Hōʻike kahi Nūhou Hou i nā Wahine e makemake iā Dadbod i ʻeono Peke

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Mai ka wā i haku ʻia ai ka huaʻōlelo i kekahi mau makahiki i hala aku nei, ua lilo ka "dadbod" i mea o ka moʻomeheu hanana. ʻO ICYMI, ʻo dadbod kahi kanaka ʻaʻole nui ke kaumaha akā ʻaʻole nui kona ʻiʻo. ʻO ke kumu, pono e kāhea ʻia ka dadbod "normalbod." E like me kā mākou e kuhikuhi ai i ka manawa i lilo ai i * mea *, weliweli ka paipai ʻia ʻana o nā kāne i kēia manawa e ʻoluʻolu me kahi kino olakino maikaʻi ʻole.

Akā, pehea nā mombods? ʻO ka mea kaumaha, ʻoiai he mau makahiki ma hope mai, ke kali nei mākou i ka wahine e komo i kona puka nui.

Hoʻomaikaʻi ʻia nā mea hana e like me Leonardo DiCaprio, Jason Segel, a me Jon Hamm no ko lākou hiki ke ʻoluʻolu me kahi hiʻohiʻona palupalu a liʻiliʻi, a ʻaʻole pilikia lākou i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hana ma Hollywood. Hoʻoponopono ʻo DiCaprio e hoʻopuni iā ​​ia iho me kahi lako o nā ʻōpio a me nā hiʻohiʻona wela ma hope o kona kūlana dadbod. Akā i ka wā i hoʻomaka ai ʻo Rihanna i kahi hiʻohiʻona curvier, ua hilahila ʻo ia. (ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ua lawe ʻo Twitter i ka sexist a-hole kuleana.)

A ma kahi noiʻi i manaʻo maikaʻi ʻia akā hoʻonāukiuki i hana ʻia no ka hoʻohanohano ʻana i ka lā o ka Makua e Planet Fitness, kahi hale hauʻoli e haʻaheo nei i ka hiki ke loaʻa a me ka hoʻoweliweli ʻole i nā poʻe o nā ʻano kino āpau (ʻo ia hoʻi, he misionari weliweli), ʻike nā mea noiʻi. maikaʻi loa nā wahine me ka nānā dadbod. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hōʻike kā lākou mea i loaʻa i nā wahine paha makemake ia i ke kino mākala ʻoi aku ka nui. Ua komo ka ana ma kahi o 2000 mau kānaka a pau, a he 69 pākēneka o nā wahine i komo i ʻōlelo ua loaʻa iā lākou nā dadbods wahine. A 47 pākēneka o nā wahine i nīnau ʻia ua ʻōlelo lākou manaʻo lākou ʻo ka makuakāne ka "ʻeono ʻeke hou." ʻO kekahi o nā ʻike i manaʻo ʻia ua manaʻo nā wahine i nā kāne me nā dadbods i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka "mea male." (E lawe paha ʻoe i kēlā kumumanaʻo hope loa me ka palaoa o ka paʻakai.)

Eia ka mea kikeke: ʻEkolu o ka ʻelima (ma kahi o 60 pākēneka) o nā kāne e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou iho me he makuakāne lā ʻaʻole lākou e like me ka mea i hoʻokolokolo ʻia no ka maikaʻi ʻole. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i ke kiʻekiʻe o kēlā helu no nā wahine i manaʻo ʻole ʻia he kino "kūpono"?

Hiki iā mākou ke kiʻi i kahi WTF kani ?! ʻAe, ʻo ia nui hiki i nā kāne ke manaʻo kūʻokoʻa i ko lākou ʻano me ka makaʻu ʻole o ka nalowale ʻana i nā hoa pili-ʻo ia ka holomua. A he mea kupaianaha ka ʻike nui ʻana o nā wahine i ka abs-rock abs ʻole i hiki i nā mea āpau. Akā hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i ka helu like o nā kāne e makemake ana i ka wahine me ka ʻōpū ʻaʻole pālahalaha? A i ʻole e ʻōlelo ana ua makemake lākou e mare i kahi mea palupalu liʻiliʻi ma mua o ka wahine e like me ke supermodel? He mea weliweli loa ia no nā kāne e ʻike ka hapanui o nā wahine i ka ʻōpū palupalu e pili ana me ka dadbod i mea ʻono loa (e like me keia ka nānā ʻana), akā ʻo ka laina lalo, ʻaʻole ia e hele i nā ala ʻelua. Ma ke ʻano he kumu hoʻohālike nui, makuahine, a me ke kākoʻo maikaʻi o ke kino, ʻo Tess Holliday, i hōʻike hou aku nei, "Ua hao ʻia nā wahine momona i kā mākou moekolohe."

A ʻoi aku ma mua o kēlā, ʻo mākou maoli pono e hoʻolauleʻa i nā mea kupaianaha no nā kiʻi o nā kāne kāne i kēia manawa, i ka manawa ke emi nei ke komo ʻana i ka kaohi hānau, ʻaʻole hiki i nā wahine he nui ke haʻalele i ka wā hānau makuahine, a he mea hiki ʻole paha ke hele i kahi polokalamu pili aloha me ka ʻike ʻole ʻana i ka hilahila momona?

ʻOiai ʻo Leonardo DiCaprio vs. Rihanna kūlana i hōʻike mua ʻia aʻe nei kahi hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi loa e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka hoʻokani ʻana o kēia kūlana kaulua, ʻo ka ʻoi loa loa o ka noi ʻana i ka honua maoli. ʻOi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hana ma mua o nā wahine ʻoi aku ka momona. Akā i ka wā e pili ana i nā kāne i ka ʻimi ʻimi hana, ʻaʻole hoʻihoʻi ka obese iā lākou e like me ka nui, e like me kahi noi 2016 i paʻi ʻia ma Nā palena o ka Psychology. Ke noi nei ia i ka nīnau: No ke aha e inaina nui ai ʻo ʻAmelika i nā wahine momona? Pono e loli kekahi mea, a pono ia e hoʻomaka me ka ʻae ʻana he nani nā kino wahine momona hoʻi. Ua hauʻoli mākou no ʻoe ua mākaukau ʻoe e ʻae i kou mau kino, e nā kāne, akā ua hiki i ka manawa e noʻonoʻo ai e pili ana i ka ʻae ʻana i kā mākou, no ka ʻano a me ka nui.

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