E hōʻea i nā kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o Orgasmic hou me ke kūlana wahine ʻaeto

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• He aha ke kūlana moekolohe aeto?
• He aha nā Perks o ke kūlana ʻElea Eagle?
• Kālepa inā ʻaʻole ʻo ka Eagle Sex Position wale nō kāu mea
• 1. Hoʻomaha i nā ʻēheu o kou ʻEto.
• 2. E kīloi ma mua o ka hana ʻana.
• 3. E kiʻi i kahi uluna kākoʻo.
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ʻIke ʻoe i ka "aeto hoʻolaha", ʻeā? Aia ʻoe ma kou kua, hohola nā wāwae? ʻĀ, he kūlana moekolohe ia. ʻO ke kūlana moʻo aeto e like paha me kahi kūlana weliweli i hana ʻia no ka acrobatic i waena o mākou, akā, me ka hauʻoli, ʻo ia ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe. He kūlana moekolohe maikaʻi ia i hoʻolālā ʻia e hana i nā kamāliʻi wahine uluna e like me Kuini (a hāʻawi iā lākou i ka orgasms).

ʻAʻole wau ʻike e pili ana iā ʻoe, akā pili wau me koʻu makemake e lilo i akua wahine makemake ʻole a me kaʻu huakaʻi kūlohelohe e palaualelo i ka wā o ka moekolohe. ʻO ka palaualelo he ʻōlelo ikaika naʻe. ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo he palaualelo nui e like me "ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana i ka hana." Ke hele i lalo, aia ʻoe i laila, ke hana nei ʻoe i ka honi ʻana, ka hopu ʻana, a me ke kaniʻuhū ʻana. ʻaʻole ʻoe he iʻa make, he iʻa liʻiliʻi ʻoe ma mua o kou hoa. ʻO ia e pili ana i ka "waiho ʻana i ke kanaka me ʻoe a leʻaleʻa i ka holo," wahi a Tiana North, kahi mea aʻo polyamorous, activist, a me ka hoa hoʻokumu o The Sex Worker Survival Guide.

ʻIke? He leʻaleʻa maikaʻi no nā mea a pau.

ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o kēia kūlana no ka stimulus clitoral, sex oral, penis in vagina (PIV) sex, dildo in vagina (DIV) sex, anal penetration, a i ʻole pubic grinding sans penetration. Nui loa ia, ʻo ia kekahi kumu no ka leʻaleʻa.

Eia nā mea āpau āu e ʻike ai. I nā ʻāpana palaualelo semi-maʻalahi āpau i waho, ke aloha aku nei iā ʻoukou. Nanea i ka holo.

He aha ke kūlana moekolohe aeto?

ʻO ka ʻaeto he kūlana moekolohe ʻelua mau kanaka e kuhikuhi maʻamau i ka wahine PIV, akā ʻaʻole i kaupalena ʻia e kēlā mau kaohi heteronormative. (ʻAʻohe kūlana wahine.

ʻO ka lalo (ʻo ka mea maʻamau ke kanaka me ka vulva) e moe ma ko lākou kua me nā wāwae i luna a pālahalaha ākea i kahi ʻano "V". E hoʻāʻo "e hoʻopaʻa i kou mau wāwae ma ke kāwili ʻana i kou mau lima ma hope o kou mau ʻūhā a i ʻole ke ʻūlū ʻana i kou mau ʻūhā / mau bipi keiki" no ke kākoʻo, hōʻike iā Zachary Zane, ka loea loea no LoveHoney, kahi inoa olakino a me ke ʻano maikaʻi.

Inā ʻoluʻolu maoli ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻihoʻi i kou mau wāwae ma hope o kou mau pepeiao, wahi a Kenneth Play, he loea wahine a me ka mea nāna i hana i ka Sex Hacker Pro Series. Inā ʻo ia kāu jam, e loaʻa iā ia, akā inā ʻaʻole, he rad kekahi. ʻAʻole wau e manaʻo e hāʻawi i kēia i ka hele ke ʻole ʻoe, e like, he kumu yoga a i ʻole kekahi mea, no ka mea paʻakikī ia AF.

Mai laila aku, moe ka hoa komo i luna, neʻe i luna a i lalo. E like me ka lalo, "E manaʻo wau e hoʻoneʻe i kou ʻūhā i kahi ʻano hoʻomaikaʻi i kāu hoa i ka wā e mālama ai iā lākou a i ʻole ka hopu ʻana i nā lau," wahi a North.

Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i ka CAT (coital alignment technique) i kēia kūlana, kahi o ka luna e pāheʻe ai i lalo a i lalo i ke kino o ka lalo e komo i ka glans clitoris. Hiki i ka PIV (a me DIV) orgasms no ka poʻe kino wahine inā en pointe kāu ʻano hana a ke hoʻonāukiuki nei ʻoe i ka clitoris i ka tandem me ka penetration).

ʻO ka lalo ka ʻaeto i kēia kūlana. Aia lākou ma ko lākou kua, hāpai ʻia nā wāwae i ka akimbo. ʻO kēia ka hiki i ka lalo i kahi aeto i hoʻolaha ʻia ʻoiai e hana ana ka luna i nā ʻano mea like ʻole, e like me ka moekolohe waha. ʻ tellslelo mai ʻo North iā mākou i kēia kūlana no ka maʻalahi o ke komo ʻana i ka vulva holoʻokoʻa. ʻAe, e ʻoluʻolu. (Related: Oral Sex Positions You need to try if you want to get head)

He aha nā Perks o ke kūlana ʻElea Eagle?

ʻ sayslelo ʻo Zane ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻaeto no ka hohonu o ke komo (a malia paha e ku ana i kekahi o kēia mau ʻāpana erogenous vaginal hohonu). "He leverage maikaʻi loa ka luna mai kēia kūlana e hoʻoikaika ikaika inā ʻo ia kahi mea e komo ai nā hoa ʻelua," wahi āna.

No kahi ʻāpana nona ʻo vulva, ʻo ka crème de la crème o ka ʻaeto laha ka mea āpau e hiki ai i ka ʻāpana o ka vulva-clitoral. Hiki i ka luna ke hoʻohana i ko lākou waha, ko lākou manamana lima, kahi mea pāʻani, a i ʻole kā lākou penis/dildo/pelvis e hoʻoulu i ka clitoris. Big Os a puni, nā pēpē. He aha ka mea e kono hou aku ai? (E hoʻāʻo i kekahi o kēia mau mea pāʻani e pili pono i ka moekolohe.)

ʻO kekahi mea e noʻonoʻo ai: pehea ʻoe e nānā ai i ka moekolohe i kēia kūlana. "He mea kupaianaha ia i ka ʻike maka, hele maikaʻi me ka pāʻani mana a me ke kūlana kiʻekiʻe inā pili nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua i kēlā," wahi a Play.

Ma ke ʻano holoʻokoʻa, ʻo Taylor Sparks, he mea aʻo erotika a mea hoʻokumu o Organic Loven, kekahi o nā hale kūʻai pili aloha pūnaewele ʻo BIPOC nui loa, i ʻōlelo ʻo ka perk ʻoi loa o nā mea āpau "ʻaʻole ia he nui o ka hana i ka hopena e loaʻa ai, akā nui ka hauʻoli. "

Ke nānā aku nei i ka wela, maikaʻi loa, a me ka haʻi ʻole i ka hou. ʻO ia ka mea i luna.

Kālepa inā ʻaʻole ʻo ka Eagle Sex Position wale nō kāu mea

ʻOiaʻiʻo, e paʻakikī ka nui o nā poʻe e hohola i ko lākou mau wāwae i kahi kaʻawale no ka aeto, no ka manawa lōʻihi. He mea maʻamau kēlā. Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo loea, nā hoʻopunipuni, a me nā tweaks e kōkua iā ʻoe e hana i ka hapa nui o kēia kūlana moekolohe hanohano, me ka ʻole o ka uha o kahi uha.

1. Hoʻomaha i nā ʻēheu o kou ʻEto.

Ma kahi o ka mālama pono ʻana o kou mau wāwae i ka "V," e hoʻāʻo e kūlou iā lākou ma nā kuli, e like me ke ʻano o ke pēpē pēpē yoga.Hiki i kēia ke lawe i kekahi kaomi o nā ʻūhā o loko a me ka maʻalahi hamstring. Hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe i kou mau kuli i nā ʻaoʻao o kāu hoa, aka ke kūlana moʻo mikionali. "E hana i ka mea kūpono a me ka ʻoluʻolu loa no nā palena o kou kino me ka ʻole o ka hoʻokolokolo ʻana," wahi a North. (E hoʻāʻo hoʻi i ke kūlana moekolohe butterfly, nona ka vibe like akā ʻaʻole koi i ka hoʻolaha ʻana i kou mau wāwae.)

2. E kīloi ma mua o ka hana ʻana.

Hiki ke hoʻolāʻau maikaʻi ʻia ma mua o ka lele ʻana i kahi moena e hōʻoluʻolu i ka moekolohe - a ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka neʻe ʻana i ka acrobatic. "Hoʻomaʻamaʻa ia i kou kino a me nā mākala i kou neʻe ʻana i nā kūlana hou ʻaʻole ia he mea weliweli i kāu ʻōnaehana," wehewehe ʻo North. ʻO ka moekolohe e like me nā haʻuki. He mea pono ke kikoo e pale aku i ka eha!

3. E kiʻi i kahi uluna kākoʻo.

Hōʻike ka pāʻani i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi "uluna ʻaihue wahine" no ke kākoʻo keu hoʻi. I kekahi manawa hiki i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ala liʻiliʻi ke hele lōʻihi no ka hōʻoluʻolu. ʻO kēia uluna wahine mai Dame Products (Buy It, $ 95, dameproducts.com) kaʻu mea punahele; kūpaʻa ia i ka wai, ʻo ia hoʻi maikaʻi loa no ka moekolohe manawa. (E aʻe: ʻO nā uluna wahine maikaʻi loa a me nā cushions no ka leʻaleʻa Solo a i ʻole nā ​​​​hui)

ʻ sayslelo ʻo Zane hiki i kahi ʻūlū ke kōkua pū i ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻūlū i ka pelvis i mua, e ʻae ana i ka hoʻonāukiuki hou ʻana o ka clitoral a me ke komo hohonu ʻana, ʻoiai me nā wāwae i kūlou. "Ke kī ʻia nei ke pelvis i luna a hoʻi nā wāwae i hope. Akā he mea maʻamau ka pelu ʻana o ko lākou mau wāwae i ka wā o ka lewa, a ʻano like paha ia," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

ʻO Gigi Engle he mea hoʻopaʻapaʻa sexologist, kumu, a me ka mea kākau o All The F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life. E hahai iā ia ma Instagram a me Twitter ma @GigiEngle.

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