Haʻalele makuahine ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa: ʻIke Pono Pono ʻoe e ʻike

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• Haʻalele nā ​​makuahine i nā mea i ka United States
• Nā hopena o nā kulekele haʻalele hānai maikaʻi ʻole
• ʻAʻole hoʻomaha ka haʻalele makuahine

I ʻApelila 2016, ua paʻi ka New York Post i kahi ʻatikala i kapa ʻia "Makemake au i nā pili āpau o ka wā hānau makuahine - me ka ʻole o nā keiki." Ua hoʻolauna i ka manaʻo o "meternity." Hōʻike ka mea kākau i nā wahine i loaʻa ʻole nā ​​keiki e hiki ke lawe i nā wā hoʻomaha he 12 mau pule e like me ko lākou mau makuahine hana.

Ua maopopo i ka hapa nui o ka poʻe he mea bombastic e hoʻolaha i kāna puke. ʻOiai maopopo iaʻu ʻo ia ka manaʻo, ʻo ka mea maoli i hana ai ua hoʻomālamalama ʻia kaʻoiaʻiʻo o ka haʻalele makuahine ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa.

Ma mua o ka loaʻa ʻana o kaʻu mau keiki ponoʻī, e hana ana wau ma kahi ʻoihana Fortune 100 a manaʻo wau he haʻalele maikaʻi ka haʻalele ʻana no nā makuahine hou. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoluʻolu wau i kekahi manawa lili wau a i kahi huhū iki e pono wau e kiʻi i kahi hana keu.

I koʻu mau 20 mau mua, ʻaʻole au i hopohopo iaʻu iho me nā mea e pili ana i ka haʻalele makuahine. ʻAʻole wau i noʻonoʻo i ka paʻakikī o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi keiki a laila koi ʻia wau e hana i 12 mau pule ma hope me ka manawa hoʻomaha ʻole, kahi pēpē e hiamoe ʻole ana i ka pō, kahi waihona panakō i hoʻokahe ʻia, a me nā manaʻo o ka wā e wāwahi nei i ka naʻau. .

ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ʻole, ʻaʻohe oʻu manaʻo ʻo kaʻu kūlana hana ʻaʻole ia ke ʻano maʻamau a laki loa wau mai ka loaʻa ʻana o 12 mau pule a me ka uku hapa. ʻO ke ala maʻalahi loa e hakakā i ka stereotype o ka haʻalele ʻana i ka wā hānau he 12 mau hebedoma e hoʻomaopopo i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo. No laila, e hana i kēlā.

Haʻalele nā ​​makuahine i nā mea i ka United States

ʻAʻole kūpono ka 40 pākēneka o nā wahine no ka Family Medical Leave Act (FMLA) i hāʻawi ʻia he 12 mau pule no ka haʻalele ʻana i ka hana i pale ʻia, i uku ʻole ʻia, ma ka pae pekelala.

ʻO 12 wale nō pākēneka o nā wahine ma ka ʻaoʻao pilikino i hiki ke komo i nā ʻano uku no ka haʻalele hānau makuahine.

ʻAʻohe uku hānai hānau pekelala - waiho ʻia i nā mokuʻāina e ʻike.

ʻO Kaleponi, Rhode Island, a me New Jersey wale nō nā mokuʻāina me kahi kulekele ʻeleu.

25 pākēneka o nā wahine e koi ʻia e hoʻi i ka hana ma waena o 2 mau pule o ka hānau ʻana e kākoʻo i ko lākou mau ʻohana.

ʻO ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa wale nō ka ʻāina loaʻa kālā kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe e hāʻawi ʻole i ka wā hoʻomaha makuahine i uku ʻia ma ka pae pekelala. Hōʻoia ka uku uku ma nā ʻāina he 178, ʻaʻole ʻo ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa kekahi o lākou.

Manaʻo wau e hiki i nā mea āpau ke ʻaelike he weliweli a hōʻeha kēia mau ʻike. Ma ke ʻano he ʻāina, ua kūleʻa ʻole mākou i ka hoʻololi i ka hoʻokele waiwai e hoʻololi nei. Hana nui nā wahine i kahi mahele nui o ka GDP o ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa. Inā ʻaʻole i hana nā wahine, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke mālama i ko mākou kūlana hoʻokele waiwai. Inā hoʻomau ka haʻalele ʻana o nā wahine i ka loaʻa ʻole o nā pēpē a i ʻole hoʻomau i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā keiki he nui no ka pilikia o ka hoʻokele waiwai, pilikia mākou āpau.

Pono mākou e hoʻololi i ke kamaʻilio ʻana mai ka wā hānau makuahine i kahi kuleana a hoʻomaka i ke kūkākūkā ʻana i nā hopena maoli o ka nānā ʻole ʻana ma ke ʻano he kuleana kanaka.

Nā hopena o nā kulekele haʻalele hānai maikaʻi ʻole

Maliʻa paha ʻoi aku ka pīhoihoi ma mua o nā ʻoiaʻiʻo nā hopena o ka loaʻa ʻole o kahi kulekele waiho hānau pekelala i nā wahine a me nā keiki.

ʻO ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa ka helu kiʻekiʻe o ka make make pēpē mai 28 mau ʻāina waiwai i ka honua, e hele mai ana ma 6.1 no kēlā me kēia 1,000 hānau.

ʻO ka helu hānau ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa ma 1.83 no kēlā wahine kēia wahine, kahi haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa. Inā ʻaʻole mākou e mālama i ko mākou heluna kanaka, e hopena ia i kā mākou GDP a me ke kūlana waiwai.

ʻEha ka 1 i ka 10 mau wahine i ke kaumaha postpartum i United States.

Pono mākou e hana ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Ua koi pinepine ʻia mākou e kūʻē i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o nā kulekele haʻalele hānai maikaʻi ʻole he kulekele lehulehu maikaʻi ʻole. Me ka hapa nui o nā ʻohana ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa e hilinaʻi nei i nā wahine e loaʻa kālā, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hōʻole i nā pilikia maopopo a make hoʻi i loohia i nā makuahine āpau me ka nānā ʻole i kā lākou kūlana waiwai.

ʻAʻole hoʻomaha ka haʻalele makuahine

Pono ka manawa haʻalele makuahine.

Ke kaʻapuni nei i ka ʻatikala e pili ana i ka meternity, ua ʻōlelo ka mea kākau i ka manawa a nā makuahine i hoʻolilo ai i kā lākou mau papa kaukau ma ka wā hānau makuahine e hiki ai i nā makuahine ke "loaʻa iā lākou iho." Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻo kāna koho e hana lohi ʻo ia no ka mea ke ʻohi nei ʻo ia i ka molowa no kāna mau hoa hana makuahine. Malia paha ʻo ka manaʻo weliweli loa ka loaʻa i kēlā me kēia wahine i kahi hebedoma 12, uku hoʻomaha hānau. ʻAʻole wale ia ka hihia.

Ke kuhi nei i ka hāʻawi ʻia ʻana o nā wahine āpau i nā kuleana haʻalele i ka hānau makuahine he mea weliweli ia. ʻOiai ua manaʻo wau he kuleana ko nā wahine āpau i nā hebedoma 12 o ka haʻalele hana hoʻomalu ʻia. No ke aha e noʻonoʻo ai ka wahine ʻōpio i ka mea ʻē aʻe inā ʻaʻole ia kahi mea e hoʻopili iā ia iho? Pono nā wahine e hōʻoki i ka hilahila no ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻoihana a me ka hānau keiki. ʻAʻole hiki i kā mākou hoʻokele waiwai ke ola ke hana ʻole nā ​​wahine a hoʻomau i ka hānau keiki no ka hanauna e hiki mai ana. Ua hāʻule mua ka helu hānau ma hope o ka mea i koi ʻia e kākoʻo i ka ʻāina e like me kēia lā. E haʻalele kāua e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka haʻalele ʻana i ka wā hānau a hoʻomaka i ka mahalo i nā wahine e hāpai i nā keiki o ka wā e hiki mai ana. Ua hoʻomalu ka nui o nā ʻāina ʻē i kēia. No ke aha hiki ʻole iā mākou?