ʻO ka hana ʻino i loko o ka home: ʻo ka hōʻeha ʻana i ka hoʻokele waiwai e like me ka poʻe i loaʻa

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• ʻO ka hana ʻino pilikino hoa ʻole: ka wehewehe ʻana iā ia
• Nā kumukūʻai pololei a pololei ʻole
• Nā kumukūʻai hana
• Nā Koina Ola
• Na Koina i na Keiki
• Pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kekahi e hoʻopilikia ʻia e IPV?
• Ma hea e hiki ai iaʻu ke hele no ke kōkua?

ʻO ka hana ʻino i loko o ka hale, i kapa ʻia i kekahi manawa me ka lawehala interpersonal (IPV), pili pololei i nā miliona o ka poʻe ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa i kēlā me kēia makahiki. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaneʻane 1 i ka 4 mau wahine, a me 1 i 7 mau kāne, ʻike i ka hana ʻino kino koʻikoʻi mai kahi hoa pili i kekahi manawa i ko lākou ola, e like me ka (CDC).

He haʻahaʻa paha kēia mau manaʻo. Ma muli o ka stigma pili kaiaulu e pili pū ana me IPV, ʻaʻole hiki i ka nui o nā poʻe i hoʻopili pololei ʻia e hōʻike iā ia, ma muli o ka hōʻeha ʻana i ka hōʻeha, ka lāhui, homophobia, transphobia, a me nā hana ʻino ʻē aʻe i pili.

Loaʻa i ka noiʻi, manawa a me nā manawa hou, nā pilina ma waena o kekahi mau hanana a me nā lā nui, a me nā helu o nā hōʻike kolohe kūloko. Hoʻokahi makahiki he 11 mau makahiki i nānā ʻia ma kahi o 25,000 mau hanana o ka hana ʻino a ka hoa i ʻike ai i nā kui nui o ka IPV i hōʻike ʻia ma Super Bowl Sabati. ʻOi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o nā kiʻi i ka lā Makahiki Hou a me ka Lā Kūʻokoʻa.

I ka 2015, ua hui pū ka National Football League me ka No More campaign e hoʻolele i kahi wahi anti-domestic tutu i ka wā o ka pāʻani. Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi kāhea maoli i 911 e kahi mea i hōʻino ʻia o IPV, nāna i hoʻokohukohu ke kauoha nei ʻo ia i ka pizza ke kamaʻilio maoli nei ʻo ia me kahi mea hoʻouna mākaʻi kūloko.

He mea kakaʻikahi kēia, a makemake nui ʻia, kahi hanana o ka hana ʻino i loko o ka home e hōʻike ʻia ana ma ke ʻano he pilikia e pono e hoʻokau ʻia ma ka pae pae ʻāina. Hōʻike pinepine ʻia ʻo IPV ma ke ʻano he pilikia pilikino e ka pāpāho a me ka ʻōnaehana hoʻoponopono kalaima. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ia ʻano hana ʻino - pono ʻole i ke kino - hana i nā hopena ripple a hiki i nā kaiāulu āpau a ʻoi aku. Ke nānā nei mākou i mua e hoʻomaka i ka Super Bowl 50,

ʻO ka hana ʻino pilikino hoa ʻole: ka wehewehe ʻana iā ia

ʻO kahi hoa pili pilikino kekahi me ia kanaka kahi "pili pilikino pilikino" e like me ka. Hiki i kēlā me kēia ke pili i ka moekolohe a me ke aloha.

ʻO ka hana hoʻomāinoino hoa pilikino kahi ʻano o ka coercive a i ʻole ke kaohi ʻana i nā lawena. E lawe paha kēia i kekahi (a i ʻole kekahi hui ʻana) o nā ʻano aʻe:

• hoʻomāinoino kino
• ka moekolohe, e like me ka pue wale ʻana, ka launa aloha ʻole e makemake ʻia, nā ʻike moekolohe makemake ʻole ʻia (e like me ka hōʻike ʻana i nā ponokala kiʻi)
• e holoholo ana
• ka huhū psychological, ʻo ia ka hoʻohana o ka kamaʻilio waha a me ka kamaʻilio ʻole e hana i ka kaohi ma luna o kekahi kanaka, a / a i ʻole ka manaʻo e hōʻeha iā lākou i ka noʻonoʻo a me ka naʻau. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻopili i ka kaohi coercive, ma ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana iā lākou mai nā hoaaloha a me ka ʻohana, ka palena ʻana i kā lākou hiki i ke kālā, ka pāpā ʻana iā lākou mai ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka hānau hānau, a i ʻole ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi palupalu (e like me ka hoʻoweliweli ʻana iā lākou me ka lawe pio ʻana)

Nā kumukūʻai pololei a pololei ʻole

Ke noʻonoʻo mākou e pili ana i ke kumukūʻai o ka hana ʻino i ka home, makemake mākou e noʻonoʻo i nā kumukūʻai pololei. Pili pū paha kēia i ka mālama olakino, a me nā koina no ka mākaʻi ʻana, ka paʻahao, a me nā lawelawe kū kānāwai.

Akā loaʻa pū kekahi o IPV i nā koina pili ʻole. ʻO kēia nā hopena lōʻihi o ka hana ʻino e hoʻopili i ka ola o ka mea i hōʻeha ʻia, ka hana ʻana, a me nā manawa kūpono. Wahi a ka World Health Organization (WHO), pili paha kēia i nā kumukūʻai psychological, hoʻemi i ka hana ʻana, nā loaʻa lilo, a me nā kumu kūʻai kālā ʻē aʻe ʻole.

Wahi a kahi noi 2004 mai ka, ʻo ka nui o ke kumukūʻai o IPV e kūʻē i nā wahine ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa i ʻoi aku i ka $ 8.3 biliona i kēlā me kēia makahiki.

Ua hilinaʻi kēlā noiʻi i ka ʻikepili 1995, no laila ma 2015 kālā, ʻoi aku paha ke kiʻekiʻe o kēia helu.

Ma ke ao holoʻokoʻa, e like me ka Copenhagen Consensus Center a me ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka ʻikepili 2013, ʻo ke kumukūʻai makahiki o ka IPV ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa he $ 4.4 trillion, ma kahi o 5.2 pakeneka o ka GDP honua. Hoʻomaopopo ka poʻe noiʻi he ʻoi aku paha ke kiʻekiʻe o ke kiʻi maoli, no ka mea ʻaʻole i hōʻike ʻia.

Nā kumukūʻai hana

E hoʻomaopopo i ka hopena o ka IPV e hoʻonui i ka home, ʻaʻole pono mākou e nānā i mua o ka IPV ʻemi i kahi hana. ʻO nā ʻikepili mai ka National Violence Against Women Survey (NVAWS) i paʻi ʻia e nā kuhi ua nalo nā wahine ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa ma kahi o 8 miliona mau lā o ka hana uku i kēlā me kēia makahiki ma muli o ka IPV.

ʻO ia ka like o 32,114 hana manawa piha. A pili ka IPV i ka hana home pū kekahi, me kahi koho hou aku Ua hala he 5.6 miliona mau lā.

Ma waho aʻe o ka lilo o nā lā hana, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka IPV i ka poʻe i hoʻopilikia ʻia e noʻonoʻo i ka hana, a ʻoi paha ka hopena o ka hana. Ua ʻike ʻia kahi balota kūloko e ka Corporate Alliance to End Partner Violence (CAEPV) i ka makahiki 2005 ua ʻike ʻia he 64 pākēneka o ka poʻe i loaʻa i ka IPV i manaʻo ʻia he hiki ke hana i ka hapa o ka hana ʻino kūloko.

Nā Koina Ola

ʻO nā kumukūʻai olakino olakino i hoʻoiho ʻia e IPV kahi lōʻihi a lōʻihi hoʻi. Ma muli o ka ʻikepili 2005, ua manaʻo ʻia ka hopena o ka IPV i 2 miliona mau ʻeha i nā wahine, a me 1,200 make.

Hoʻomau pinepine ʻia ka mālama ʻana no nā ʻeha e pili ana i ka IPV, ʻo ia hoʻi he pono i nā mea i hōʻeha ʻia e ʻimi i nā lawelawe mālama ola i nā manawa he nui. Wahi a kahi noiʻi makahiki 2005, pono nā wahine e ʻike i nā ʻeha pili IPV e kipa aku i ka lumi pilikia i ʻelua mau manawa, e ʻike i ke kauka he awelika o 3.5 mau manawa, e kipa aku i ka kauka niho he 5.2 mau manawa, a hana 19.7 kipa ʻana i ka lāʻau hoʻoikaika kino.

He kino a he psychological paha, traumatic ka IPV. Hōʻike ka ʻikepili mai ka 1995 i 1 o 3 mau mea i hōʻino wale ʻia no ka wahine, ma luna o 1 i 4 mau mea hōʻeha kino, a aneane 1 i ka 2 i loaʻa i ka poʻe i ʻimi i nā lawelawe mālama ola ʻO ka helu o nā kipa ma ka awelika mai ka ʻeiwa a i ka 12, kaukaʻi ʻia i ka ʻeha i loaʻa.

He paʻakikī e kau i kahi kālā i kēlā mau kipa i hāʻawi ʻia i ka paʻakikī o ka ʻōnaehana olakino U.S., akā ua kuhi ʻia mai kahi hōʻailona e hiki ke uku ʻia ka IPV ma waena o $ 2.3 a $ 7 biliona "i loko o nā mahina he 12 i hala ma hope o ka hōʻino ʻia."

Ma waho o ka makahiki mua, hoʻomau ʻo IPV i ka hōʻiliʻili ʻana i nā bila lapaʻau. ʻO ka poʻe i loaʻa i ka hana ʻino kūloko he 80 pākēneka ka nui o ka hopena o ka hahau ʻana, kahi 70 pakeneka kiʻekiʻe o ka maʻi puʻuwai, 70 pakeneka kiʻekiʻe aʻe o ka inu ʻona ʻana, a me kahi 60 pākēneka kiʻekiʻe aʻe o ka ulu ʻana o ka hānō.

Na Koina i na Keiki

Hoʻopili pololei ʻo IPV i nā keiki i hōʻike ʻia iā ia, a ma nā ʻano he nui. Hana ʻia ʻo IPV a me nā hana hoʻomāinoino keiki ma 30 a 60 pākēneka o nā hihia U.S., e like me ka hōʻike 2006 mai ka National Institute of Justice.

I ka 2006, ua koho ʻo UNICEF he 275 miliona mau keiki a puni ka honua i kū i ka hana ʻino i loko o ka home; ua māhuahua paha kēlā helu. Hōʻike kā lākou mea i loaʻa i nā keiki i kūpilikiʻi i ka hana ʻino a loaʻa paha i nā pilikia o ka naʻau a i ʻole ka lawena, e ʻoi aku ka makaʻu i ka hōʻeha kino a kolohe paha, a ʻoi aku paha ka hoʻohālikelike i nā hana kolohe. (Kahakaha: ʻO ka hōʻino he koho maʻamau i hana ʻia e ka mea hana hewa; ʻaʻole nā ​​keiki āpau e ʻike maka i ka hoʻomāinoino e hana i nā hana ʻino.)

Kākoʻo kēia mau ʻike i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole pilikia ka pilikino i ka pilikino, akā ʻo ka pōʻaiapuni e pili ana i nā keiki, kā lākou mau hoa, ka wahi hana, a, e ka hoʻolōʻihi ʻia, ʻo mākou āpau.

He mea nui e haʻi hou i ka paʻakikī o ke kumukūʻai o ka hana ʻino i lalo no nā ʻano kumu like ʻole, a he haʻahaʻa paha nā kuhi ma aneʻi. Lawe pū ʻia me nā ʻuhane a me nā kino i nā ʻohana, nā hoaaloha, a me nā kaiāulu o nā mea i hōʻino ʻia, he bila ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke uku.

Pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke kōkua i kekahi e hoʻopilikia ʻia e IPV?

Inā hōʻino ʻia kahi hoaaloha a mea ʻē paha āu e kāu hoa, hiki i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo aʻe ke hana i kahi ʻokoʻa nui.

• E kamaʻilio me lākou. E hoʻomaopopo i kāu hoa aloha pili ʻoe iā lākou a hopohopo e pili ana i ko lākou pono. E hōʻole paha kāu hoaaloha i ka hoʻomāinoino ʻia. E hōʻike wale iā lākou aia ʻoe ma laila no lākou.
• Hōʻalo i ka hoʻokolokolo. Hilinaʻi i ka ʻōlelo a kāu hoaaloha e pili ana i kā lākou ʻike; makaʻu ka nui o nā mea i hōʻino ʻia ʻaʻole e manaʻoʻiʻo ʻia lākou. Hoʻomaopopo i ka poʻe i ʻike i ka hoʻomāinoino e hoʻopiʻi paha iā lākou iho no ia mea a e hoʻāʻo paha e hōʻoia i ka hōʻino ma nā ʻano ʻē aʻe. Hoʻomaopopo pū i ke aloha ʻana i ka poʻe i loaʻa ka hōʻino i kā lākou hana hoʻomāinoino.
• Mai hōhewa iā lākou. ʻAʻole hewa ka hana hoʻomāinoino, ʻoiai ka mea a kā lākou mea hoʻomāinoino e ʻōlelo ai. E ʻike i kāu hoa aloha ʻaʻole nāna ia; ʻaʻohe mea kūpono e hōʻino ʻia.
• Mai ʻōlelo iā lākou e haʻalele. ʻOiai he paʻakikī e like me ia, ʻike kāu hoaaloha i ka mea maikaʻi loa no lākou. Ke haʻalele ka poʻe i hōʻino ʻia i ka mea hōʻino iā ia, ka makaʻu o ka make; maluhia paha ʻaʻole e hele aku kāu hoaaloha, ʻoiai ʻoe e noʻonoʻo pono iā lākou. Ma kahi o, e hoʻoikaika iā lākou e hana i kā lākou koho ponoʻī.
• Kōkua iā lākou e ʻimi i kā lākou koho. Manaʻo ka hapa nui o nā mea i loaʻa wale a nele i ka kōkua, a i ʻole manaʻo he palekana ʻole ke nānā ʻana i nā kumuwaiwai i ko lākou home ponoʻī. Hāʻawi e nānā i nā laina wela me lākou a i ʻole mālama i nā pepelu na lākou.

E nānā i ke kikowaena no ka ʻike hoʻomāinoino pilina no nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo hou aʻe no ke kākoʻo ʻana i kahi hoa (a i ʻole hoa hana) i hōʻino ʻia.

Ma hea e hiki ai iaʻu ke hele no ke kōkua?

Nui nā kumuwaiwai e noho nei no ka poʻe i hōʻino ʻia. Inā ʻoe e ʻike nei i ka hoʻomāinoino, e palekana ia ʻoe e komo i kēia mau kumuwaiwai ma kāu kamepiula a i ʻole kelepona.

• ʻO Hotline National Domestic Violence Hotline: nā kumuwaiwai no nā mea i hōʻeha ʻia IPV āpau; Laina laina 24 hola ma 1-800-799-7233, 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
• Pāhana Anti-Violence: nā kumuwaiwai kūikawā no LGBTQ a me nā mea i loaʻa i ka maʻi HIV-maikaʻi; 24-hola hotline ma 212-714-1141
• Hoʻolaha, Hanaʻino, & Pūnaewele Pūnaewele Incest (RAINN): nā kumuwaiwai no ka hana hoʻomāinoino a me nā mea ola; Hotline 24-hola ma 1-800-656-HOPE
• Office on Women's Health: nā kumuwaiwai e ka mokuʻāina; kōkua kōkua ma 1-800-994-9662