Ke kamaʻilio nei i kāu keiki e pili ana i ka Endometriosis: 5 mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo

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• Ke kamaʻilio nei i kaʻu kaikamahine e pili ana i ka endometriosis
• ʻ Tipslelo aʻoaʻo no nā mākua ʻē aʻe
• ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

Hoʻopili mākou i nā huahana a mākou e manaʻo nei he pono no kā mākou poʻe heluhelu. Inā kūʻai ʻoe ma o nā loulou i kēia ʻaoʻao, loaʻa iā mākou kahi kōmike liʻiliʻi. Eia kā mākou hana.

He 25 koʻu mau makahiki i ka manawa i ʻike mua ʻia au me ka endometriosis. ʻO ka luku i ukali ʻia i hele mai paʻakikī a wikiwiki hoʻi. No ka hapa nui o koʻu ola, he mau manawa mau koʻu a me ka ʻike liʻiliʻi loa me ka ʻehaʻeha o ke kino kaohi ʻole.

I ka mea e like me ka uila, ua loli holoʻokoʻa.

I loko o nā makahiki ʻekolu e hiki mai ana, ʻelima mau ʻōpū o koʻu ʻōpū. Ua noʻonoʻo wau e noi no ke kīnā i hoʻokahi manawa. ʻO kaʻeha nui loa a pinepine hoʻi e hakakā nei wau e hele i waho o kahi moe a hana i kēlā me kēia lā.

A ua hoʻāʻo wau i ʻelua puni o ka invitro fertilization (IVF), ma hope o ka haʻi ʻia ʻana iaʻu e mae koke ana kaʻu momona. Ua holopono nā pōʻaiapili ʻelua.

ʻO ka hope, ʻo ke kaukipona kūpono a me ka protocol lapaʻau kūpono e hoʻi iaʻu i koʻu mau wāwae. A ʻelima mau makahiki ma hope o kaʻu mau diagnoses mua, ua hoʻopōmaikaʻi ʻia wau me ka manawa kūpono e hānai ai i kaʻu kaikamahine liʻiliʻi.

Akā ua loaʻa wau i ka endometriosis. Ua ʻeha mau nō wau. ʻO ia (a ua koe) ʻoi aku ka mākaukau ma mua o kēlā mau makahiki mua, akā ʻaʻole i hala wale.

ʻAʻole loa ia.

Ke kamaʻilio nei i kaʻu kaikamahine e pili ana i ka endometriosis

Ma hea wau e hana ai me ka ʻeha nui loa i kēlā me kēia lā, lilo wau i ka hapa nui o koʻu mau lā me ka ʻehaʻeha ʻole - me nā lā ʻelua mua o koʻu wā. ʻO kēlā mau lā makemake wau e kīkē liʻiliʻi.

ʻAʻohe mea kokoke i ka ʻehaʻeha loa aʻu i ʻike ai ma mua. (ʻO kahi laʻana, ʻaʻole wau e luaʻi hou mai ka ʻehaʻeha.) Akā ua lawa ka waiho ʻana iaʻu i ka makemake e noho i kahi moe, wahī ʻia i loko o ka pā hoʻomehana, a hiki i ka pau ʻana.

Hana wau mai ka home i kēia mau lā, no laila ʻaʻole pilikia ka noho ʻana i kahi mea moe no kaʻu hana. Akā i kekahi manawa no kaʻu keiki - kahi kaikamahine liʻiliʻi he 6 mau makahiki i aloha i ka hele pū ʻana me kāna makuahine.

Ma ke ʻano he makuahine hoʻokahi i koho ʻia, me ka ʻole o nā keiki ʻē aʻe i ka home e mālama i kaʻu kaikamahine, pono wau a me kaʻu kaikamahine e kamaʻilio koʻikoʻi e pili ana i koʻu ʻano.

ʻO kēia kahi mahele no ka mea ʻaʻohe mea e like me ka pilikino i loko o ko mākou home. (ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomanaʻo i ka manawa hope loa i hiki ai iaʻu ke hoʻohana i ka lumipaku me ka maluhia.) A he hapa ia no ka mea ʻike kaʻu kaikamahine nānā pono i nā lā i ka manawa ʻaʻole ʻo Mommy wale nō.

Ua hoʻomaka mua ke kamaʻilio ʻana, a ʻoi paha ka liʻiliʻi o 2 mau makahiki, i ka wā i hele mua mai ai ʻo ia iaʻu e pili ana i nā mea nui a koʻu wā i hana ai.

I kahi keiki ʻōpio, weliweli kēlā koko. No laila ua hoʻomaka wau i ka wehewehe ʻana "He mau momona ko Mommy i loko o kona ʻōpū," a "Maikaʻi nā mea āpau, hiki wale kēia i kekahi manawa."

I nā makahiki i hala, ua ulu ke kamaʻilio ʻana. Hoʻomaopopo kaʻu kaikamahine i kēia manawa ʻo kēlā mau aie i loko o koʻu tummy ke kumu i hiki ʻole ai iaʻu ke hāpai iā ia i loko o koʻu ʻōpū ma mua o kona hānau ʻia ʻana. Hoʻomaopopo pū kekahi ʻo ia ʻo Mommy i kekahi manawa he mau lā kona e pono ai e noho i kahi moena - a piʻi ʻo ia me aʻu no nā meaʻai māmā a me kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ke hele a paʻakikī kēlā mau lā.

ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana i kaʻu kaikamahine e pili ana i koʻu kūlana i kōkua iā ia e lilo i kanaka keu aku ke aloha, a ʻae ʻia iaʻu e hoʻomau i ka mālama ʻana iaʻu iho me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo pū me ia.

ʻO ke ʻano o kēia mau mea ʻelua ka honua iaʻu.

ʻ Tipslelo aʻoaʻo no nā mākua ʻē aʻe

Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i nā ala e kōkua ai i kāu keiki e hoʻomaopopo i ka endometriosis, eia kahi ʻōlelo aʻo i loaʻa iaʻu nāu.

• E mālama i ke kamaʻilio ʻana i nā makahiki kūpono a hoʻomanaʻo hoʻi ʻaʻole pono lākou e ʻike koke i nā kikoʻī āpau. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka maʻalahi, e like me kaʻu i hana ai me ka wehewehe ʻana o "owies" i kuʻu tummy, a hoʻonui i kēlā mea ke ulu a nui kāu keiki a nui nā nīnau.
• E kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea e kōkua ai iā ʻoe e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, ʻo ka moe paha i kahi moe, ka ʻauʻau mahana, a i ʻole ka wahī ʻana i ka pale hoʻomehana. Hoʻohālikelike ia i nā mea e kōkua iā lākou e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ke loaʻa lākou i ka maʻi.
• E wehewehe i kāu keiki i kekahi mau lā, pāpā ka endometriosis iā ʻoe e hiamoe - akā e kono iā lākou e hui pū me ʻoe no nā pāʻani papa a i ʻole nā ​​kiʻi ʻoniʻoni inā lākou no ia.
• No nā keiki 4 a ʻoi paha, hoʻomaka paha ke kumumanaʻo puna i mea kūpono, no laila e lawe mai i kekahi puna i waho a wehewehe: i nā lā paʻakikī, no kēlā me kēia hana āu e hāʻawi nei i kahi puna, akā nui wale nā ​​puna i koe. E kōkua ana kēia mea hoʻomanaʻo kino i nā keiki e hoʻomaopopo pono i ke kumu o kekahi mau lā no ka holo ʻana me lākou i ka pā, a me nā lā ʻē aʻe ʻaʻole hiki.
• Pane i kā lākou nīnau, hoʻoikaika no ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, a hōʻike iā lākou ʻaʻohe mea kapu loa e pili ana i kēia kumuhana.ʻAʻohe ou mea e hoʻohilahila ʻia ai, a ʻaʻohe o lākou kumu e makaʻu ai e hele mai iā ʻoe me kā lākou nīnau a hopohopo paha.

ʻO ka lawe lawe ʻana

ʻIke maʻamau nā kamaliʻi ke hūnā nei kahi makua i kekahi mea, a ulu paha lākou e hopohopo nui aʻe ma mua o ka mea e pono ai inā ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike he aha kēlā mea. Ke kamaʻilio hāmama ʻana mai ka wā mua mai ʻaʻole wale ia e kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi i kāu kūlana, kōkua ia iā lākou e ʻike iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kanaka hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i kekahi mea.

Akā inā ʻoe ke kānalua ʻole e pili ana i ke kūkākūkā ʻana i kāu ʻano me kāu keiki, maikaʻi nō ia. ʻOkoʻa nā keiki āpau, a ʻike wale ʻoe i ka mea a kāu e hiki ai ke mālama. No laila e hoʻomau i kāu kamaʻilio ʻana i kēlā pae a hiki i kou manaʻo ua mākaukau kāu keiki no nā mea hou aku, a mai hoʻokaʻulua e kiʻi i kahi ʻoihana no ko lākou manaʻo a me ke alakaʻi inā manaʻo ʻoe he kōkua paha ia.

ʻO Leah Campbell kahi mea kākau a me ka hoʻoponopono e noho ana ma Anchorage, Alaska. He makuahine hoʻokahi ʻo ia ma ke koho ma hope o ka serendipitous series o nā hanana i alakaʻi ʻia i ka hānai ʻia o kāna kaikamahine. ʻO Leah nō hoʻi ka mea kākau o ka puke “Wahine Hoʻokele Hoʻokahi”A ua kākau nui i nā kumuhana o ka infertility, adoption, a me nā mākua. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohui me Leah Facebook, ʻo ia pūnaewele, a ʻO Twitter.