Pehea e hoʻokū ai i kāu keiki mai ka nahu ʻana

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• Pehea ʻoe e hana ai ke nahu kahi keiki?
• 1. E mālama i kāu hauʻoli
• 2. Hāʻawi i ka hōʻoluʻolu
• 3. E aʻo iā lākou i nā ala e hōʻike ai i ko lākou manaʻo
• 4. Wā hoʻomaha manawa
• 5. Hoʻohālike i ka hana maikaʻi
• He aha ka hana ʻole
• No ke aha ka nahu ʻana o nā kamaliʻi
• Pehea ʻoe e pale aku ai i kahi keiki ʻōpio mai ka nahu ʻana?
• E nānā i nā lauana
• Hāʻawi i nā koho ʻē aʻe
• E hoʻohana i ka hoʻoikaika maikaʻi
• Ka wā e ʻike ai i ke kauka
• Lawe aku

Hoʻopili mākou i nā huahana a mākou e manaʻo nei he pono no kā mākou poʻe heluhelu. Inā kūʻai ʻoe ma o nā loulou i kēia ʻaoʻao, loaʻa iā mākou kahi kōmike liʻiliʻi. Eia kā mākou hana.

I ka ulu ʻana o nā pēpē i kamaliʻi, ulu mau lākou i nā ʻano hou. ʻO kekahi o kēia mau mea he aloha akā nā mea ʻē aʻe ... ʻaʻole nui loa. ʻOiai aloha paha ʻoe i kā lākou ʻōlelo hoʻopunipuni a me nā honi slobbery, ʻo ka nahu ʻana he ʻano maikaʻi ʻole ia a nā keiki e ʻākoakoa ai.

ʻOiai ko lākou liʻiliʻi, hiki i nā pēpē a me nā kamaliʻi ke loaʻa i ka nahu ikaika, a makemake ʻoe e hoʻonā wikiwiki i ka pilikia. ʻAʻole hiki i ke nahu ke alakaʻi wale i nā ʻike ʻeha no ʻoe, ko lākou mau kaikaina, a me kā lākou mau hoa pāʻani akā ʻo nā pilikia nui aʻe no nā pāʻālani pāʻani a mālama pēpē paha.

Eia mākou e ʻimi ai i nā kumu e nahu ai nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi a hāʻawi i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e kōkua e wāwahi i ka maʻamau.

Pehea ʻoe e hana ai ke nahu kahi keiki?

Hiki i ke kamaliʻi nahu ke ʻeha, hoʻonāukiuki, a hoʻāʻo i kou ahonui, keu hoʻi inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike i ka mea e hana ai e hoʻopau. E hoʻomanaʻo naʻe, he hopena maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole paha kāu hopena i ke kūlana.

ʻAʻohe ala hoʻokahi e hōʻoki ai i kahi keiki ʻōpio mai ka nahu ʻana, no laila e lawe paha i nā hoʻolālā he nui e hoʻokele i ka pilikia. Eia kekahi mau koho e hoʻāʻo:

1. E mālama i kāu hauʻoli

He mea nui e noho mālie, akā paʻa. Makemake ʻoe e mōakāka me ka maopopo ʻole he ʻae ʻole ka nahu ʻana, akā i ka manawa like, mai nalowale i kou ʻoluʻolu.

Inā hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻoe i kou leo ​​a huhū paha, huhū paha kāu kamaliʻi. A inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e wehewehe i nā kumu e nahu ʻole ai, e kani paha kāu keiki a kaumaha paha. ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa āu e hiki ai ke hana maʻalahi.

E hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia i kēlā me kēia manawa ke hiki, e hoʻomau hou i ka ʻeha ʻana o ka nahu ʻana a ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo i kekahi mea e like me "ʻaʻohe nahu" a i ʻole "hoʻomaha i ka nahu ʻana" a neʻe koke a mālie hoʻi i ke keiki nahu i kahi hiki ʻole iā lākou ke nahu hou. Hiki i ka hoʻoponopono kū mau ke kōkua i ke kaohi ʻana i ka lawena.

2. Hāʻawi i ka hōʻoluʻolu

Kōkua i nā kamaliʻi e hoʻomaopopo i ka nahu ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. No laila inā nahu kāu keiki i kahi hoa pāʻani a i ʻole kaikaina, e hōʻoluʻolu i ka mea i hōʻeha ʻia.

Inā ʻike kāu keiki iā ʻoe e hāʻawi ana i ka maka o ka mea i hōʻino ʻia, hana paha lākou i ka pilina e ʻeha ka nahu, a ʻaʻole ia e kiʻi i ka nānā a i ʻole ka hopena nui.

Ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻohuli, inā "loaʻa" i kāu kamaliʻi a huhū i ka ʻike ʻana ua hōʻeha lākou i kā lākou hoalauna a i ʻole kaikaina, pono ʻoe e hōʻoluʻolu pū kekahi iā lākou. Eia nō naʻe, e hoʻomau ka nānā mua i ka mea i hōʻino ʻia, a hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomanaʻo i ka biter e hōʻeha kā lākou hana i kekahi.

3. E aʻo iā lākou i nā ala e hōʻike ai i ko lākou manaʻo

ʻAi pinepine nā keiki ʻōpio no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio a hōʻike maikaʻi iā lākou iho (a i ʻole). Ke huhū a makaʻu paha lākou a hauʻoli paha, haʻi lākou i kekahi manawa i kēlā mau manaʻo nui ma o ka ʻimi ʻana i kahi nahu.

Inā ʻelemakule kāu kamaliʻi, e ʻōlelo e hoʻohana i kā lākou huaʻōlelo ma kahi o ka nahu ʻana. ʻO kahi laʻana, nahu paha kāu keiki i kahi hoa pāʻani e hoʻāʻo e lawe i kahi mea pāʻani. I mea e hōʻino ai, hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kāu kamaliʻi e haʻi i nā hoa pāʻani "ʻaʻole" a i ʻole "kū" ke hele ʻole nā ​​mea.

Inā ʻaʻole holo pono kēia a hoʻomau ka nahu ʻana o kāu keiki, hemo iā lākou mai ke kūlana. ʻO ka lilo ʻana o ka manawa kūpono e pāʻani me kā lākou mau hoaaloha hiki ke lilo i hopena e kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomanaʻo e hoʻohana i kā lākou mau huaʻōlelo i ka manawa aʻe.

Inā hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke wehe iā lākou mai ke kūlana, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka nānā pono ʻana i hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo koke a pale i kahi hanana nahu ʻē aʻe.

4. Wā hoʻomaha manawa

Ke hoʻomau nei ka nahu, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo i nā manawa hoʻomaha. No kēia e holo, akā, pono ʻoe e kūlike.

Hoʻopili kēia i ka hoʻokomo ʻana i kāu keiki i ka manawa puka kēlā me kēia manawa nahu lākou, i ʻike lākou i ka hopena o ka nahu ʻana. Ma kahi o ka lōʻihi e noho ai lākou i ka palena manawa, hoʻokahi ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo he 1 mau minuke no kēlā me kēia makahiki o ka makahiki.

E loaʻa i kahi keiki he ʻelua mau makahiki i ka manawa hoʻopau 2-minuke, akā he 5 mau minuke ka lōʻihi o ka manawa o kahi keiki ʻelima mau makahiki.

E hoʻomaopopo ʻaʻole pono e noʻonoʻo ʻia nā wā hoʻopau i ke ʻano aʻo. He ala wale lākou e lawe ai i ke keiki mai ke kūlana i alakaʻi i ka nahu a hoʻomaha i ko lākou naʻau. Mālama ia iā lākou mai ka nahu koke ʻana. Hiki i kēia ke hana me ka mālie a ʻo ka manawa mua e nahu ai kahi keiki.

5. Hoʻohālike i ka hana maikaʻi

Kōkua i kāu kamaliʻi e aʻo i ka hana e ʻae ʻia e ka hōʻike ʻana no lākou. Ke hana lākou i kekahi mea e like me ka kāʻili ʻana i kahi mea pāʻani a pā paha, e ʻōlelo mālie "ʻAʻole wau makemake i kēlā" ʻoiai ke alakaʻi nei iā lākou i kahi ʻano maikaʻi.

E makemake paha ʻoe e heluhelu i nā puke e hōʻike ana i nā ala maikaʻi e hana ai me nā huhū, e like me "No Biting" na Karen Katz a i ʻole "Calm-Down Time" na Elizabeth Verdick.

He aha ka hana ʻole

Hōʻike ʻole kekahi poʻe i ka nahu ʻana i kahi keiki i hope, no laila hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i ke ʻano o ka manaʻo. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻohe hōʻike e kākoʻo i ka maikaʻi o kēia hana.

Eia kekahi, e noʻonoʻo pehea e hoʻouna ai i nā leka i hui ʻia. No ke aha he maikaʻi ʻole iā lākou ke nahu akā ʻoluʻolu nāu ʻoe? Ma kahi o, e nānā i ke kumu kumu e hoʻonāwaliwali ai i ka nahu hou ʻana.

No ke aha ka nahu ʻana o nā kamaliʻi

ʻAe, ʻo ke nahu kahi hana maʻamau a ke kamaliʻi. Eia nō naʻe, ʻokoʻa nā kumu o ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kahi maʻa nahu mai ke keiki a ke keiki.

ʻO ka mea mua e hoʻomanaʻo ai ʻaʻole hiki i nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi ke hōʻike iā lākou iho e like me ka hiki i nā keiki nui a me nā mākua. Hāʻawi ʻia i kā lākou mākau kamaʻilio palena ʻana, hele lākou i kekahi manawa i ka nahu ma ke ʻano he ala e hoʻokuʻu ai i ko lākou huhū a me ka huhū, a i ʻole o ka hauʻoli a me ke aloha paha.

ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi ʻo ka nahu he aneane pilikia mau loa ia. Hoʻomaikaʻi i ka ulu ʻana o nā keiki a aʻo i ke kāohi iā ʻoe iho a me nā mākau kamaʻilio maikaʻi aʻe.

He mea nui nō hoʻi e noʻonoʻo i nā kumu ʻē aʻe e nahu ai ke keiki.

E nahu paha nā pēpē a me nā kamaliʻi inā pōloli lākou, luhi, a kaumaha paha.

Hoʻopili wale nā ​​keiki ʻē aʻe i nā mea a lākou e ʻike ai e hana ana nā keiki ʻē aʻe. No laila inā he keiki ma ka mālama pēpē e nahu, mai pūʻiwa inā hoʻāʻo kāu keiki i kēia ma ka home.

A ʻoiaʻiʻo, nahu kekahi mau keiki e kiʻi i ka maka, hoʻoulu i kahi hopena, a hoʻāʻo paha i ko lākou mau palena.

Pehea ʻoe e pale aku ai i kahi keiki ʻōpio mai ka nahu ʻana?

ʻOiai ʻo ka nahu ka pilikia o ka wā kamaliʻi, he pilikia nō naʻe.

Inā hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke kāohi, hiki iā ʻoe ke makaʻu i kāu keiki i kapa inoa ʻia ma ke ʻano he pilikia a kipaku ʻia paha mai ka mālama pēpē ʻana a me nā papa pāʻani - ʻoi aku inā e hōʻeha lākou i nā keiki ʻē aʻe.

He mau lā paha a i ʻole kekahi mau pule, akā he mau ala e hoʻāʻo ai e pale i ka nahu ma mua o ka hiki ʻana.

E nānā i nā lauana

I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, nahu kāu keiki i kekahi mau hanana? Ma hope o ka nānā ʻana i kāu keiki, ʻike paha ʻoe ke nahu nei lākou ke luhi lākou. Inā ʻo kēia ka hihia, ʻoki pōkole i ka manawa pāʻani inā hōʻike kāu keiki i nā hōʻailona o ka luhi.

ʻO ke kumu e nahu mau lākou i kekahi kanaka, nahu i ka hoʻololi ʻana e like me ka pāʻani ʻana i nā hana i makemake ʻole ʻia, a i nā manawa a lākou e manaʻo nui ai. Hiki ke ʻike i ka mea ma mua o ka nahu e kōkua iā ʻoe e hana me ke kumu kumu ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka nahu.

Hāʻawi i nā koho ʻē aʻe

ʻOiai ko lākou wā ʻōpio, he mea maikaʻi e aʻo i nā kamaliʻi i nā ala ʻē aʻe e kāohi ai i ko lākou huhū. Hoʻokomo iā lākou i kahi maʻa o ka ʻōlelo ʻana "ʻaʻole" a i ʻole "kū" ke makemake ʻole lākou i kekahi mea. ʻAʻole kōkua kēia i nā keiki e hoʻomohala wale i ka mākau ʻōlelo akā kaohi hoʻi iā ia iho.

A laila hou, inā piliwi ʻoe i ka nahu o kāu keiki no ka mea ua niho lākou a pono e hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe iho, e hāʻawi iā lākou i ke apo niho. Eia kekahi, ke hāʻawi nei i nā mea ʻono momona inā pōloli kāu keiki a i ʻole ke ʻike ʻia nei i ka ʻeha o ka niho e kōkua paha i ka hōʻemi ʻana i kahi pilikia nahu ma muli o ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻole.

E hoʻohana i ka hoʻoikaika maikaʻi

Hoʻomaka kekahi mau keiki e nahu ma ke ʻano he nānā hou - a i kekahi manawa ke holo pono ia. ʻO ka pilikia ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kekahi mau kamaliʻi e hoʻopili me ka nānā ʻana, a hoʻomau lākou i ka maʻamau.

Kōkua paha ia i ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka hoʻoikaika maikaʻi. Inā uku ʻoe i kāu keiki me ka mahalo no ka pane ʻana i kahi kūlana me kā lākou mau ʻōlelo a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana iā lākou iho, e ʻimi lākou i ka nānā maikaʻi.

Ke hoʻohana nei i nā hoʻouluulu e like me nā pakuhi pepili, kahi i kēlā me kēia lā me ka ʻole o ka nahu e loaʻa ai iā lākou nā makana, hiki ke lilo i mea hana hoʻoikaika ikaika no kekahi mau ʻōpio makua.

I kekahi manawa e hōʻoiaʻiʻo wale nei i kā lākou mau hoʻāʻo me ka hoʻomaikaʻi (Heluhelu: "Haʻaheo loa wau i kou hoʻohana ʻana i kāu mau huaʻōlelo ma kā mākou playdate i kēia lā! ʻO ka hana maikaʻi e ʻoluʻolu!") Hiki ke lilo i nā paina a lākou e pono ai e ʻōlelo maikaʻi i ka nahu ʻana.

Inā hoʻoweliweli ke nahu a kāu keiki i ko lākou wahi i ka mālama pēpē, e kamaʻilio me kāu kahu mālama keiki a wehewehe i nā hoʻolālā āu e hoʻohana nei ma ka home. E ʻike inā hiki i ka mālama pēpē ke hoʻokō i kēia mau hoʻolālā a hana pū me ʻoe e proactive ʻoiai aia kāu keiki e mālama ana.

Ka wā e ʻike ai i ke kauka

He pilikia hoʻonāukiuki ka nahu ʻana, akā he manawa pōkole wale nō ia, ʻoiai he nui nā kamaliʻi e hoʻonui i kēia maʻamau i ka makahiki ʻekolu a ʻehā paha. No laila, ʻo kahi maʻa mau o ka nahu ʻana ma ʻō aku o kēia makahiki he hōʻailona o kekahi pilikia, he pilikia paha ma ke kula a i ʻole nā ​​pilikia e pili ana i ka lawena.

E kamaʻilio me kāu keiki, e nīnau i nā mea mālama, a kūkākūkā i ka pilikia me kāu pediatric no ke alakaʻi.

Lawe aku

ʻO ka nahu paha kekahi o nā hana adorable liʻiliʻi a ke keiki e ulu ai, a he mea nui e hoʻoponopono i kēia pilikia ke hoʻomaka. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokele i kāu keiki i ke ala kūpono a kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomaopopo - ʻoiai i ka wā ʻōpio - ʻeha ka nahu a ʻae ʻole ʻia.