a he aha e hana ai

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• Nā ʻano pēpē pono nui
• He aha e hana ai
• Pehea ka ulu ʻana o ka pēpē pono nui
• Pehea ke olakino o ka makuahine

ʻO ka pēpē pono nui, he pēpē i makemake nui ʻia no ka nānā a me ka mālama mai nā mākua, keu hoʻi mai ka makuahine. Pono ʻo ia e paʻa mau i nā manawa āpau, mai kona wā hānau, uē nui a makemake e hānai i kēlā me kēia hola, me ka hiamoe ʻole ma mua o 45 mau minuke i ka lālani.

ʻO ke ʻano o ke ʻano o ka pēpē e pono nui ai e ka pediatrician ʻo William Sears ma hope o ka nānā ʻana i ka hana a kāna keiki muli loa, ʻokoʻa loa ia mai kona mau kaikaina. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki ke wehewehe ʻia kēia mau ʻano he maʻi a i ʻole kahi maʻi maʻi, ʻo ia wale nō ke ʻano o ke ʻano o ke keiki.

Nā ʻano pēpē pono nui

ʻO ka pēpē i makemake nui i ka nānā a me ka mālama ʻana i kēia mau ʻano:

• Uē nui: Nui a nui ka uē a hiki ke hana ma ke ʻano holoʻokoʻa i ka lā holoʻokoʻa, me nā manawa liʻiliʻi o 20 a 30 mau minuke. He mea maʻamau ka manaʻo mua o nā mākua ke ʻeha nei ka pēpē i kekahi maʻi, no ka mea, ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻoluʻolu ka uē ʻana, kahi e alakaʻi ai i nā pediatric he nui a me ka hana o nā hoʻokolohua, a maʻamau nā hopena āpau.
• Hiamoe iki: ʻO ka maʻamau ʻaʻole hiamoe kēia pēpē ma mua o 45 mau minuke i ka lālani a ala mau i ka uē ʻana, pono i kahi ʻūlū e hoʻomaha. ʻAʻole hana nā ʻenehana e like me ka 'ʻae ʻana i ka uē' ʻana no ka mea ʻaʻole kū ka pēpē i ka uē ʻana ma hope o ka nui o 1 mau hola a ua hōʻike ʻia nā noiʻi e hiki i ka uē nui ke hana i ka ʻino o ka lolo me ka waiho ʻana i nā māka ma ke ʻano o ke keiki, e like me ka hilinaʻi ʻole a me ka hilinaʻi ʻole. .
• ʻAelike mau ʻia kona mau mākala: ʻOiai ʻaʻole e uē ana ka pēpē, hiki i kona kani o ke kino ikaika loa, e hōʻike ana he paʻa mau nā mākala a paʻa paʻa kona mau lima, e hōʻike ana i kona ʻoluʻolu ʻole a me ka makemake e kāpae i kekahi mea, me he mea lā mākaukau mau lākou e holo mahuka. ʻIke paha kekahi mau pēpē i ka wahī ʻia i loko o kahi kapa moe, kaomi māmā ʻia i ko lākou kino, ʻoiai ʻaʻole kākoʻo kekahi i kēia ʻano o ke ala.
• Hānai i ka ikehu o nā mākua: Luhi loa ka mālama ʻana i kahi pēpē e pono ai no ka mea like lākou e omo i ka ikehu āpau mai ka makuahine, e pono ana i ka nānā piha i nā lā he nui. ʻO ka mea maʻamau ka hiki ʻole i ka makuahine ke noho kaʻawale mai ka pēpē ma mua o ka hapalua hola, pono e hoʻololi i ka diaper, hānai, hoʻomoe, hoʻomaha i ka uē, pāʻani a me nā mea āpau e pono ai e mālama i kahi pēpē. ʻAʻohe mea ʻē aʻe e hiki ke hoʻokō i nā pono o kahi pēpē pono nui.
• ʻAi nui: makemake ka pēpē i ke kiʻekiʻe e pololi mau a maona ʻole, akā no ka mea lilo lākou i ka ikaika, ʻaʻole lākou e momona nui. Makemake kēia pēpē e hānai a ʻaʻole hoʻohana i ka waiū o ka makuahine e hānai i kona kino, akā ʻo kona mau naʻau, no laila hoʻolōʻihi ʻia nā mea hānai a makemake nui ka pēpē e hānai ʻia i ka waiū, e hana ana i nā mea āpau e noho ai i kēlā kūlana ʻoluʻolu kahi i manaʻo ʻia ua pale ʻia. a aloha ʻia, no ka mea ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi ma mua o ka maʻamau, me he mea lā he hola.
• He paʻakikī e hoʻomaha a ʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻomaha iki: ʻO ka hoʻopiʻi maʻamau a nā mākua me nā pēpē i makemake nui ʻia ʻaʻole hiki ke hana i nā hana i hiki ke hoʻomaliʻi iā ia i kēia lā ʻapōpō, a he mea pono e lawe i nā ʻano hoʻolālā āpau e hoʻomaha ai ka pēpē e uē nui ana, e like me ka hele pū ʻana me ia ma kona uha, i ka stroller, e hīmeni i nā lullabies, pacifiers, bet ma ka pili o ka ʻili i ka ʻili, kau i ka omo, e hoʻopau i ke kukui.

ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē i makemake nui ʻia e pono ai ka hoʻolaʻa nui ʻana mai nā mākua, a ʻo ka mea maʻamau ka huhū o ka makuahine a noʻonoʻo ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike i ka mālama ʻana i kāna pēpē, ʻoiai makemake mau i nā ʻūhā hou aʻe, ka nānā ʻana, ka ʻai ʻana a inā hana ʻo ia i nā mea āpau nona, ʻoiai, hiki ʻole ke ʻoluʻolu loa.

He aha e hana ai

ʻO ke ala ʻoi loa e hiki ai ke hōʻoluʻolu i kahi pēpē e pono nui ai ka manawa nona. ʻO ke kūpono, ʻaʻole pono ka makuahine e hana ma waho o ka home a hiki ke helu i ke kōkua o ka makuakāne a i ʻole nā ​​poʻe ʻē aʻe e kaʻana like i nā hana ma mua o ka nānā ʻana i ka pēpē, e like me ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i ka hale, ke kūʻai ʻana a me ke kuke ʻana.

Hiki i ka makuakāne ke noho i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā o ke keiki a he mea maʻamau ia i ka ulu ʻana o ka pēpē ua maʻa ʻo ia i ka manaʻo ʻaʻohe makuahine wale nō i kona ola.

Pehea ka ulu ʻana o ka pēpē pono nui

ʻO ka hoʻomohala psychomotor o ka pēpē pono nui he mea maʻamau a e like me ka mea i manaʻo ʻia, no laila ma kahi o 1 mau makahiki ʻoe e hoʻomaka ai e hele wāwae a ma ka 2 mau makahiki hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka e kau pū i nā huaʻōlelo ʻelua, e hana ana i kahi 'ʻōlelo'.

Ke hoʻomaka ke kamaliʻi e kamaʻilio e kuhikuhi ana i nā mea a kolo paha iā lākou, kahi e pili ana i 6 a 8 mau mahina, hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻomaopopo pono i nā mea e pono ai ka pēpē, kōkua i ka mālama i kēlā me kēia lā. A ke hoʻomaka kēia keiki e kamaʻilio ma kahi o 2 mau makahiki o ka makahiki, maʻalahi ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kāna mea e makemake ai no ka mea hiki iā ia ke verbalize pono i kāna mea e manaʻo nei a me kāna mea e pono ai.

Pehea ke olakino o ka makuahine

Māluhiluhi nui ka makuahine, overloaded, me nā pōuliʻeleʻele a me ka manawa liʻiliʻi e hoʻomaha a mālama iā ia iho. ʻO nā manaʻo e like me ka pīhoihoi ka mea maʻamau i nā mahina mua o ke ola o ka pēpē a hiki i ka wā e hiki ai i ka pediatrician ke kuhikuhi i ka hemahema o ke keiki.

Akā i loko o nā makahiki, ua aʻo ke keiki e hoʻoliʻiliʻi a leʻaleʻa me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a ʻaʻole lilo ka makuahine i kikowaena o ka nānā. I kēia manawa he mea maʻamau ka pono o ka makuahine i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo psychological no ka mea hiki ke maʻa iā ia ke noho wale no ke keiki pono nui hiki ke paʻakikī ke haʻalele iā ia, ʻoiai ʻo ia e komo i ke kula mālaaʻo.