He aha ke ʻano o ka Polysexual?

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• He aha ka manaʻo o Polysexual?
• ʻO Polysexual vs. Pansexual, Omnisexual, a me Bisexual
• ʻO Polyamory vs. Polysexual
• Ke ʻimi nei i ka male kāne
• Nānā no

No ka poʻe pili ʻole i ka pilina heteronormative, monogamous, he manawa maikaʻi ia e ola nei. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka moekolohe e holo nei i ka gamut ʻaʻole ia he mea hou, i hana ʻia pēlā i ka wā o ka noho ʻana o nā kānaka ma ka honua, akā ua hōʻea ke kaiāulu o kēia au i kahi kahi, inā makemake ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke kau i kahi inoa pololei i nā moekolohe a i ʻole. ʻike kāne kāne.

ʻAʻole like ka maikaʻi o ka hanauna i nā hanauna ma mua. ʻOiai ʻo ia mau huaʻōlelo e pili ana no kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole nui nā lepili i hōʻike i ka mahalo a kūpono paha iā lākou Hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻia no ka polysexual, he huaʻōlelo i hoʻohana mua ʻia i ka makahiki 1920, akā ʻaʻole i hiki i ka makahiki 1974, i ka wā i kākau ai ʻo Noel Coppage i kahi ʻatikala no Loiloi Stereo ma kahi āna i kuhikuhi ai iā David Bowie, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe, me he wahine lā. I kēlā manawa, hoʻopili ʻo Coppage i kēia huaʻōlelo me asexual, bisexual, a pansexual, ʻaʻole pololei pololei.

No laila he aha ke ʻano o ka polysexual, ʻoiaʻiʻo? Eia nā mea āpau āu e ʻike ai.

He aha ka manaʻo o Polysexual?

Inā kamaʻāina ʻoe - a i ʻole wale kamaʻāina - me ka huaʻōlelo "polyamory," me he mea lā hele lima pū me ka polysexual, akā ʻaʻole kēlā ka hihia. ʻO ka mea mua kahi ʻano o ka pilina pili pili ʻole monogamous kahi e komo ai kekahi i kahi ʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi pilina, ʻo ka mea hope loa kahi moekolohe.

"E like me nā ʻōlelo a pau o ka wahine a me nā ʻōlelo ʻike kāne, ʻokoʻa paha ka wehewehe ʻana [o ka polysexual] ma muli o ka mea nāna e wehewehe a / a i ʻole ka ʻike ʻana iā ia iho," wahi a ke kumu aʻo wahine wahine ʻo Gabrielle Kassel, co-host o Bad In Bed: ʻO ka Queer Sex Education Podcast. "ʻO ka prefix 'poly' 'o ia hoʻi ka nui a i ʻole ka nui. No laila, ʻo ka mea maʻamau, ʻae ka mea polysexual i ko lākou hiki ke lilo i ka pili aloha, ka wahine, a/a i ʻole ka naʻau i nā kāne like ʻole."

Aia kekahi hae polysexual, ʻekolu mau laina ākea o ke kala: ʻalani, ʻōmaʻomaʻo, a me ka polū, e hele ana mai luna a lalo.

ʻAʻole i hoʻonohonoho ʻia ka polysexual i kahi pōhaku. ʻOkoʻa ia mai kekahi kanaka a i kekahi kanaka, e pili ana i nā mea a lākou e ʻumeʻume ai, ʻo ia kekahi mea i hiki ke hoʻololi i ka manawa. "Hoʻohilahiʻi ʻia kekahi kanaka male wahine a wahine paha, a me nā poʻe kāne ʻole," wahi a Kassel. "ʻOiai e hoʻokipa ʻia kekahi i nā kāne, nā wahine, a me nā poʻe ʻaʻole binary." (E nānā: He aha ke ʻano o ka lilo ʻole ʻana i ka Binary)

I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻohe ala hoʻokahi e polysexual.

ʻO Polysexual vs. Pansexual, Omnisexual, a me Bisexual

He mea paʻakikī paha e hoʻomaopopo i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o kēia mau huaʻōlelo. ʻOiai ke moe kolohe nei lākou āpau a hiki ke kaʻanalike i kekahi mau mea like - ʻo ia hoʻi, wehewehe lākou āpau i nā moe kolohe e manaʻo ʻia ua ʻume ʻia kekahi kanaka i ʻelua mau kāne kāne - ua kaʻawale lākou kekahi i kekahi.

Bisexual: Hoʻokumu nā Bisexuals i kā lākou moe kolohe i loko o kahi binary i kā lākou kāne ponoʻī a me kahi kāne ʻē aʻe, wahi a Tiana GlittersaurusRex, kumu aʻo polyamorous a me ka mea hana, a me ka mea hoʻokumu o The Sex Work Survival Guide. Hiki ke ʻike ʻia ka Bisexuality ma ke ʻano he polysexuality ʻoiai ke wehewehe nei i ka mea hoʻohihi i nā kāne a ʻoi paha.

Pansexual: I kēia manawa, "hōʻike ka pansexual i ka hoʻowalewale i ka wahine me ka nānā ʻole i kā lākou kāne ma mua o ke kāne a me ka wahine." ʻO kēia mea hoihoi, wehewehe ʻo Kassel, no "nā poʻe a puni ka ʻano kāne." No ka poʻe pansexual, ʻaʻohe kuleana o ke kāne i kā lākou hoihoi i ke kanaka. Ma kahi o, nānā lākou ma ʻō aku o ka wahine, ke ʻike nei i ka hilinaʻi o kāna kanaka, kona ʻike, pehea lākou e ʻike ai i ka honua, ko lākou ʻano hoʻomākeʻaka, pehea lākou e mālama ai i ka poʻe, a me nā ʻano ʻē aʻe o ke kanaka e kaʻana like ana i kēia Honua me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe. na kanaka. ʻOkoʻa ka Pansexuality mai ka polysexuality no ka mea hiki i nā poʻe e ʻike he polysexual ke ʻume ʻia i kekahi - akā ʻaʻole nā ​​mea āpau - hōʻike kāne kāne, a kuhi paha i kēlā mau ʻōlelo i kā lākou ʻume a me ka hoihoi ʻia i kekahi me ka nānā ʻole i ka wahine. (Related: ʻO ka manawa 'Schitt's Creek' i hoʻomaopopo ai iā Emily Hampshire he Pansexual)

Omnisexual: ʻOiai ʻokoʻa, omnisexual (ʻo ka mua "omni" ʻo ia hoʻi "āpau"), like nō ia me ka pansexual. Ma kahi e moe ai nā ʻokoʻa no kēia mau moekolohe ʻelua ʻo "no ka ʻike piha o ka wahine kāne a kāne paha, i kū ʻole i ka makapō kāne," wahi a GlittersaurusRex. ʻO kēia ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka wahine e hoʻokaʻawale ana i ka moekolohe a me ka omnisexuality ʻoi loa o nā mea āpau. A ʻokoʻa ka omnisexuality mai ka polysexuality i ka poʻe i ʻike ʻia he polysexual hiki ke hoihoi i nā kāne he nui - akā ʻaʻole pono nā kāne a pau.

ʻO Polyamory vs. Polysexual

ʻAe, ʻo ka prefiks "poly" e hoʻomau i ka manaʻo o "nui" inā ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka polyamory a i ʻole ka wahine, akā ʻo ka ʻokoʻa nui ma waena o nā mea ʻelua he pilina pilina ka polyamory, a ʻo ka polysexual kahi moe kolohe. ʻO ka moekolohe ka mea āu i makemake ai i ka moekolohe, akā ʻo ka pilina i ke ʻano o nā pilina āu e makemake ai e komo.

"He hiki i ka mea polyamorous ke aloha i nā kānaka he nui i ka manawa like, a koho e komo i nā pilina pili pono, kahi e ʻae ʻia ai ka launa pū ʻana me ka hoʻoulu ʻana, a me ke aloha ʻana i nā poʻe he nui i ka manawa hoʻokahi (a paipai ʻia!)," wahi a Kassel. . ʻO kēlā me kēia kanaka, ʻaʻohe mea pili i kā lākou moe kolohe - me, akā ʻaʻole i kaupalena ʻia i nā polysexuals - hiki ke lilo i polyamorous. (Pili: Eia ke ʻano o ka pilina Polyamorous - a he aha ia ʻaʻole)

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hiki i ka poʻe polysexual ke loaʻa iā lākou iho i kēlā me kēia ʻano o ka pilina, ʻoiai ʻo ka moekolohe a me ka pilina pili ka mea i pili ʻole i kekahi i kekahi, ʻoiai inā ua kau lākou i kēlā me kēia manawa.

"ʻO ka poʻe polysexual hiki ke lilo i monogamous, monogam-ish, polyamorous, a i ʻole nā ​​ʻano pilina ʻē aʻe," wahi a Kassel. (Pili: He aha ka Ethical Non-Monogamy, a hiki iā ia ke hana iā ʻoe?)

Ke ʻimi nei i ka male kāne

E like me ka haʻi ʻana o kekahi loea i ka moekolohe, ʻaʻole lōʻihi loa ka spectrum o ka moe kolohe, akā hiki iā ʻoe ke paheʻe i luna a i lalo i kou ola. (ʻO kēia manaʻo he mea liʻiliʻi ia i kapa ʻia ka fluidity moekolohe.) He aha ka orientation āu i loko o 20 mau makahiki e like me ka mea āu e ʻike ai i loko o kā 30 - a ʻo ka mea like hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻia e pili ana i ka pili o ka pilina. Ke ulu nei ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kanaka, hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i hoihoi, hiki ke loli i kāu mau makemake, a i kekahi manawa hiki ke alakaʻi i nā makemake ʻē aʻe, ma ka pilina a me ka pae moekolohe ʻelua. No laila, inā ua ʻike mua ʻoe ma ke ʻano he mea ʻē aʻe, akā manaʻo ʻia ua kāhea ʻia e ka huaʻōlelo "polysexual," a laila ʻoluʻolu e ʻimi.

"E like me ke ʻano o ka moekolohe, kou naʻau a me kou makemake e hoʻoholo inā he polysexual ʻoe," wahi a GlittersaurusRex. E noʻonoʻo e nānā i nā puke a me nā podcast e pili ana i ka polysexuality, a me ka hāhai ʻana i nā mea aʻo kiʻekiʻe ma ka pāpili kaiaulu, i hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo hou aʻe a ʻike i ke ʻano o ka pōʻaiapili.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe mea pili i ka moekolohe a i ʻole ka pilina pilina i ʻoi aku ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe. ʻAe, hiki i kekahi ke ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi no kekahi, akā hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻia e pili ana i ka nui o nā mea i ke ola. He mea wale nō ia, ma aneʻi a ʻānō hoʻi, ke ʻike nei i ka mea kūpono kūpono no kāu mau moekolohe a me nā makemake pili, a hilinaʻi hoʻi i loko. (E heluhelu pū kekahi: No ke aha wau e hōʻole ai e kapa inoa i kaʻu moekolohe)

No loko mai o kāu moekolohe a me / a i ʻole pili i ka pilina, a hiki i nā ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā ala hou e ʻike ai i ke aloha a me ka leʻaleʻa wahine. ʻO nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka loiloi i nā mea e hauʻoli ai ʻoe a ʻae iā ʻoe iho e neʻe i kēlā hauʻoli ʻoiai inā i loko o nā wai hou a ʻaʻohe o ka wai.

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