a ke ʻimi nui nei ʻo ia i kahi mea e hoʻopakele iā ia. Ua hoʻāʻo ka junkie mua e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kāna hana ma mua o hoʻokahi manawa i loko o ke kaʻina, ʻoiai ʻo ke kau ʻekolu i ka wā i hoʻomaka ai ʻo ia e aloha me ka makuahine hoʻokahi a me ka hōʻola hou ʻana iā Andrea. Ua maopopo he makemake kahi ʻāpana o ia e hiki ke lilo i ke kāne maikaʻi, akā hele aku kēlā a pau i ka puka aniani i ka hopena o ke kau ke koi ʻia e pepehi i kahi kanaka hala ʻole, ʻo Gale, e hoʻopakele i ke ola o Mr. White. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kona kānalua ma mua o kona huki ʻana i ke kumu, ua lawa ia e makemake ai kekahi wahine e komo a kamaʻilio iā ia.

"ʻO kekahi mau wahine e lilo i makuahine a manaʻoʻiʻo hiki iā mākou ke hoʻololi i ka poʻe a mālama i ko lākou ʻuhane nalowale. Hoʻopiʻi ia i ko mākou hiki ke hānai, i pili i ka estrogen," i ʻōlelo ʻo Fisher. A e ʻōlelo ʻoe ua hoʻopakele pono ʻoe iā ia? Hiki iā ia ke puhi i kou alo. "Ua kōkua nā wahine he nui i ke kāne e ʻike i kona hiki a hiki i kēia manawa, haʻalele paha ʻo ia iā ia no ka mea hiki iā ia ke loaʻa kahi hoa maikaʻi aʻe i kēia manawa," i ʻōlelo aʻo aku ai ʻo Vranick. "Pono ʻoe e nīnau iā ʻoe iho, aia i hea kāna pūnaewele kākoʻo? No ke aha i loaʻa ʻole ai iā ia? Aia ke kumu."

Kūhewa ʻo ia. Hāʻawi ʻia i kāna koho ʻoihana kūʻokoʻa ʻole a hala ʻole, mamao loa ʻo Jesse mai kahi conformist. Loaʻa ka mana e lilo i kāna ponoʻī iho a ʻaʻole hoʻi e hāhai i nā lula e ola nei ke koena o ke kaiāulu. "Makemake nā wahine e noho vicarious ma o kēia mau kāne a hele i ka pīhoihoi, akā ʻaʻole kēia mau ʻīlio lōlona aloha ʻole e hana i kāne maikaʻi," wahi a Vranick, ka mea kākau o ka puke Loaʻa iā ia ka Potential.

I kekahi ʻaoʻao, ʻo ka hele ʻana i waho ponoʻī kahi hōʻailona o ke koa, ʻo ia ka mea e pono ai nā wahine mai kā lākou mau hoa i ka lā e hānai ʻia a pale ʻia hoʻi. "Makemake nā wahine i kahi kāne ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke lawe wale i ka ʻaina ahiahi akā pale pū kekahi iā lākou, a ʻo ia ka mea maʻamau e lilo i mea hakakā a hiki ke kū i ko lākou ʻāina," wehewehe ʻo Fisher. I loko o nā kau ʻelima i hala, ua hoʻomanawanui ke ʻano pouli o Jesse i nā hahau hoʻoweliweli nui loa, ka make ʻana o kāna aloha mua, ka pepehi kanaka ʻana i kahi kanaka hala ʻole - makemake ʻo ia e makaʻu i nā mea āpau, a me kona ola ponoʻī, no ka mea āna i manaʻoʻiʻo ai. . He laʻana maikaʻi loa: ʻO ka manawa i kū ai i mua me ʻelua mau mea kūʻai aku lāʻau hoʻokūkū e pili ana i ka pepehi kanaka ʻana o ko Andrea kaikuaʻana ʻo 11 makahiki, ʻo Tomas.

He manaʻo ʻo ia. ʻAʻole ʻo ia he Tin Man-he puʻuwai kāna! Ua hōʻike koke ʻia ka manawa hoʻokahi ua neʻe ʻo Jesse me kona ʻAnakē Jenny e make ana e mālama iā ia i kona mau lā hope e hakakā ana i ka maʻi kanesa. I ke kau ʻekolu, ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e kūkulu i kahi pilina makuakāne i kāna kaikamahine a Andrea, ʻo Brock. A mai ka hoʻomaka ua hōʻike ʻo ia i kahi kūpaʻa kūpaʻa iā Mr. White, ʻo ia kāna i kipaku hope aku ai ma hope o ka pepehi kanaka ʻana o kahi keikikāne hala ʻole (ua ʻike ke keiki iā lākou e ʻaihue i kahi kaʻaahi methylamine) makemake ʻo Jesse e hele i waho. ʻO kona ʻano naʻau i hui pū ʻia me ka mihi ʻo ia ka hui ʻino-keiki maikaʻi loa, wahi a Vranick.

"ʻAno nā wahine e ʻai i ka palaoa kope hewahewa e hōʻike ai he kāne maikaʻi ke kāne no ka mea ke lana nei ko mākou manaʻo a maikaʻi a makemake mākou e manaʻo maikaʻi nā kānaka," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Holo nā wahine i ka pahele i loko o kona maikaʻi me ka manaʻolana e ʻike ʻo ia ua ʻike ʻo ia iā ia no ka daimana i loko o kona ʻano ʻino, ʻo ia hoʻi ka mea e manaʻo nui ai ʻo ia, akā ʻaʻole loa e hiki."

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