E heluhelu i kēia inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike pehea e kamaʻilio ai me kekahi nāna ka Autism

Anter

• ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻomaka me nā wehewehe ʻana
• 1. E ʻoluʻolu
• 2. E hoʻomanawanui
• 3. E hoʻolohe pono
• 4. E nānā pono
• 5. E aʻo iā mākou - akā maikaʻi
• Ke laina lalo

E kiʻi i kēia hanana: ʻO kekahi me ka autism ʻike i kahi neurotypical e hoʻokokoke ana e hāpai ana i kahi ʻeke nui, a ʻōlelo, "I koʻu manawa i manaʻo ai ʻaʻole hiki i nā mea ke loaʻa ka ʻeke."

ʻO ka mea mua, aia ke kuhi hewa ʻana: "He aha kēlā manaʻo? ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake iaʻu ma aneʻi? " pane nā neurotypical.

ʻO ka lua, aia ka hoʻāʻo e wehewehe i ke kuhi hewa ʻana: "Auē, um, ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo ... ua manaʻo wau ... ua manaʻo ʻia he pun ia," hāʻawi ke kanaka autistic me ke ʻano ʻino.

ʻO ke kolu, aia ka hōʻike o nā manaʻo huhū o ka neurotypical ma muli o ke kuhi hewa ʻana: "ʻĀ, ʻē, pololei, manaʻo ʻoe ke hoʻonui nei au i nā mea!"

ʻO ka hā, ʻo ka hoʻāʻo ʻelua o ke kanaka autistic e wehewehe: "Nooo ... ʻo kāu ʻeke ia ..."

A, ʻo ka hope loa: "ʻO kēlā, aia wau i waho nei."

Lohe pinepine mākou e pili ana pehea e ʻike ai i kahi kanaka me ka autism a pehea e mālama ai iā lākou. Akā ʻaʻohe mea nui ma waho e pili ana i kahi e hoʻomaka ai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe kamaʻāina me ka autism, pehea e hana ai me kou hōʻoluʻolu ponoʻī, a me ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he hōʻeha.

E noʻonoʻo i kāu passstage āpau āpau āpau e pili ana pehea e hiki ai i nā neurotypical ke pili iā mākou e noho nei me ka autism.

ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻomaka me nā wehewehe ʻana

Aspie: ʻO kekahi mea loaʻa iā Asperger's Syndrome, aia ma ka pae o ka autism.

Autism: kahi maʻi neurological i hōʻike ʻia e ka hana repetitive, nā pilikia e kamaʻilio ana, a me nā pilikia e hoʻokumu a mālama i nā pilina.

ʻIke Autism: ʻO kahi neʻe e pili ana i ka hoʻolaha ʻana i ka ʻike a me ka ʻae o ka poʻe ma ka pae autism.

Neurotypical: ʻO kahi kanaka i hōʻike ʻole i nā hiʻohiʻona noʻonoʻo atypical a i ʻole nā ​​lawena.

Hoʻonā: ʻO ka hoʻoluʻolu iho, hoʻoneʻe i ke neʻe ʻana o ke kino a ka poʻe autistic e hana ai i ka pane i ka hoʻonāukiuki nui a i ʻole ke kaumaha o ka naʻau. ʻO nā 'stims' maʻamau ka lūlū i nā neʻe i hope a i waho, ka pā ʻana o ka lima, a me ka ʻānai ʻana o ka lima a me ka wāwae.

1. E ʻoluʻolu

ʻOiai ʻo mākou Aspie e hōʻoluʻolu iki iā ʻoe, hiki i kahi lokomaikaʻi liʻiliʻi ke hele ma kahi lōʻihi! Hiki iā mākou ke hana i nā ʻano e hoʻohoka ai iā ʻoe, akā hilinaʻi iaʻu, hana ʻoe i nā ʻano e hoʻohoka iā mākou pū kekahi.

Ke hoʻāʻo ka poʻe e lawe i ko mākou noʻonoʻo, lawelawe ia e hōʻike i ko lākou kānalua i ko mākou ʻano. ʻO kēia ke kumu o ka huhū a huhū mākou no ka mea e hōʻino ia iā mākou - eg "No ke aha e hiki ʻole ai iā ʻoe ke hana i kēia manawa ke hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i nehinei?"

Hoʻoikaika ia i ko mākou pale ʻana iā "autistic wau." Nui nā ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā manaʻo autistic a me nā neurotypical. Hōʻalo i ka nīnau ʻana i ko mākou hiki, a ke nānā i ka hilinaʻi a me ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo. Hiki i kahi ʻōlelo hoʻohiwahiwa a paipai paha ke hoʻonohonoho i ke kiʻina no ka pili aloha mau.

2. E hoʻomanawanui

ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke haʻi mau iā mākou i ko mākou manaʻo, no ka mea ʻaʻohe a mākou ʻōlelo i nā manawa āpau e hōʻike ai i ko mākou mau manaʻo. Inā hoʻomanawanui ʻoe me mākou, hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi koke aku i nā mea e pono ai, no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe e weliweli, hopohopo, a hoʻonāukiuki paha i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e ʻike i ka pilikia.

Hiki ke ahonui ke ʻike ʻoe i ke ala hoʻokahi e haʻi ai i ko mākou manaʻo e hoʻolohe pono iā mākou, a kiaʻi iā mākou no nā neʻe ʻole i nā manawa kaumaha. Mai ʻae iā ʻoe iho e hopohopo a huhū paha ke ʻike mākou i nā ʻōuli.

ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi no nā ʻaoʻao āpau inā hoʻomanawanui ʻoe i kā mākou mākau kamaʻilio - a i ʻole nele iā ia. Lawe kēlā iaʻu i kahi ʻaoʻao aʻe ...

3. E hoʻolohe pono

Hoʻomaʻamaʻa wale mākou i ke kamaʻilio ma ka hana ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo a me ka makaʻu ʻole i nā ʻōuli o ke alo, no laila e kuhi hewa paha mākou i ka manaʻo o nā huaʻōlelo āu e hoʻohana ai, ʻo ia hoʻi nā homophones. Pilikia mākou i ka inflection.

ʻO kahi laʻana, pilikia mākou me ka hoʻomākeʻaka. E ʻōlelo mau koʻu makuahine "Mahalo," ke hana ʻole mākou i ka mea āna i noi ai. No laila i ka manawa hoʻokahi i hoʻomaʻemaʻe maoli wau i koʻu lumi, pane ʻo ia me "Mahalo!" a pane wau, "Akā ua hoʻomaʻemaʻe wau ia!"

ʻO kēia kahi e kōkua ai kāu hoʻolohe ʻana iā mākou ʻelua. No ka mea e ʻike paha ʻoe i ke kuhi hewa ma mua o kā mākou hana, e ʻoluʻolu e wehewehe i kāu mea e hoʻāʻo nei inā ʻaʻole kūlike kā mākou pane i kāu manaʻo. Ua hana koʻu makuahine i kēlā, a ua aʻo wau i ke ʻano o ka sarcasm a me ke ʻano o ka "Mahalo".

Hoʻomaopopo paha mākou i kahi mea ʻokoʻa ma muli o ka hana ʻana o kā mākou hana leo naʻau e liʻiliʻi i ka wā e hoʻāʻo nei mākou e hoʻolohe. ʻAʻole maikaʻi loa mākou i ke kamaʻilio kūpono a i ʻole ke kamaʻilio liʻiliʻi ʻana, no laila ke maikaʻi ʻole ka pilikino ʻana me ka hapanui o mākou. Nanea mākou i ka pilina e like me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

4. E nānā pono

E ʻike paha ʻoe inā hoʻomaka mākou e hoʻouluulu. Hana mākou i kēia ke ʻike nei mākou i ka nui o ka naʻau a i ʻole ka stimulus sensory. ʻAʻole maikaʻi ʻole ia, a maikaʻi ʻole mau. ʻO ia wale nō.

Loaʻa ka hapa nui o ka poʻe me ka autism i ka hopohopo kūlohelohe o ke kino ʻoiai ke hauʻoli mākou, a ke kōkua nei ka mea hoʻonāukiuki i ka mālama ʻana i kēlā. Inā ʻoe e ʻike ke neʻe nei mākou ma kahi o ka mea maʻamau, e hele a nīnau iā mākou inā makemake mākou i kekahi mea. ʻO kahi kihi kōkua hou e hoʻohuli i nā kukui a me nā walaʻau keu.

5. E aʻo iā mākou - akā maikaʻi

Ke hana hewa nei mākou iā ʻoe? E haʻi iā mākou. Hiki paha i ka poʻe me ka autism ke kuhi hewa i ke kaila avalanche. Pale kēia i ka hoʻokumu a me ka mālama ʻana o nā pilina mau, a hiki ke hana i kahi ola mehameha loa.

No mākou, he mea nui ka mahi ʻana i nā mākau kaiapili i ka hoʻopili ʻana i ka hakahaka o ke kuhi hewa ʻole. ʻAʻole mākou i hānau ʻia me kēia mau mākau, a ʻaʻole i aʻo kūpono ʻia kekahi o mākou i ka loina o ka nohona a i ʻole nā ​​ʻano hana coping. Ka ʻike ʻole ʻana i nā mea i hana i ka pilina e ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī.

Ke hana nei mākou i nā ʻike kaiāulu, e haʻo paha mākou i kekahi mea a ʻōlelo kolohe ʻole paha i kekahi mea e like me ka lapuwale, manaʻo ʻole, a hōʻeha paha. Me ka ʻole o kēlā mau manaʻo noʻonoʻo kino e alakaʻi i kā mākou pane, waiho wale mākou me nā huaʻōlelo, i kekahi manawa e hoʻolilo iā ia i mea maikaʻi ʻole no ka neurotypical.

I mea e hōʻike ai i nā pilikia i kau ʻia e kēia, e hoʻāʻo e pani i kou mau maka i ka manawa aʻe e kamaʻilio pū ana kekahi me ʻoe. E hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i kahi manaʻo o ka nui o kā mākou e nalo nei. Manaʻo ʻia ʻoi aku ma mua o ka hapalua o nā kamaʻilio kamaʻilio ʻole. Inā ʻo ʻoe ke neurotypical i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻo kou kuleana ia e maopopo lea maopopo leʻa i kou manaʻo. Ke hōʻike nei iā mākou inā ua huhū mākou iā ʻoe e loaʻa i kahi hōʻāʻā mai iā mākou ma mua o ka hana ʻana i kahi maka huhū iā mākou.

Ke laina lalo

Hoʻokumu ka poʻe Neurotypical i nā hopena e pili ana i nā kuhi naʻau maʻaleʻale i hāʻawi ʻia e ka poʻe me lākou. Inā ʻoe e ʻike i ka mea āu e kamaʻilio nei ʻaʻole hana i kēlā, ke kamaʻilio nei paha ʻoe me kekahi me ka autism.

ʻO ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i kēia manawa hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e mākaukau no nā kūlana pilikanaka paʻakikī ke hui pū ʻoe me kekahi mea loaʻa ka autism. Kōkua iā lākou i waho a wehewehe iā ʻoe iho inā paha huikau lākou. Ma ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kēia manawa, e ʻoluʻolu ʻoe e kamaʻilio me nā poʻe ma ka pae.

Hoʻokuʻu ʻia ka papa.

Makemake ʻo Arianne Garcia e noho i kahi honua kahi e launa like ai kākou. He mea kākau, mea pena kiʻi, a me ka mea kākoʻo i ka autism. ʻO ia pū kekahi blog e pili ana i ka noho ʻana me kāna autism. E kipa aku i kāna pūnaewele.