He aha ka hewa o 'Bridgerton' e pili ana i ka wahine - a no ke kumu he mea nui ia

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• ʻAʻole kūpono ke ʻano huki i ke ʻano hānau o ka kaohi hānau.
• Ke haʻi nei i ke koko ʻaʻole e haʻi inā hāpai ʻoe.
• ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e mokulele i nā manawa i loko o ka masturbating no ka manawa mua.
• ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e haʻalele i ka pipi ma hope o ka moe kolohe.
• ʻAʻole paha ʻoe i like ka libido me kāu hoa - a ua maikaʻi.
• ʻAʻole pono ka moekolohe e hele mai 0 a 100.
• ʻAʻole paha ʻoe i orgasm wale nō mai ke komo ʻana.
• ʻO ka ʻae ka kī.
• Nānā no

ʻEkolu mau minuke wale nō i ka ʻāpana mua o Bridgerton, a hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi aia ʻoe i loko no kahi mea ʻono. Ma loko o ka Shondaland's hit Netflix series, hui ʻia ʻoe me nā puhaka mahu ma luna o nā papa lāʻau paʻa, sexcapades waha ma nā ʻanuʻu a me nā alapiʻi, a me nā puʻupuʻu he nui.

A ʻoiai ke ʻano o ka moʻo e hana i ka wela a me ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻia (a i ʻole ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, hoʻokipa haʻahaʻa ʻia me nā ʻōwela wela o ke au Regency), ʻaʻole ia e hōʻike mau i ka moekolohe i ke ala pololei loa - a kūpono paha. . Ae nō hoʻi, Bridgerton ʻaʻole ia he papa hana moekolohe, akā no kekahi poʻe, he kumu like paha ia. ʻO 28 wale nō mau mokuʻāina a me ka Apana o Columbia e koi i ka hoʻonaʻauao wahine a me ka hoʻonaʻauao HIV e aʻo ʻia i nā kula aupuni, e like me ka Guttmacher Institute, kahi hui noiʻi a me nā kulekele i hoʻoikaika ʻia i ka holomua ʻana i ke olakino a me ka hānau keiki. ʻO kēlā mau mokuʻāina, ʻo 17 wale nō ka mandate e pololei pololei kēia aʻo ʻana, no ka Institute. (Pili: ʻO ka aʻo ʻana i ka wahine ma ka U.S. ua haki - Makemake ʻo Sustain e hoʻoponopono iā ia)

I mea e hoʻopiha ai i kēlā āpau i ka ʻike, nui nā Millennial e ʻimi nei i kā lākou kīwī. Ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi 2018 o 18 a 29 mau makahiki i loaʻa i ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i komo i ka hapa nui o kā lākou hoʻonaʻauao wahine mai nā mea a lākou i ʻike ai ma ka TV a i ʻike ʻia ma o ka moʻomeheu pop. "ʻAʻole paha ma nā wahi āpau ka hoʻonaʻauao, akā ʻo media ka mea," wahi a Janielle Bryan, M.P.H., he loea olakino lehulehu a he kumu aʻo moekolohe. "No kekahi mau keiki a me nā ʻōpio ʻōpio, ʻo ia wale nō ka moekolohe a lākou e kiʻi nei, no laila ʻo ka ʻoi o ka pololei, ʻoi aku ka nui o ke aʻo ʻana - a ke ʻōlelo wau he aʻo, ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo he luhi - ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. nā mea he nui, a pili pū me ka ed sex. "

ʻAʻole ia e ʻōlelo e hemo ʻoe Bridgerton - a i ʻole nā ​​moʻolelo sexy ʻē aʻe - mai kāu pila Netflix holoʻokoʻa. Ma kahi o, e nānā i nā hiʻohiʻona racy āu e ʻike nei me kahi hua paʻakai. "He mea nui ia e hoʻomanaʻo he moekolohe choreographed kēia," wahi a Jack Pearson, Ph.D., he loea no ka hale i ka hale ma Cycle Kūlohelohe, kahi mālama hānau a me ka hoʻopili ʻana i ka momona. "Manaʻo wau he mea nui e hōʻoia i ka moekolohe maoli maoli ʻoi aku ka nui [clumsy] ... a ʻaʻole wau e hoʻohana ma ke ʻano he kumu no ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana. Pono ʻoe e hoʻoikaika mai ia mea, akā ʻaʻole pono e hoʻohana iā ia e hoʻoponopono iā ʻoe iho i kāu hana ʻana i loko o ka lumi moe.

ʻO ka manawa hou āu e ʻimi ai i lalo e nānā i ka hōʻike mua loa o ka makahiki - inā no kāu ʻike mua ʻana a i ʻole i ka hā o kāu - e mālama i kēia mau pololei ʻole. a me nā kiʻi kūpono ʻole o ka moekolohe i ka noʻonoʻo.

ʻAʻole kūpono ke ʻano huki i ke ʻano hānau o ka kaohi hānau.

I ka wā mua o ka wā, ua hoʻohiki ʻo Simon Basset, ke Duke maikaʻi o Hastings a nani hoʻi, ʻaʻole loa he keiki e hōʻehaʻeha i kona makuakāne a hoʻopau pono i ka laina o kona ʻohana. No laila i ka pō i kali lōʻihi ʻia ʻo Simon a me kāna wahine hou, ʻo Daphne Bridgerton, i hoʻopau i kā lāua male, ua huki ke Duke i ka mea e lilo i kāna pūlima e neʻe i loko o ke kau.

ʻO ka huki ʻana i waho he ʻano ʻae ʻia o ka mana hānau ʻana i ke kenekulia 19, akā ʻōlelo ʻo Pearson ʻaʻole ia he ʻano hana contraceptive kūpono e nā kūlana o kēia mau lā. "Hiki ke loaʻa ka Sperm ma mua o ka cum, a inā aia, aia kahi manawa e hāpai ai ka hāpai ʻana," wehewehe ʻo ia. "[Hiki i kēia ke hana] inā ʻaʻole huki ke kāne i ka wikiwiki a hana maoli ʻo ia i ka ejaculate i nā mea āpau a i ʻole nā ​​ʻāpana o ka semen i loko o ka wahine."

I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, he 22 mau o kēlā me kēia 100 mau kānaka e hoʻohana nei i ke ʻano hemo a hāpai i kēlā me kēia makahiki, e like me ka Office on Health Women. (ʻAe, he ʻano nui kēlā.) No laila, inā ʻoe e hoʻāʻo nei e pale i ka hāpai ʻana, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka e pili ana i nā koho ʻē aʻe o ka mana hānau ʻana i hōʻoia ʻia e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, e like me nā mea hoʻohana i loko o ka ʻōpū, nā mea hoʻopaʻa waha, nā apo vaginal, a i ʻole. pākuʻi ʻili.

Ke haʻi nei i ke koko ʻaʻole e haʻi inā hāpai ʻoe.

Ma hope iki o ka hōʻea ʻana o Marina Thompson i ka hale nui ʻo Featherington, ua ʻike ʻo ia i ka ʻeli ʻana i loko o kāna mau pale e ʻimi ai i ke koko, kahi hōʻailona ua hōʻea kāna manawa i ka pō holoʻokoʻa. Minamina no ka mea hou o ke kaona, ua keʻokeʻo nā pale o Marina e like me ka hau hou i hāʻule, ka mea, i ka 1813, i manaʻo ʻia he hōʻailona paʻa ua hāpai ʻo ia.

Akā ʻo ke kipa nalo ʻana mai ʻAnakē Flo ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻoluʻolu ʻoe me "ke keiki," e like me kā Marina e waiho nei. "ʻO ka mea me ka pōʻaiapuni e ʻike paha i ka menstruation maʻamau i kēlā me kēia manawa, no laila ke lele ʻana i nā hopena inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i kahe i ke koko i loko o ʻehā pule hiki iā ʻoe ke hopohopo no ke kumu ʻole," wahi a Pearson. "ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ke aʻo ʻana a Cycle Kūʻai me ka University College London, ka mea i nānā aku ma mua o 600,000 pōʻaiapuni, ua ʻike he hoʻokahi wale nō i loko o ʻewalu mau wahine i ʻike i ka pōʻaiapuni 28 mau lā." ʻOiai nā kūlana olakino koʻikoʻi e like me ka polycystic ovary syndrome, endometriosis, a me nā fibroids hiki ke hoʻolohi i kou wā, ʻo nā hoʻololi iki i kou olakino, e like me ka lilo ʻana o ka paona, hoʻonui ʻana i kāu papa hana hoʻoikaika kino, a i ʻole ka hana ʻana i ke koʻikoʻi hiki ke hoʻopili i kāu pōʻai, e like me ka Cleveland. Kalinika

ʻAʻole e haʻi ʻia, hiki ke ʻike i ke kahe koko māmā a i ʻole ka ʻike mua ʻana i ka wā mua o ka trimester mua, ʻoiai ke pili mua ka hua manu i hoʻopili ʻia i ka paia o ka ʻōpū (aka implantation), inā he wahine ʻoe, ua loaʻa i kahi maʻi, a i ʻole kāu mau hormones. fluctuating, e like me ka US National Library of Medicine. Pākuʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kekahi o nā hōʻailona mua o ka hāpai keiki hiki ke like me nā hōʻailona PMS - e like me ka nausea, ka luhi, a me ka palupalu o ka umauma - a he paʻakikī paha e haʻi inā hāpai ʻoe a ʻaʻole kau ʻia ma ka intuition a i ʻole ke kau manawa wale. , wahi a Pearson. "Akā ke lawe nei i kēlā hoʻokolohua hāpai keiki a me ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e ʻike i kāu ʻoihana olakino hiki ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi pane paʻa ma laila," hoʻohui ʻo ia.

ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e mokulele i nā manawa i loko o ka masturbating no ka manawa mua.

ʻAʻole i liʻuliʻu ma hope o ka haʻi ʻana o Simon iā Daphne e pili ana i ka hauʻoli o ka hoʻopā ʻana iā ʻoe iho ma waena o kou mau wāwae, e moe ana ka Duchess e hiki mai ana ma luna o kona wahi moe no ka ʻimi ʻana iā ia iho. A i loko o nā manawa o ka holo ʻana i kona mau manamana lima i kāna mau keiki bipi a ma lalo o kona kapa moe, ua pihi ʻo ia i ka manawa mua.

IRL, ʻo kāu manawa mua e hoʻokolohua nei me ka masturbation ʻaʻole e kūlike me Daphne's. "ʻOkoʻa ka poʻe āpau, a ʻokoʻa ke kino o kēlā me kēia kanaka," wahi a Bryan. "ʻAʻole wau e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole hiki ke hana i kēlā wikiwiki, akā inā ʻo ka masturbating no ka manawa mua, maʻamau ia e pili ana i ke ʻano o ko lākou kino a me ka nui o kā lākou ʻike e pili ana iā lākou iho."

ʻO ia ke kumu e koi ai ʻo Bryan i ka poʻe o nā makahiki āpau e kiʻi i kahi aniani paʻa lima a hāʻawi i ko lākou wahi i lalo i kahi nānā maikaʻi, paʻakikī ma mua o ka hele ʻana iā ʻoe iho. Ma ka hoʻolōʻihi ʻana i ka manawa e aʻo ai i kāu anatomy - me kahi o kēlā me kēia ʻāpana o kāu wahine ʻino Aia a pehea lākou e nānā ai - ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e ʻeli a puni i ka ʻimi ʻana i ka clitoris a me nā wahi ʻono maikaʻi ʻē aʻe ʻoiai ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻoe e hoʻonāukiuki iā ʻoe iho. ʻO ka hopena kūpono: ʻOi aku ka wikiwiki a me ka ʻoi aku o Os, wahi a Bryan.

No ka moʻolelo, he mea maʻamau ka masturbate a ʻaʻole i ke kiʻekiʻe loa, hoʻohui ʻo Bryan. "ʻOiai ke loaʻa hou o kou ʻike me ʻoe iho, i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole ia ka lā," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "ʻO ia ka mea e pili ana i nā kino: Hana lākou i nā mea āpau a lākou e makemake ai e hana. ʻAʻole ia he manaʻo no ka manawa mua [e hoʻoweliweli ʻoe] e loaʻa ai iā ʻoe kahi orgasm, a ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻo ka ʻumi o ka manawa e loaʻa ai iā ʻoe kahi puna. "

ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e haʻalele i ka pipi ma hope o ka moe kolohe.

ʻAʻole ʻike ka poʻe pepeiao * ʻenehana * i nā hana ma hope o ke kaʻina o nā huapalapala, akā palekana ke kuhi ʻaʻole lākou e kuʻi i ka lumi hoʻomaha ma hope koke o ke aloha. Akā ʻo ka hana ʻana pēlā kahi kī nui e pale aku ai i nā maʻi urinary tract (UTI), hiki ke hoʻomohala ke hele ka bacteria i loko o kou pūpū, e like me ka OWH.

Penei pehea e hana ai: I ka wā o ka moekolohe a me nā hana frisky ʻē aʻe, nā hana manuahi ʻole o ka pālule, hiki i nā bacteria mai ka ʻōpū a me ka anus ke hoʻololi i ka urethra (ka paipu mai ka pūpū kahi e puka ai ka mimi mai kou kino). Ma laila, hiki ke hoʻonui a hoʻoulu i ka mumū, hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki i ka ʻeha a puhi paha i ka wā he mimi a me ka makemake e pee pinepine (ʻoiai ʻaʻole nui ka mimi e puka mai) - nā hōʻailona haʻi o ka UTI, e like me ka OWH. Huli aʻe, ʻōlelo ʻo Daphne iā Simona ua "puhi" ʻo ia nona ma mua o ka lele ʻana o nā iwi o kekahi i kekahi no ka manawa mua he ʻano maka.

ʻO kēlā'ōlelo, hiki i ka peeing ma hope o ka moekolohe ke kōkua i ka paleʻana i nā UTI, e like me kahi noiʻi i paʻiʻia ma ka Ka Nūpepa o Epidemiology Clinical. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hōʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi ʻokoʻa ʻeono mau mahina ma hope o ka hoʻomohala ʻia ʻana o nā wahine e ka wahine i kā lākou UTI mua, ua ʻoi aku ka haʻahaʻa o ka maʻi ʻelua ma waena o ka poʻe i hōʻike i ka pee ma hope o ka moekolohe. “Kōkua wale ka mimi ma hope o ka moekolohe ʻana i ka holo ʻana o ka urethra, kahi e puka ai ka pī, ”i wehewehe ai ʻo Pearson."He mea kōkua wale nō ia i nā maʻi bacteria i hoʻokuʻu ʻia ma laila." (Pili: Hiki iā ʻoe ke moe me kahi UTI?)

ʻAʻole paha ʻoe i like ka libido me kāu hoa - a ua maikaʻi.

E waiho maʻalahi, e hele ʻo Simon lāua ʻo Daphne iā ia e like me nā lāpaki i ko lākou manawa kōmina. A i kēlā me kēia hālāwai kolohe e hōʻike ʻia ai ka hōʻike, ua huli like nā Duke a me Duchess a mākaukau hoʻi e iho i lalo i ka ʻoihana. Spoiler: ʻO kēia pāʻani i hana ʻia ma ka lani libido ʻaʻole ia he mea i hana pinepine ʻia i ke ola maoli - a maikaʻi kēlā, wahi a Bryan.

"Hoʻomaka ka moekolohe i ka noʻonoʻo, no laila inā pilikia ʻoe e pili ana i kekahi mea, hiki ke hoʻolei i ka libido," wehewehe ʻo ia. "A inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e leo i kāu hoʻololi i ka libido] i kāu hoa, hoʻāʻo wale lākou e lele i kou mau iwi, ʻaʻole paha e hele e like me ia i loko. ʻO Bridgerton.”

He mea nui nō hoʻi e hoʻomanaʻo inā ʻaʻole mau ʻoe i ke ʻano ke mākaukau kāu hoa e frisky, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻole hauʻoli ʻoe i kou ola moekolohe a i ʻole kāu S.O., wahi a Bryan. "Manaʻo kekahi poʻe inā hōʻole ʻoe i ka moekolohe, hōʻole ʻoe iā lākou, ʻaʻole ʻo ia ka hihia," wehewehe ʻo ia. "Hiki iā ʻoe ke aloha i kāu pakanā, mālama i kāu pakanā, ʻumeʻume i ka moekolohe i kāu hoa, a ʻo nā loli i kāu libido ʻaʻole ia e loli. ʻAʻole ia e pili ana iā lākou - ʻo ia ka hana ponoʻī. "

I mea e hōʻoia ai iā ʻolua a me kāu mau kāne ma ka ʻaoʻao like, e hoʻomanaʻo iā lāua ʻaʻole ka pilikia, a laila e hoʻomaka i kahi kamaʻilio pū me lākou e pili ana i ka mea * maoli * e kāohi nei iā ʻoe, wahi a Bryan. Ke wehewehe nei i nā mea e hana nei i kou poʻo e hoʻololi ana i kou ʻano hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe a me kāu hoa e ʻike i nā ala e hana ai i kāu mau pilikia, i hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻihoʻi i kāu libido i kāu maʻamau, i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. (E pili ana: ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kēia mau ʻano 2 o ka makemake moe e kōkua iā ʻoe e manaʻo i ka mana o kāu Libido)

ʻAʻole pono ka moekolohe e hele mai 0 a 100.

ʻO Bridgerton he lohi paha ka hoʻolālā, akā wikiwiki nā hiʻohiʻona wahine - wikiwiki loa ʻo Simona lāua ʻo Daphne e lele i mua o ka foreplay a lele pololei i ke komo. Hoʻāla ʻia paha ka duo e hōʻoluʻolu e kiʻi iā ia ma kahi o ʻelima mau kekona ma hope o ka honi ʻana, akā no ka mea ʻike awelika, makemake ʻia kahi wā hoʻomehana lōʻihi.

"Ke ʻōlelo pinepine nei au ʻo ke kino wahine nui ma waena o kou mau pepeiao," wahi a Bryan. "No laila inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻonāukiuki i ka noʻonoʻo, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e hoʻonāukiuki i ke kino, a hiki ke hōʻoluʻolu ʻole no ka mea ʻaʻole e hana ana kou kino i ka lubrication kūlohelohe [i kēlā manawa]. Loaʻa ka manawa maikaʻi inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻāla ʻia, hiki ke ʻeha ke komo ʻana no ka mea e maloʻo ana [kou vagina]." (Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻaʻole i kau ʻo Daphne lāua ʻo Simon i ka lube i hoʻonohonoho ʻia ma kā lāua papa moena.)

ʻO ka hoʻolilo ʻana i mau minuke keu ma ka foreplay hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomākaukau i ka noʻonoʻo a me ke kino no ka hana nui. Eia kekahi, hiki ke kōkua mua ka pāʻani inā pili ʻoe me kahi hoa hou a ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻoe e aʻo i ke kino o kekahi, makemake, a makemake ʻole, wahi a Bryan. "Ma muli o ka hele mālie o ka foreplay, hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio a alakaʻi i kāu hoa ma mua o kou komo ʻana i ke komo," wehewehe ʻo ia.

ʻAʻole paha ʻoe i orgasm wale nō mai ke komo ʻana.

Ma o ka hemo ʻana i ka foreplay, malia paha ua hala ʻo Daphne i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka Os nui a ke Duke i maʻa mau ai ma o ka hana PIV. ʻO ka ICYDK, ʻekolu hapahā o nā kāne i ʻōlelo he climax lākou i kēlā me kēia manawa ke moe kolohe lākou, ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia i ka 28 pākēneka wale nō o nā wahine, e like me kahi noiʻi a Lovehoney o 4,400 poʻe. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, ʻo 18.4 pakeneka wale nō o nā wahine i noiʻi ʻia i hōʻike ʻia ʻo ka moe wale ʻana ua " lawa" i ka orgasm, e like me kahi noiʻi o nā wahine he 1,000 i paʻi ʻia ma ka Ka Nūpepa o ka Sex & Marriage Therapy.

Pela i ka mea hana wehe i kekahi mau wahine? ʻO ka hoʻonāukiuki Clitoral, ma o lākou iho a i ʻole e kā lākou pakanā, a me ka moekolohe waha, e like me ka nānā iki ʻana o nā wahine heterosexual - neʻe i ʻike ʻole ʻia e Daphne i ka wā o ka moekolohe, no laila ka nui o ka nele o nā wahine orgasms e hana nei i kēia moʻo. (ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka mahuahua mau ʻana ma loko o ka erotica i kuhikuhi nui ʻia i nā wahine he ol nui ' kanikau.)

A ma kahi o kāna hanana masturbation, ʻo ka manawa wale nō ia nana aku e like me Daphne i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka orgasm i ka wā o ka romp hope loa, mau manawa ma hope o ko lākou ʻae ʻana e noho pū a hana i ʻohana. I ka piʻi ʻana o ka uwē, ʻike ʻia ka piko o ka wahine ma ka * kikoʻī manawa like. Hiki loa ke hoʻokō i ka elusive i ka manawa like orgasm IRL, akā koi ʻia kahi hana (e noi wale i kēia mea kākau nāna i hoʻoholo iā ia i ka hoʻonā makahiki hou). Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole paha e hiki mai ia ma hope o 20 kekona o ka pahu ʻana. Wahi a ka loiloi ʻo Lovehoney, i ka hapalua o nā hihia hoʻokaʻawale i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia, hiki i kekahi kanaka ke kiʻi i kā lākou "point trigger" a pono e kali no kā lākou hoa e loaʻa ai. TL; DR: ʻO ʻoe a me kāu hoa pili i ka orgasm e lōʻihi paha ka lōʻihi ma mua o ka Duke a me Duchess '.

ʻO ka ʻae ka kī.

Ma hope iki o ka ʻike ʻana o Daphne i ka hapai ʻana o ke keiki a hiki iā Simona * hiki ke loaʻa nā keiki (ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia), ua hana ʻo ia i kekahi o nā hiʻohiʻona hoʻopaʻapaʻa loa o ka moʻo: Mid-intercourse, the Duchess hoists ʻo ia iho ma luna o Simon cowgirl-style a, i ka wā e kokoke ana e ejaculate, hōʻole ʻo ia e ʻae iā ia e huki i waho - ʻo kāna hele-i ke ʻano o ka contraception. Mau manawa ma hope mai, ʻōhumu ʻo ia, "Pehea ʻoe?"

ʻOiai ua ʻae ʻo Simon i ka moekolohe, ua hana ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻae e hele i loko o Daphne, wahi a Bryan. E hoʻomanaʻo, e Daphne ike ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia e hānau keiki (ʻaʻole naʻe nā kumu kūpono). A ʻoiai ʻaʻole i ʻulupā ka Duke i waho, "ʻAʻole, kū," ʻo ia hana e ʻōlelo, "e kali, kali, e Daphne," a ʻike maopopo ʻole ʻia ka ʻoluʻolu no ka hiki ʻole ke haʻalele. "No laila ʻaʻole ʻo Simona i hāʻawi aku iā ia i ka lawa o ka ʻike [e pili ana i kēia koho no ka loaʻa ʻole o nā keiki] e hoʻoholo pono ai, ʻaʻohe mea e ʻae e hōʻino i kāu mau palena no ka mea ʻaʻole maikaʻi ia no lākou," wahi a Bryan. (Pili: He aha ʻAe, ʻoiaʻiʻo? Hoʻohui, Pehea a i ka manawa hea e noi ai no ia)

I ka wā o kēlā me kēia moe kolohe, ʻo ka noi mau ʻana i ka ʻae ke kī. E noi i kāu pakanā inā lākou i lalo no ka hana ma mua hoʻomaka ʻoe, a ke hoʻomau nei ʻoe i ka hoʻonui ʻana i kāu mau hana, e nānā pū me lākou e hōʻoia i ko lākou makemake e hoʻomau, wahi a Bryan. "Ua ʻōlelo pū mākou me ko mākou kino ma mua o kā mākou ʻōlelo, no laila inā i kēlā me kēia manawa ke loaʻa ka ʻōlelo kino a i ʻole nā ​​helehelena e hōʻike ana he ʻoluʻolu ʻole ka mea ʻē aʻe, e nānā." A inā ʻaʻole lākou e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi "ʻae" hoihoi - ʻo ia hoʻi ʻōlelo lākou "ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu" a i ʻole "ʻaʻole maikaʻi kēia" - e hoʻokū i kāu mau hana ma laila, wahi a Bryan. E hoʻomanaʻo: Hiki iā ʻoe a i kāu hoa pili ke hoʻihoʻi i ka ʻae i kēlā me kēia manawa. (A he mea maikaʻi mau ka nānā ʻana ma hope o ka moekolohe - aka aftercare - e kamaʻilio ma waena o nā mea maikaʻi ʻole a maikaʻi ʻole a pehea kou manaʻo e pili ana i nā mea.)

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