No ke aha ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoa aloha me kāu Ex

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"E hoa aloha kāua." He laina maʻalahi e hāʻule i ka wā o ka haki, ʻoiai ke manaʻo nei e hoʻomāmā i ka ʻeha o ka puʻuwai haʻihaʻi. Akā, pono anei ʻoe e hoaaloha me kāu ex?

Eia nā kumu he 10 ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i hoaaloha inā pau ka pilina:

1. Ka hoʻomāinoino ʻia ia. Ke kau nei ʻoe i waho "ma ke ʻano he hoaaloha." Hana ʻo ia i kahi mea e ʻakaʻaka ai ʻoe. Makemake ʻoe e honi iā ​​ia-akā ʻaʻole hiki. No ke aha ʻoe e hoʻokau ai iā ʻoe iho i loko o kēlā ?!

2. Manaolana hoopunipuni. E ae mai, aia no. A inā ʻaʻole nou ma laila, no kāu ex paha ia.

3. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke wehe i ka wā i hala. Inā ʻoe i ʻike ʻōlohelohe i kekahi i kekahi, ʻike maka ʻole ʻoe i kekahi i kekahi. Kaha: ʻo ka hapa nui o nā pals platonic o nā kāne ʻē aʻe i ʻike maka ʻole i kekahi i kekahi.

4. ʻAʻole ʻoe makemake maoli e noho pū lākou me kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe. Aia kahi paio o ka hoihoi i kāu pilina "buddy-buddy" hou, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻomaka hou kāu ex. Eia ka hopena: Makemake nā hoaaloha maoli e hauʻoli kekahi i kekahi.

5. Loaʻa wikiwiki ia. Eia hou, kamaʻilio pū kekahi nā hoaaloha maoli e pili ana i ko lākou ola pilikino me kekahi.

6. Makemake ʻoe e hele i kāna male ʻana? Inā ʻaʻole ka pane i kēlā, ʻaʻole ʻoe e lilo i hoaaloha maikaʻi loa, ʻeā?

7. ʻAno ʻole ia no kāu mau hoa aloha. ʻIke lākou ua pili aloha ʻoe. Hoʻomanaʻo lākou i ka PDA. A i kēia manawa pono lākou e noʻonoʻo pehea e mālama ai iā ʻoe ʻelua ke hōʻike ʻoe i kahi pāʻina hui-akā-ʻaʻole-hui.

8. Nā hōʻailona huikau. Nui loa nā inoa kapakapa, i loko o nā ʻakaʻaka a me nā hoʻomanaʻo e hoʻomaka hou, no laila e hāʻule paha ʻoe i nā ʻano hoʻohālike kahiko inā ʻaʻole pili aloha. Hiki ke huikau no kekahi a i ʻole ʻelua.

9. Makemake ʻoe e launa pū me ka ex o kekahi i nā manawa a pau? 'Āwīwī ka paʻakikī o ka loaʻa ʻana o ke aloha maoli inā ʻoe e kau pū nei me kāu ex. ʻO wai kahi kāne hou a gal paha e makemake e hoʻolilo i kāna manawa a pau me kāu ex? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, makemake lākou e launa pū me ʻoe, ʻaʻole kāu ex.

10. ʻAʻohe olakino. Ua haki kou puʻuwai. No ke aha e hoʻolilo ʻole ai i kou manawa a me kou ikaika i ka poʻe e hauʻoli ai ʻoe, ʻaʻole ka poʻe i hōʻeha nui iā ʻoe? (A inā ua haʻalele ʻoe ma muli o ke kumakaia, nā pilikia ʻano, nā ʻōlelo hōʻeha a i ʻole nā ​​​​waiwai like ʻole, no ke aha ʻoe e koho ai e hoʻolimalima manawa me kahi mea āu i aʻo ai ʻaʻole maikaʻi iā ʻoe?)

He aha kou manaʻo e pili ana i ka hoaaloha me kahi ex? Hiki paha… a ʻaʻole paha?

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