ʻAʻole hoʻohālikelike ʻia kēia pēpē wahine e like me ka peni - Eia ke kumu nui loa

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• I ka makahiki o ka maʻalahi, he hassle nō ka moekolohe
• Pēlā nō, ʻaʻole nā ​​huahana Maude nā wahine wale nō - pili kāne kāne lākou
• Ma kahi kokoke i nā kāne āpau e kūʻai ʻia ma ke ʻano he mea huna no nā kāne wale nō

Hoʻopili mākou i nā huahana a mākou e manaʻo nei he pono no kā mākou poʻe heluhelu. Inā kūʻai ʻoe ma o nā loulou i kēia ʻaoʻao, loaʻa iā mākou kahi kōmike liʻiliʻi. Eia kā mākou hana.

ʻAʻole ka pahuhopu a Maude e hoʻoponopono i kāu mau pilikia moekolohe me kahi orgasm, e hōʻike i ka maʻalahi o ka moekolohe. Akā ʻo ke ala wale nō e maʻalahi ai ka noʻonoʻo ʻana iā ia ma ke ʻāpana o kou olakino o kēlā me kēia lā.

Hiki ke maʻalahi ka moekolohe? Ma ke ʻano he ʻuala kahu (a me kahi hoʻoponopono olakino), noʻonoʻo wau e pili ana i kēia nīnau i kēlā me kēia manawa ke pāʻani ke ʻano o ke ʻano moekolohe - a i ʻole e neʻe wau i nā mea i ka lumi moe. He aha ke ala kūpono e koi aku ai e hoʻohana lākou i kahi pale pale me ka pepehi ʻole ʻana i ka vibe? ʻAʻole lākou e hōʻike kēlā ma ke kīwī.

I ka hoʻokūkū ʻana o "Grace a me Frankie" ʻo Netflix i ka moekolohe, manaʻo kipi ia, akā mahalo i nā aniani o ka hoʻomākeʻaka. Hoʻomaopopo wau i ka nānā ʻana i ka vibrator poni i - frankly - makaʻu. Ke huli wikiwiki nei ʻo Google no ka 'vibrator' e hōʻike ana ʻaʻole mamao loa ka hoʻolālā bulbous o ka hōʻike mai ka zeitgeist o nā mea pāʻani wahine.

ʻO ka Vibrators ka hapanui o kahi poni a poni paha e walaʻau nei, "Mai poina e hūnā iaʻu!" Hoʻokomo ʻia kēia kala ʻana o ka "moekolohe me ke kapu" a hilahila wau ke ʻike ʻia ka ʻike pili wahine ma ka pakuhi.

I ka hoʻolauna ʻana o kaʻu hoa hana iā Maude, kahi ʻoihana pono o ka moekolohe o kēia au,… huikau au. Akā ʻoluʻolu nō. Hiki paha iaʻu ke noho i kā lākou huahana ma luna o kaʻu drawer moena me ka ʻole o koʻu kupuna wahine e hoʻoulu ahi? ʻO kā lākou hoʻolālā a me nā kala e pili pono ʻole i ka makasina ola Suetena me ka ʻole o ka hoʻouka ʻana i kekahi pū waikele - a ʻo ia nō ka hoʻohui wahine-ola i hui pū ʻia e nā hoa hui ʻo Eva Goicochea lāua ʻo Dina Epstein.

I ka makahiki o ka maʻalahi, he hassle nō ka moekolohe

"Ua ʻike mākou he ʻoluʻolu ʻole [a kūpono ʻole] no ka hapa nui o ka poʻe e kūʻai i kēia huahana. Pono ʻoe e kūʻai i nā condoms a me nā lubricants i loko o ka hale kūʻai lāʻau, a laila kūʻai ʻoe i nā mea pāʻani kolohe i loko o ka hale kūʻai wahine, kahi ʻano o ka ʻōlelo ʻole i nā wahine 'ʻaʻole koʻikoʻi kāu orgasm,' "ʻōlelo ʻo Eva iaʻu ma o ke kamaʻilio wikiō ʻana me ia a me Dina. .

ʻOiai he mea nui ke kanaka e pono ai ka moekolohe, nā stigmas moʻomeheu a me nā kamaʻilio e kuhikuhi iā mākou e hana i ke ala i ka moekolohe maikaʻi e like me ka paʻakikī. ʻO 24 mau mokuʻāina wale nō ka mea e koi ai i ka naʻau moekolohe, a ʻo 13 wale nō o lākou e koi i ka ʻike e kūpono i ka lāʻau. No laila paha no ke kumu ʻaʻole hiki i ka 30 pākēneka o nā wahine o ke koleke ke hoʻomaopopo i ka clitoris, ʻoiai nā stats e hōʻike ana he 36 pākēneka o nā wahine e pono ai ka stimulus clitoral e hiki mai. (Ua hōʻike pū aku ke kahu me 35 pakeneka wale nō o nā wahine ma UK hiki ke kapa pololei i ka wahine anatomy, a ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o nā kāne i hiki ke hana pololei i kēlā.)

ʻIke ʻo Eva i ka hopena o kēia mau stigmas iā ia i makua. "ʻO ka mea nui loa iaʻu e noʻonoʻo nei ʻo ka moekolohe wale nō e pili ana i ka leʻaleʻa kāne, no ka mea manaʻo wau ʻo ia wale nō ka mea a mākou e aʻo ai. Manaʻo kekahi e like me ka paʻakikī o kā mākou kino wahine no ka mea ʻaʻole mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā lākou. A no laila - hilahila wale ʻoe e ʻimi i kēlā ma ke ʻano he kumuhana a ʻae ʻoe i ka ʻae ʻana i nā kāne i ka ʻokena a ʻaʻole nā ​​wahine. "

Ke nīnau wau iā ia i kāna ʻōlelo aʻo no kāna ʻōpio iho, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia: “Masturbate ma mua, a e haʻi wau iaʻu iho e ʻike ka poʻe āpau i ka palekana, ʻoluʻolu, a me ka māʻona. ʻAʻole wale ia e pili ana i hoʻokahi kanaka. "

Pēlā nō, ʻaʻole nā ​​huahana Maude nā wahine wale nō - pili kāne kāne lākou

"ʻO nā mana i kū i nā makahiki i hala iho nei ua kikoʻī a kikoʻī hoʻi no nā wahine. Loaʻa iā mākou a pau nā helu ʻeha e pili ana i ke kūʻai ʻana i kēia huahana. No laila, no ke aha i loaʻa ʻole ai ka laikini i hoʻohui ʻia ke kāne? "

Wahi a kahi hōʻike ma 2014 e FHM, kahi kāne kāne hoʻopau ʻole i kēia manawa, 70 pakeneka o nā kāne i ʻike e hoʻohilahila i nā mea pāʻani. "Hoʻomaopopo mākou i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo aia kekahi poʻe i ʻike ʻole he kāne a wahine paha a he moekolohe nā kānaka āpau. Ke hoʻāʻo nei mākou e hana i nā huahana i pili wale i nā pono o ke kanaka - no kēlā me kēia. "

Hōʻike kēia i ke ʻano o kā lākou vibrator, ʻaʻole ia ke ʻano phallic maʻamau. Unobtrusive loa ia. "Pono maoli ke kinona iā ʻoe e hoʻohana ia ma kahi āu e makemake ai, a ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e lilo i wahine e hoʻohana. ʻAʻole mākou e koi aku i kekahi e waiho i ke ala āpau i loko o [ko lākou kino] ma nā wahi āpau, akā ʻo ka manaʻo ʻo ia ke ʻano ergonomic i mea maikaʻi no kekahi mea. ʻO kou mau lima hoʻi, ʻoluʻolu maoli ia. " Hōʻike ʻo Dina iaʻu i ka mea haʻalulu, kahi kulu waimaka elongated a kūlike maikaʻi i kona lima, e like me ka pōhaku lele ʻoi loa.

"ʻO ka nui o nā mea haʻalulu i waho i kēia manawa aia ma waena o 10 a 20 mau wikiwiki ʻokoʻa," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia, "He maʻalahi kēia. Ekahi. Elua. Ekolu."

Akā ʻaʻole i loli ʻo Maude i nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka vibrator. Mālama ʻia nā mea maikaʻi - e like me ka USB-chargeable, wai ʻole, a me ka holo ʻana ma luna o ka ʻenekini kaʻa e hoʻāʻo ʻia. Hiki i nā wahine i loaʻa i nā mea haʻalulu o lākou ke hoʻomaopopo i kēia buzz humming. "He ikaika loa ka haʻalulu, a makemake nā wahine he nui i ka mea haʻalulu ikaika, akā ʻo nā mea pāʻani ma waho e hōʻike nei he ʻano hoʻoweliweli kā lākou," i ʻōlelo ʻo Dina, e pili ana i nā haʻalulu ʻāpala wela e hui nei nā ʻoihana. ka mākeke.

Lana ʻo Eva lāua ʻo Dina e uku ana kēia makaʻi hoʻolālā. Akā, ʻoi aku ma mua o kēlā, ke lana nei ko lākou manaʻo hiki i kā lākou huahana ke hoʻomaka i kahi loli. "He nui nā mea e pono ai mai ke aʻo a me ke kulekele," e ʻae ʻo Eva. "Akā no mākou, hele mai mākou mai ia mai ke kihi o: Inā ʻoe e hana i kahi koho ʻē aʻe maikaʻi - kahi huahana a ka poʻe e manaʻo ai e hāʻawi ʻia me kahi leo aloha, kahi e" normalize "i ka moekolohe ma ke ʻano he mea maʻamau o kēlā me kēia lā - [a laila] hiki iā mākou ke hoʻopili i ka loli a hoʻomaka maoli i nā kamaʻilio e hiki ke hoʻololi maoli i ke kulekele. ”

Ke kamaʻilio nei e pili ana i ka moekolohe a me ka moʻomeheu wahine e loli nei, wikiwiki. Ma waenakonu o #MeToo, ke kamaʻilio nei nā wahine a me nā kāne, e hōʻike ana i ka hilahila o ka moekolohe, nā stigmas, a me ka maikaʻi ʻole o ka moekolohe ʻana i ka wahine. (ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha i ka ʻōlelo a ka ʻepekema i ka hiki ʻole i ka moekolohe maikaʻi ke hoʻopili maikaʻi ʻole i kou olakino holoʻokoʻa.)

Ma kahi kokoke i nā kāne āpau e kūʻai ʻia ma ke ʻano he mea huna no nā kāne wale nō

Noʻu, ma ke ʻano he mea mau i ke kaʻina o ka ʻike ʻole i ka manaʻo o ka moekolohe ma ke ʻano he kāne, pīhoihoi ke ʻano kono a Maude ma muli o ke ʻano o ka maʻalea.

ʻO nā lubricants ʻelua a Maude, hoʻokahi aloe i hoʻokumu ʻia a me kahi silikō ʻē aʻe ($ 25), aia i loko o nā ʻōmole pump-free pump. (E like me kā Eva a me Dina e hōʻike mai ai iaʻu i kā lāua kini, hoʻomanaʻo hou nā kīʻaha kūpono. ʻO kahi ʻike i loaʻa iaʻu me ka lube, ua pahee ka ʻōmole ʻeke a uhi ʻia i ka lepo ma hope.) He ʻano moisturizer nō hoʻi ia, no laila hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻalele maoli ma kou wahi moe.

ʻO kā lākou condom-free fragoms ($ 12 no 10) i loko o kahi ʻeke buttercup, ʻo ia hoʻi ʻike ʻoe i ka ʻaoʻao ke ala pono i luna (rim ma waho!) ke wehe ʻoe - ʻaʻole wau i ʻike he ala kūpono ko luna condom. A me ka mea pahee, mea pīlali mea pīlali ($ 45)? ʻAe, ʻaʻole hoʻokūpaʻa ke kinona i ka manaʻo e pono iaʻu kahi peni no ka leʻaleʻa.

Paipai ʻo Eva lāua ʻo Dina i ka kini huakaʻi ma kahi o ke kūʻai ʻana i kēlā me kēia mea. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, hiki ke kūʻai i nā mea āpau i ka manawa hoʻokahi kahi ʻike Maude nui. Akā maʻalahi ka maʻalahi ʻana o ke kūʻai ʻana no ka moekolohe?

I ka hopena, pili maoli ia i ke kanaka. ʻO ke kāne ka mea. ʻAʻole hoʻoholo ka pahuhopu o Maude i kāu pilikia me kahi orgasm i hoʻohiki ʻia e like me nā ʻoihana ʻē aʻe. Akā, ke hōʻike nei lākou iā ʻoe i ka moekolohe kahi ʻāpana o kou olakino o kēlā me kēia lā, ʻaʻole kū hoʻokahi pō.

"ʻO kahi nīnau i kupu mai i nā mea he nui iā mākou:" E hana anei ʻoe i wahi no ka kamaʻilio ʻana o ka poʻe me kekahi? E lilo ana paha kahi wahi no ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa a me ka aʻo ʻana? ’” Wahi a Eva iaʻu. "Lana ko mākou manaʻo e kiʻi i laila, i lilo ai kēia mana i kahu hipa no kēlā moʻomeheu. ʻAʻole makemake mākou e ʻōlelo e hoʻolohe ʻoe iā mākou, no ka mea, paʻa paʻa ko mākou manaʻo ke hana kahi hui huahana i ka ʻike, manaʻo mau lākou e hoʻāʻo ana ʻoe e kūʻai aku iā ʻoe i kekahi mea. No laila ʻaʻole mākou makemake e lawe i kēlā kihi. Makemake mākou e lilo i mea kōkua nāna e hāʻawi i kēlā paepae no ka poʻe e kamaʻilio i kahi a mākou e alakaʻi ʻole ai. "

Ke kūʻai aku nei nā ʻoihana āpau, i kēlā me kēia ʻoihana, i kahi ʻano nohona - ʻaʻole e hoʻokuʻu ʻia nā mea hana mea pāʻani keaka. Akā ʻo ke ʻano o ka nohona a ka hapanui o nā ʻoihana pāʻani e hāʻawi i ka moʻolelo o ka moekolohe ʻoluʻolu ʻole. Maude, ma o kā lākou unisex, hoʻolālā minimalist, ke hāʻawi nei i ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. Ma ka hoʻolālā, ma ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi mea haʻalulu ʻaʻole phallic a poni paha, ma o ka hoʻonoho ʻana i ka pilina kanaka ma mua o ka pāʻani hopena - ua hoʻohiolo lākou i nā kuʻikahi i hoʻohālikelike ʻia i nā makemake moekolohe o ka poʻe.

ʻAʻole wale ka moekolohe no nā manawa pōuliuli, ʻano lulu a i ʻole nā ​​hanana e hiki mai ana. ʻO kahi ʻāpana o ke olakino i kēlā me kēia lā, a ʻo ke ala ʻoi loa e noʻonoʻo ai pehea e hana ai ka moekolohe i kou ola e hoʻokomo iā ʻoe iho.

Hoʻomaka ʻo Maude ma ka lā 2 ʻApelila 2018 a hāʻawi i nā condom, ʻelua ʻano lubricant, kahi vibrator, a me ka pahu ʻo “quickie”. E loaʻa nā huahana ma getmaude.com.