He aha ke kaikamahine kamaʻilio me kou kupunawahine e aʻo iā ʻoe e pili ana i nā pilina olakino

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Ke nānā nei i ka mea ʻala i ke kamaʻilio me ka mea nui aʻe ma mua o nā kau supermarket? Ua huli aʻe, ʻo kekahi o nā kumu hoʻohālike ʻoi loa no ka moekolohe kou mau kūpuna (a i ʻole he ʻohana a ʻelua a ʻoi paha makahiki ma mua ou), wahi a Joan Price, kahi loea a me ka mea kākau o Ua ʻōlohelohe i ko mākou makahiki: ke kamaʻilio nui ʻana e pili ana i ka wahine makua.

"Ke manaʻo nei kēlā me kēia hanauna ʻo lākou ka mea mua i ka moe kolohe, ke maopopo ʻole ia he ʻoiaʻiʻo! Akā ʻo ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka hoʻomau ʻana o ka moekolohe i loko o kou ola āpau, a ma nā hihia he nui, hiki ke loaʻa i ka maikaʻi me ka makahiki, hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hauʻoli i kāu mea '. ua loaʻa iā ʻoe i kēia manawa," wahi āna.

He mea ʻoluʻolu ʻole ia, akā pono paha nā hōʻike. Eia, ʻekolu mau kumu hou aʻe e kamaʻilio ai ma o ka moekolohe-a, heck, e lawe ana iā Tūtū e ʻike 50 Na Malu o Kahinahina- hiki ke lilo i mea maikaʻi no ʻolua. (No nā ʻohana ʻohana aloha ʻole ʻia, e ʻike pehea e hana ai me nā ʻohana hoʻohuhū i loko o nā wā nui.)

Hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i ka ʻike i ka mea e hana ai i kou ʻohana

ʻAʻole mākou e ʻōlelo e hoʻololi ʻoe i nā kikoʻī e pili ana i kāu mau punahele punahele, akā maʻalahi i kahi convo moʻo e nīnau ana i ke ʻano o ka moekolohe i kona lā, a i ʻole kona mau manaʻo ma kahi ʻatikala e hoʻopuni nei i waena o kāu mau ipo wahine. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke ʻāpono i kou kupuna wahine e kākoʻo i ke kuko, a i ʻole makemake kou makuahine e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa ma mua o ka noho ʻana a me kou makuakāne. ʻO kēlā me kēia o ka intel, ka lohe ʻana i kā lākou ʻike ponoʻī i kā lākou pilina hiki ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi lens hou e nānā i kāu ponoʻī, wahi a Prices.

E ʻike ʻoe e pili ana ka pili aloha i nā ʻano āpau

Malia paha e honi ana kou kupunawahine a me kou kupuna kāne i kekahi i kekahi i kēlā me kēia kakahiaka, malia paha e hiamoe ana kou makuahine i ka manawa like me kou makuakāne - ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ke ʻano o ka hoʻololi ʻana o nā hanauna kahiko i ko lākou mau kino a me ko lākou ʻano nohona, he mea hoʻomanaʻo ikaika ia ʻo ka moekolohe a me ka leʻaleʻa. 'aʻole wale no ka poʻe ʻōpio, hoʻomanaʻo iā Price. "ʻO ka nui o kou ʻelemakule, ʻoi aku ka hilinaʻi ʻana i nā mea e pono ai ʻoe a me nā mea āu e pono ai e ʻimi a mālama i ka leʻaleʻa," wahi āna. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kou mau kūpuna e hoʻomau i ka makemake i mea nui-i kēlā me kēia ʻano hana no lākou-he hoʻomanaʻo ikaika ia e hana like i kou ola ponoʻī. (Inā paha e hoʻomanaʻo ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana i ka laki a me kāu ipo, aʻo pehea e loaʻa ai ka moekolohe ma ka hale o kou mau mākua.)

He mea hoʻomanaʻo ia e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka moekolohe me ka makahiki

Nīnau aku ʻoe i kou kupunawahine i ka mea ʻoi loa o kāna huakaʻi holoholo hou, a ʻo ia a me kou kupunakāne e hoʻololi i kahi helehelena a hilahila hoʻi. E pale aku i ka makemake e kuʻi, a ma kahi, e ʻike i kēia i mea e hoʻomanaʻo ai i hiki ke leʻaleʻa, ke ʻano, a me ka poina ʻole o ka moekolohe ʻoiai he ʻumi makahiki āu i hānau ai. "Hoʻololi ke kāne, akā hiki ke ʻoi aku ka noʻonoʻo a me ka ikaika i kou wā ʻelemakule no ka mea ʻike ʻoe ʻo wai ʻoe," wehewehe ʻo Price.

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