Pehea e nīnau ai i kāu hoa no ka moekolohe hou aku (me ka ʻole o ka lawehala ʻana iā lākou)

Anter

• Mai hana hoʻopiʻi
• Hoola i nā Manaʻo
• E kamaʻilio
• Hana i ke ola i kēlā me kēia lā i kahi wahine liʻiliʻi
• Nānā no

ʻAʻohe mea leʻaleʻa i nā libidos like ʻole. Aloha ʻelua mau mea i ke aloha e hoʻopaʻa paʻa nei ma luna o ke aloha like o Neil de Grasse Tyson a me ka inaina i ka hua maloʻo. Me ka mālama ʻole o ka honua, e wela ana nā mea a me ke kaumaha ma mua o ka chili Texas.

Akā i ka ulu ʻana o ka pilina, hoʻomaka ka hoʻololi i ka ikaika. ʻO nā bila, nā keiki, nā loli hormonal, ka hoʻoluhi hana, a me ka lawe ʻana i nā ʻōpala i hiki i nā ua āpau ke hele i kāu parade wahine. I kekahi lā, ala ʻoe a hoʻomaopopo i ka hana nui āu i hana ai i kēia manawa ke kuʻi hewa ʻole i ka mīkini holoi. (Pili: Low Libido? Eia pehea e hoʻonui ai i kāu moe kolohe.)

Minamina, ʻaʻole ʻo ke ola kekahi porn nui. ʻAʻole holo nā kānaka a puni ka horny i nā manawa a pau. Hana ka ola ola olakino i ka hana. ʻO nā pilina kahi mea hanu ola e koi ana i ka mālama mau.

A ʻaʻole nā ​​kāne wale nō e hana i nā hoʻomaka āpau, i kekahi manawa ʻike nā wahine iā lākou iho e makemake ana i ka nookie ma mua o kā lākou mau hoa. Mai kahi wahine i hele ma laila ma mua, hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo paʻa: ʻaʻohe.

No laila pehea ʻoe e noi ai i kāu hoapili e moe kolohe me ka kau ʻole iā lākou i ka pale? ʻAʻole paha e like me aʻu i hana ai, ʻo ia me ka uē ʻana "he aha kou pilikia?" i ka wā e hoʻolele ana i kaʻu hoaaloha hou, he vibrator phallic nunui. (P.S. ʻO kēia nā vibrator ʻoi loa e hoʻohana me kahi hoa.)

Ua nīnau au iā Cris Marie lāua ʻo Susan Clarke, nā mea kākau o ka pukeKa nani o ka paio no na kane no nā ʻōlelo aʻoi hou aʻe. Eia kaʻu i aʻo ai.

Mai hana hoʻopiʻi

E like me ka mea i puka, ʻaʻole makemake nā poʻe i ka manamana lima (a i ʻole ka haʻalulu) e kuhikuhi iā lākou. Manaʻo wau e wehewehe i ke kumu i hana ʻole ai kaʻu ʻenehana. Wahi a CrisMarie Campbell, e ʻōlelo ana i nā mea e like me "mālama wale ʻoe i kou manaʻo," "ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻomaka i ka moekolohe," a i ʻole "nā mea āu e makemake ai ..." e hoʻokau wale i ka poʻe i ka pale.

Ma kahi o nā ʻōlelo "ʻoe", e ho'āʻo i nā ʻōlelo "I". ʻO kahi laʻana, "makemake wau e hoʻokolohua hou aʻe i kaʻu moekolohe a makemake wau iā ʻoe e hui pū me aʻu." A i ʻole "Makemake au iā ʻoe, ma ke ʻano he hoa pili, e hoihoi i koʻu manaʻo e pili ana i ko mākou ola wahine. ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke haʻi inā ʻo ʻoe." Ke haʻi aku nei i kāu pakanā i kā lākou hana āu e makemake ai a pehea kou ʻoluʻolu āu e ʻike ai iā lākou, hiki iā lākou ke hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe.

Hoola i nā Manaʻo

ʻO ke ola moekolohe haʻahaʻa ʻaʻole pili mau ia i nā libidos like ʻole. ʻO ka pinepine, hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha mau kānaka e paʻa ana i ka huhū, kahi e hoʻoliʻiliʻi ai ka hoihoi i ka moekolohe. Ua noho wau me kekahi i kahi parade pau ʻole ma mua o nā hoaaloha maikaʻi e hele mai ana a i waho o kā mākou keʻena. Ma waena o ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe mau ʻana i kā lākou mau ʻōpala, ʻai ʻia a inu hoʻi ma waho o ka hale a me ka home, a me kā mākou mau hoʻopaʻapaʻa e pili ana i ia mea, ua lilo koʻu hoihoi i koʻu hoa pili i kahi ihu nui. Pono ʻoe e hoʻoponopono i kāu mau pilikia ʻē aʻe.

E kamaʻilio

Inā ʻoe ma ka ʻaoʻao shier, hiki ke paʻakikī ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka moekolohe. E like me ka ʻike ʻana i ka moekolohe ma nā wahi āpau o kā mākou moʻomeheu, ke kapu nei ke kamaʻilio ʻana no ia mea no nā poʻe he nui. ʻO ka makaʻu i ka hōʻole hiki ke hoʻopilikia i ko mākou hiki ke kamaʻilio i ko mākou mau pono a me nā makemake inā paha mākou i loko o kahi pilina lōʻihi a aloha. Ma ka hana pū ʻana me nā kāne, ua hōʻike ʻo Susan Clarke e hopohopo pinepine nā kāne e ʻike ʻia lākou he "nawaliwali a i ʻole hoʻopaʻi ʻia he hemahema inā hāpai lākou i nā pilikia pili i ka moekolohe me kā lākou hoa."

"Hoʻonui ʻia kēia pilikia ke hoʻomaka mākou e mākaʻikaʻi i ka maopopo ʻana o nā wahine liʻiliʻi i ko lākou kino," i ʻōlelo nā mea kākau. "Ke maopopo ʻole iā ʻoe kahi o kāu g-spot a pehea paha nā ʻano ʻano hoʻopā e ʻike ai iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noi no kāu mea e makemake ai."

Hana i ke ola i kēlā me kēia lā i kahi wahine liʻiliʻi

E noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe, maikaʻi loa kēia a pau, akā makemake wau i ka manawa wale ʻole. Mea ʻala! ʻOi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka mambo ākea! ʻOi aku ka hoʻolei ʻia ʻana ma ka papa ʻaina i ka wā ʻaʻole nā ​​keiki i ka home!

ʻO ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka moekolohe ʻaʻole pono e lilo i mea pepehi kanaka. ʻAʻole pili ka moekolohe i kahi hana hoʻokahi wale nō. Hiki ke hoʻohui ʻia ka moekolohe a me ka moekolohe i kou ola i kēlā me kēia lā, wahi a Clarke. E lilo i mea hou aʻe: e leʻaleʻa i ka wai o ka strawberry, hula i kāu mele sexy punahele, hele commando, hoʻā i nā ihoiho hou aʻe, komo i ka mea ʻala—loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manaʻo. Hiki ke kōkua i ka moekolohe ma ka manawa maʻamau iā ʻolua a me kāu pakanā e launa pū me kēlā mau vibes moekolohe — ʻaʻohe mea e pono ai ka wili ʻana.

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