Pehea e loaʻa ai i kahi makuakāne ka makana maikaʻi loa no kāna keiki me ka Autism

Anter

• 1. Nīnau
• 2. E hoʻomanaʻo: ʻAʻole nā ​​kamaʻilio āpau i waha
• 3. Nīnau i ka poʻe loea
• 4. Hoʻonui ma kahi kumuhana
• 5. Apo ka redundancy
• 6. E hoʻouka i nā lole hoʻoluʻolu
• 7. DIY kekahi mau mea pāʻani sensory a me nā pono hana
• 8. E hana maʻa mau
• 9. E hōʻoluʻolu me nā kāleka makana
• 10. Hoʻokomo kālā i nā pono hana hoʻōla a me nā mea pāʻani

Hoʻopili mākou i nā huahana a mākou e manaʻo nei he pono no kā mākou poʻe heluhelu. Inā kūʻai ʻoe ma o nā loulou i kēia ʻaoʻao, loaʻa iā mākou kahi kōmike liʻiliʻi. Eia kā mākou hana.

ʻAʻole hiki i kaʻu kaikamahine ke haʻi iaʻu i kāna makemake no ka Kalikimaka. Eia pehea kaʻu e ʻike ai.

Inā he mea mālama ʻoe no kekahi e noho nei me ka autism - keu paha i kahi keiki - ʻo kekahi o nā mea koʻikoʻi nui a puni nā lā hoʻomaha hiki ke ʻike i ke ʻano o ka makana e loaʻa iā lākou.

ʻO Autism kekahi manawa me ka kamaʻilio kuʻuna ʻole a sporadic paha, no laila ke hoʻomohala nei i kahi papa inoa makana ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hana ma mua o ka ʻōlelo ʻana, "E, hana i kahi papa inoa o nā mea āu e makemake ai."

Noho kaʻu kaikamahine ʻo Lily me ka autism. A i kēia makahiki (e like me ka hope), ʻaʻohe ona makemake i kekahi mea. Inā paha ʻo ke kau hoʻomaha (i kā mākou hihia, Kalikimaka) ʻoi aku nona a iaʻu paha he mea ʻole: no ia ʻo wau.

Ua hāʻawi wau i nā hoʻowahāwahā āpau i koʻu makemake nona e wehe i nā makana e lawe mai ana i kona ʻoliʻoli. Ua māʻona wau i ka hana ʻana i nā lā nui e like me ka pilikia ʻole nona, ke ʻoluʻolu nei naʻe i nā kuʻuna aʻu i ulu ai a makemake ʻole e haʻalele, e hoʻololi ana i kēlā mau kuʻuna e kūpono i kāna neurology, a e hui pū ana hoʻi me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia o kaʻu kaikamahine neurotypical ʻo Emma.

He mea paʻakikī ia i kēlā me kēia manawa e ʻike i ka mea a Lily e makemake ai ʻoiai ʻaʻole ia e pane i nā nīnau e like me "He aha kou makemake?" nānā ʻole i ke kumuhana. Hāʻawi kēia i ka hālāwai me kāna mau makemake a makemake e hoʻokūkū ma lalo o nā kūlana, akā ʻoi aku ka nui o ke koʻikoʻi i ka noi ʻana ʻaʻole wale no hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha mau mea, akā he nui (he lā hānau ko Lily i Kēkēmapa).

ʻAʻole maʻamau kēia paʻakikī ma ke ʻano o ka autism, eia naʻe - e like me ka hapa nui o nā mea i ka honua spectral - ʻaʻole ia he ʻano like me ke ao holoʻokoʻa.

No laila pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai i ka mea e kūʻai ai no kēlā mea kūikawā āu e aloha ai ke kamaʻilio ʻoi aku ka pololei ma mua o "Hana i kahi papa inoa"? Eia nā manaʻo he 10 e lana koʻu manaʻo.

1. Nīnau

OK, OK, maopopo iaʻu ua hoʻokumu wau i kēia ʻatikala holoʻokoʻa i ka mea e kūʻai ai iā ʻoe hiki ʻole kiʻi i nā pane maʻalahi, akā manaʻo wau he mea nui nō ke nīnau.

Nīnau wau iā Lily i kēlā me kēia makahiki, i nā manawa he nui e hiki ai iaʻu ke hoʻomanaʻo, i nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole. ʻAʻole pane pinepine ʻo Lily i kaʻu mau nīnau, akā i kekahi manawa no ka mea ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia i ke ʻano o kā lākou ʻōlelo ʻana.

Ke hoʻololi nei i ke ala aʻu e noi aku ai i kekahi manawa e ʻae iā ia e hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi aʻe. ʻO kekahi mau ʻano ʻē aʻu e nīnau ai:

• "He aha kou makemake?"
• "He aha kou makemake e pāʻani pū ai?"
• "Nānā paha ke [hoʻokomo i nā mea pāʻani]?"
• "He aha kāu mea pāʻani punahele?"

A ua kūleʻa kēia mea iaʻu i kekahi manawa ma ke ʻano ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu akā ʻo ia ka mea e hauʻoli ai iaʻu: "Mahalo wau i ka makemake o Lily no ka Kalikimaka."

I kekahi manawa maopopo leʻa, i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole. Akā inā hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike pololei mai iā lākou, maopopo leʻa ka hopena wikiwiki a maʻalahi hoʻi.

2. E hoʻomanaʻo: ʻAʻole nā ​​kamaʻilio āpau i waha

ʻO kēlā me kēia mea e mālama nei i kekahi e launa pū i kahi ʻano maʻamau ʻole ua lohe i kēia huaʻōlelo, a pili i ke kau lā nui.

Hōʻike ʻo Lily i kona aloha no kekahi mau mea pāʻani a hana paha ma ke ʻano o ka hana hou ʻana. No laila, he aha kā kāu mea i aloha ai leʻaleʻa ai?

Makemake ʻo Lily e pāʻani me kāna iPad, huli i nā ʻaoʻao o nā puke, hoʻolohe i ke mele, a pāʻani pū me kāna hale aliʻi wahine. Eia hou, maopopo paha ia, akā nānā wau i nā ala e hoʻonui ai i kēlā mau mea aʻu e ʻike nei ua aloha ʻo ia.

Ua kūʻai paha ke mele mele i ke kūʻai ʻana i nā CD āpau akā ua pau ka hana, akā pono paha kahi mea kamaʻilio Bluetooth hou a i ʻole nā ​​mea lohe pepeiao e pono ai. A i ʻole he mau kamāliʻiwahine hou no kona hale kākela, a i nā pā pāʻani like paha, e like me ka pā mahiʻai a i ʻole hoʻonohonoho leʻaleʻa i ʻae ʻia, e ʻae iā ia e pāʻani i kahi ala e like me kahi mea āna e hauʻoli ai.

3. Nīnau i ka poʻe loea

I kēlā me kēia makahiki, nīnau wau i nā kumu a me nā mea lapaʻau a Lily i nā mea pāʻani a me nā hana āna i makemake ai ʻoiai ʻo ia ma laila.ʻAʻole wau e loaʻa mau i kēlā me kēia ʻano kikoʻī i loko o kā lākou mau hōʻike o kēlā me kēia lā, no laila ke ʻike nei ua aloha ʻo ia i kahi scooter kikoʻī i ka papa haʻuki, kahi paikikala i hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻia, a i ʻole kahi mele kikoʻī e haʻi pinepine nei iaʻu.

Hoʻololi nā hana maʻamau a Lily ma muli o ka wahi, no laila, ʻo ka mea hoihoi iā ia ma ke kula ʻaʻole ia e ʻōlelo pinepine ʻia ma ka home, no ka mea ʻike ʻo ia ʻaʻole loaʻa. ʻO ka hana ʻana i kekahi mea āna e leʻaleʻa ai ma ke kula e loaʻa iā ia i kahi hoʻonohonoho hou he manaʻo makana maikaʻi kēlā nona.

Ma ke ʻano he makua, hiki ke hoʻoluhi ke hoʻolohe hou i hoʻokahi mea, akā inā he hauʻoli ka pahuhopu, a laila ke ʻimi nei wau i kekahi ala e paʻi i kēlā pahuhopu. ʻOiai ke kumu o ka mōhai ʻana i koʻu noʻonoʻo ma muli o ka nui o nā wiggles.

4. Hoʻonui ma kahi kumuhana

Loaʻa i kekahi mau keiki me ka autism ka leʻaleʻa i kahi kikoʻī loa. He mau hoaaloha kaʻu na kā lākou keiki e hoʻomana i kekahi mea ʻo Thomas the Tank Engine, Legos, aliʻi wahine, wiggles, a pēlā aku. ʻO ke aloha ʻo Lily nā Wiggles.

Nānā wau i nā ala e hoʻohui ai i kēlā aloha i nā puka like ʻole. Nā pēpē wiggles, nā puke, nā puke pena, nā CD, nā DVD, nā lole - e holomua paha kēia mau makana āpau ma muli o kona aloha i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ʻo Wiggles.

Ma ke ʻano he makua, hiki i ka hoʻoluhi ke hoʻolohe hou i hoʻokahi mea, akā inā he hauʻoli ka pahuhopu, a laila ke ʻimi nei wau i kekahi ala e paʻi i kēlā pahuhopu. ʻOiai ke kumu o ka mōhai ʻana i koʻu noʻonoʻo ma muli o ka nui o nā wiggles.

5. Apo ka redundancy

Aia kekahi mau mea niche no ka mea ʻaʻohe pani. Ke hele a weluwelu, haki, make a nalowale paha, hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki nui loa i kāu mea aloha.

He hoa aloha ko Lily e aloha ana i kahi mahele, nāhesa mea pāʻani lāʻau. Hoʻohana ʻo ia iā ia e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia iho a hoʻoulu. He mau kope kope kāna o kona makuahine o kēlā moʻo, no laila inā e nalowale ia, he ʻē aʻe kāna.

He hoaaloha hou kaʻu na kāna keiki kāne he pāpale kila punahele loa na Steelers. Kūʻai ʻo ia iā ia i kekahi mea like no kona lā hānau. ʻAʻole paha e like nā makana Redundant me he "leʻaleʻa," akā kōkua nui lākou a pono hoʻi.

6. E hoʻouka i nā lole hoʻoluʻolu

Hiki i nā mea me ka autism ke maʻalahi loa i ka hoʻopā. ʻO kekahi mau lole ma waho o ka ʻāpana e like me ka wana, a hiki i nā seams a i ʻole nā ​​hōʻailona ke ʻānai e like me ka pepa one.

Ke loaʻa nā lole e holo pono ana, piliʻoe iā lākou. Akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike mau i kēlā kapa ke pono ʻoe, no laila hiki ke hoʻokipa nui ʻia nā pālua like ʻole ma mua o kahi mea "hou" e ʻoluʻolu a maikaʻi ʻole paha ke kau ʻia. E hoʻopili me nā mea e holo ... a kūʻai i nā spares.

7. DIY kekahi mau mea pāʻani sensory a me nā pono hana

Nui nā kula autism (a i ʻole ke aʻo ʻana i nā lumi papa kākoʻo) i nā lumi ʻike. ʻOiai ke hana nei i kahi lumi ʻike piha i kou home e like paha me ka nui o ke kumu kūʻai, ke kūʻai ʻana (a i ʻole ke kūkulu ʻana) i kahi ʻāpana a i ʻole ʻelua paha.

Inā he hale kia bubble, kahawai wai, kukui uila ʻoluʻolu, a i ʻole he stereo e hoʻokani ai i ke mele mellow, hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i kekahi mau manaʻo maikaʻi ma ka pūnaewele e pili ana i kahi e hana ai i kahi hoʻomaha hoʻomaha, sensory-friendly, a me ka hōʻoluʻolu no kāu mea aloha.

Ke ʻimi nei i nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo o ka lumi ma ka pūnaewele e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā makana kūpono a i ʻole nā ​​papahana DIY e kāhea.

8. E hana maʻa mau

I ka wā pēpē o Lily, ua aloha ʻo ia i nā diaper. ʻAʻole ka nui o ke kau ʻana iā lākou, akā ke pāʻani pū nei me lākou. E ʻeli ʻo ia i loko o kahi pahu diapers a huki iā lākou i waho, nānā iā lākou, wili i kona lima a hoʻi a nānā iā lākou, honi iā ​​lākou (he ʻala ʻoluʻolu ko lākou), a laila neʻe i kahi aʻe. No nā hola.

ʻOiai ʻaʻole ia he makana maʻamau, ua loaʻa iā mākou nā pahu Lily o nā diaper. Ua hoʻokuʻu mākou iā ia e hele i loko o lākou, e huki iā lākou i waho o nā ʻeke i hoʻonohonoho pono ʻia, e lūlū ana iā lākou ma nā wahi āpau, a laila hoʻihoʻi hou iā lākou. Ua hoʻohana pinepine mākou i nā pale pale ma hope, ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā ʻo ka mea āna i makemake maoli ai e pāʻani me lākou, no laila ʻo ia kā mākou makana iā ia. A aloha ʻo ia iā ia.

Mai makaʻu e hāʻawi i kahi mea maʻamau ʻole wale no ka mea ʻaʻole ia he mea e noʻonoʻo ai i kahi mea pāʻani a makana paha. ʻO ka mea maʻamau ʻole iā ʻoe e lawe ai i ka ʻoluʻolu nui i kāu keiki.

9. E hōʻoluʻolu me nā kāleka makana

Ke hele a kamaliʻi i waena o ka ʻōpio a hoʻokokoke i ke ʻano makua, ʻo ka makemake kokoke i ka honua āpau e hiki iā lākou ke koho no lākou iho he ikaika a ikaika hoʻi. ʻOiai he nui ka poʻe e hakakā nei me ka manaʻo o ka hāʻawi kālā ʻana a i ʻole nā ​​kāleka makana no ka mea manaʻo lākou he mea ʻole ia, ʻo ka makana "punahele" ka manawa pinepine.

ʻAʻole kālā wale nō ia. ʻO… kūʻokoʻa. Ke ʻaʻa nei wau i ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā kāleka makana i kaʻu ʻōpio makua, ʻo Emma, ​​akā hoʻomanaʻo wau i ka pahuhopu me kēlā me kēia makana kona hauʻoli.

Aloha ʻo Lily iā McDonald's. I loko o kekahi mau manawa i hala aku nei, ʻo ka ʻai ʻana a Lily ka mea nui i kaupalena ʻia, a ʻo kekahi o nā mea hiki iā mākou ke hānai iā ia e hoʻomanawanui ai ʻo ia nā McDonald's moa nuggets. Hoʻokahi pule i ka wā hoʻomaha kahi e ʻokoʻa ai nā meaʻai āpau mai ka hale kūʻai kūloko a weliweli a ʻae ʻole hoʻi, lawe mākou iā ia e ʻai ma 10 mau manawa a McDonald.

Hāʻawi pinepine a loaʻa iaʻu nā kāleka makana a McDonald no Lily, a he makana maikaʻi loa ia. ʻAneʻane loaʻa nā kāleka makana nā hale kūʻai nui a me nā hale ʻaina nui, no laila maʻalahi lākou e loaʻa pū kekahi.

10. Hoʻokomo kālā i nā pono hana hoʻōla a me nā mea pāʻani

ʻO nā mea pāʻani pono ʻole, ka hoʻololi ʻana o ka lāʻau, nā mea hoʻopili adaptive, a me nā kapa kaumaha, ʻaʻole paha he mea kupanaha, kumukūʻai. Hāʻawi lākou i nā makana maikaʻi loa, inā ʻaʻole pololei nā makana lā hoʻomaha, kōkua a hoʻokipa ʻia.

I kekahi manawa ʻike ʻia nā pōmaikaʻi o kēia mau pono hana a me nā mea pāʻani wale nō i kahi kula a i ʻole kahi hoʻonohonoho hoʻomaʻamaʻa, akā hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia ma ka home pū kekahi.

ʻO ke koʻikoʻi o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka makana "kūpono" ʻoi aku paha ka liʻiliʻi o ke koʻikoʻi inā mākou e ʻae iā mākou iho e kāpae i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia e huikau ka mea kūpono no kā mākou mea aloha e noho nei me ka autism me nā mea kūpono no mākou, a i ʻole nā ​​mea a mākou e makemake ai i ko lākou wahi.

ʻO kahi kumuhana hou i ka honua autism, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke manaʻo i ke kuʻuna a i ʻole ka maʻamau. Pono mākou e hoʻopili, a pana ma kahi o keu.

ʻO Jim Walter ka mea kākau o Just a Lil Blog, kahi i kākau ai i kāna mau huakaʻi me he makuakāne hoʻokahi o nā kaikamahine ʻelua, kahi o lākou he autism. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ukali iā ia ma Twitter.