Loaʻa iaʻu ke aloha i kahi pāʻani pūnaewele

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• ʻO ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi nui loa
• ʻO nā pāʻani ma ke alahaka ma waena o nā moʻomeheu
• ʻO ka mea huna i ke aloha maoli?

I kekahi mau makahiki i hala aku nei, e hana ana wau i loko o ka ʻānō hana huaʻōlelo numbing o kahi ʻoihana nui, kahi keʻena loiloi mua i pili ʻole i nā kamepiula o kēia au. ʻO ka manaʻo o Microsoft Office e pili ana i nā mea o ka ʻoihana ke hana i kā mākou hana. Ua pono koʻu poʻo o ka ʻaoʻao e lawe i kahi papa e aʻo pehea e hoʻohana ai i ka iole, akā ʻo ia he limahana lōʻihi loa kokoke loa i ka hoʻomaha loa, no laila ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e ʻike kekahi i ka pono ʻole o kā mākou ʻoihana.

I kēlā me kēia lā, e kali ana māua me koʻu hoahānau minion no kahi leka i kahi manawa e hoʻoponopono ai a i ʻole kahi hōʻike e hōʻano, makehewa ʻole. A ʻoiai mākou e kali ana, ʻaʻole mākou i ʻae ʻia e heluhelu i nā puke a i ʻole nānā i ka pūnaewele, no ka mea hiki i kekahi ke hele aʻe a ʻike he palaualelo mākou. ʻAe wale ʻia mākou e hana i nā mea pili kikokiko i ka kamepiula. ʻAʻole mālama koʻu poʻo o ka ʻaoʻao i ka mea, inā ʻaʻole hiki i ka mea hele maʻa mau ke ʻike ʻaʻole paʻakikī mākou i ka hana.

Malia paha wau i hoʻohana i ka manawa e hoʻonā i nā mea pohihihi o ke ao, e like me kā Einstein hana ʻana ma ke keʻena patent. Akā ma kahi o, ua huli au i koʻu makemake lōʻihi i ka pāʻani ʻana.

ʻOiai i ka hopena o 90, ʻaʻole nui nā pāʻani i loaʻa e hoʻokipa maikaʻi ai iaʻu i loko o kahi lā hana he ʻewalu hola, ʻaʻohe kiʻi kiʻi, a ua hiki ke hele ma waena o ka hale hana ahi. Akā ua ʻike koke wau i kahi pāʻani e kūpono i nā pae hoʻohālikelike āpau. ʻO ia kahi Dimension Multi-User (MUD) - kahi pāʻani pūnaewele, hoʻokumu ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo, pāʻani pāʻani multiplayer -ʻohana ʻia e kahi kulanui ma Paderborn, Kelemānia.

Ua aloha mau wau i nā pāʻani wikiō, e hoʻomaka ana me Ms. Pac-Man a me nā papa hana arcade ʻē aʻe, a me nā pāʻani maʻalahi i loaʻa ma kaʻu Vic 20. Akā ʻaʻohe pāʻani e hoʻopili i koʻu ola i ke ala e hui pū ai me ka MUD.

I koʻu komo ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā, ʻike wau i ka pāʻani wale nō, akā i nā mea pāʻani ʻē aʻe. Ua hoʻomaka wau e hana i nā hoaaloha i hele ma mua o ka pāʻani. I ka manawa koke, ke kūʻai aku nei wau i nā helu kelepona, nā pūʻulu mālama, a me nā kamaʻilio lōʻihi e pili ana i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā mea hou aku e pili ana i ke ola, ke ao holoʻokoʻa, a me nā mea āpau IRL.

ʻO ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi nui loa

I ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, ua lilo kekahi mea kikoʻī iaʻu i mea aloha. Ma waho o kahi pilina a pēlā nō hoʻi wau. Ua hoʻolōʻihi mākou i ka manawa e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke ʻano o ke aloha iā mākou, a pehea e hana ai nā pilina. He mau hoaaloha maikaʻi mākou - he mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa, malia paha me ka hiki ke loaʻa hou aʻe. Akā aia kekahi pilikia koʻikoʻi: ua noho ʻo ia ma 4,210 mile ka mamao, i kahi ʻāina kahi hiki ʻole iaʻu ke ʻōlelo i ka ʻōlelo.

Loaʻa kahi hui pū i ka MUD ma ke kino, a lele wau i kēlā me kēia kai e kū ma laila. Ua hui kino au i kuʻu hoa aloha maikaʻi, a aloha mākou.

ʻAʻole like me ka nui o kaʻu mau hoapili, ʻaʻole wau i makemake e haʻalele i koʻu mokuʻāina home o Maryland. ʻAʻohe oʻu makemake e neʻe i kahi kūlanakauhale nui a i ʻole ka ʻāina ākea. Ua hauʻoli wau ma hea wau. Akā ke ʻike ʻoe i kekahi e kūlike ana kona mau manaʻo ma nā pāʻani a me ke aloha me kāu ponoʻī, lapuwale ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i kēlā kanaka e hele. 10 mau mahina ma hope mai, ua neʻe wau i Kelemania.

ʻO ka neʻe ʻana i kahi ʻāina hou kahi ʻano ʻē a kupanaha ia, akā paʻakikī pū kekahi - keu hoʻi ke nele kāu ʻike ʻōlelo. Ua manaʻo ka hoʻokaʻawale e hakakā e kamaʻilio i ka maka he alo, a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa e hina i waena o kahi ʻōlelo ke hiki ʻole ke hoʻomanaʻo i nā huaʻōlelo āpau. Akā inā aia kekahi mea i hiki ke hana i kahi hoʻololi e like me ka maʻalahi, ke pāʻani nei.

ʻO nā pāʻani ma ke alahaka ma waena o nā moʻomeheu

ʻO nā pāʻani koʻu ola ola i kēlā mau mahina mua. Ua pāʻani wau i nā pāʻani kāleka ma nā hale inu, nā pāʻani papa ma nā pāʻina, nā pāʻani LAN me kahi hui nui o nā hoa pāʻani pāʻani hoihoi i kēlā me kēia ahiahi o ka Pōʻalima, a me nā pāʻani wikiō me kaʻu kāne ma ka home. ʻOiai ʻo ka hoʻopaʻi ʻia o kaʻu mau ʻōlelo, ʻaʻohe pilikia o kuʻu mau hoaaloha i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka pihi sniper hoʻonoho maikaʻi ʻia ma Counterstrike a i ʻole kahi hoʻolālā i hana pono ʻia ma Carcassonne.

ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu inā wau e hoʻopili iā ia i Kelemania me ka ʻole o nā pāʻani ma ke ʻano he ʻōlelo ākea ma waena o kaʻu mau hoaaloha. Akā he 17 mau makahiki wau ma aneʻi. Ua male hauʻoli wau me kaʻu kāne, a ke pāʻani pū nei nō hoʻi i nā pāʻani like ʻole ma mua.

Ke hoʻomaka nei kā mākou keiki kāne he 5 mau makahiki e hōʻike i kona aloha no ka pāʻani pū kekahi. ʻOiai ʻo kāna pāʻani punahele kahi hūnā-a-ʻimi a kaupalena ʻia kāna manawa pale, hiki iā ia ke haʻi iā ʻoe i nā mea a kēlā me kēia moʻo Pokémon Go e ulu aʻe ai, a e hele hauʻoli me ka lōʻihi i kāna ʻimi e "hopu iā lākou āpau." ʻAʻole ia i hoʻomaka e heluhelu, akā ua aʻo ʻo ia e ʻike i nā huaʻōlelo kūpono i nā pāʻani wikiō āna e pāʻani ai, a hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻo ia i nā mākau kaʻa maikaʻi me nā pāʻani papa no nā keiki.

No laila pinepine, hōʻike wale ka pāpāho i nā mea maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana i ka pāʻani ʻana. Ua hoʻopiʻi ʻia nā pāʻani wikiō ma ke ʻano he kumu o ka hoʻowalewale, mālama pili ʻole, hyperactivity i loko o nā keiki, a ʻo nā mea weliweli e like me nā kī ʻana a Columbine. Akā i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa, hiki i nā pāʻani ke lilo i mea pono no ke aʻo ʻana, ka hoʻomaha ʻana, a me ka hana ʻana i mau hoaaloha.

ʻO ka pāʻani ke wili e hoʻopaʻa paʻa ai i koʻu ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha. Ua hāʻawi ʻia iaʻu kahi ala e kamaʻilio ai ke holo pono ʻole ka huaʻōlelo iaʻu. Ua lawa ka ikaika o kaʻu aloha i nā pāʻani e hoʻopili i nā pilina ma nā mile he nui a e hoʻolele i nā moana.

Ua hoʻolilo lākou i kaʻu hana luhi loa i kaʻu huakaʻi nui loa, ke aloha nei a neʻe aku i kahi ʻē. A ua hōʻuluʻulu lākou i kahi hui aloha o nā hoa aloha i hala mau makahiki.

ʻO ka mea huna i ke aloha maoli?

ʻAʻole wale mākou. I kēia lā, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka poʻe e ʻimi nei i nā pilina a me ke kūkulu ʻana i nā pilina ma o ka pāʻani ʻana. ʻOiai manaʻo ʻia ka pāʻani wikiō he ʻano leʻaleʻa kāne, ua hōʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi e kokoke like me ka nui o nā wahine i mea pāʻani maʻamau, ʻoi aku paha ma mua o nā kāne. Ua ʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi ma 2015 e ka Pew Research Center i ʻoi aku ka nui o nā wahine ma mua o nā kāne ponoʻī i nā consoles pāʻani. Me ka nui o nā poʻe o nā kāne ʻelua e pāʻani ana, nui a nui ka manawa kūpono e hū ai ke aloha.

ʻAʻole like me ka poʻe e launa ma o nā pūnaewele pili aloha, ʻike ka poʻe e pāʻani pū nei he makemake lākou i ka like maʻamau mai ka ʻōpeʻapeʻa. A loaʻa i kēlā mau mea pāʻani ka manawa e ʻike ai i kekahi i kekahi ma ka manawa, e hoʻoholo ana inā he hoʻokūkū maikaʻi lākou me ka ʻole o ke kaomi a me ka awkwardness kūpono o ka launa pū ʻana.

ʻO ka loko wai o nā moho kūpono no ke aloha nui pū kekahi. ʻOiai he miliona wale nō a ʻoi paha o nā lālā hana o kahi pūnaewele hoʻoweliweli, ʻoi aku ka nui o kahi MMORPG e like me World of Warcraft ma mua o 10 miliona mau mea inoa ma 2014.

No laila, inā ua luhi ʻoe i ka ʻimi ʻana i ke aloha ma nā wahi hewa āpau, malia paha aia ka pane i nā pāʻani āu e pāʻani ai. Noʻu a me nā mea ʻē aʻe he nui, ʻo ke aloha no ka pāʻani ʻana ke kī o ke aloha maoli.

He freelancer ʻoihana ʻo Sandra Grauschopf me ka ʻoi aku o ka makahiki o ka ʻike i ka hoʻolālā a me ka hoʻokumu ʻana i nā ʻatikala. He mea heluhelu ikaika hoʻi ʻo ia, makuahine, mea pāʻani pīhoihoi, a he lima hoʻomake pū kāna me Frisbee.