No ke aha ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ma luna o ka Hui Wahine Soccer Hui Pū ʻIa e lanakila ana i ka hoʻolauleʻa piha BS

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ʻAʻole wau he pā soccer nui. Nui koʻu mahalo i ka nui pupule o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa e pono ai ka haʻuki, akā ʻo ka nānā ʻana i ka pāʻani ʻaʻole ia e hana iaʻu. Eia naʻe, i koʻu lohe ʻana e pili ana i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa e pili ana i ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana o ka hui ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa o ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa i kā lākou pāʻani mua o ka FIFA Women’s World Cup me Thailand, ua piʻi koʻu hoihoi.

ICYMI, ua hana ka hui i nalu me ka lanakila 13-0. ʻO lākou ka hui mua (kāne a wahine paha) i pahu i nā pahuhopu 13 i ka pāʻani o ka Honua, e hana nei i ka mōʻaukala me ka palena nui, e like me ʻO ka New York Times. ʻAʻole naʻe ʻo ka helu wale nō ka mea nāna i hoʻopuehu ka hulu—ʻo ia ke ala i lanakila ai lākou. Ua hauʻoli nā mea pāʻani me kēlā me kēia pahuhopu, e hoʻolauleʻa pū ana i ka manawa i kū ai ka pōpō i ka ʻupena e hōʻino ana i nā loiloi he nui (ahem, haters) e hōʻino i kā lākou hana, a kapa ʻia he unsportsmanlike.

"Noʻu nei, he mea mahalo ʻole ia," i ʻōlelo ʻia e ka mea hoʻokani kinipōpō peku o Kanada a me ka mea haʻi ʻōlelo TSN World Cup, ʻo Kaylyn Kyle ma hope o ka pāʻani. "Ua hele ka inaina i Thailand no ka hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻana i ko lākou poʻo." Ua ʻōlelo pū ʻo Kyle, ʻoiai ʻo ka World Cup ka wahi e lawe ai i ka lawe pio ʻole i ka hoʻokūkū, pono i ka hui ʻAmelika e hoʻōki i kā lākou hoʻolauleʻa makemake i ka wā i hiki ai lākou i 8-0. (Pili: Aloha ʻo Alex Morgan i ke pāʻani ʻana me he kaikamahine lā)

Pono ʻole e ʻōlelo, wili kēia i kaʻu mau uila.

ʻO ka mea mua, ma ke ʻano he mea pāʻani mua, ua ʻike ʻo Kyle o nā kānaka a pau e pili ana i ka hana paʻakikī a me nā ʻālana i koi ʻia e kahi mea pāʻani e hiki ai i ka pae kiʻekiʻe o ka hoʻokūkū. ʻO kēia wale nō ka waiwai a me ka hōʻoia ʻana inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hala i ka puni mua. ʻO ka lua, ʻo ka hapa nui o ka hui o ka wahine Wahine e pili ana i ka hoʻopiʻi kūwaho kūʻē i ka U.S. Soccer Federation no ka hoʻāhewa ʻia o ka hoʻowahāwahā kāne.

ʻO kēlā me kēia pahuhopu kekahi ʻōlelo hoʻohiki ʻē aʻe o ko lākou waiwai a waiwai i ka hui i hōʻino i ko lākou hiki, ʻoiai nā kūlana kiʻekiʻe a me nā mekala ʻOlumepika. A malia paha, he aha ka mea e hoʻohui i ka hōʻino i ka ʻeha, ʻo ke kime wahine ka poʻo poʻo a me nā poʻohiwi ma luna o kā lākou kāne kāne. Wahi a Vox, hiki i nā lālā o ka kime wahine ke hana ma kahi o 40 pākēneka o ka mea e loaʻa i nā mea pāʻani kāne –e huki pinepine lākou ma kahi o $ 3,600 no kēlā me kēia pāʻani ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā mea pāʻani kāne e loaʻa ana ma kahi o $ 5,000. I ka makahiki 2015, hōʻike ʻo Vox, ua hāʻawi ʻia ka hui wahine o ʻAmelika i $1.7 miliona no ka lanakila ʻana i ka World Cup wahine–ua loaʻa i ka hui kāne kāne US he $5.4 miliona bonus–ma hope o ka nalo ʻana i ka 16th puni o ka 2014 World Cup.

Akā, he aha nā mea e huhū loa iaʻu: He aha ke ʻano o ka leka i hoʻouna ʻia ai i kēia mau hoʻohewa ʻana no ka hoʻolauleʻa a me ka uku kālā a ka U.S. Soccer Federation i nā hanauna wahine hou? A i ʻole maoli, aloha nui nā kaikamahine i kekahi mea, ʻo ka pena ʻana paha, ka physics, a ʻoihana paha?

"He mea kupanaha ka lilo ʻana i mea haʻuki ʻoihana a manaʻo ʻia ua hoʻokō ʻia, akā i ka manawa like, he aha ke ʻano hoʻoilina āu e makemake ai e haʻalele?" i ʻōlelo ʻo Alex Morgan, kekahi o nā hōkū o ka hui pōpeku ʻōiwi wahine o U.S., i ʻO ka New York Times. Ua lanakila ʻo Morgan i ʻelima o nā pahuhopu 13 e kūʻē iā Thailand. "Ua loaʻa iaʻu kēia moeʻuhane o ka lilo ʻana i mea pāʻani pôpeku ʻoihana, ʻaʻole wau i ʻike he kumu hoʻohālike ia, he mea hoʻoikaika, kū i nā mea aʻu e manaʻoʻiʻo nei, e kū ana no ke kaulike kāne."

I nā haʻuki, i ka lumi papa, a i ʻole i ka lumi papa, ua haʻi ʻia nā kaikamahine – a me nā mea liʻiliʻi –e hoʻolilo iā lākou iho i mea liʻiliʻi e hiki ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe (ʻo ia hoʻi, nā keikikāne keʻokeʻo a me nā kāne) e noʻonoʻo a mākaukau hoʻi. E hāʻawi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kahi no ka hoʻomohala pilikino a me ka ulu ʻana, ʻoiai e hoʻokū nei i kā lākou iho i ke kaʻina. Hoʻouna ka hoʻopiʻi a me ka hoihoi ʻole o ka hui i kahi leka e hoʻopilikia i ke kūlana quo kahi e hoʻomaka ai nā kaikamahine, nā wahine, a me nā mea liʻiliʻi-a pinepine, e pāʻani i ka pāʻani holoʻokoʻa-ma kahi pōʻino. Inā mākou e hoʻāʻo e nānā i kekahi o kēia mau kaulike ʻole, hoʻoponopono ʻia mākou ma o ka hoʻohilahila ʻana, hōʻino ʻana, a i ʻole ka hana ʻino i nā hihia ʻoi loa. ʻOiai ua loaʻa ʻo Kyle i ka hoʻoweliweli make ma hope o kāna mau ʻōlelo e pili ana i ka hana a ka hui U.S. (E pili ana: Ke kākoʻo nei nā Influencers i ka hoʻoholo a Nike e hōʻike i nā Mannequins Plus-Size Ma hope o Backlash)

Ma ke ʻano he "makahiki" Milenial, ua hoʻoikaika ʻia nā haʻawina kuʻuna kāne kuʻuna i ke kula. Ua aʻo wau i ka wahine e pono ai ka noho mālie, hoʻohaʻahaʻa, a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa: keʻa i kou mau wāwae, mai kāhea aku, a hoʻowahāwahā i kou mau mākau. I kēia manawa, i nā manawa he nui, ua uhi ʻia nā kaikamahine i hahai i nā lula a hāpai i ko lākou mau lima i ka wā e kali ana e kaʻana like i kā lākou mau pane e nā keikikāne huhū i hoʻopau a hoʻokaʻawale i ka papa.

ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ma ka home, ua mahalo koʻu mau mākua i nā tālena a māua me koʻu kaikuahine (art nona, ʻauʻau naʻu) a hoʻoulu i ka ulu i nā wahi ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī. Ua haʻi mau ʻia mākou he mea maikaʻi e mākaukau loa i hoʻokahi mea a ʻaʻole maikaʻi i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻole mākou i wehewehe wale ʻia e ko mākou ikaika akā ʻoi aku ka pinepine ma mua o ko mākou nāwaliwali-a pehea mākou e hoʻokele ai i ka hemahema. Ua hānai ʻia mākou i ka moemoeā nui a kūlou i hope koʻu mau mākua e hoʻāʻo e hana i kēlā mau moemoeā nui. (Mahalo no ka chauffeuring iaʻu e alllll i nā hana ʻauʻau, keu hoʻi i ka make o ka hoʻoilo, e nā kāne).

ʻAʻole kēia he kuleana i kēlā me kēia kaikamahine. Ma waho o ke kula a me nā ʻohana koke, lawelawe ka lehulehu ma ke ʻano he makua amorphous paʻakikī e hoʻopili i lalo, akā ma nā wahi āpau. Ua aʻo ʻia mākou e kā mākou moʻomeheu, keu hoʻi e ka pāpāho, a keu hoʻi i kēia manawa. Nui ka poʻe e hoʻolohe nei i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ka hoʻokūkū no kahi haʻuki a lākou e makemake ai e lohe wale ʻoe ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻolauleʻa i kāu mau pahuhopu ma hope o kou paʻi ʻana i kekahi helu. Unuhi: hūnā i kāu mau kuko a me kou mau mākau i mea e kū ai i kahi kūlana patriarchal o ka mea e ʻae ʻia e wahine e hoʻokō. Hoʻokaʻaʻike Spoiler: He wahine talenti nā wahine a ʻo ka manawa kēia e haʻalele mākou i ke kala no ia. ʻO kēlā me kēia mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana, hiki iaʻu ke hana i ke koko.

Wahi a Bleacher Report, ʻo Jill Ellis, ke kumu aʻo soccer a ka wahine o ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, i ʻōlelo pōkole ʻia, "Inā he 10-0 kēia i loko o kahi kāne o ka Honua o ka Honua, e loaʻa ana iā mākou nā nīnau like?"

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka wahine kūleʻa a leʻaleʻa i kēlā hana i loaʻa i ka hana paʻakikī paʻakikī ʻole, no ka mea he nui. He pōʻino a kūpono ʻole - ʻaʻole kūpono i loko o kahi pahu i hoʻonohonoho mua ʻia. Kohu mea he ʻano kāne. Mahalo i nā wahine a me nā mea pale pale nāna i hoʻomākaukau i ke ala, manaʻo mākou e hiki iā mākou ke lilo i kekahi mea a mākou e makemake ai, akā hoʻi i hope ke kaiāulu, e haʻi ana iā mākou i kā mākou mau pahuhopu pono e mālama ʻia i loko o ke kumu. Hiki iā ʻoe ke nahā i ke kaupaku aniani, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe e uhaʻi. ʻOiaʻiʻo, aia kekahi mau ʻokoʻa i ke kānāwai, a mahalo mahalo iā lākou. Ma waho o Morgan a me kona mau hoa hui, ʻo Cardi B, Serena Williams, Simone Biles, a me Amy Schumer i waena o nā mea ʻē aʻe i hōʻoia me ka lawa o ka g gept a me ka hoʻokele, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō i kāu moe - a holo i kahi ʻōlapa lanakila ke hana ʻoe.

Akā ʻoiai kēia mau hiʻohiʻona hoʻoikaika, aia nō ka nui o nā kumu e huki ai i nā wahine ʻē aʻe.

Nui ka pīhoihoi e pili ana i nā wahine a me kā lākou kuleana i ka haʻuki i kēia manawa. ʻO Olympian a me nā mea āpau a puni Aasssia Montaño i kākau i kahi op-ed no ka New York Times, e hoʻohaunaele ana i ke ʻano o ka lawelawe ʻana o kekahi mau kāmaʻa kāmaʻa (a i ʻole maoli, mai lawelawe) i ka haʻalele hānau makuahine no kā lākou mau mea hoʻokūkū wahine, a hoʻokūkū pinepine iā lākou ma waena o kā lākou hāpai a hoʻi hou i ke aʻo ʻana ma mua o ka ʻōlelo a kā lākou kauka.

Hoʻohui, ʻo ka International Association of Athletics Federation (ka IAAF aka ke mele kiʻekiʻe a me ka hoʻonohonoho kahua) i hoʻāʻo e pāpā i ka holo ʻana o ka manaʻo, ʻo Caster Semenya mai ka hoʻokūkū ke ʻole ʻo ia i lawe i nā hormoni e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kāna mau testosterone kūlohelohe. ʻO wai ka mea i hoʻonohonoho i ka pae o nā pae testosterone ʻōiwi kūpono i nā wahine ʻimi wahine? ʻAʻole anei ia e kapa ʻia he pōmaikaʻi a i ʻole "makana" no nā mea pāʻani kāne? (Pili: Hāʻawi ʻo Aly Raisman i ka leka ʻaʻole i ʻae ʻia e heluhelu ma ka hoʻokolokolo iā Larry Nassar)

E hoʻi kēia i nā hoʻolauleʻa o ka hui pōpō peku o U.S. wahine – a ʻo ka hopena, nā ʻōlelo a Kyle. ʻAʻole ʻo ia ka hewa, ʻoiaʻiʻo—ua kuleana ʻo Kyle i kona manaʻo. Inā he mea, pono mākou i nā kamaʻilio hou aʻe e pili ana i kēia mau kumuhana i mea e nānā ai i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kēia manawa a me ka loli.

ʻO kaʻu nīnau kēia: Ma hea i aʻo ai ʻo Kyle e pono ai e hāʻule ka "ʻano maikaʻi" i loko o kahi bakeke kikoʻī? ʻO ia, e like me ka hapa nui o nā wahine ʻē aʻe, ua komo i nā ʻōlelo like i hoʻoheheʻe ʻia i kā mākou hui ʻana i ka psyche wahine mai ka wā kahiko. Inā aʻo ʻia ʻoe e hiki ke hiki i kā mākou kūleʻa a hiki i kēia manawa a hiki ke hōʻike ʻia i kāu mau hoʻolauleʻa ʻana ma kahi ala hoʻokahi - e hōʻemi loa ʻoe i kou mau mākau, nā mea i manaʻo ʻia, a hoʻokahuli i kou mau manaʻo o ka poʻe e ʻaʻa mai nei iā ia. IMO, kāna mau ʻōlelo i ke ea o ke ola holoʻokoʻa o ke aʻo ʻia ʻana aia kahi ala nūnū-holed e hoʻokano haʻaheo ai iā ʻoe iho.

He waiwai nui nā haʻawina ma hope o ka hoʻokūkū maikaʻi. E aʻo ʻoe pehea e lanakila ai a eo me ka lokomaikaʻi a hoʻomaikaʻi i kou hoa paio me ka nānā ʻole i ka hopena o ka pāʻani. ʻO Morgan wale nō ka mea. Ma hope o kāna hana kupaianaha, ua hōʻoluʻolu ʻo ia i kahi mea pāʻani Thai i ka pau ʻana o ka pāʻani. Ua hoʻomaikaʻi aku kekahi mau lālā o ka hui aupuni o U.S. i nā mea pāʻani Thai.

He manawa pīhoihoi i ka wahine. Ke ʻohi nei mākou i ka manaʻo kūpono no kā mākou hāʻawi nui ʻana i ke kaiāulu, a no nā hana ʻike ʻole a mākou e hana nei me ka ʻole o ka mahalo a i ʻole ka mahalo ʻia. Inā paha i makemake ka hui Poʻokela Poʻokela Wahine o ʻAmelika e lilo i kumu hoʻohālike, ke hana nei lākou i kahi hana maikaʻi loa IMHO. E hoʻomau i nā wahine, e hauʻoli wau no ʻoukou!

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