Makemake kēia mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ʻoe e ʻike i kēlā ʻano wahine ʻaʻohe ʻano kino

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ʻAʻole huikau ʻo Kira Stokes i ka wā e pili ana i ke olakino. ʻO ka mea nāna i hana ʻo The Stokes Method aia ma hope o kā mākou hoʻokūkū papa 30-lā a me 30-lā hoʻokūkū lima, a hoʻolālā ʻo ia i nā kaapuni no nā poʻe kaulana e like me Shay Mitchell, kā mākou kaikamahine uhi Fepeluali, a Hale FullerʻO Candace Cameron Bure.

A ma muli wale nō o kona ikaika e like me ka pō (koʻikoʻi, hoʻāʻo i kāna hana obliques ikaika) ʻaʻole ia he ʻano palekana i nā ʻōlelo hōʻino. ʻO nā ʻōlelo e like me "" Hoʻowahāwahā kēlā. ʻAʻole wahine iki "a" ʻo wau wale no ka wīwī, akā ʻo ke kino o ke kāne ia, "e hōʻike ʻia ma kā Kira's Instagram mau pou, e ʻokiʻoki iā ia no ka 'ikaika loa'.

"Ke heluhelu ʻoe i nā manaʻo e like me ia ma ka pāpaho pūnaewele, ʻoiai he kanaka hilinaʻi nui ʻoe, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo e paʻi lākou i kou puʻuwai-ʻoiai he liʻiliʻi wale nō," wahi a Kira. Kinohi. "ʻAʻole pili kēlā manaʻo me aʻu no ka lōʻihi-hiki iaʻu ke palaki iā ia-akā no ka mea ʻo mākou, ʻo nā mea hoʻomaʻamaʻa, loaʻa kēia ʻano ikaika waho ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ʻaʻohe o mākou ʻaoʻao kanaka. No ka ikaika o kou waho ʻo kou mau manaʻo, a me kou mau manaʻo e hōʻeha ʻia."

Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Kira ua loaʻa iā ia nā ʻōlelo like i ke kino. "E hele au i waho i ke kahakai, e holoholo e like me nā mea āpau, a leo nui Ua lohe wau i ka poʻe e ʻōlelo i nā mea e like me 'ugh ʻaʻole wau makemake e nānā i kēlā' "ʻōlelo ʻo ia." He mea hoʻonāukiuki no ka mea manaʻo wau ua ʻike ka poʻe i kahi wahine ikaika a manaʻo lākou e hiki iā lākou ke ʻōlelo no ka mea ʻaʻole ia e hoʻopilikia ʻia e ia. ʻAʻole maikaʻi."

Hoʻāʻo ʻo Kira e hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole pili iki kēia mau ʻōlelo iā ia. "Aloha au i ka hana nui aʻu i hoʻokomo ai i loko o koʻu kino," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "He mea ia e hoʻoulu ai i ka manaʻo o ka poʻe a mai hōʻemi iki lākou iā lākou iho, no laila ke lohe wau i nā ʻōlelo e like me kēlā, hoʻomanaʻo wale wau iaʻu iho i kēlā mau poʻe i kekahi mea e hana nei i loko o lākou iho ʻaʻohe mea e pili ana iaʻu."

ʻO ia ke kumu a mākou e haʻaheo nei i ko Kira hui pū ʻana me kā mākou #MindYourOwnShape paipai, ʻo ia ka hōʻike ʻana i ka poʻe i ke aloha i kou kino ʻaʻole pono ia he inaina i kekahi.

He ʻōlelo maʻalahi kā Kira no ka poʻe inaina i nā kino o haʻi: "Ma mua o kou hana ʻana i kahi manaʻo, hoʻi i hope a noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kahi e hana ai. oe manaʻo. Ke ʻike nei ʻoe ua kākau ʻoe 'he kāne ke ʻano,' e kōkua anei kēlā iā ʻoe e hiamoe maikaʻi i ka pō? E hōʻoluʻolu paha ʻoe iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kanaka? ʻAʻole paha. "ʻAʻole mākou lana ka manaʻo ʻaʻole.

Lana ʻo Kira hiki iā ia ke hoʻoulu i nā wahine ʻē aʻe e ʻike ʻo lākou wale nō ka mea i hiki ke kuhikuhi i ke ʻano maoli o ka wahine. "I kēia mau lā, ke lana nei koʻu manaʻo ua ulu mākou e ʻae i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka makemake o nā wahine e noho i loko o ka hale hoʻoikaika kino, hāpai i nā mea kaupaona, a hana i kahi kino ikaika," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "He aha kēlā mea e nānā ai kekahi wahine e manaʻo ʻia he wahine. "

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