ʻO kēia Harness wale nō ka mea i manaʻo ʻole iaʻu e hele i ka piʻi pōhaku i ka wā o ka wahine

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• He aha ka Sex Harness, Ke nīnau nei ʻoe?
• Pehea a hoʻohana i kahi hana (a no ke aha ʻoe e makemake ai)
• OK, OK, akā eia ke kumu aloha nui wau i ka SpareParts ʻO Joque Harness
• Nā Sexcessories e hele pū me kāu ʻaʻahu
• Nānā no

I kēia mau lā, ke ʻimi nei i kahi mea haʻalulu i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi no kāu ~ ʻono moekolohe ~ maʻalahi hoʻi, ke kaomi ʻana (ma aneʻi, ma aneʻi, a ma aneʻi). Minamina, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka loiloi ʻana i nā pale kaua. No laila ke hele nei ʻoe ma ka mākeke no kahi harness hou e koi pinepine ʻoe e ʻōwili i ka ʻaoʻao ma luna o ka ʻaoʻao o nā loiloi Amazon kōkua ʻole. Laki no ʻoe, eia wau e hoʻomaʻalahi i nā mea.

Ma hope o ka ʻumi mau makahiki o ka hoʻowalewale ʻana i ka pale kaua, hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo ʻo ka mea ʻoi loa, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka pale ʻana me ka malu ʻole: The SpareParts Joque Harness (Buy It, $ 115, amazon.com; goodvibe.com). Heluhelu no kaʻu loiloi piha ... ʻike ʻoe makemake ʻoe.

He aha ka Sex Harness, Ke nīnau nei ʻoe?

ʻO kahi mea hoʻohana no ka moekolohe kekahi mea hana e ʻae iā ʻoe e hoʻopaʻa i kahi mea pāʻani kolohe i kou kino. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, kau ʻia nā pale ma luna o ka genital region e hoʻopaʻa i kahi dildo kahi e noho ai kahi peni ma kahi kanaka i hāʻawi ʻia i kāne hānau (AMAB). ʻO ka SpareParts Joque kēlā ʻano hao. Eia nō naʻe, pono e haʻi ʻia aia nō kekahi mau ʻūhā (Malibu Thigh Harness, Buy It, $45, babeland.com), waha a me nā pale maka (Latex Face Fucker Strap On Mask, Buy It, $86, kinkstore.com), ʻaʻole ia e ʻōlelo ana, ua hoʻokaʻawale pū ʻia nā kapa komo o nā mea paʻa i hiki ke hoʻopaʻa ʻia ma ke ʻano he "mea kaua."

ʻO kekahi mea nui e ʻike ai ka hoʻohana ʻia ʻana o ka huaʻōlelo "strap-on" ke hoʻohana ʻia ka pale kaua me ka dildo a loaʻa iā ia ka hiki.

Pehea a hoʻohana i kahi hana (a no ke aha ʻoe e makemake ai)

ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, IMO, he nui nā kumu e hoʻāʻo ai i kahi kāʻei ma kahi moe, akā ma mua o koʻu komo ʻana i loko o lākou, e ʻike i kēia: Aia kahi moʻolelo kuʻuna he mea pāʻani moe wahine nā harnesses. Akā hiki ke komo a leʻaleʻa kahi pale e ke kanaka a me kā lākou hoa pili ʻole i ke kāne, ke kāne a me ka moekolohe. (A, pssh, ʻaʻole like nā lesbians āpau me lākou!)

"Hiki ke komo i ka pale kaua i ka wā o ka moekolohe, ka moekolohe, ka wahine waha, a me nā mea hou aʻe," e wehewehe ana ʻo Andy Duran, ke alakaʻi aʻo no Vibrations Maikaʻi. He mea kaulana nō hoʻi lākou i ka lā ma waena o nā poʻe transmasculine e ʻimi nei e hoʻokō i ke ʻano o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi penis me ke kōkua o kahi dildo hiki, e like me ka New York Sex Toy Collective Mason (Buy It, $175, goodvibes.com) a i ʻole ka Archer Silicone Packer (Kūʻai, $ 60, goodvibes.com).

"ʻO kahi-nona ʻona, e laʻa paha i kahi kaula i mea e komo ai i ka lima ʻole o kā lākou hoa," wahi a Duran. I nā pilina kahi i loaʻa ai nā pālua o nā hoa ʻelua, e hoʻokomo ʻia kahi pale me kahi dildo no ke komo ʻana o ka ʻōhumu - ʻike pinepine ʻia ʻo ka wahine ma ka wahine. (He mau nīnau kāu e pili ana i ke kaula wahine? E kōkua kēia: He alakaʻi a Insider no ka hiamoe ʻana me kekahi wahine no ka manawa mua.)

A i ʻole, hiki ke hoʻokomo ʻia kahi pale e ka mea nona ka ʻona me kekahi hoa no ka moekolohe anal a i ʻole ke kau ʻana. "ʻAe pū kahi pale i kahi kanaka me kahi peni e komo i loko me kahi mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o ko lākou kino ponoʻī," hoʻohui ʻo Duran. (He mea maʻamau kēia ma waena o nā poʻe transfeminine a me ka poʻe me ka hana erectile.) I kekahi mau manawa, hoʻohana ʻia paha kahi pale i mea e komo ai ka peni-penis i kahi hoa me kā lākou penis * a me * mea pāʻani ʻē aʻe i ka manawa like no kekahi komo pālua.

OK, OK, akā eia ke kumu aloha nui wau i ka SpareParts ʻO Joque Harness

Hele mai nā pale i nā ʻano nui ʻelua: ka style jockstrap- a me ka lole komo ma loko. 'Lelo maʻamau, lanakila nā kaila jockstrap-style i ke kūpaʻa a me ke kaohi, ʻoiai ke ʻano o ka lole o lalo e hele i luna no ka hōʻoluʻolu. Akā me ka SpareParts Joque, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e koho i kekahi o kēia mau mea koʻikoʻi ma mua o kekahi - loaʻa iā ʻoe ʻelua.

"ʻOluʻolu ʻo Joque e like me ke kūpaʻa," e like me kā Duran. "Hiki iā ʻoe ke kau i kahi dildo o ka nui o nā nui i ka mea kaua, a ʻaʻole e hina i lalo a lele paha." ʻO ia no ka mea, ma kahi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi apo AF O (ʻo ia ka ʻāpana a ka dildo e hele ai), hiki ke hoʻoliʻiliʻi ākea nā kaula. ʻO ke ʻano, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa paʻa i ke kaula i kou ʻili.

Hoʻohui, hele mai i loko o ʻelua nui.Hiki ke hoʻololi ʻia ka nui A e kūpono i nā pūhaka 20 a 50 ʻīniha a puni, ʻoiai hiki ke hoʻololi ʻia ka nui B e kūpono i nā pūhaka 35 a 60 iniha a puni. Inā he mea kupanaha kēlā laula ākea, ʻo ia nō. "ʻO ka Joque kekahi o nā mea liʻiliʻi i hiki ke hoʻopaʻa i nā nui o ke kino," wahi a Duran.

ʻAʻole hiki mai kēia mau hiʻohiʻona me ka hōʻoluʻolu. Hana ʻia i loko o kahi hui-spandex-nylon, palupalu a paheʻe hoʻi ka pale i mua o koʻu ʻili a me nā pubes-ʻoiai ke pulu. ʻAʻole hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻia ka mea like no nā harness ʻē aʻe aʻu i hoʻāʻo ai.

ʻO kaʻu hiʻohiʻona punahele ʻo ia ka panela kokoke loa i ka ʻili i māhele ʻia i ʻelua a hiki ke hoʻoneʻe ʻia i ka ʻaoʻao a hiki i ka wā e paʻa ai wau i hiki iaʻu ke manaʻo i ka dildo e kūʻē i kaʻu wahine. ʻOiai ka dildo ʻaʻole uʻi, hoʻoulu ʻia ka ʻoni hoʻoulu.

A ʻo kaʻu hiʻohiʻona punahele ʻelua, ʻo ia ka loaʻa ʻana o ʻelua (2!) ʻeke i kūkulu ʻia i loko o ka Joque no nā vibrator pōkā-hoʻokahi ma luna a hoʻokahi ma lalo o ke apo-O. "Hiki i kēia [hoʻonui] ke hoʻonui i ka nui o ka hoʻonāukiuki o ka mea lawe i ka wā e komo ana i kā lākou hoa," wahi a Duran. "A hiki i ka vibration ke hele i lalo i ka dildo e hoʻoulu i ka hoa e komo pū kekahi." (Pili: ʻO nā Vibrators Bullet maikaʻi loa no nā wahi āpau, nā manawa hauʻoli).

ʻO kekahi hiʻohiʻona hiʻohiʻona i ka wā e pau ai kāu pāʻani ʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke pop i kēia pēpē i ka holoi holoi ʻana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana ma ka pō Pōʻalima, holoi iā ia i ka Pōʻaono, a laila hou ia i ka Lāpule me ka hopohopo ʻole e pili ana i ka lawe ʻia ʻana o nā wai a i ʻole nā ​​mea maʻi lele paha. (Pili: Ke ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ai i kāu mea pāʻani wahine).

He nui kaʻu mau manaʻo loiloi e pili ana i kaʻu mau ʻike me ka SpareParts Joque Harness, akā kuhikuhi ʻo Duran i ʻelua mau pilikia e pili ana i ka dildo-makemake a me ka nui o ke kino.

ʻO ka mea mua, he mau ʻīniha wale nō ka laulā o ka panel crotch. "E ʻike paha ka poʻe ʻoi aku ka nui o ke kino a me nā mea me nā wahi puʻu ʻoi aku ka nui ʻoiai ka hoʻopili ʻana, hana ia i kahi nānā pae-stripe-esque," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. No nā poʻe makemake ʻole i kēlā mea hoʻonaninani — a me nā mea makemake i ka pale kaua me ka uhi ʻana aʻe - ua paipai ʻo ia i ka SpareParts Tomboi Fabric Brief Harness (Kūʻai, $ 90, goodvibes.com).

I ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i ka Tomboi, hiki iaʻu ke hōʻoia iā ʻoe ke kūpaʻa nei ʻo ke komo ʻo O e like me ka mea ma ka Joque no laila e ʻike piha ʻoe i ka kaohi. Loaʻa iā ia ʻelua ʻeke vibrator, hoʻokahi ma kēlā ʻaoʻao kēia ʻaoʻao o ka dildo no laila e loaʻa iā ʻoe kēlā hiʻohiʻona.

Nā Sexcessories e hele pū me kāu ʻaʻahu

Ma ka mākeke no kahi kaula hou no ka moekolohe a ʻaʻole naʻe i manaʻoʻiʻo e kiʻi i ka Joque, pono e hana kēia i ka hoʻopunipuni: I kēia manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa $20 i kēlā me kēia kauoha ʻoi aku ma mua o $75 ma o Good Vibrations. He $104.95 wale nō ka hoʻopaʻa lima—he ʻaihue!

ʻOiai ʻoe ma laila, kau i kekahi mau sexcessories e hoʻonui ai i ka shebang holoʻokoʻa. Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i kahi dildo ʻano maoli, ʻaʻohe hui e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o New York Sex Toy Collective. ʻO ka Mason (Kūʻai, $ 175, goodvibes.com) kahi koho hoʻomaka maikaʻi loa. No nā dildo pono ʻole, paipai wau i ka Charm Silicone Dildo (Buy It, $45, goodvibes.com) no nā peggers mua a me ka Wet For Her Strap On Dildo Black (Buy It, $55, wetforher.com) no nā ʻano ʻē aʻe. o ke pāʻani kaula. ʻO nā koho maikaʻi ʻē aʻe: ʻO ka BJ Dildo (Buy It, $90, goodvibes.com) no ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka moe waha a me ka Fun Factory ShareVibe (Buy It, $115, goodvibes.com) no nā hana lima, ke kāne euphoric masturbation, a i ʻole ka pāʻani ma waena o ka vulva - nā mea nona.

Inā ʻoe e ʻimi e hoʻohana i hoʻokahi (a i ʻole ʻelua!) o nā ʻeke vibrator, paipai ʻo Duran i ka Bullet Crave Vibrator (Buy It, $69, amazon.com), Magic Touch Waterproof Vibrator (Buy It, $15, goodvibes.com ), a i ʻole ʻo We-Vibe Tango Mini Vibrator (Kūʻai, $ 74, amazon.com).

A ʻo ka hope, e hoʻomaka i ka hana me ka ʻole o ka lube! Hana ʻia ka hapanui o nā dildos o ka silikona, hiki ke hana i kahi huhū maikaʻi ʻole i ka ʻili ke lawa ʻole ka lubricant. No laila makemake ʻoe e hoʻohana i kahi lube hoʻokumu wai e like me Sliquid Sassy (Kūʻai, $ 12, amazon.com), Sutil Rich Botanical Lubricant (Kūʻai, $ 42, goodvibes.com), a i ʻole Cake Toy Joy (Kūʻai It , $ 22, hellocake.com).

Manaʻo adventurous? E noʻonoʻo e hoʻohui i ke apo moa uʻi a i ʻole ka pahu pahu i kāu kaʻa. pū kekahi.

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