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ʻOiai paha he mea maopopo leʻa no ka hana pinepine ʻana me kāu S.O. 'a'ole ia he 'oi aku ka maika'i o ka pilina (inā he ma'alahi wale nō ia!), ua loa'a i nā ha'awina ka nui o ka moekolohe a me ka hau'oli. Akā i kēia manawa, mahalo i ka noiʻi hou, aia hoʻokahi kaʻina nui: ʻOiai e hele pinepine ana ka frisky hana e hauʻoli ʻoe, e hauʻoli ʻoe ma hope o hoʻokahi sex sesh i kēlā me kēia pule e like me ʻoe ma hope o ʻehā. (ʻOiai mākou ma laila, e ʻike iā 10 Sex Mistakes Screwing You Up in the Sack.)

Paʻi ʻia ma ka puke pai ʻEpekema Social Psychological and Personality, Hoʻokumu ʻia ke aʻo ʻana ma luna o nā noiʻi ʻoi aku ma mua o 30,000 mau kāne ma US, a ʻo ia ka mea mua e ʻike ai ʻo hoʻokahi manawa i kēlā me kēia pule wale nō ʻoe e ʻohi ai i kēlā mau pōmaikaʻi hauʻoli! ʻO ka mea kupaianaha, ʻaʻohe ʻokoʻa o nā mea i loaʻa e pili ana i ke kāne, ka makahiki, a i ka lōʻihi o ka male ʻana o nā kāne, ua wehewehe ʻia ka mea noiʻi alakaʻi a me ka psychologist kaiāulu, ʻo Amy Muise, Ph.D, i loko o ka nūhou. (Pēlā kāne mai hana makemake i ka wahine ma mua o ka wahine? Ua hauʻoli nā manaʻo.)

Eia nō naʻe, pili ka loulou no ka poʻe wale i ka pili aloha. No ke aha paha ia? ʻAe, no ka poʻe hoʻokahi, pili ka pilina ma waena o ka wahine a me ka hauʻoli i nā tona o nā kumu, e like me ka pōʻaiapili o ka pilina i loaʻa ai ke kāne (he hoaaloha anei ʻoe me nā pōmaikaʻi? He kū hoʻokahi pō?) a pehea ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu ai. ka moekolohe ma waho o ka pilina. ʻO ke kumu, no ka mea hiki i kekahi kanaka ke haʻi iā ʻoe: paʻakikī, a no laila ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻoholo i ka manawa pinepine i ka moekolohe a me ka maikaʻi.

ʻO ka lawe ʻana? ʻAe, nui ka moekolohe i ka mālama ʻana i ka pilina pili me kāu hoa, akā ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hana i kēlā me kēia lā ke hana ʻoe i ka hana i hoʻokahi manawa i ka pule. A, ʻoiaʻiʻo, he kī mau ke kamaʻilio ʻana, no laila e kahakaha i kēia kanaka ma mua o kou hoʻomau ʻana: 7 mau kamaʻilio e pono ai ʻoe no ke ola wahine olakino.

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