ʻO ka maikaʻi kupaianaha kupaianaha e hoʻonui ai iā ʻoe

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ʻAʻohe mea e hōʻoluʻolu ai iā ʻoe iho ma mua o ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi lima kōkua i kahi mea nele. (He ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka hana ʻana i nā hana lokomaikaʻi no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe he antidepressant ikaika ia, e like me kahi noi 2014. A i kēia manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohui i kahi kumu ʻē aʻe e kōkua ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i kāu papa inoa: ʻoi aku ka nui o ka poʻe altruistic, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, ka moekolohe.

ʻOiaʻiʻo. I kahi pepa i paʻi ʻia ma ka Ka Nupepa Pelekane o Psychology, hilariously titled "Altruism predicts mating success in humans," hana nā kānaka ʻepekema i ka hihia e moe pinepine ai ka poʻe lokomaikaʻi. Ua noiʻi nā kānaka noiʻi 192 mau wahine a me 105 mau kāne, e nīnau ana iā lākou i ka manawa a lākou e hana ai i nā ʻano hana like ʻole e like me ka hāʻawi ʻana i ke koko, ka hāʻawi kālā ʻana i ke aloha, a me ke kōkua ʻana i ka hoanoho. A laila, nānā lākou i ka moʻolelo pili kino o kēlā me kēia kanaka. ʻIke ʻia i ka poʻe i loaʻa ka helu kiʻekiʻe ma ka altruism i kī ʻia i ka nui o nā pepa. (I nā nūhou e pili ana i ka nīhou, eia ke kumu maʻamau o kāu moeʻuhane Gym.)

Ua hōʻike nā kāne kāne Altruistic i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hoa kolohe he nui i ko lākou ola ma mua o nā mea hāʻawi manawaleʻa liʻiliʻi, a ʻo nā kāne a me nā wahine ʻoluʻolu i kēia manawa i ka pilina i hōʻike i ka nui o ka moekolohe i nā lā 30 i hala. ʻOiaʻiʻo, aia kekahi mau hemahema i nā haʻawina e pili ana i ka ʻano hōʻike pilikino (hiki i nā kānaka ke e olelo ana aloha lākou?), akā ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi mua e ʻike mākou i ka poʻe altruistic e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi i ka nui holoʻokoʻa. Hoʻohui, ʻōlelo nā kānaka noiʻi he alualu maikaʻi ka altruism ʻoiai he hōʻailona waho a maopopo ia e hana kekahi i hoa wahine maikaʻi e hānau pēpē.

ʻO ia wale nō ka ʻōlelo ʻepekema no "ua wela ka lokomaikaʻi!" A kūpono ia. ʻAʻohe mea e hoʻonāwaliwali iā mākou ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi e pāʻani ana me kahi pēpē, e hele ana i kahi ʻīlio, a i ʻole kōkua i kahi luahine ma ke alanui. Maikaʻi 'ole kāne' ōpio? E hala mākou.

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