Ke kipaku nei i ka Myth ʻoi aku ka ʻoi loa o nā Vaginas Asia

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• No laila e waiho i ka moʻohelu i kahi moe
• ʻO ka hapa nui o nā wahine ʻAsia e hui mua me kēia stereotype ke hoʻomaka lākou e moekolohe me nā kāne
• Eia nō naʻe, ʻike nā wahine ʻĀsia i ka stereotype ʻoi aku ka pilikia a me ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻole.
• Akā ʻaʻole ka manaʻo o kahi moʻo make e nalo pū nā hopena me ia

ʻAʻohe mea moʻolelo ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka manaʻolana o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi puʻupuʻu paʻa.

Mai nā umauma perky perennally i ka ʻoluʻolu, nā wāwae ʻole lauoho ʻole, hana kolohe ʻia ka wahine a kau ʻia i nā kūlana kūpono ʻole.

Ua hōʻike ʻia ka ʻepekema i kēia mau manaʻo kūpono ʻole e hōʻeha i nā hopena ma ka manaʻo o nā wahine i ka waiwai ponoʻī. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻohe mea i hōʻino, a i ʻole unexplored, e like me ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he puʻupuʻu paʻa.

Kūpono ʻia nā puʻupuʻu paʻa ma aneane o nā kaiāulu āpau a me ka moʻomeheu i loaʻa nā aʻa i ka patriarchy. Manaʻo ʻia lākou he hōʻailona o ka puʻupaʻa a me ka maʻemaʻe, i hoʻokumu ʻia mai ka manaʻo he waiwai ka wahine, e noho mau ʻole ke ʻole kā lākou kāne.

Akā ma kahi pae haʻahaʻa, ʻike ʻia kekahi pūnana paʻa e like me kahi ʻano hoihoi loa no nā wahine cis e loaʻa maʻalahi no ka mea ʻoi aku ka ʻoluʻolu o ke komo ʻana o nā kāne cis. ʻOki kino hou, ke kiʻi nei i ka "stitch kāne," ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā hana Kegel: ʻO kēia mau hana āpau mai ka manaʻo ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā ʻōpala ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.

A ʻike nui ʻia kēia stereotype i nā wahine ʻAsia.

Ua hoʻāʻo ʻo Comedian ʻo Amy Schumer e hoʻomākeʻaka: "ʻAʻole ia he mea nui i nā mea āu e hana ai, e nā wahine, e haʻalele nā ​​kāne āpau iā ʻoe no kahi wahine ʻAsia ... A pehea lākou e lawe ai i ka home no ka lanakila? Auē, nā puʻupuʻu liʻiliʻi loa o ka pāʻani. "

Ua haʻiʻo ia iā ia ua manaʻo ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā kaikamahine ʻAsia no ka mea ʻoi aku ka pipili o kā lākou puʻupuʻu.

ʻO Kauka Valinda Nwadike, MD a me nā kauka lapaʻau a me nā kauka wahine ma Kaleponi, Maryland, hiki ke ʻike pehea ke ʻano o kēia stereotype, a kūlike ʻole ka naʻau me ka manaʻo. "Mai manaʻo maoli [ʻo nā wahine ʻAsia e loaʻa ana i nā ʻōpili liʻiliʻi] he ʻoiaʻiʻo. E hōʻole maoli nō wau i kēia stereotype. ʻAʻole mākou e hoʻoholo e pili ana i ka nui - ʻaʻohe o mākou speculates Asia. ʻO ia iho e hōʻole i ka kaʻao. E hoʻomoe loa ʻia ia. ”

No laila e waiho i ka moʻohelu i kahi moe

ʻAʻole maopopo i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kēia kaʻao, akā manaʻo ka hapa nui ua hoʻokumu ʻia ia i loko o nā kolone. ʻO Patricia Park, no Bitch Media, e hoʻoliʻiliʻi i kēia moekolohe i hoʻi i ke Kaua Kōlea a me Vietnam, i ka wā i hoʻokumu ai ʻo United States i kahi pūʻali koa.

He mau kaukani mau wahine ʻĀkia, e laʻa me nā wahine Thai a me Pilipine, i kālepa ʻia a koi ʻia i ka moekolohe me nā koa ʻAmelika keʻokeʻo. (ʻIke maopopo ʻia nā hopena weliweli ma Thailand, kahi i hoʻomohala ʻia ai ka mākaʻikaʻi moekolohe e uku i nā aie.)

ʻO ka hopena, he nui nā kāne kāne keʻokeʻo i hui mua me nā wahine ʻAsia i loko o ka pōʻaiapili o ka naʻi kaua a me ka moekolohe.

I loko o ka Ka Nupepa o ka American Philosophical Association, ua kuhikuhi ʻo Robin Zheng i ke ʻano o kēia mōʻaukala i ke ʻano i hōʻike ʻia ai ka poʻe i nā wahine ʻAsia i kēia lā. ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona Hollywood i ka hapanui o ka pena ʻana i nā wahine ʻAsia e like me ka moekolohe, mai kahi kaikamahine kūpilikiʻi i Kina pēpē a me ka wahine deragona, a hānau lākou a lilo i mau makuahine tiger. (Mālama ka hale waihona puke ʻo ʻIthaca College i kahi papa inoa hou o nā kiʻi o nā ʻĀkia i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, e hōʻike ana pehea e kaupalena ʻia ai nā kuleana i nā moekolohe, nā gangsters, a i holoi ʻia hoʻi.)

Akā kekahi ala hou aʻe kahi e hoʻomau mau ai ka hoʻomau ʻana o ka hapa nui o kēia mau ʻano stereotypes. ʻO Porn, kahi ʻāina e lilo wikiwiki nei i kumu mua o ka moekolohe wahine no ka poʻe ʻōpio.

ʻO kekahi kanaka keʻokeʻo 27 makahiki, nāna i noi e noho inoa ʻole, kaʻana like i kēia ala ma kahi i aʻo ai ʻo ia i ka manaʻo he wahine ʻoi loa nā wahine Asia.

"Hāʻawi nui ka ponokala kiʻi i kēia manaʻo," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "He nui nā kiʻi ponokala kiʻi, no ka laʻana, e hoʻopili like ia i nā wahine ʻĀsia a me nā kāne ʻEleʻele, e pāʻani ana i kēlā mau ʻano moe kolohe. No laila, manaʻo wau he mea maoli ia i hoʻopili ʻia e nā kāne i loko o kā lākou psyches. "

ʻO ka hapa nui o nā wahine ʻAsia e hui mua me kēia stereotype ke hoʻomaka lākou e moekolohe me nā kāne.

Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole hoʻolaha wale ʻia kēia kaʻao i loko o nā pōʻai kāne. Hoʻomau nā wahine i kēia stereotype.

ʻO Jenny Snyder, he wahine hapa 27 hapa makahiki ʻAsia hoʻi ia mai Louisville mai, ua nīnau aku kāna hoa wahine wahine keʻokeʻo iā ia i ke kula kiʻekiʻe inā he ʻaoʻao kāna wahine. "Ua noi maoli ʻo ia iaʻu inā he ākea kaʻu ʻōpena," hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Snyder. "Ua manaʻo pū ʻo ia ua palahalaha kaʻu puʻupuʻu - e like me hoʻokahi pāpālina ma luna o kekahi."

ʻO Michelle Eigenheer, kahi wahine hapa-Kōlea mai Louisville, Kentucky, e hoʻomanaʻo i kahi ʻike kahi i huli ai kāna wahine wahine - he wahine keʻokeʻo - i kahi speculum i mālama ʻia no nā ʻōpio i ka waena o ka hoʻokolokolo.

"He mea hou paha ia e pili ana me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua kūlia wau ma mua o kahi ʻokoʻa biological maoli," wahi a Eigenheer. “Akā ua hoʻokupu kēia iaʻu - he mea maoli kēia?”

Ma ke ʻano he loea gynecologist, ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻo Kauka Nwadike i ka pono e hoʻololi i nā speculum. "He mea hiki ʻole ke launa pū me ka nui o ka poʻe ʻAsia. Aia ia i ka mea a ko lākou heluna kanaka i hoʻokumu ai, malia paha ʻaʻohe o lākou manawa kūpono e ʻike ai i kēlā mea i hoʻopau ʻia, "i ʻōlelo ai ʻo ia, ma hope o ka nīnau ʻana no ke aha i manaʻo ai e hoʻomau mau kēia stereotype, ʻoiai ma ka lāʻau lapaʻau. "Manaʻo ka nui o ka poʻe he mau hiʻohiʻona ko nā kāne ʻEleʻele, a ʻaʻole ia he ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā mau ka stereotype."

ʻO ka hapa nui o nā wahine ʻAsia e hui mua me kēia stereotype ke hoʻomaka lākou e moekolohe me nā kāne

ʻO Grace Que, he wahine Haole ʻAmelika he 19 ona makahiki mai Kikako mai, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ua lohe ʻo ia i ka manaʻo "hoʻolei ʻia e kekahi poʻe a me ka moʻomeheu pop."

Akā ʻaʻole ia i ʻike iā ia iho a hiki i kona hoʻomaka ʻana i ka moekolohe.ʻO kāna mau hoa kāne e ʻōlelo e pili ana i kāna paʻa ma ka ʻōlelo ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo ma nā laina o, "E kuʻu akua, paʻa loa ʻoe."

ʻO Jennifer Osaki, he wahine 23 Kepanī Iāpana ʻAmelika i hānai ʻia ma Los Angeles, Kaleponi, i loaʻa ka ʻike like. Ua lohe ʻo ia e pili ana i ke ʻano stereotype mai nā hoa kāne o ke kāne ma ke koleke, akā ʻaʻole ia i ʻike iā ia iho a hiki i kona pili ʻana me kahi kāne keʻokeʻo i ka makahiki lua.

Ua haʻiʻo ia iā ia ua manaʻo ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā kaikamahine ʻAsia no ka mea ʻoi aku ka pipili o kā lākou puʻupuʻu.

"Ua ʻakaʻaka wau me ka makaʻu ʻole no ka mea i kēia manawa, ua manaʻo wau he mea maikaʻi ia," wahi a Osaki.

A ʻoiai, ua ʻapo a ʻike ʻia ka lepili o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pākī ʻoi loa a ʻike ʻia he "mea maikaʻi" na nā wahine ʻĀsia kekahi.

"Inā he mea maoli ka wīpī paʻa, manaʻolana nui wau he hoʻokahi kaʻu," wahi a Que. "ʻIke loa e mahalo ʻia ka moekolohe e ka mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o kēia. ʻO ka nui o kaʻu mau hoa aloha maikaʻi e ʻōlelo mau nei he maikaʻi, maikaʻi loa. ”

E like me ke ʻano antithesis o ka puʻu paʻa paʻa makamae, pili ka pūnana "palupalu" me nā wahine "ʻino" - nā wahine i nui nā hoa kolohe.

ʻO Zoe Peyronnin, he wahine ʻAmelika ʻAmelika he 21 ona makahiki i hānai ʻia ma NūIoka, e like me kēia manaʻo. ʻOiai ke hāpai nei ʻo ia i ka hopohopo i kēia stereotype i hiki ke hoʻonui i ka moekolohe ʻana i nā wahine ʻAsia, ua hoʻoholo ʻo ia, "ʻO wau iho, maikaʻi ka manaʻo o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻōpū paʻa, ma ka liʻiliʻi o ka moekolohe."

Eia nō naʻe, ʻike nā wahine ʻĀsia i ka stereotype ʻoi aku ka pilikia a me ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻole.

"Inā he paʻakikī kou mauʻiʻo ma lalo, maikaʻi kēlā," wahi a Phi Anh Nguyen, kahi wahine ʻAmelika ʻAmelika no Kapalakiko, Kaleponi. "Manaʻo wau he mea ia e haʻaheo ai. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kēia ʻano i nā wahine ʻAsia e hoʻonui iā lākou i ka moekolohe ʻaʻole ia he mea olakino. Kūpono ia iā mākou. ”

'Saysleloʻo Eigenheer manaʻo nui ʻo ia i ka hōʻoluʻolu ke hoʻohana ʻia e nā kāne ma Tinder e like me ko lākou laina wehe, a i ʻole ʻano hana ʻokoʻa iā ia e pili ana i ka manaʻo mua e pili ana i ka paʻa o kāna wahine.

"Makemake lākou i kahi hookup mea hou," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "Akā maoli, ke hānai nei lākou i loko o kahi ʻōnaehana e hoʻomāinoino maoli i nā wahine. Hoʻokumu ʻia kēia stereotype i loko o nā stereotypes lāhui he nui i ʻeha nā wahine. "

ʻO ka makemake e loaʻa i kahi puʻupuʻu paʻa e laha mau ma ʻō a ʻō o ka ʻāina - a ʻo ia ka honua - e pili ana i nā wahine ma nā wahi āpau.

"Aia kēia kuanaʻike o ka makemake i kahi ʻōpili paʻa," wahi a Kauka Nwadike. ʻOiai ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā ia nā mea maʻi ʻAsia e hana ana i nā hoʻoholo olakino e pili ana i kēia stereotype, ua hālāwai ʻo ia me nā lāhui ʻē aʻe e noi ana e pili ana i ka moemoeā o kahi ʻāpī paʻa. "Ua hele mai nā wahine ma waena o ka Hikina e makemake e hana i ko lākou puʻupuʻu, e makemake ana i ka ʻoki cosmetic no ka mea ua noi kā lākou kāne."

Hoʻohālikelike i ka stereotype o ka puʻupuʻu ʻĀkia paʻa i ka stereotype o ka ʻōpala hoʻokuʻu. E like me ke ʻano antithesis o ka puʻu paʻa paʻa makamae, pili ka pūnana "palupalu" me nā wahine "ʻino" - nā wahine i nui nā hoa kolohe.

"ʻAʻole makemake kahi wahine e paʻa paʻa," wahi a Eigenheer. "He ʻeha! ʻO ka mea hou o ka 'vagina paʻa' i loko o ka ʻeha o ka wahine - ka leʻaleʻa o ke kāne ma ka lilo o ka pilikia o ka wahine. "

Hoʻohana pinepine ʻia kēia manaʻo i ka hilahila hilahila, e like me ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana o kahi wahine Kalikiano i ka ʻāpā o Taylor Swift i kahi sanwiti ham e hōʻike ai he wahine kolohe ʻo ia. A ʻo ka ʻōlelo hoʻowahāwahā "hoʻolei i kahi ʻīlio wela i lalo o ke alaloa" kuhikuhi pū kekahi e hoʻolōʻihi ʻia nā ʻōpala wahine ma hope o ka moekolohe nui ʻana.

ʻO ka pilikia, eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole pili kēia ʻepekema puʻupaʻa, a me nā kaʻao he nui ʻē aʻe, i ka ʻepekema.

Hōʻike ka ʻepekema i ka manawa a me ka manawa ʻaʻohe pili o ka looseness vaginal me nā mea pilikino. ʻAʻole nō hoʻi kahi noiʻi e hoʻohālikelike ana i nā ʻōpala o ka poʻe ʻAsia i nā lāhui ʻē aʻe.

Wahi a ka poʻe he nui aʻu i kamaʻilio pū ai ʻaʻole paha he kumu ʻepekema no kēia stereotype. "Hele mai nā wahine i nā ʻano a me nā nui," wahi a Nguyen.

Eia nō naʻe, ma muli o ka hoʻokumu ʻia ʻana o kēia kaʻao i ka ʻike pilikino, ka mea i manaʻo nui ʻia, aia kekahi, e like me ke kanaka keʻokeʻo inoa ʻole 27 makahiki, nāna e koi aku he "ʻoiaʻiʻo maoli nō ka stereotype."

"I koʻu ʻike, ua hōʻoia wau i ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ka manawa a me ka manawa hou he wahine ʻōpoki ko nā wahine ʻAsia," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "E ʻōlelo wau ua ʻoi aku ka ʻoi o ko lākou koʻikoʻi ma mua o nā wahine o nā lāhui ʻē aʻe."

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, he ʻike pilikino ko Eigenheer e hōʻike nei i ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe.

"I koʻu ʻike, ʻaʻole pololei kēia," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. "ʻAʻohe kāne i haʻi mai iaʻu he ʻokoʻa kuʻu pūnana mai kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. A ke kamaʻilio pū nei me nā wahine ʻĀsia ʻē aʻe, manaʻo wau e ʻōlelo lākou i ka mea like. "

Ua ʻae ʻo Irene Kim, he wahine ʻAmelika ʻAmelika he 23 ona makahiki mai New Jersey, e hōʻole ana i ka stereotype. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻoiaʻiʻo ma o ka papa no nā wahine Asia āpau.

"ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kuni i ka heluna kanaka holoʻokoʻa me ke ʻano wehewehe e like me kēlā," wahi a Kim. "Inā ʻaʻole he ʻoiaʻiʻo no kēlā me kēia wahine ʻAsia, a laila ʻaʻole pono ia e kamaʻilio ʻia me he mea lā."

Ma waho o ka hoʻokumu ʻole ʻia o ka ʻepekema, ʻo kēia stereotype moekolohe he mea ʻino nō ia no ka mea koʻikoʻi ia i ka nui o ka leʻaleʻa kāne ma ka lilo o ka ʻeha wahine.

"ʻAʻole makemake kahi wahine e paʻa paʻa," wahi a Eigenheer. "He ʻeha! ʻO ka mea hou o ka 'vagina paʻa' i loko o ka ʻeha o ka wahine - ka leʻaleʻa o ke kāne ma ka lilo o ka pilikia o ka wahine. "

No laila, ʻaʻole ia he mea kupanaha i ka kaʻao e pili ana i nā wahine ʻĀkia i nā puʻupuʻu paʻa paʻa e pili ana i nā wahine ma waho o ke kaiāulu Asia. Ke hōʻike nui nei nā noiʻi ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana o ka wahine i ka ʻeha (ma kahi o 30 pākēneka i United States) ke loaʻa iā lākou ka moekolohe.

ʻO ka mea hoihoi, aia kekahi mau wahine ʻAmelika ʻAmelika - ʻoi aku ka poʻe ma kahi o 18 a 21 mau makahiki e noho ana i nā kūlanakauhale kahakai nui - ʻaʻole lākou i lohe e pili ana i kēia kaʻao.

"He mea paha kēia?" Nīnau ʻo Ashlyn Drake, he wahine Kina hapa makahiki 21 makahiki mai Nu Ioka mai. "ʻAʻole au i lohe i kēia ma mua."

Akā ʻaʻole ka manaʻo o kahi moʻo make e nalo pū nā hopena me ia

ʻO ka ʻimi google wikiwiki ʻana o ka "lāhui puʻupuʻu paʻa" lawe pū kekahi i nā pae e hōʻole ana i kēia kaʻao. Minamina, ma mua o ka hoʻolei ʻana i ka manaʻo holoʻokoʻa, kēia mau pae - mai ka 2016 - hoʻohana i nā haʻawina liʻiliʻi a lawa ʻole (nā mea e nānā wale ana i nā lāhui ʻekolu a me ka hoʻomau urinary) e hoʻopili hou i nā aniani ma nā wahine ʻeleʻele.

ʻAʻohe kumu o kahi noi nui e pili ana i nā lāhui a me nā ʻōpala e hana mau ʻia. "No ke aha e aʻo ai kekahi i kēlā a me ke kumu e lawelawe ai ia?" wahi a Kauka Nwadike. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia pehea he nui nā hōʻailona ʻē aʻe o ka nui pelvic ma ʻō aku o ka lāhui, e like me ke ʻano o ke kino, ka makahiki, a me ka hānau hānau. "He nui loa nā loli e hiki ai ke ʻōlelo i kahi ākea e laulā. Inā ʻoe e nānā i ka nui, hoʻokahi wale nō metric kēlā. Loiloi au i ke kanaka ʻaʻole ka stereotype. ”

No laila, ʻo ka nīnau, ʻaʻole paha he ʻoiaʻiʻo nā wahine ʻAsia i ʻoi aku ka nui o nā ʻōpala ma mua o nā wahine o nā lāhui ʻē aʻe.

ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kamaʻilio "heihei" he mea hoʻonāukiuki nui a hoʻemi hou i ka waiwai o nā wahine ma ke ʻano he kāne i ka leʻaleʻa moekolohe hiki iā lākou ke hāʻawi i nā kāne (pinepine ma ka lilo o ko lākou hōʻoluʻolu a me ka leʻaleʻa).

ʻOi aku ke loaʻa nā noiʻi a me nā hōʻike o nā wahine e hana maʻamau i ka moekolohe e ʻoluʻolu i nā kāne.

Ma kahi - ke loaʻa ka mana i ka moʻo i kēia manawa ma mua o ke kōkua - ʻo ka nīnau a mākou e nīnau ai, no ke aha ka mea "pili" a ka ʻaha.

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